20 subconscious choices that don't serve you well

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20 COMMON SUBCONSCIOUS CHOICES

that do more harm than good

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THE ONE THING WE HAVE ALWAYS, IS A CHOICE.

Even when we say we don’t have one. Guess what? We’ll choose the door that’s least harmful or painful to us.

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IT’S EASY TO MAKE A CHOICE WHEN WE’RE OBVIOUSLY CALLED TO MAKE ONE.

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IT’S THE MYRIAD UNCONSCIOUS

CHOICES WE MAKE THAT’S THE

CHALLENGE.

We make them everyday, and we don’t even know that

we’re picking one path over the other.

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AND BECAUSE WE’RE NOT AWARE THAT A CHOICE IS ACTUALLY BEING MADE…

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OFTEN IT’S THE PART OF US THAT’S FEARFUL, DOUBTING, AND CHANGE-AVERSE THAT MAKES THE DECISION.

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HERE ARE 4X5 SUBCONSCIOUS CHOICES

WE MAKEthat don’t serve us all that well.

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WE CHOOSE TO STAY…

1. in the lousy job

2. in a miserable relationship

3. with the wrong crowd

4. for the wrong reasons

5. because it’s easier than change.

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WE CHOOSE TO LISTEN…6. to people with hurtful messages

7. to criticisms that destroy our self-confidence

8. to trolls and people that don’t matter to us

9. to messages of hate and exclusion and judgement

10. to the negative voices in our heads.

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WE CHOOSE TO REMAIN…

11. stuck

12. in our past

13. closed to new ideas

14. passive

15. unchanging.

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WE CHOOSE TO LET…16. the self-doubt drown the hope

inside

17. our fears dictate our choices

18. other people’s expectations drive what we do

19. material things count more than they should

20. external validation matter more than our own acceptance of

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Do these sound familiar to you?

Create your own list of your subconscious, not-so-helpful choices. Tack them on your wall.

Catch yourself the next time you’re about to make them.

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start a new ending

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