Spaghetti and Waffles

Men are like waffles

Compartmentalize the information in their head. Value power, competency, efficiency and

achievement above all else. Fulfillment through success and accomplishment Interested in objects and things Autonomy is a symbol of efficiency, power and

competency Cope with stress by retreating and solving a less

difficult problem

Women are like spaghetti

Everything they think is somehow connected Value Love, communication, beauty and

relationship Self is defined through their feelings and the

quality of their relationships Experience fulfillment through sharing and

relating Women are more intuitive because of cultivating

an anticipation for the needs of others. Cope with stress by vocalizing the problem.

Men and relationships

Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed

Relationships start with a challenge (flirtation)

Failure is the biggest attack a man can receive

Women and relationships

Women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished.

Women are happy when they believe their needs will be met.

Disconnection is the biggest blow a women can receive.