2016 older adult recognition day brochure...2016 older adult recognition day resources...

17
2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director, Office on Aging & Older Adult Ministries Email: [email protected] PO Box 340003, Nashville, TN 37203-0003 Telephone: 615-340-7173; Fax: 615-340-7071

Upload: others

Post on 18-Apr-2020

5 views

Category:

Documents


0 download

TRANSCRIPT

Page 1: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources

Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness

Edited by

Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director, Office on Aging & Older Adult Ministries

Email: [email protected]

PO Box 340003, Nashville, TN 37203-0003 Telephone: 615-340-7173; Fax: 615-340-7071

 

Page 2: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

Evergreen  –  Counting  the  Rings  of  Faithfulness      

Many  older  adults  have  lived  strong  lives  of  faith  that  have  endured  time  and  trial.    Just  as  the  evergreen  trees  in  the  winter  forest  remind  us  of  the  coming  spring,  the  faithfulness  of  older  adults  reminds  us  that  newness  of  life  may  spring  forth  from  all  of  us,  even  as  we  live  our  final  days  on  earth.  

           Evergreen  trees  bring  to  mind  those  older  adults  who  have  thrived  in  adverse  conditions.  The  vibrancy  of  older  adults’  faith  suggests  that  older  adults  have  lessons  to  teach  us  all.    Like  the  evergreens’  unique  beauty,  the  faith  of  older  adults  testifies  to  God’s  ability  to  unlock  inner  beauty  and  true  spiritual  nature.      If  you  view  a  tree’s  trunk,  you  can  see  growth  ring  patterns  of  the  tree’s  maturing.  When  we  hear  an  older  adult’s  life  story,  it  is  as  if  we  were  seeing  the  growth  rings  revealed.  Through  older-­‐adult  faith  stories,  the  church  is  enriched.      Just  as  evergreen  trees  offer  themselves  to  nourish  the  future  generations  of  the  forest,  older  adults  leave  behind  their  faith  stories  that  will  nourish  the  community  of  faith  into  the  future,  so  others  can  grow  into  their  role  as  the  “evergreens”  of  the  community  we  call  church.              

Page 3: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

Older  Adult  Recognition  Materials    Worship  Resources.  (The  following  may  be  used  in  planning  a  worship  service  for  Older  Adult  Recognition  Day  -­‐-­‐  whether  observed  on  a  Sunday  or  another  day.)      Proclamation:  The  message  should  include  thanksgiving  for  the  many  gifts  that  older  adults  give  to  the  church.  Such  gifts  include  friendship,  experience,  and  wisdom.  It  may  be  helpful  to  personalize  this  recognition  during  the  message  by  naming  older  adults  who  make  up  the  community  of  faith,  especially  those  who  may  not  be  well  known.            One  way  to  form  the  proclamation  is  to  focus  on  the  stories  of  older  adult  biblical  characters  who  remained  faithful  and  to  note  how  God  used  them  as  prophets,  teachers,  and  disciple  makers.  Indeed,  the  scriptural  narrative  views  a  good  life  as  a  reward  for  faithfulness.              It  is  important  to  incorporate  older  adults  into  the  message  in  significant  ways,  either  by  naming  them  in  the  message  itself  or  by  encouraging  their  participation  in  worship.  One  interesting  approach  might  be  to  invite  an  older  adult  lay  speaker  or  a  retired  minister  in  the  church  to  deliver  a  message  based  upon  a  favorite  passage  from  Scripture,  a  lectionary  passage  for  the  day,  or  one  of  the  suggested  texts  below.      Selected  Scripture  and  Sermon  Starters  These  passages  are  among  the  most  commonly  cited  passages  about  old  age  and  the  wisdom  of  older  adults.        Leviticus  19:32:  “You  shall  rise  before  the  aged,  and  defer  to  the  old;  and  you  shall  fear  your  God:  I  am  the  Lord.”    Isaiah  46:4:  “Even  to  your  old  age  I  am  he,  even  when  you  turn  gray  I  will  carry  you.  I  have  made,  and  I  will  bear;  I  will  carry  and  will  save.”    Proverbs  17:6:  “Grandchildren  are  the  crown  of  the  aged,  and  the  glory  of  children  is  their  parents.”    Psalm  92:14:  “In  old  age  they  still  produce  fruit;  they  are  always  green  and  full  of  sap.”  

