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    Transactional Analysis

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    Background Information

    2 People primarily responsible for developingTransactional Analysis are:Eric Berne (initial theoretical rational)

    Thomas A. Harris (reworked it & popularized it)

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    TransactionThe most basic unit of social interaction

    occurring when one person acts as astimulus for another & the other responds to

    the first

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    Transactional Stimulus and

    ResponseThe initiator of the transaction is called the

    transactional stimulus.The response of the respondent is called

    transactional response.

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    Ego States

    Ego-States= logical systems of thought & feelingmanifested by corresponding patterns of behavior

    When analyzing transactions we are really looking at

    the dialogue between ego states

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    Ego States

    Parent:

    A huge collection of recordings in the brainof unquestioned or imposed external events

    perceived by a person in his early years.

    Thoughts, feelings, attitudes, behavioral

    patterns based on messages or lessons

    learned from parents and other parentalor authoritarian sources

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    Ego States

    Parent:

    Filled with values, Shoulds and should nots;oughts and ought nots; always and never,

    good & bad

    The individual feels, thinks, acts, talks, &

    responds just as one of his parents did when

    he/she was little

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    Parent Ego State

    Prejudicial views (not based on logic orfacts) on things such as:

    religion dress salespeople

    traditions work productsmoney raising children companies

    Nurturing views (sympathetic, caring

    views)Critical views (fault finding, judgmental,

    condescending views)

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    Adult Ego State

    Thoughts, feelings, attitudes, behavioral

    patterns based on objective analysis of

    information (data, facts)

    Make decisions based on logic,

    computations, probabilities, etc. (not

    emotion)

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    Ego StatesAdult:

    Most rational & reality-oriented

    Reacts to stimuli as it is actuallyexperienced

    A computer processing infowithout significant basis

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    Child Ego StateThoughts, feelings, attitudes, behavioral

    patterns based on child-like emotions, impulses,feelings we have experienced

    The little kid within us who feels, thinks, acts,talks, & responds just the way he/she did as achild at a certain age

    Child-like examples

    ImpulsiveSelf-centered

    Angry

    Fearful

    Happy

    Pleasure seeking

    Rebellious

    Happy

    Curious

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    A major goal is to figure out which ego

    state a person is using

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    The process of analysis is simplea diagrammatic

    representation of the ego states are used

    P Parent

    C child

    A adult

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    The Three Ego States

    Parent- Do as I do

    Child- What shall I do?

    Adult- I will be frank with you

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    We AreChild

    Adult

    Parent in our Transactions.

    Biological conditions are irrelevant to

    these ego states.

    We shift from one ego state to another in

    transactions.

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    Shift in Ego StatesParent- Why dont you prepare a time-

    table?

    Child- What is the point when one

    cannot follow it? Becomes an Adult.

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    Transactional AnalysisTransactional analysis -

    Transactions between people are seen as having3 levels:

    Complementaryboth people are

    operating from the same ego state

    Crossedthe other person reacts from an

    unexpected ego state

    Ulteriortwo ego states within the sameperson but one disguises the other

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    Transactions between 2 people may be complementary or

    crossed. They are COMPLEMENTARY when the lines

    representing the transaction are parallel

    P

    CC

    A A

    P

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    Transactions between 2 people may be complementary or

    crossed. They are COMPLEMENTARY when the lines

    representing the transaction are parallel

    P

    CC

    A A

    P

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    Transactions between 2 people may be complementary or

    crossed. They are COMPLEMENTARY when the lines

    representing the transaction are parallel

    P

    CC

    A A

    P

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    Types of Transactions

    Crossed Transaction:

    This causes most difficulties in social

    situations.

    May be, you should improve your

    teaching.

    You always find fault with me whatever I

    do Parent-Child interaction.

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    There are 72 possible types of crossed interaction

    P

    CC

    A A

    P

    Big Little

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    Big parent addresses Little child (you always think you can get away with

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    Big parent addresses Little child ( you always think you can get away with

    things,, but just wait..everyone gets what they deserve in the end), & Littles

    adult responding in turn to Bigs adult (my observation is that people dont

    always get what they observe)

    P

    CC

    A A

    P

    Big Little

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    Data Exchange in Adult / Adult Transaction:1. What is the yearly salary for this job?

    2. It starts at $35,000.

    P

    CC

    A A

    P

    1

    2

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    Sympathetic Parent / Parent Transition:1. Those children really miss their father.

    2. Yes, lets take them to the park for a little fun.

    P

    CC

    A A

    P1

    2

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    Playful Child / Child Transaction:1. I really like you.

    2. I like you too.

    P

    CC

    A A

    P

    1

    2

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    Child / Nurturing Parent Transaction:1. Im so worried about my son I cant concentrate on this report.

    2. You can leave work early to go by the hospital and see him.

    P

    CC

    A A

    P1

    2

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    1. Boss: What time is it?

    2. Secretary: Youre always in such a hurry!

    P

    CC

    A A

    P

    1

    2

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    1. Husband: Can you take the car to be serviced today?

    2. Wife: Today I iron. Johnny expects a birthday cake.

    The cat has to go to the vet, & now you want

    me to take the car in! Are you crazy?

    P

    CC

    A A

    P

    1

    2

    1 Boss: I need 25 copies of this report for the board

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    1. Boss: I need 25 copies of this report for the board

    meeting this afternoon. Can you get them for

    me?

    2. Secretary: Arent you lucky youve got me around to take

    care of you?

    P

    CC

    A A

    P

    1

    2

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    Scientist A: There may be some variables we havent considered for

    this experiment.

    Scientist B: So what, who cares around here?

    P

    CC

    A A

    P

    A

    B