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    Emotional IntelligenceFor BMS

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    Intelligence Gauge

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    Exercise of the brain is as important asexercise of the muscles. As we grow

    older, it's important that we keepmentally alert. The saying; "If you don't

    use it, you will lose it," applies to thebrain, so.....

    Following is a way to gauge your loss ornon-loss of intelligence. Take the following

    test and determine if you are losing it or arestill "with it."

    OK, relax, clear your mind and... Lets begin.

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    1. What do you put in atoaster?

    Answer:

    "bread."If you said "toast," then you are wrongmy friend.

    If you said, "Bread," go to Question 2.

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    2. Say Silk" five times. Nowspell Silk."

    What do Cows drink?

    Answer:If you said milk you are wrong

    Cows drink water

    If you said "water," proceed to question 3

    Milk

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    3. If a red house is made from redbricks, and a blue house is made from

    blue bricks, and a pink house is madefrom pink bricks and a black house ismade from black bricks, what is a

    green house made from??Answer:

    Greenhouses are made from g-----. If yousaid, "Green bricks, you are not

    concentrating.

    If you said "glass," then go on to Question 4.

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    4. Twenty years ago, a plane was flying at 20,000 feet overGermany. If you recall, Germany at the time was politically dividedinto West Germany and East Germany. There is an engine failureand the plane crashes smack in the middle of "no man's land"between East Germany and West Germany.

    Where would you bury the survivors?. . In East Germany or West Germany or in "no man'sland"?

    Answer:You don't, of course, bury survivors.

    If you said, "You don't bury the survivors," proceed to question. 5

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    5. If the hour hand on a clockmoves 1/60 of a degree every

    minute how many degrees willthe hour hand move in one hour?

    Answer:

    One degree. If you said, "360 degrees"or anything other than "one degree,"you are to be congratulated on gettingthis far, but you are obviously out of

    your league.Everyone else proceed to the final question.

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    6. Without using a calculator -- You are drivingabus from London to Milford Haven in Wales In London,

    17 people get on the bus. In Reading, six people get offthe bus, and nine people get on. In Swindon, twopeople get off and four get on. In Cardiff, 11 people getoff and 16 people get on. In Swansea, three people getoff and five people get on. In Carmarthen, six people

    get off and three get on. You then arrive at MilfordHaven.

    What was the name of the bus driver?

    Answer: Don't you remember? It was YOU!!! Youwere the bus driver!!!

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    Effective LeadersEmotionalIntelligenceSets ApartGood and

    EffectiveLeaders

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    What is Intelligence?

    Typically focused on

    analytic reasoning

    verbal skills spatial ability

    attention

    memory

    judgement

    Murky concept withdefinitions by many

    experts...

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    One DefinitionIndividuals differ from oneanother in their ability tounderstand complex ideas,to adapt effectively to the

    environment, to learn fromexperience, to engage invarious forms of reasoning,to overcome obstacles bytaking thought Concepts

    of intelligence are attemptsto clarify and organize thiscomplex set of phenomena.

    Neisser et al, 1996.

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    IQA weak predictor for

    achievement

    job performance success

    overall success, wealth, & happiness

    Accounts for a major component ofemployment success according tonumbers of studies covering careersuccess; maybe as much as 20-25%.

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    IQ contributes only 20% to lifesuccess the rest comes from

    emotional intelligence (EQ)

    5 areas of emotional intelligence1. self-awareness2. managing emotions

    3. self-motivation4. empathy5. handling relationships.

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    How do we view emotions?

    chaotic

    haphazardsuperfluousincompatible with reasondisorganized

    largely visceralresulting from the lack of effective adjustment

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    How do we view emotions?

    Arouse, sustain, direct activityPart of the total economy of

    living organismsNot in opposition to intelligenceThemselves a higher order of intelligence

    Emotional processingmay be an essential partof rational decision making

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    The main purpose of the innermostpart of the brain is survival.

    To Get atEmotion,

    Go Deep...

    Amygdala isdeep within the most elemental parts

    of the brain.

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    There is aBiological Purpose for Emotion

    Signaling function (that we might takeaction)

    Promote unique, stereotypical patternsof physiological change

    Provide strong impulse to take action

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    All about emotionsEvolution has given us emotions to help us cope with

    dangerous situations. Emotions evolved to drive usto take action in the face of danger. We retain theemotional system of our cave-man ancestors, whoregularly faced life-and-death situations. In modern

    society, those emotions often overwhelm thought. Ina real sense, we have two minds,one that thinks andone that feels. The rational mind lets us think, ponderand refl ect. But the emotional mind is impulsive and

    powerful. Usually, the two work in harmony, butintense feelings sometimes allow the emotional mindto dominate the rational mind

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    Basic Emotions--presumed to be hardwired and physiologically distinctive

    Joy

    Surprise

    Sadness

    Anger

    DisgustFear

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    Evolutionary Advantage toEmotion

    Emotional intelligence, including factors likethe ability to motivate oneself, persistence,impulse Control, mood regulation, empathy

    and hope. IQ and emotional intelligence arenot Opposing competencies. They workseparately. It is possible to be intellectually

    brilliant but emotionally inept.This causes many life problems.

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    EI includes 4 types of abilities:

    1.Perceiving emotions the ability todetect and decipher emotions in faces,pictures, voices, and cultural artefacts-

    including the ability to identify ones ownemotions. Being aware of both our mood

    and our thoughts about that mood. self-awareness is the foundation for managing

    emotions and being able to shake off a badmood

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    2.Using emotions the ability to

    harness emotions to facilitatevarious cognitive activities, such asthinking and problem solving. The

    emotionally intelligent person cancapitalize fully upon his or herchanging moods in order to best fit

    the task at hand.

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    3.Understanding emotions the abilityto comprehend emotion language and

    to appreciate complicated relationshipsamong emotions. For example,understanding emotions encompasses

    the ability to be sensitive to slightvariations between emotions, and the

    ability to recognize and describe how

    emotions evolve over time

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    4.Managing emotions the

    ability to regulate emotions inboth ourselves and in others.Therefore, the emotionally

    intelligent person can harnessemotions, even negative ones,and manage them to achieve

    intended goals.