Page 4: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

Psalm  139:  “O  Lord,  you  have  searched  me  and  known  me.  You  know  when  I  sit  down  and  when  I  rise  up;  you  discern  my  thoughts  from  far  away.  You  search  out  my  path  and  my  lying  down,  and  are  acquainted  with  all  my  ways.  .  .  .  Search  me,  O  God,  and  know  my  heart;  test  me  and  know  my  thoughts.  See  if  there  is  any  wicked  way  in  me,  and  lead  me  in  the  way  everlasting.”    Ruth  4:15  –  “He  shall  be  to  you  a  restorer  of  life  and  a  nourisher  of  your  old  age;  for  your  daughter-­‐in-­‐law  who  loves  you,  who  is  more  to  you  than  seven  sons,  has  borne  him.”          Luke  2:22-­‐38  (The  expectation  of  joy  in  old  age):  “When  the  time  came  for  their  purification  according  to  the  law  of  Moses,  they  brought  him  up  to  Jerusalem  to  present  him  to  the  Lord  .  .  .  There  was  also  a  prophet,  Anna  the  daughter  of  Phanuel,  of  the  tribe  of  Asher.  She  was  of  a  great  age,  having  lived  with  her  husband  seven  years  after  her  marriage,  then  as  a  widow  to  the  age  of  eighty-­‐four.  .  .”    Acts  14:22-­‐24:  “There  they  strengthened  the  souls  of  the  disciples  and  encouraged  them  to  continue  in  the  faith,  saying,  'It  is  through  many  persecutions  that  we  must  enter  the  kingdom  of  God.'    And  after  they  had  appointed  elders  for  them  in  each  church,  with  prayer  and  fasting  they  entrusted  them  to  the  Lord  in  whom  they  had  come  to  believe.  Then  they  passed  through  Pisidia  and  came  to  Pamphylia.”    2  Corinthians  4:16  (inner  strength):  “So  we  do  not  lose  heart.  Even  though  our  outer  nature  is  wasting  away,  our  inner  nature  is  being  renewed  day  by  day.”  

Philippians  3:13-­‐14:  “Beloved,  I  do  not  consider  that  I  have  made  it  my  own;  but  this  one  thing  I  do:  forgetting  what  lies  behind  and  straining  forward  to  what  lies  ahead,  I  press  on  toward  the  goal  for  the  prize  of  the  heavenly  call  of  God  in  Christ  Jesus.”      Titus  2:2-­‐5:  “Tell  the  older  men  to  be  temperate,  serious,  prudent,  and  sound  in  faith,  in  love,  and  in  endurance.  Likewise,  tell  the  older  women  to  be  reverent  in  behavior  .  .  ."    

Page 5: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

1  Timothy  5:1-­‐8:  “Do  not  speak  harshly  to  an  older  man,  but  speak  to  him  as  to  a  father,  to  younger  men  as  brothers,  to  older  women  as  mothers,  to  younger  women  as  sisters—with  absolute  purity.  .  .  ."    Please  see  previous  year’s  Scripture  suggestions  on  the  older  adult  ministry  website,  http://www.umcdiscipleship.org/leadership-­‐resources/older-­‐adults          

Music  The  United  Methodist  Hymnal        "Great  is  Thy  Faithfulness"             UMH  140        “This  Is  My  Father’s  World”           UMH  144  "I  Love  to  Tell  the  Story"               UMH  156  "It  is  Well  with  My  Soul"               UMH  377  “I  Am  Thine,  O  Lord”                 UMH  419    “Blest  Be  the  Tie  That  Binds”           UMH  557  “Come,  Let  Us  Join  Our  Friends  Above”       UMH  709    More  information  on  the  History  of  these  Hymns  are  available  at    http://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/history-­‐of-­‐hymns-­‐great-­‐is-­‐thy-­‐faithfulness  http://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/history-­‐of-­‐hymns-­‐this-­‐is-­‐my-­‐fathers-­‐world  http://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/history-­‐of-­‐hymns-­‐i-­‐love-­‐to-­‐tell-­‐the-­‐story  http://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/history-­‐of-­‐hymns-­‐it-­‐is-­‐well-­‐with-­‐my-­‐soul  http://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/history-­‐of-­‐hymns-­‐i-­‐am-­‐thine-­‐o-­‐lord  http://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/history-­‐of-­‐hymns-­‐blest-­‐be-­‐the-­‐tie-­‐that-­‐binds  

 The  Faith  We  Sing    “You  Are  Mine”               TFWS  2218  “I  Was  There  To  Hear  Your  Borning  Cry”             TFWS  2051    More  information  on  the  History  of  this  Hymn  is  available  at    http://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/history-­‐of-­‐hymns-­‐i-­‐was-­‐there-­‐to-­‐hear-­‐your-­‐borning-­‐cry  

 Worship  and  Song  Hymnal            All  My  Days                   W&S  3011  “A  Place  at  the  Table”             W&S  3149    More  information  on  the  History  of  this  Hymn  is  available  at  http://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/history-­‐of-­‐hymns-­‐a-­‐place-­‐at-­‐the-­‐table  

