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1. They don’t talk to youThey’re so scared of looking foolish in front of you that they don’t risk it. You need totake charge. Start a conversation. Expect some nervous babble, but be encouragingand interested. Their confidence will grow and they’ll soon start to make sense.

2. They tease youSchoolkids tease their crushes in the school playground, and none of us ever reallyoutgrows the habit. Attack is the best form of defence, in love as in war. If someoneyou fancy teases you, don’t give them a slap; give them your phone number.

3. They hide from youAs with the teasing and silent treatment, this one is a form of defence. If you can’t seethem, you can’t see them fall on their face, blush until they burn, or humiliatethemselves in random heartbreaking ways.

4. They don’t seem to remember youSo, you had a brief drunken encounter six years ago, and it has faded from theirmemory. That’s what they want you to think. They want you to think that they’re fartoo busy and popular to recall it. In fact, the memory is etched onto their brain andlived out in filthy fantasies every single night.

5. They suggest splitting the bill on your first date If you’re a woman, you probably assume that he’d buy you dinner if he fancied you. If you’re a man, you assume that she’d let you pay if she fancied you. Wrong. Whensomeone’s interested, they’re careful not to seem over-keen, or out to buy affectionor sex, or – in the woman’s case – tight-fisted.

6. They push back their shoulders when they see youIt’s not an obvious signal, but it’s a very common one. We respond subconsciously toan attractive person by improving our posture: men puff out their chests slightly, andwomen arch their backs.

7. They flirt with your friendRather than be rejected by you, they’re seducing you by stealth. If they can impressyour friend, your friend will spread the approving word to you. Then they can find outfrom your friend whether you’re interested. 8. Their friend flirts with youThey’ve sent their mate on a mission to involve you in a group night out, where theywill make their move. Classic strategy.

9. They babble nonsense at you

The power of your attractiveness has short-circuited their brain. Chances are they’redimly aware that their mouth is spouting nonsense, but it’s out of their control.

10. They ring you up to moan about a terrible date

When someone fancies you, they don’t

always show it in the way you’d expect.

Miss the signals, and your chance has

gone. Next time, look out for these

surprising signs – and don’t let ‘em get

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You think you’re in the Friend Zone, but the truth is that they want any excuse tophone you.