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    Model

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    Yale psychologist Peter Saloveycites fi ve major areas of emotional intelligence:

    1. Self-Awareness knowing ones emotions.

    2. Managing emotions handling feelings sothat they are appropriate.3. Motivation marshalling emotions in serviceof a goal.

    4. Recognizing emotions in others empathy,which is the fundamental people skill.5. Handling relationships skill in managingemotions in others

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    Intra-personal,

    Emotional Self-AwarenessEmotional Self-Regulation

    Emotional Self-MotivationInter personal

    EmpathyNurturing Relationships

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    STEP 1: SELF-AWARENESS

    There is only one corner of the universe thatyou can be certain of improving; and that isyour own self.

    Often, some of our inner drives are hidden fromour consciousness.Emotional intelligence enables us to access thisinformation by helping us to tune into our

    responses and identify our hot buttons

    thosecore beliefs and valueswhich, ifpressed, evoke the flight or fight response,trigger an emotion and propel us into action,

    for good or bad!

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    Self-awareness is the ability to see ourselves with our owneyes, to be aware of our Goals, immediate and long-term

    Beliefs, about ourselves and othersValues, those things we hold dearDrivers, that affect how we workRules, that we live by, the shoulds, musts and oughtsSelf-talk, the inner voice that tells us we can or cannotdo something and the ways in which these impact on what we do andcontribute to our mapof the world.

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    Non-verbal behaviourEnergy levels Impact on others

    Physical presence SkillsPersonal styleSelf-talk I'm not good at handling conflict-Negative thinking evokes an 'emotional hijacking' and

    undermines performance.Beliefs about self and othersEmotions own and othersHot buttons Fears and anxietiesJudgements A good team member is Individuals are

    difficult when they Self-confidence Driver behaviourRules As a...I must I should I ought

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    Four main EI constructs:1.Self-awareness

    the ability to read one'semotions andrecognize their impact

    while using gut feelingsto guide decisions.

    2.Self-management involves controlling

    one's emotions andimpulses and adapting tochanging circumstances.

    3.Social awareness the ability to sense,understand, and reactto others' emotions while

    comprehending socialnetworks.

    4.Relationshipmanagement the

    ability to inspire,influence, and developothers while managingconflict

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    The 5 Components

    of EI

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    1. Emotional Self-Awareness2. Managing ones own emotions3. Using emotions to maximize

    intellectual processingand decision-making

    4. Developing empathy5. The art of social relationships

    (managing emotions in others)

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    Why we Need EI..?

    Emotional Intelligence is imperitive as it isone of the important deciding factor forrelationship management resulting in :

    1. Motivation2. Retention

    3. Self management

    4. Managing others.

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    Emotional Intelligence

    Emotional Intelligence isthe ability of an individualto :

    To deal successfully with otherpeople ,

    To manage ones self,

    To motivate other people,

    To understand one's ownfeelings

    To appropriately respond tothe everyday environment

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    Emotional Intelligence

    In Working with EmotionalIntelligence, author DanielGoleman defines EI in theworkplace as the ability of

    employees to recognize:Their own feelings

    The feelings of others

    What motivates them

    How to manage their emotions,both in themselves and in

    relationships with others

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    Emotional Intelligence

    Emotional Intelligence doesn't meanbeing soft it means being intelligentabout emotions a different way of

    being smart.Emotional intelligence is your abilityto acquire and apply knowledge from

    your emotions and the emotions ofothers in order to be more successfuland lead a more fulfilling life and

    career.

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    Need

    When relationshipsFail, It is UsuallyDue To Poor

    EmotionalIntelligence

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    Bosses and leaders, in particular, need high EQ because theyrepresent the organization to the public, they interact withthe highest number of people within and outside theorganization and they set the tone for employee morale, saysGoleman

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    Passion

    EmpathyInnovation Maturity

    Achievemen

    drive

    Honesty

    Traits of Successful Leaders

    TraitsCourage Commitment

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    A bad leader

    Does not listen

    Fails to delegate

    Does not show respect

    Shows no interest in followersGives negative feedback to a third party

    Does not praise when praise is due

    Criticizes in front of othersTakes personal credit for others ideas

    Is always taking control

    Has a tendency to bully!

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    The Five Ps of Leadership

    Pay attention to whats importantPraise what you want to continuePunish what you want to stopPay for the results you wantPromote those people who deliver those

    results

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    Leaders with empathy are able to understand theiremployees needs and provide them with constructive

    feedback, he says

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    CHARISMAThe process of influencing major changes inthe attitudes and assumptions of organizationmembers, and building commitment for theorganizations objectives

    The special quality that gives someone powerand authority over a large number of people

    Model of Personal Meaning and

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    Model of Personal Meaning and

    Charismatic Leadership

    LeaderPersonalMeaning

    LeaderBehavior

    Attributions ofCharismaticLeadership

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    Personal Meaning

    The degree to which

    peoples lives make

    emotional sense andthat the demandsconfronted by them areperceived as beingworthy of energy andcommitment.

    Sources of

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    Sources ofPersonal Meaning

    Self-concept/identityLegacyBeliefs

    Culture andtraditionsPolitical/socialorientation

    Spirituality andreligionHobbies/personalpursuits

    Values/ideals

    Ch ism nd Un n nti n l

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    Charisma and UnconventionalBehavior

    To transcend theexisting order

    Evoke sentiments of

    adoration

    Exemplifies heroism,personal risk, & self-

    sacrifice

    Counter to the norm

    Effects of

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    Effects ofCharismatic Leadership