Page 6: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

Hymns  Not  in  Current  Hymn  Collections    “And  Now,  My  Soul,  Another  Year”                            Simon  Browne  “Lord,  Give  Me  Strength  for  Golden  Years”                                                    James  R.  Webb    Glory  to  God  Presbyterian  Church,  USA  Hymnal  “When  Memory  Fades”             Mary  Louise  Bringle*  “When  We  Must  Bear  Persistent  Pain”       Ruth  Duck*  http://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/history-­‐of-­‐hymns-­‐when-­‐memory-­‐fades    Hymns  Written  about  Older  Adults  or  for  Older  Adult  Recognition  Day      “They  Found  Purpose  for  Their  Living”                                                                    F.  Richard  Garland    (Sung  to  the  tune  Nettleton  #  400,  “Come  Thou  Font  of  Every  Blessing,”  (The  United  Methodist  Hymnal),  soon  available  at  Discipleship  Music  Resources  at  http://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/they-­‐found-­‐purpose-­‐for-­‐their-­‐living      “God  of  Generations”                                                                                                                                Carolyn  Winfrey  Gillette  (Sung  to  the  tune  of  Nicaea  #64,  “Holy,  Holy,  Holy!  Lord  God  Almighty,”  (The  United  Methodist  Hymnal)  available  through  Gifts  of  Love:  New  hymns  for  today's  worship  #16    I  Will  Not  Always  Walk  This  Earth                                                      Dan  Damon  (Suggested  Tune  is  Silver  Fork).  Note  the  lyrics  and  rights  to  this  piece  can  be  located  at  the  Hope  Publishing  Website  (http://www.hopepublishing.com/  )  and  use  of  it  must  follow  their  terms  and  conditions.        Communion  Hymns  if  Communion  Is  Celebrated  “Christ,  You  Often  Sat  at  Dinner”                                                                                      Carolyn  Winfrey  Gillette*                                                      (sung  to  the  tune,  Hyfrydol,  #196,  “Come  Thou  Long  Expected  Jesus,”  The  United  Methodist  Hymnal),  also  available  through  Glory  to  God  Hymnal,    Presbyterian  Church,  USA,  Westminster  John  Knox  Press,  2013.*      “When  Hands  Reach  Out  and  Fingers  Trace”                                              Carolyn  Winfrey  Gillette*    (Songs  of  Grace:  New  Hymns  for  God  and  Neighbor,  61a),  available  through  Glory  to  God  Hymnal,  Presbyterian  Church,  USA,  Westminster  John  Knox  Press,  2013.  

Page 7: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

*=  Glory  to  God  Hymnal,  Presbyterian  Church,  USA,  Westminster  John  Knox  Press,  2013  

Litany  of  Thanksgiving  Leader:  We  have  gathered  in  gratitude  for  the  gift  of  years  with  which  God  has  blessed  our  community  through  our  older  adults.  We  celebrate  who  they  are  as  part  of  our  faith  community  and  honor  them  today  before  God.      Children  of  All  Ages:  Older  adults  are  our  parents,  grandparents,  neighbors,  and  friends.  They  are  our  past,  and  we  are  their  legacy.    Parents  of  All  Ages:  Older  adults  are  sages,  mentors,  teachers,  and  models  in  faith.  They  are  the  keepers  of  wisdom,  experience,  and  tradition;  and  we  grow  in  faith  as  a  result  of  knowing  them.  Leader:  Older  adults  are  what  we  one  day  will  become.  Will  we  be  like  them?    Children:  Beloved  by  others.  Young  Adults:  Admired  by  others.  Middle-­‐Aged  Adults:  Faithful  before  God.  Leader:  We  give  thanks  to  God  for  the  gift  of  years,  for  forming  the  faith  of  older  adults  before  our  eyes.      Older  Adults:  We  give  thanks  to  God  for  creating  us  and  crafting  in  us  the  people  we  are  becoming.  We  give  thanks,  God,  for  your  expressing  love  for  us  and  for  our  faith  community  throughout  our  lives.  Rest  of  Congregation:  We  give  thanks  for  the  faith  of  older  adults  that  guides  our  faith  and  enriches  our  relationships  with  one  another.    All:  In  gratitude,  we  honor  our  older  adults  and  give  thanks  to  you,  O  God.        

Litany  on  What  It  Means  to  Be  Old  Leader:  God  promised  Abraham  a  blessing  in  advanced  age.  God  said,  “I  will  bless  you;  I  will  make  your  name  great,  and  you  will  be  a  blessing.  I  will  bless  those  who  bless  you,  and  all  peoples  on  earth  will  be  blessed  through  you.”  God’s  blessing  came  with  old  age.  People:  How  can  advanced  years  and  old  age  be  a  blessing?  How  can  God  continue  to  use  me?    I  wonder  sometimes,  especially  when  I  see  all  the  changes  in  life  I  have  gone  through.    

Page 8: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

Leader:  It  is  God’s  promise  to  Abraham  and  to  you:  “In  old  age  you  are  a  blessing  and  you  will  be  blessed.”  God  also  promised  to  bless  those  who  honor  and  bless  you!  God  blesses  the  church  through  you  in  many  ways.  Let’s  count  the  ways  of  blessing.  Children:  When  you  tell  stories,  you  bless  us  and  help  us  grow.  Youth:  When  you  hear  our  dreams  in  life,  you  are  a  blessing  to  us.  Young  Adults:  When  you  try  to  understand  our  struggles  and  do  not  judge  us,  we  am  blessed.    Adults:  When  you  love  us  and  express  friendship,  your  life  is  a  blessing.    All:  When  you  set  an  example  of  how  to  live  honorably  and  in  praise  before  God,  you  are  a  blessing.  Leader:  When  you  mentor  me  in  learning  something  new  using  your  experience,  you  are  my  blessing.    All:  When  you  face  death  faithfully  and  live  courageously,  you  make  it  easier  for  us  to  do  the  same,  and  you  bless  us.    Leader:  You  are  blessed  and  are  a  blessing  in  so  many  ways.  It  is  a  blessing  that  is  only  realized  in  advanced  years  and  within  a  community  of  faith.  God  promised  to  make  you  a  blessing  in  your  advanced  years  and  has.    

Prayer  of  Invocation  O  God  beyond  all  our  years:  Help  us  to  remember  that  long  life  is  a  gift.  Help  us  to  properly  honor  the  gift  of  our  elders  who  have  taught  us  to  live  lives  of  faith.  Through  our  worship,  help  us  to  honor  you  as  the  giver  of  this  gift,  in  which  you  have  made  your  love  present  and  real  through  the  lives  of  our  older  adults.  We  offer  ourselves  in  thanksgiving  and  worship  for  your  many  blessings.  Amen.  

                     

 

Page 9: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

A  Prayer  of  Thanksgiving  Creator  God  of  us  all,  we  give  thanks  for  our  older  adults.  We  give  thanks  for  the  joy  they  have  brought  us,  the  laughter  and  the  tears  we  have  shared  with  them.  We  give  thanks  for  their  friendship,  their  compassion,  for  their  teaching,  and  their  mentoring.  We  name  happy  and  joyous  memories  and  the  painful  and  lonely  memories  that  have  brought  us  closer  together  and  to  you.  We  name  service  opportunities  we  shared  with  them  that  allowed  us  to  be  a  community  and  shaped  us  for  your  kingdom.  We  name  learning  moments  where  their  insights  inspired  ours  and  our  insights  moved  their  learning  to  even  greater  heights.  We  have  been  richly  blessed  by  your  loving  generosity  in  sharing  these  older  adults  with  us,  and  we  name  them  in  our  hearts  and  give  thanks  in  the  name  of  Christ  Jesus.  Amen.      

Benedictions  Go  as  the  beloved  of  God  to  grow  old  in  Christ.  Be  blessed  in  years  and  be  a  blessing  to  God’s  kingdom.  Remember,  you  are  God’s  child,  even  into  old  age.  Amen.    Go  forth  to  scatter  light  into  the  darkness  of  our  world  through  our  Everlasting  One.  Celebrate  daily  the  blessings  of  experience,  knowledge,  and  wisdom  that  come  with  age.  Keep  alive  the  gift  of  years  received  from  older  friends  and  become  the  gift  of  years  for  those  who  follow.  Amen.    

Call  to  Worship  Minister:  Lord  God,  we  are  running  the  good  race  of  our  lives  and  follow  the  way  home  to  you  to  fight  the  good  fight  for  faith.  People:  We  journey  with  a  cloud  of  witnesses  to  your  kingdom  come.  We  serve  with  others  who  are  also  running  the  race.  Minister:  Old,  young,  middle-­‐aged,  youth,  children.  Some  have  run  longer  and  further  than  others,  and  we  count  them  as  older  adults.  People:  We  thank  you  for  those  who  have  gone  before  us,  and  we  thank  you  for  their  example.  We  praise  you  for  their  lives  of  faith  today.    All:  We  thank  you  for  our  sages  and  pioneers,  for  those  who  have  run  before  us.  We  remember  them  as  parents,  friends,  teachers,  neighbors,  fellow  church  members,  and  a  cloud  of  witnesses.  We  celebrate  your  abiding  presence  with  us  through  their  friendship,  sacrifice,  and  leadership.        

Page 10: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

Contemporary  Message  Formats  This  guide  includes  some  alternative  contemporary  message  formats  this  year.  Consider  the  themes  and  titles  below,  especially  for  contemporary  worship  services.      One  Interesting  approach  is  to  start  with  one  of  the  titles  or  themes  and  turn  it  into  a  question  and  answer  to  frame  the  message.  An  example  would  be  the  title  “When  I  Grow  Old.”  The  preacher  asks,  “How  Do  I  Know  When  I  Am  Fully  Grown,  Spiritually?”    In  developing  such  an  approach,  older  adults  could  be  asked  to  help  answer  the  question  to  assist  the  proclaimer  with  their  message.  .      

Possible  Sermon  Topics      

1.  When  I  Grow  Old—  What  is  it  like  to  grow  older  and  grow  spiritually  toward  God?    

2.   The  Advantages  of  Being  Old—  A  look  at  the  positives  of  growing  old  and  the  gifts  of  being  older  -­‐-­‐  insight,  tradition,  wisdom,  and  a  spiritual  orientation.    