    Trust in rightness of vision

    Similarity of followers & leaders beliefs &

    values

    Heightened sense of self-confidence

    Acceptance of higher or challenging goals

    Identification with & emulation of leader

    Unconditional acceptance of leaderStrong affection for leader

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    Empowers

    Others

    Visionary

    Self

    Promoting

    VerbalSkills

    MinimumInternalConflict

    High EnergyAction

    Orientation

    InspiresTrust

    High Risk

    Orientation

    SelfConfidence

    MoralConviction

    RelationalPowerBase

    Charismatic

    LeaderCharacteristics

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    VISIONThe ability toimagine different andbetter conditions andways to achievethemFuture orientationSee the difference in

    how things are andhow they should be

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    COMMUNICATIONS SKILLS

    Great rhetorical skills Especially oral Can speak about the

    vision and make thefollowers see it

    Hitler captivatedpeople, even thosewho spoke no German

    Writing, while

    important, is not aspowerful Winston Churchill used

    both masterfully

    SELF CONFIDENCE & MORAL

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    SELF CONFIDENCE & MORALCONVICTION

    Unshakable self confidence

    Passed on to followers

    True faith in the cause

    Strong moral beliefs

    Willingness to sacrifice

    Self & followers

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    TRUST

    Followers have total trust and belief in theleader and the cause

    Show commitment to followers, who return

    it

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    ACCEPT RISK

    Willing to be at great personal risk

    Professionally

    Physically

    Willing to risk the followers

    Use unconventional (risky) strategies &methods to achieve goals

    ABILITY TO MINIMIZE

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    ABILITY TO MINIMIZEINTERNAL CONFLICT

    Through strength of belief

    With referent power

    Due to follower belief in the leader and thecause

    WILLINGNESS & ABILITY TO

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    WILLINGNESS & ABILITY TOEMPOWER

    Know they need the efforts & ideas ofothers

    Let the subordinate leaders do those

    things they are able to do

    Often take credit for followers ideas and

    efforts

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    SELF-PROMOTING

    Beat their own drums

    Campaign for the cause

    Explain their vision to all who will listen orread

    CAN CHARISMA BE

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    CAN CHARISMA BEDEVELOPED?

    Evidence seems to indicate that it can

    It may be that individuals who develop

    charisma have the undevelopedcharacteristics which practice brings to theforefront

    4 Strategies to Develop

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    4 Strategies to DevelopCharismatic Qualities

    Develop visionary skills

    Practice being candid

    Develop warm, positive,humanistic attitude

    Develop an enthusiastic,optimistic, energetic personality

    Why Emotional Intelligence

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    Why Emotional Intelligenceis necessary for leaders

    Helps leaders handleadversity & setback

    Teaches leaders copewhen change &uncertainty hits

    organization or their

    personal lives.

    Why Emotional Intelligence is

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    Why Emotional Intelligence isnecessary for managers

    Help them manage effectiverelationship.

    Help them being focusedand stay on track byremembering purpose &vision.

    E & M

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    EQ & ManagersEmotional Intelligence is very importantfor managers as their behavior & treatmentof their people determine turnover andretention of the company.

    Managers & supervisors are the direct lineof contact for the employees. They interactdaily with individuals who have distinctneeds, wants & expectations.

    They significantly influence the attitudes,performance & satisfaction of employees

    within their departments & otherdepartments.

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    EQ is very important formanagers as they are the directline of contact & their behavior

    & treatment determinesretention & turnover

    E &

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    EQ & ManagersThe stress of trying tolead and satisfy so manypeople's changing needsand expectations can be

    overwhelming, to saynothing of the demandsfrom uppermanagement. Being both

    firm and caring at thesame time causes manyto feel inadequate for therole..

    85 % percent ofturnover is reportedlydue to an inadequaterelationship between

    the employee and theirdirect supervisor

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    When trust is lacking performance suffers

    EQ & Managers

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    Enhancing EI skills enables Supervisors and Managers to regulate theiremotions and motivate themselves more effectively allowing them tomanage their own emotional turmoil effectively and demonstrate

    compassion and empathy for their employees.

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    IT also provides them with thecourage to push against the system to

    make necessary changes for theirpeople.

    All employees want asupportive, caringSupervisor or Manager

    who has their bestinterests at heart

    EQ & M

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    EQ & Managers

    Knowing this, theemployee will bemore likely to

    turndown offersfrom othercompanies to work

    for such a person.

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    Upon graduating from college,Debra believed that if she workedhard, she would achieve hercareer success goals

    She racked up a list of

    accomplishments

    However, just twoyears into her careershe was fired.

    Example to illustrate how EQcan positively or negativelyimpact one's career and theorganization:

    Example to illustrate how EQ can positively or

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    Example to illustrate how EQ can positively or

    negatively impact one's career and the organization:

    Debra Benton reports in her book,Lions Don't Need to Roar, "I wasstunned ... college courses hadnot addressed the importance ofpeople skills or being a team

    player. That lack of knowledgecost me my job." She thoughtwork was all about producingresults. While working with anoutplacement firm, Debra metother high producers who had

    lost their jobs for the samereason.

    That lack of people managementcost her job

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    The number one-factor that setshigh-powered professionals apartfrom the pack is a high level ofemotional intelligence,compassion and energy tofunction in a team environment Debra soon learned that

    shooting stars have ashort life cycle if they areunable to relate to andunderstand others.

    An Example of EQ

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    Suppose that the morning of a big presentation you

    have a fight with any of your family member. Not abig argumentmaybe just one of those unnervingspats about who forgot to pick up the dry cleaningso your morning doesnt get off on the right foot.Then you car is punctured upping your stress level a

    bit more. When you arrive at work, theres a problem

    with the elevators, causing more delay. Arriving atthe conference room for your presentation, you findthat the sound system doesnt work and the catererhasnt shown up with refreshments. Your juniorassociatewho was supposed to call the caterer

    bears the brunt of your anger that has been buildingsince you left the house.

    Types of EQ

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    yp f Q

    Working with people means

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    Working with people meansworking with Emotions

    When people are working ata common place , emotionswill play a role. theories tothe contrarynotwithstanding. Dont

    bring your personalproblems to work is onevariation of the argumentthat emotions areinappropriate in theworkplace. Business

    decisions, so the argumentgoes, should be based oninformation, logic and calmcool reason, with emotionskept to a minimum.