3.   It  Takes  a  Lifetime  to  Grow  Old—The  significant  experiences  of  a  lifetime,  growing  up,  going  to  war,  graduating,  having  children  and  grandchildren,  and  coming  to  faith,  both  the  good  and  the  bad.    

4.   Final  Notes—Advice  an  older  person  would  give  to  younger  people  about  life  and  overcoming,  about  faith  and  spirituality,  and  about  serving  the  community  and  God.    

5.   Questions  about  Aging—  Have  questions  submitted  a  week  in  advance,  then  the  proclaimer  answers  4  or  5  of  the  best  questions,  explaining  how  his  or  her  perspectives  have  changed  with  age.    

6.   Look  through  the  Windshield,  Not  in  the  Mirror—  This  sermon  is  designed  to  help  older  adults  look  toward  the  future  instead  of  dwelling  in  the  past.  

7.   The  Measure  of  Days,  all  25,567  of  them  (70  Years  x  Days)  —  This  legacy  sermon  talks  about  how  God  has  used  older  adults  through  good  times  and  bad.  It  should  speak  to  the  faithfulness  of  God.  

8.   Grow  Old  Along  with  Me!  A  positive  look  at  the  aging  process  will  meet  the  fear  of  growing  old  with  the  gifts  of  aging.  This  approach  will  help  aging  boomers  confront  their  fears.  

9.   Be  Old  or  BOLD—Talk  about  bold  older  adults  who  defy  the  stereotypes  of  growing  older.  

Page 11: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

10.    Not  Yet  Old  Enough—  Consider  what  we  would  miss  in  life  if  we  did  not  age  (like  the  mythical  Peter  Pan).  

11.    Old  Age  101—  Lifecycle  stages  meets  Christian  living  -­‐-­‐  How  we  change  physically  and  spiritually  as  we  grow  older.  

12.    The  Secrets  Lives  of  Old  People—Demonstrate  how  older  adults  live  out  their  Christian  heritage  in  their  daily  lives,  often  quietly,  behind  the  scenes.    

13.    Old  Age  is  Like  Dessert—Dessert  is  the  last  course  of  a  meal  because  the  sweetest  is  always  saved  for  last.    Old  age  can  be  the  best  stage  of  life.    

14.    A  New  Way  of  Being  Old—Aging  and  retirement  are  changing  radically  with  the  retirement  of  baby  boomers.    Retirement  can  be  the  most  spiritual  time  of  life.    

15.  The  Dreams  of  Our  Elders—  In  this  sermon,  the  legacy  of  those  who  have  gone  before  is  acknowledged  in  the  lives  of  faith  of  those  who  follow.        

   

Ideas  for  Congregations  for  Observing    Older  Adult  Recognition  Day  

Advocacy  -­‐  Invite  experts,  civic  leaders,  or  government  officials  to  speak  during  an  information  session  on  an  issue  such  as  dementia,  depression,  grief,  or  security.  Panel  Discussion  –  Form  a  panel  discussion  with  older  adults  sharing  their  memories,  either  free  form,  or  with  standard  questions.  This  can  be  a  guided  discussion.  A  unique  panel  would  be  to  pair  multiple  generations  together  to  answer  the  same  questions  to  reveal  how  age  changes  our  perspectives  and  attitudes  about  faith  and  life.  Include  homebound  members  through  the  use  of  video.  Planned  Visitation  (During  the  week  of  Older  Adult  Recognition  Day)  –      Make    lists  of  all  older  adults  in  the  church  who  are  willing  to  visit  along  with  older  adults  who  are  interested  in  being  visited  and  match  together  as  visitors  and  the  visited  (including  a  driver,  as  needed,  so  those  who  do  not  drive  can  participate).  Matching  can  be  random  or  intentional.  Day  of  Service  –  Organize  a  project  or  special  day  of  service  to  benefit  older  adults  directly  or  to  honor  ministries  served  by  older  adults.  This  can  be  a  perfect  opportunity  to  find  a  project  that  addresses  older-­‐adult  poverty  in  the  community.  Plant  an  Honor  Tree  –  Designate  an  area  on  the  church  campus  for  planting  honor  trees  (spruces,  pines,  cypress,  magnolias  or  other  evergreens  work  best).  

Page 12: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

Through  a  local  nursery,  take  orders  for  trees  to  be  planted  in  honor  of  older  adults  in  the  church.  At  the  conclusion  of  the  worship  service,  have  participants  move  to  the  garden  area  for  the  planting  of  the  trees.  Make  a  plaque  available  for  each  tree.        Sponsor  Families  –  Match  each  older  person  in  the  congregation  to  a  volunteer  hospitality  family  for  the  coming  year.  Ask  the  older  person  to  pray  for  members  of  the  hospitality  family.    Provide  the  older  adults  with  cards  with  pictures  of  the  family  members  for  whom  they  will  pray.  Have  the  families  and  older  adults  gather  for  a  get-­‐acquainted  meal.  Have  an  exchange  sheet  with  information  about  significant  events  or  days  in  the  lives  of  the  older  adults  and  the  volunteer  hospitality  family  members:  wedding  day,  birthdays,  and  so  on.    At  the  end  of  the  year,  have  the  sponsor  families  and  older  adults  write  notes  about  what  they  enjoyed  most  about  each  other.    Spiritual  Biographies  -­‐  Interview  older  persons  with  a  list  of  questions  such  as,  “Who  has  been  influential  in  your  faith  life?”  “What  are  your  favorite  Scripture  passages?”  From  the  interviews,  develop  spiritual  biographies.  The  use  of  video  or  audio  recording  is  a  good  way  to  do  this;  but  if  biographies  are  displayed,  they  all  should  be  in  the  same  format.  Display  a  timeline  of  the  subjects’  lives  with  pictures  on  bulletin  boards  or  monitors  in  the  church.  You  could  feature  the  biographies  as  a  group  at  one  time,  or  feature  them  individually  once  a  month.  Publish  a  biography  at  the  end  of  the  year.    Make  sure  the  older  adults  approve  their  biographies  before  publishing  them.    Be  sure,  also,  that  each  featured  older  adult  gets  a  copy  of  the  publication.  Safe  Sanctuaries®  Check  -­‐  Make  sure  there  are  no  accessibility  issues  in  your  church  that  limit  full  participation  for  those  with  some  disability.  Consider  the  acoustics  for  those  with  hearing  impairments.    Use  large  fonts  on  projected  screens,  hymnals,  and  bulletins  for  those  who  have  trouble  seeing  clearly.  Look  at  the  number  of  steps  into  buildings  and  other  provisions  such  as  special  parking,  wheelchair  friendly  restrooms,  and  pew  space  for  wheelchairs  or  walkers.    Specialized  Classes  -­‐  Invite  older  adults  to  share  their  hobbies  and  crafts  with  others  by  asking  them  to  teach  introductory  classes,  either  as  a  periodic  (weekly  or  monthly)  class  or  a  one-­‐time  demonstration  class;  for  example,  a  cooking  class.  This  is  particularly  great  intergenerational  way  of  celebrating  Older  Adult  Recognition  Sunday.    Single  and  Widow  Fellowship  Groups  –  Develop  programs  to  meet  the  needs  of  widowed,  single  again,  and  never  married  older  adults.  Because  many  older  adults  have  lost  significant  others,  this  is  an  important  way  to  honor  older  adults.  

Page 13: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

Sponsored  Discussion  of  Movies  with  Older  Adult  Characters  or  Video  Clips  about  Aging  or  Older  Adult  Issues.  -­‐-­‐  Many  churches  regularly  employ  video.  We  live  in  a  video  rich  world.  One  unique  Multi-­‐generational  event  which  could  occur  along  with  Older  Adult  Recognition  Day  would  be  to  select  clips  from  movies  and  show  them  to  a  group  and  then  hold  a  discussion,  about  how  the  characters  reflect  a  mature  view  of  life,  faith,  and  aging.              AARP  has  a  series  titled  “Movies  for  Grownups”  that  can  be  surveyed  as  a  source  for  videos.  Check  their  reviews  of  films.    A  selected  message  clip  should  portray  themes  like  sacrifice,  hope,  joy,  peace,  grace,  courage,  healing,  and  forgiveness.  The  following  movies  contain  scenes  in  which  older  characters  reflect  these  themes.    Grumpy  Old  Men                                                                                The  Straight  Story  Harold  and  Maude                                                                            Tokyo  Story      Cocoon                                                                                                                    All  of  Me  Away  from  Her                                                                                          Most  Exotic  Marigold  Motel  Strangers  in  Good  Company            Quartet  The  Intern                                                                                Aurora  Borealis  The  Sunshine  Boys                                                                              About  Schmidt  Trouble  with  the  Curve                                                              Up  Bucket  List                                                                                                          Water  for  Elephants                                                                        Sourcing  the  appropriate  clips  can  be  easy  since  many  can  be  located  from  YouTube  and  Vimeo.  Whole  movies  can  also  be  downloaded  from  streaming  services  or  rented  from  video  stores  and  film  editing  software  can  be  used  to  focus  on  a  short  clip.  Selected  scene  should  be  self-­‐contained  and  not  require  an  introduction  or  setting  of  the  scene.    Videos  should  focus  on  one  universal  and  positive  experience  of  old  age.  The  message  is  not  the  time  to  examine  heavy  subjects  like  Dementia  or  Elder  Abuse,  or  Aging  Poverty,  unless  this  is  something  which  a  church  has  already  been  active  and  has  prepared  counseling  and  other  resources.                  Since  care  must  be  taken  in  selecting  video  clips,  one  idea  is  to  use  only  video  clips  previewed  by  Older  Adults  and  approved  by  them  before  they  are  shown.  Because  there  will  be  participants  of  all  ages  present,  it  is  suggested  mature  situations  and  language  be  left  out  of  the  video  clip.              Verify  the  church’s  video  license  allows  the  use  of  the  video  beforehand  and  give  proper  attribution  to  video.    Don’t  have  a  license?  License  are  available  