    Managing Emotions at

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    Managing Emotions atWorkplace

    But it is unrealistic to suppose thatemotions can be checked at the doorwhen you arrive at work. Somepeople may assume, for a variety ofreasons, that emotional neutrality isan ideal, and try to keep feelings outof sight. Such people work andrelate in a certain way: usually theycome across as rigid, detached orfearful, and fail to participate fullyin the life of the workplace. This isnot necessarily bad in somesituations, but it is usually not good

    for an organization for such peopleto move into management roles. Thesame would be true for people whoemote excessively, who tell you howthey feel about everything. Simplybeing around them can beexhausting.

    Developing EI in the

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    Developing EI in theworkplace

    Developing emotionalintelligence in the

    workplace meansacknowledging thatemotions are alwayspresent, and doingsomething intelligent withthem. People varyenormously in the skill

    with which they use theirown emotions and react tothe emotions of othersand that can make thedifference between a good

    manager and a bad one.

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    Its not overly egalitarian to

    suggest that most professionals,managers and executives arefairly smart people (of course

    there can be glaring exceptions),

    but there can be a hugedifference in how well theyhandle people. That is, the

    department manager may be agenius in technical, product or

    service knowledgeand getfailing marks in terms of people

    skills.

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    Importance of Emotional

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    Importance of EmotionalIntelligence

    People derail because ofclassic emotional failings, notthe lack of technical skills Developing emotionalintelligence can help

    companies generateproductive & profitableoutcome. The manager whoknows how to stay motivatedunder stress , motivate others,navigate complex

    interpersonal relationships,inspire others and build teamswho is an unchallenged experton a product or service will getsuperior results

    Components of Emotional

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    Components of EmotionalIntelligence

    There are five parts to it.

    1. Knowing what you're feeling

    2. Managing your feelings, especiallydistressing feelings.

    3. Self-motivation,

    4. Empathy

    5. Managing relationships

    Probabilities of not having an GoodE ti l I t lli d th i

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    Emotional Intelligence and theirconsequences

    While people have shown they can producebetter results at workplace, many of us lackemotional intelligence. We simply dontknow how to perceive, understand, expressand manage our emotions effectively. Thereare adverse consequences to have lowemotional intelligence.

    These includes:-1. Relationship Problems

    2. Rage in the Workplace3. Poor decision making capability

    4. failure to advance in career

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    Relationship Problems Rage in the workplace

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    Poor decision making capability

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    Failure to advance in career

    Emotional Intelligence

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    gImportant Factors

    1.Motivation,

    2.Retention ,3.Self management

    4.Managing others.

    Motivating Employees

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    g Emp y

    The greatest motivationcomes froma persons belief system

    Motivation is like a fire- unless youkeep adding fuel to it, it dies. But ,ifthe source of motivation is belief ininner values, it becomes long lasting

    Experience shows that People will do

    a lot for money, more for a goodleader and do most for a belief People do things for their own

    reasons, not yours

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    Once upon a time therewas a bunch of babyfrogs........

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    participating in a

    competition.

    The target was to get

    to the top of a hightower.

    A crowd of people had gathered

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    A crowd of people had gatheredto observe the race and

    encourage the participants.....

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    The start shot rang out.......

    Q it h tl

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    Quite honestly:

    None of the onlookers believed that the babyfrogs could actually accomplish getting to the

    top of the tower.

    Words like:

    "h, its too difficult!!!

    Theyll never reach the top."

    or:

    "Not achance... the tower is too high!"

    One by one some of the baby frogs felloff

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    off

    ...Except those who fastly climbed

    higher and higher..

    The crowd kept on yelling:

    "Its too difficult. Nobody is going to make it!"

    More baby frogs became tired and gave

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    y g gup...

    ...But one kept going higher and higher.....

    He was not about giving up!

    At the end everybody had given up,

    except the one determined toreach the top!

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    All the other participants naturally

    wanted to know how he hadmanaged to do what none of them

    others had been able to do!

    One competitor asked the winner, what

    was his secret?

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    The truth was.......

    The winner was deaf!!!!

    The lesson to be learned:

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    Dont ever listen to people who are

    negative and pessimistic...

    they will deprive you of your

    loveliest dreams and wishes youcarry in your heart !Always be aware of the power of words, as everything

    you hear and will interfere with your actions!

    Therefore:

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    Always stay

    POSITIVE!

    And most of all:Turn a deaf ear when people tell you, that you

    cannot achieve your dreams!

    The Magic of

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    gEMPLOYEE

    RETENTION and EI

    Growth Opportunities

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    Growth Opportunities

    Growth is everyones prime objective.Therefore it is implicit to offer growthopportunities.

    The vital factor that ensures a majority ofsenior level employees remain associatedwith your organization. This is more crucialin an industry like BPO, which has the

    highest churn rate because of theprolonged boom in the industry.

    Attractive Package

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    Attractive Package

    Remuneration package is the driving forceof any employment.

    Handsome package as a platform for

    people to take new initiatives.Besides basic package, there can also be

    performance-based incentives-relating to

    targets achieved, accuracy andproductivity.

    Personnel Training

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    Personnel Training

    An organization should also take due careof the training and development needs ofits employees.

    Besides helping them improve their skillsand enhance their performance, it shouldalso foster a faster growth rate in their

    career path.

    Recreation

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    Recreation

    Recreation is an important as any other tool. Ithelps in creating a conducive environmentmaking fun for everyone.

    Thus, it is necessary to introduce consistent

    recreation initiatives like Sports, Activities, familyget together and unwinding zones at theworkplaces

    Besides this, cultural programmers and Birthdaycelebrations break the monotony of everydaywork pressure.

    The Grievances

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    The Grievances

    In order to create a supportive work atmosphere,ensure a prompt atmosphere, ensure a promptredressed of grievances. This reinforces anemployees belief in the management and in the

    fact, that no stone will be left unturned to identifyand solve their grievances and quickly aspossible.

    Coned..2page

    The Grievances

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    The Grievances

    The unbridled growth of the new economy, theemergences of the knowledge worker and the highdemand for talent in the domestic and global marketshave rewritten the rules of the game.

    Though hiring good employees is a nightmare, it is moredifficult to retaining good employees. The talentmanagement is the key area in every organization worthits HR department and CEOs are more worried aboutintellectual capital than working capital. To add to theproblems are the huge packages being doled out at alllevels.