Page 14: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

through  http://cvli.com/    or  Church  Video  Licensing.  Do  not  assume  because  it  is  available  in  the  public  domain  it  is  available  for  you  to  use.        Selected  Resources  Consider  giving  these  as  gifts  to  leaders  with  older  adults,  to  your  church,  or  to  older  adults.  These  are  primarily  in  book  format.      Building  a  Ministry  for  Homebound  and  Nursing  Home  Residents  by  Marie  White  Webb.  (Discipleship  Resources,  Nashville,  TN,  2003).  An  excellent  guidebook  for  doing  ministry  with  the  homebound  and  residents  in  continuing  care  retirement  communities.    Designing  an  Older  Adult  Ministry  by  Richard  Gentzler  (Discipleship  Resources,  Nashville,  TN).  This  is  still  the  go-­‐to  book  for  getting  started  in  older-­‐adult  ministry.  It  has  helpful  suggestions  and  a  basic  plan  to  get  started  that  has  proven  effective  over  and  over  again.      Falling  Upward:  A  Spirituality  for  the  Two  Halves  of  Life  by  Richard  Rohr  (Jossey-­‐Bass  Publishing,  2011).  Fr.  Rohr  examines  how  the  later  years  are  different  from  our  first  half  of  life.  He  also  presents  a  new  way  of  thinking  about  old  age,  not  as  frailty  or  decay,  but  as  a  time  of  drawing  closer  to  the  Divine.      The  Gift  of  Years:  Growing  Older  Gracefully  by  Joan  D.  Chittister  (BlueBridge  Publishing,  2010).  This  collection  of  inspirational  reflections  will  help  older  adults  reflect  even  more  on  the  spiritual  nature  of  the  last  chapters  of  their  lives.  It  will  also  help  them  see  God  present  even  in  the  mundane  areas  of  life.    Graying  Gracefully:  Preaching  to  Older  Adults  by  William  J.  Carl  Jr.  (Westminster  John  Knox  Press,  1997).  This  book  gives  practical  instruction  and  examples  of  biblical  and  theological  sermons  to  this  growing  population,  enabling  the  preacher  to  proclaim  the  gospel  more  clearly  for  older  adults.    Joy  Boosters:  120  Ways  to  Encourage  Older  Adults  by  Missy  Buchanan  (Upper  Room  Books,  Nashville,  TN).  Joy  is  one  of  the  key  ingredients  for  good  aging.  This  book  contains  a  lot  of  practical  ideas  anyone  can  do  to  give  the  gift  of  joy  to  an  older  adult.      

Page 15: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

Parents  &  Grandparents  as  Spiritual  Guides:  Nurturing  Children  of  the  Promise  by  Betty  Shannon  Cloyd  (Upper  Room  Books,  Nashville,  TN).  The  highlight  of  many  older  adults’  life  is  when  they  have  and  establish  relationships  with  grandchildren.  This  book  instructs  grandparents  about  how  to  be  spiritual  mentors  and  guides  for  their  grandchildren.      Pilgrimage  into  the  Last  Third  of  Life:  7  Gateways  to  Spiritual  Growth  by  Jane  Marie  Thibault,  Richard  L  Morgan  (Upper  Room  Books,  Nashville,  TN).  This  book  is  designed  as  more  than  a  spiritual  guide  to  navigate  the  waters  of  retirement.  It  is  one  of  the  best  books  to  help  older  adults  think  about  their  legacy.    Remembering  Your  Story:  Creating  Your  Own  Spiritual  Autobiography  by  Richard  L.  Morgan.  (Upper  Room  Books,  Nashville,  TN;  Revised  edition,  2002).  Designed  for  small  groups,  this  resource  encourages  and  guides  participants  through  10  sessions  of  life  review  and  future  direction.    Safe  Sanctuaries:  The  Church  Responds  to  Abuse,  Neglect,  and  Exploitation  of  Older  Adults  by  Joy  Thornburg  Melton  (Upper  Room  Books,  Nashville,  TN).  One  issue  that  the  church  often  overlooks  in  its  ministry  is  elder  abuse.  This  book  addresses  how  a  church  can  respond.      Shaping  a  Life  of  Significance  for  Retirement  by  Jerry  P.  Haas  &  R.  Jack  Hansen  (Upper  Room  Books,  Nashville,  TN).  This  book  is  great  resource  to  help  church  leaders  understand  what  retirement  is  like  for  its  member  retirees  and  invites  people  going  through  it  to  think  about  retirement  in  terms  of  legacy  and  service  instead  of  finances  and  leisure.    Voices  of  Aging:  Adult  Children  and  Aging  Parents  Talk  with  God  by  Missy  Buchanan  (Upper  Room  Books,  Nashville,  TN).  Missy  Buchanan  offers  a  compassionate  look  at  adult  children  and  their  parents  as  they  face  the  fears  and  frustrations  of  aging.    A  Widow's  Prayer:  Finding  God's  Grace  for  the  Days  Ahead  by  Nell  Noonan  (Upper  Room  Books,  2015).  This  book  ponders  what  it  means  to  be  alone  but  never  away  from  God.  It  is  an  amazing  collection  of  reflections  designed  to  help  those  who  have  lost  their  mate  as  they  journey  through  grief.    