    Emotional Intelligence - the fivedomains Of Self Management

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    domains Of Self Management

    Goleman identified the five 'domains' ofEQ as:

    Knowing your emotions.

    Managing your own emotions.Motivating yourself.

    Recognizing and understanding other

    people's emotions.Managing relationships, i.e.., managingthe emotions of others

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    SELF-AWARENESS

    High self-awareness refers to having anaccurate understanding of how you behave,how other people perceive you, recognizinghow you respond to others, being sensitive

    to your attitudes, feelings, emotions, intentsand general communication style at anygiven moment and being able to accuratelydisclose this awareness to others.

    SKILL INDICATORS

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    Know when you are thinking negatively

    Know when your self-talk is helpful Know when you are becoming angry

    Know how you are interpreting events

    Know what senses you are currently using Know how to communicate accurately

    what you experience

    Know the moments your mood shifts Know when you are becoming defensive

    Know the impact your behavior has onothers

    SKILLS ASSESSMENT

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    SKILLS ASSESSMENT

    Do you recognize your feelings andemotions as they happen?

    Are you aware of how othersperceive you?

    How do you act when you aredefensive?

    Are you aware of how you speak toyourself?

    SELF MANAGEMENT andAWARENESS

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    AWARENESSEmotional awareness

    Accurate self-assessmentSelf-confidenceSELF - REGULATIONSelf-control:Trustworthiness

    Conscientiousness:AdaptabilityInnovativenessSELF - MOTIVATION

    Achievement drive:Commitment:InitiativeOptimism:

    SELF MANAGEMENT and AWARENESSEmotional awareness: Recognizing ones emotions and their effects People

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    Emotional awareness:Recognizing one s emotions and their effects. Peoplewith this competence:Know which emotions they are feeling and why

    Realize the links between their feelings and what they think, do, and sayRecognize how their feelings affect their performanceHave a guiding awareness of their values and goalsAccurate self-assessment:Knowing ones strengths and limits. People withthis competence are:

    Aware of their strengths and weaknessesReflective, learning from experienceOpen to candid feedback, new perspectives, continuous learning, and selfdevelopmentAble to show a sense of humor and perspective about themselvesSelf-confidence: Sureness about one.s self-worth and capabilities. Peoplewith this competence:Present themselves with self-assurance; have .presence.Can voice views that are unpopular and go out on a limb for what is rightAre decisive, able to make sound decisions despite uncertainties andpressures

    SELF - REGULATION

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    S GU O

    Self-control: Managing disruptive emotions and impulses. People with this

    competence:Manage their impulsive feelings and distressing emotions wellStay composed, positive, and unflappable even in trying momentsThink clearly and stay focused under pressureTrustworthiness: Maintaining standards of honesty and integrity. People

    with this competence:Act ethically and are above reproachBuild trust through their reliability and authenticityAdmit their own mistakes and confront unethical actions in othersTake tough, principled stands even if they are unpopularConscientiousness: Taking responsibility for personal performance.People with this competence:Meet commitments and keep promisesHold themselves accountable for meeting their objectivesAre organized and careful in their work

    SELF REGULATION (Cont)

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    Adaptability: Flexibility in handling change. Peoplewith this competence:

    Smoothly handle multiple demands, shiftingpriorities, and rapid changeAdapt their responses and tactics to fit fluidcircumstances

    Are flexible in how they see eventsInnovativeness: Being comfortable with and open tonovel ideas and new information.People with this competence:Seek out fresh ideas from a wide variety of sources

    Entertain original solutions to problemsGenerate new ideasTake fresh perspectives and risks in their thinking

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    SELF - MOTIVATIONAchievement drive:Striving to improve or meet a standard of excellence.People with this competence:Are results-oriented, with a high drive to meet their objectives and standardsSet challenging goals and take calculated risksPursue information to reduce uncertainty and find ways to do betterLearn how to improve their performance

    Commitment:Aligning with the goals of the group or organization. People withthiscompetence:Readily make personal or group sacrifices to meet a larger organizationalgoal

    Find a sense of purpose in the larger missionUse the group.s core values in making decisions and clarifying choicesActively seek out opportunities to fulfill the group.s mission

    Managing Others

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    Managing Others

    Management Skills ForEveryone

    Personal Management Skills

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    Personal Management Skills

    Steps for great self-esteem:

    Take responsibilityWatch your negative self talk

    Dont allow others negativity

    to affect you

    Commit to building your self-esteem daily

    Have an optimistic attitude

    Management: to be in command or tohave under control.

    Examples of Self Talk

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    Examples of Self Talk

    Negative Self Talk:Im so stupid sometimes!

    I look awful today!

    I just keep getting fatter

    and fatter!

    Im always broke!

    Why do these thingsalways happen to me?

    Positive Self Talk:I am capable!

    I have many wonderfulqualities!

    I love myself just the way I am!I believe in my ability tosucceed!

    I deserve the respect of

    others!

    Setting Goals is SMART!

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    Setting Goals is SMART!Goal In Goal-Setting:

    Specific

    Measurable

    Achievable

    Reviewed/revised

    often

    Time specific

    Assertive BehaviorSkill

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    SkillsLearning to say NO:1. Acknowledge the request

    2. Decline

    3. State reason

    4. Offer alternative solutions

    5 Major time wasters:

    1. Spreading yourself too

    thin2. Being Afraid

    3. Not wanting to say no

    4. Being tied to the phone

    5. Procrastinating

    Team/Office Politics

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    Team/Office Politics

    Power, know who has itOpportunity to alignyourself

    Learn to keep on top of

    things

    Identify with a mentor

    Track your success skills

    Involve yourself in otheractivities

    Communicate effectively

    and know how to handle

    Dealing With Difficult People

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    Dealing With Difficult People

    Sherman Tanks- directors gone bad,they like to bully/threaten

    Snipers- Passives, socializers, takeshots at youExploders- Socializers, blow up thenare embarrassed