 

Page 16: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

   

Additional  Resources  for  Older-­‐Adult  Recognition  Day    The  Virginia  Annual  Conference  -­‐-­‐  even  before  General  Conference  passed  a  resolution  calling  for  Older-­‐Adult  Recognition  Day  -­‐-­‐  recommended  its  churches  observe  the  day.  They  prepare  a  guide  every  year  similar  to  this  one.  See  “Sermon  Notes  for  Older  Adult  Sunday  2015,”  http://www.vaumc.org/ncfilerepository/OlderAdult/2015Older_Adult_Sunday_2015_Sermon_notes.pdf    The  Presbyterian  Older  Adult  Ministry  Network,  POAMN,  provides  an  Annual  Older  Adult  Resources  Guide,  which  includes  worship  suggestions  for  a  celebration  of  Older  Adult  Recognition  Day.  It  may  be  ordered  as  a  separate  printed  guide  or  viewed  online.      2014  PDF  2015  PDF-­‐  PDS#  23304-­‐14-­‐001-­‐($3.00  +  S&H).  -­‐Order  from:  Presbyterian  Distribution  Service  (PDS),  (800)  524-­‐  2612,  www.pcusa.org/marketplace  or  view  online,  www.poamn.org/wp-­‐content/uploads/2014/01/14-­‐Planning-­‐Guide.pdf    2015  PDF-­‐  PDS#  23304-­‐15-­‐001-­‐($3.00  +  S&H).  Order  from:  Presbyterian  Distribution  Service  (PDS),  (800)  524-­‐  2612,  www.pcusa.org/marketplace  or  view  online,  www.poamn.org/wp-­‐content/uploads/2015/02/15-­‐Planning-­‐Guide.pdf    2016  PDF-­‐  PDS#  23304-­‐16-­‐001  ($3.00  +  S&H).  Order  from:  Presbyterian  Distribution  Service  (PDS),  (800)  524-­‐  2612,  www.pcusa.org/marketplace  or  view  online,  www.poamn.org/wp-­‐content/uploads/2015/02/16-­‐Planning-­‐Guide.pdf    Resolution  3023.  Older  Adult  Recognition  Day    Original  Resolution  authorizing  Older  Adult  Recognition  Day  as  a  special  day  observance.      WHEREAS,  special  observances  in  The  United  Methodist  Church  are  intended  to  illustrate  the  nature  and  calling  of  the  church  and  are  celebrated  annually,  and    WHEREAS,  special  observances  are  placed  on  the  calendar  to  make  clear  the  calling  of  the  church  as  the  people  of  God;  and  

Page 17: 2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Brochure...2016 Older Adult Recognition Day Resources Evergreen-Counting the Rings of Faithfulness Edited by Rev. Dr. William B. Randolph, D. Min Director,

 WHEREAS,  both  the  population  in  the  United  States  and  throughout  the  world  is      WHEREAS,  the  average  age  of  the  membership  of  The  United  Methodist  Church  is  comprised  of  persons  60  years  of  age  and  older;  and    WHEREAS,  older  adults  make  significant  and  important  contributions  in  the  life  of  The  United  Methodist  Church  and  to  spreading  the  gospel  throughout  the  world;  and        WHEREAS,  the  scripture  commands  us  to  “honor  your  father  and  mother,”    Therefore,  be  it  resolved,  that  The  United  Methodist  Church  observe  an  annual  Older  Adult  Recognition  Day;  and      Be  it  further  resolved,  that  an  Older  Adult  Recognition  Day  may  be  observed  annually,  preferably  during  the  month  of  May.  The  day  is  to  recognize  and  celebrate  the  gifts,  talents,  and  contributions  older  adults  make  within  and  beyond  the  local  church.  The  day  should  also  provide  congregation  with  the  opportunity  to  learn  more  about  the  issues  and  concerns  related  to  aging  and  older  adulthood.  The  Committee  on  Older  Adult  Ministries  will  have  responsibility  for  the  supervision  and  promotion  of  the  observance  of  this  special  day.      

Note:  While  the  resolution  suggests  Older  Adult  Recognition  be  held  in  May  to  coincide  with  Older  Americans  Month,  it  can  be  and  is  observed  by  churches  at  other  times  of  the  year.  Here  are  some  alternatives.      

•   During  the  month  of  November,  which  is  recognized  as  National  Family  Caregivers  Month  by  the  U.S.  Administration  on  Aging  and  especially  On  All  Saints  Sunday    

•   In  conjunction  with  United  Methodist  Women’s  or  Men’s  recognition  services.  

•   The  Sunday  following  Labor  Day,  which  is  recognized  as  Grandparents’  Day.