    Complainers- any type! Complain overand over

    Gossipers- any type! Like to spread

    rumors

    Ways To Handle Difficult

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    People

    1. Tolerate it withoutresentment

    2. Tolerate with resentment

    3. Leave the situation

    4. Protest.

    + = + If they are nice be

    nice- = + Give jerks the

    benefit of the doubt

    Career Killers

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    Career KillersLack of direction or goals

    Having no EmotionalIntelligence

    Not using Emotional Intelligence

    Refusing to be a team player

    Behaving passively oraggressively

    Negative work habits

    Attitude of indifferenceExpecting others to look out foryou

    Ending On A PositiveN t

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    NoteThe power of a smile:

    Sets a positive tone

    Gives you an air of

    confidenceEnergizes you

    Reduces tension

    Improves tonalityMakes you look younger

    Helps you build thereputation as an

    achiever

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    MANAGING

    PEOPLE WITHEI

    MANAGING PEOPLE : some principles

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    CONSISTENCY IN DEALINGS, APPROACH

    DEMONSTRATE FAIRNESSE EMOTIONALINTELLIGENCE

    EXHIBIT LEADERSHIP QUALITIES

    PLAN

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    The Four Management Functions

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    g

    Planning Organizing

    Leading Controlling

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    Mintzberg's 10Managerial

    Roles

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    Strategic SkillsEnvironmentalassessment scanning

    Strategy formulation

    Mapping strategicintent and definingmission

    Strategyimplementation

    Human resourcesknowledge

    Task Skills

    Setting and prioritizingobjectivesDeveloping plan ofaction andimplementation

    Responding in a flexiblemannerCreating valueWorking through theorganizational structure

    Allocating humanresourcesManaging timeefficiently

    (continued)

    People Skills

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    People SkillsDelegating

    Influencing

    Motivating

    Handling conflict

    Win-win negotiating

    NetworkingCommunicating Verbal

    Nonverbal

    Listening

    Cross-culturalmanagement

    Heterogeneous teamwork

    Self-Awareness SkillsPersonal adaptability

    Understanding personalbiases

    Internal locus of control

    Working Environments

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    The physical workplace provision has animportant effect on individual productivity andsatisfaction Comfort;

    Privacy; Facilities.

    Health and safety considerations must be taken

    into account Lighting;

    Heating;

    Furniture.

    How EQ succeeds IQ

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    Emotional Intelligence explains why inspireof equal intellectual capacity, educational

    background, training or experience somepeople excel while others of same caliber

    and high educational degree lag behind.

    Emotional Intelligence is the dimension of

    intelligence responsible for our ability tomanage ourselves and our relationship withothers.

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    EQ versus IQ

    Intelligence quotientor IQ

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    or IQAn intelligence quotient or IQ is a scorederived from one of several differentstandardized tests attempting to measureintelligence. The term "IQ," is a translation of theGermanIntelligenz-Quotient,

    IQ scores are used in many contexts: aspredictors of educational achievement or specialneeds, by social scientists who study thedistribution of IQ scores in populations and the

    relationships between IQ score and othervariables, and as predictors of job performanceand income.

    Emotional Intelligence(quotient) or EQ

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Standardized_testhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intelligencehttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/German_languagehttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Educationhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incomehttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incomehttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Educationhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/German_languagehttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intelligencehttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Standardized_test
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    (quotient) or EQ

    Emotional Intelligence is a way ofrecognizing, understanding, and choosinghow we think, feel, and act. It shapes ourinteractions with others and ourunderstanding of ourselves. It defines howand what we learn; it allows us to setpriorities; it determines the majority of our

    daily actions. Research suggests it isresponsible for as much as 80% of the"success" in our lives."

    EQ versus IQ

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    Q Q

    In the business world so much of emphasis hasbeen placed on intellect. Intellect has proveninvaluable to drive our success in business.Process and procedures based on

    analysis,logic,strategies are critically importantHowever to get the higher level of competence inbusiness we must blend the progress that wehave made in using intellect & IQ with the

    invaluable competencies of EQ.

    Why EQ???

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    y

    EQ is the distinguishing factor that determines ifwe make lemonade when life hands us lemons orspend our life stuck in bitterness.EQ is the distinguishing factor that help us tomaintain a warm relationship or a distantcontacts.EQ is the distinguishing factor which drawsothers to us or repels them.EQ is the distinguishing factor which enable usto work in coordination with others or to createa disputed situation.EQ is the distinguishing factor which enables towin the heart of people or to win the situation byargument.

    Why EQ

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    EQ is the distinguishing factorthat determines if we makelemonade when life hands uslemons or spend our life stuck inbitterness

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    EQ is the distinguishing factorthat help us to maintain a warmrelationship or a distantcontacts.

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    EQ is the distinguishing factor

    which draws others to us orrepels them.

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    EQ is the distinguishing factor which enableus to work in coordination with others or tocreate a disputed situation

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    EQ is the distinguishing factor which enables towin the heart of people or to win the situation by

    argument

    Benefits of EQ

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    The competencies & gift that EQ gives us are many.Included are skills that drive our internal world as well asour response to the external one.

    Some examples includespersonal motivation,

    personal mastery over our lifes purpose & intentionempathy for otherssocial expertise that allow us to network and developrelationships that enhance our purposecharacter & integrity that enable us to appear genuine

    and aligned;a tenacity to face and resolve both internal and externalconflictpersonal influence that enable us to advance ourpurpose.

    Benefits of EQ

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    Personal Motivation

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    Personal mastery over ourlifes purpose & intention

    Empathy

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    Social expertise that allow usto network and developrelationships that enhanceour purpose

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    Character & integrity

    that enable us toappear genuine andaligned

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    A tenacity to face and resolveboth internal and externalconflict

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    Personal influence that enableus to advance our purpose.

    Use of EQ at Workplace

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    It is EQ that will solve ourretention & morale problems

    improve our creativity

    create synergy from teamwork

    speed our information by way of sophisticated peoplenetworks

    drive our purpose

    and ignite the best and most inspired performance fromour followers.

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    It is EQ that will solve ourretention & morale problems

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    Improve our creativity

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    Create synergy from

    teamwork

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    Speed our information by way ofsophisticated people networks

    Why use EQ in the workplace

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    The workplace & workplaceculture is changing. Today theemphasis is more on peoplefocused style of leadership.Today employees aremotivated by the relationship

    they have in their workplace &EI seems like a logicalframework to help build theserelationships. Emotionsinfluence all aspect of our lives.

    Its impossible to separate themfrom work. They play a largerole in how others perceive usthrough our tone of voice, facialexpressions and body language.

    EQ in the Workplace

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    It is really very sad that after so muchresearch on the benefits of EmotionalIntelligence, too many managers andleaders continue to ignore the facts. They're

    stuck in their old patterns of intimidationand coercion, demoralizing employees andcreating attitudes of grudging compliance.The point to remember is Emotional

    Intelligence is learnable. All that needs tohappen is for managers and leaders to seethe benefit of doing so.

    Application of EQ in theWorkplace

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    p

    EI is increasingly being applied to organizationallevel initiatives such as workforce planning,performance management, strategic and culturalchange as well as the recruitment process.

    According to Jim Hunter, CEO at Genos, issues ofemployee retention and employer of choice arefront of mind in many corporations. EI is beingseen as an excellent medium to enhance theenvironment, culture, leadership and team

    dynamic within an organization.

    Managing Conflictin the Workplace Using

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    Emotional Intelligence

    Why Conflict Arises

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    Type A Personality

    Vs.

    Type B Personality

    Type A Personality

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    Highly Competitive

    Strong Personality

    Restless wheninactive

    Seeks Promotion

    PunctualThrives on deadlines

    Multi jobs at once

    Type B Personality

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    Works methodically

    Rarely competitive

    Enjoys leisure time

    Does not anger easily

    Does job well butdoesnt need

    recognitionEasy-going

    Aggressive People

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    Body language Stiff and straight

    Points, bangs tables to emphasize points

    Folds arms across bodyVerbal language

    I want you to

    You must Do what I tell you!

    Youre stupid!

    Aggressive people

    are basicallyinsecure.. Try to

    avoid them.

    Submissive people

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    Body Language

    Avoids eye contact

    Stooped posture

    Speaks quietly

    Fidgets

    Verbal Language

    Im sorry

    Its all my fault

    Oh dear

    Submissive people

    have a great sense

    of inferiority

    Assertive People

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    Body language Stands straight

    Appears composed

    Smiles Maintains eye contact

    Verbal language

    Lets How shall we do this?

    I think What do you think?

    I would like

    Types of Conflict

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    Within an individual

    Between two individuals

    Within a team of individuals

    Between two or more teams within anorganization

    Causes of conflict

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    Conflict of aims- different goalsConflict of ideas- different

    interpretations

    Conflict of attitudes - differentopinions

    Conflict of behavior- different

    behaviors are unacceptable

    Stages of Conflict

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    Conflict arisesPositions are stated and hardened

    Actions, putting into action their

    chosen planResolution???

    Preventing Conflict

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    Assess positive and negativepersonality traits of people involved

    Determine personality type

    Aggressive Submissive

    Assertive

    Assess if people are introvert orextroverts...

    Preventing Conflict

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    Review past conflictsAssess communication skills of thoseinvolved

    Read body language of participants

    Preventing Conflict

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    Try to reduce conflict Realize that communication is colored by

    personal experience, beliefs, fear,prejudices

    Try to be neutral

    Plan the timing and place of theconversation

    Realize that outside stress may add toconfrontation

    Eliminate/reduce external interruptions

    Preventing Conflict

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    Manage the language used

    Neutral vs. loaded words

    Reduce technical language

    Allow for cultural differences in language

    Words may have different meanings fordifferent peopleask them to elaborate

    Aids to Communication

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    Listen ActivelyRelax

    Observe bodylanguage

    Develop interest inothers interests

    Ask for clarification

    Plan what you aregoing to say

    Tailor words toperson

    Determine the besttiming

    Determine the bestplace

    Why is the

    conversationnecessary

    Personalities who cause conflict

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    AggressorPassive

    Absentee

    Error prone

    Negative attitude

    Chatterbox

    Do nothing

    Personalities who cause conflict

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    UnreliableTime waster

    Resentful person

    WACem method

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    Whats bothering you?

    A -What do you want to Ask theperson to do?

    Check in to see if what youve askedfor can happen

    EI is being seen as an excellentmedium to enhance theenvironment culture leadership

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    environment, culture, leadership

    and team dynamic within anorganization.

    Quote

    You can buy peoples time; you

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    You can buy people s time; you

    can buy their physical presence ata given place; you can even buy ameasured number of muscularmotions per hour. But you cannotbuy enthusiasmyou cannot buy

    loyaltyyou cannot buy the

    devotion of their hearts. This youmust earn."

    Emotional Ambivalence fuelsorganizational success

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    Creativity Innovation & EmotionalIntelligence :-

    People who are emotionally ambivalent

    simultaneously feeling positive andnegative emotions tend to be morecreative in the workplace than those whofeel just happy or sad, or lack emotion atall, according to a new study.

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    The task of the leader is to get hispeople from where they are to wherethey have not been.

    - Henry Kissinger

    Leaders in Emotional Intelligence

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    Solid ,pure humanrelations and support arethe key to any success

    Talal Abu Ghazaleh

    Coming together is abeginning; keeping togetheris progress; workingtogether is success.Henry Ford

    First they ignore you,then they laugh at you,then they fight you,then you winMohandas Gandhi Personality is reduced and deformed

    with depleted thoughts and stagnantmind.

    King Hussein

    I have found that beinghonest is the besttechnique I can use.Right up front, tell peoplewhat you're trying toaccomplish and whatyou're doing... Lee

    Iacocca

    In times of rapid change,experience could be yourworst enemy.

    J. Paul Getty

    Success is a lousy teacher. Itseduces smart people intothinking they can't lose . Bill

    Gates

    You achieve yourgoals with a smileor a laugh. .Adel Emam

    The 3 Leaders Roles in EI

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    1 - Sell the VISION

    2- Achieve it through the TEAM

    3- Maintain Effective RELATIONSHIPS

    The 7 Requirements forLeadership Behavior

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    Leadership Behavior

    1- Shows Enthusiasm

    2- Supports Other People Become Genuinely interested in other people- Dale Carnegie

    3- Recognize individual efforts Give honest, sincere appreciation , DaleCarnegie

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    4-Listen to individuals ideas and problems. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about

    them selves , Dale Carnegie

    Ignoring,

    Pretending,

    Selective,

    Empathetic listening

    The 7 Requirements for

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    Leadership Behavior5- Provide direction Ask questions instead of giving orders, DaleCarnegie

    6- Encourage. Let the other person feels the idea is his or her

    Dale Carnegie

    Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy tocorrect Dale Carnegie

    The 7 Requirements forLeadership Behavior

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    p

    7- Develop other people.

    LEADERS create LEADERS

    The 3 Leaders Tools

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    Delegation

    Coaching

    Empowerment

    Inspired to become a leaderSTART NOW

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    1.Have a dream .VISION

    2. GAP analysis .SELF AWARNESS

    3.Plan ..SMART

    4.Act .. ENTHUSIASM

    5.Evaluate .. RECHARGE YOURBATTERIES

    Emotional IntelligenceManagement Competencies

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    Without emotional intelligence managementcompetencies , the executive or manager ismore likely to derail.

    With these emotional intelligencemanagement competencies, managers and

    executives are more likely to receiveperformance based bonuses, higher salariesoverall, and experience greater job security.

    ere s w y ese e g emo onaintelligence management competencies

    qualities are so important now

    S lf d

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    Self-awareness andaccurate self-assessment:Without self-awareness andaccurate self-assessment,executives and managerswill be too quick to get

    irritated with others, willcreate problems in theirwork relationships and intheir personal relationships,will come across as abrasive,

    wont be able to admitmistakes or accept useful,realistic criticism, and wonthave a realistic awareness oftheir strengths orlimitations.

    InitiativeE ti d h

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    Executives and managers whoare rather low in initiative ill beresponding to events, rather thanbeing proactive, thereby findingthemselves in continual crisis

    mode. Plus when leaders arentutilizing initiative, they may fail toseize strategic opportunities,either because they haventstarted their analysis and planning

    process early enough or becausethey may resist taking even wellcalculated risks.

    Sound decision-making

    If ti i

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    If a manager or executive islow in their ability to makesound decisions this will onlybe accentuated in a period ofgreat uncertainty and

    turbulence. Executives low inthis area may spend moretime than they can afford to inanalysis, may notdemonstrate the courage to

    make choices, may avoidtaking responsibility, and maylack the commitment toexecute a decision fully.

    Empathy

    Wh d ti

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    When managers and executivesdont demonstrate enoughempathy in times of uncertainty orcrisis, they will likely be seen asindifferent, uncaring and in-

    authentic all of which will makeemployees be less cooperativeand less communicative. Themanager may be left feelingmisunderstood, and will have

    difficulty reading theiremployees

    Communication

    Managers and executives will be

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    Managers and executives will be

    hampered to an extraordinarydegree if they dont use adequatecommunication skills duringturbulent times. By notcommunicating well enoughmanagers will tend to avoidgetting into dialogue aboutimportant issues, will often onlycommunicate good news and willtend to try to hide bad news hurting trust, and will have greatdifficulty in managingcomplicated issues. In addition,

    they will appear unavailable anduncaring to others, which willhurt teamwork and cooperation.

    Influence

    When executives and managers

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    When executives and managersare low in the managementcompetency of influence they willfail to leave the right impression,will tend to alienate others rather

    than getting support, may end upworking too independently andeven against the group, and willhave difficulty motivating thegroup quickly enough to address

    the eminent challenge

    Adaptability

    Without ramping up the ability to be

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    Without ramping up the ability to be

    more adaptable in a time ofturbulence and uncertainty manyexecutives and managers will tend torespond negatively to new, changingsituations. In addition, they mayshow emotional strain to otherswhen they have to shift priorities;tend to express, or simmer with,frustration with change even if it isfor a positive purpose; will havedifficulty adapting their responsesand tactics to fit the emergingcircumstances; and ultimately will

    often be hesitant in taking on newchallenges.

    Self-managementWhen managers or

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    When managers or

    executives have low self-management they tend toreact impulsively instressful situations,possibly get overly

    stressed, angry or upsetwhen facing rapidlychanging situations orconflict at work; andsometimes respond toproblems in a noconstructive mannerwhich often causesunwanted consequences.

    Advice on Using

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    Emotional Intelligencein Your Life

    Do not undermine your

    worth by comparing

    yourself with others

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    yourself with others.

    It is because we are

    different that each of us is

    special.

    Do not set your goals by

    what other people deem

    important.

    Only you know what is best

    for you.

    Do not let your life slipthrough your fingers by

    living in the past nor for the

    future.

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    Do not give up when you

    still have something to give.

    Nothing is really over until

    the moment you stoptrying.

    It is a fragile thread that

    binds us to each other..

    By living your life one dayat a time, you live all the

    days of your life.

    Do not be afraid toencounter risks. It is by

    taking chances that we learn

    how to be brave

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    Do not shut love out

    of your life by saying

    it is impossible to

    find. The quickest

    way to receive love is

    to give love; the

    fastest way to loselove is to hold it too

    tightly.

    how to be brave.

    Do notdismiss your

    dreams.

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    To be

    without

    dreams is to

    be withouthope; to be

    without hope

    is to bewithout

    purpose.

    Do not run through life so fast thatyou forget not only where you have

    been, but also where you are going.

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    Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored

    each step of the way.

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    Just do it!Many of lifes failures are people who did not

    realize how close they were to success whenthey gave up.

    T. Edison

    Conclusion

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    Thus in today's scenario its veryimportant for any manager orexecutive to learn this skill ofEmotional Intelligence

    We all can be emotionally intelligentby practicing it as it is a very muchtrainable skill.

    Lets learn it and use it fororganizational as well as for ourpersonal success.

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