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Psychology of loveTRANSCRIPT
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LOVING & LIKING
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THEORIES OF LOVESTYLES OF LOVE (Lee)Primary StylesLove of BeautyPlayful LoveCompanionate Love
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OTHER STYLES WHICH COMBINE PRIMARY STYLESObsessive LoveRealistic LoveIS IT REALLY A LOVE STYLE OR AN IDEAL?Altruistic Love
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TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE (Sternberg)
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TRIANGULAR THEORY COMPONENTS:IntimacyPassionCommitment
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DISTINGUISHING LIKING AND LOVINGPASSION VS. REWARDS (Berscheid & Walster)FRIENDSHIP VS. LOVE (Davis & Todd)LIKE, LOVE, IN LOVE (Lamm & Wiesmann)
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CLOSENESS IN RELATIONSHIPS FEHRS RESEARCHTrustCaringHonestyFriendshipRespect
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MAXWELLS RESEARCHSeparation DistressSharing of Attitudes, Values, InterestsNaturalnessSimilarityFollowing (Seeking out and spending time with)Giving and Receiving HelpCommunicating About Important Issues
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ATTACHMENT STYLESSECUREAVOIDANTANXIOUS/AMBIVALENT
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CONCLUSIONS FROM STUDIES OF LIKING & LOVINGLIKING AND LOVING DIFFERIn Degree - Shared Characteristics Vary In IntensityIn Kind - Have Different CharacteristicsOver TimeEMOTIONAL INTENSITY IS USUALLY GREATER FOR LOVE RELATIONSHIPS --ESPECIALLY WHEN THERE ARE PERCEIVED THREATS TO THE RELATIONSHIP
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PASSION & PHYSIOLOGICAL AROUSAL IS A PRIMARY DISTINGUISHING CHARACTERISTIC OF EARLY ROMANTIC LOVELIKING & LOVING SOMETIMES OVERLAP (E.g. Friendship Component of Love) BUT MAY NOTLONG LASTING ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS LIKELY TO HAVE A STRONG FRIENDSHIP COMPONENT TO THEM
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CHARACTERISTICS OF CLOSENESS ARE MORE LIKELY TO CUT ACROSS MANY TYPES OF LIKING AND LOVING RELATIONSHIPS
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COMMUNICATING CLOSENESSDIFFICULTY NOT SURPRISING Overlap of features in various types of intimate relationshipsMultiplicity of terms usedPotentially ambiguous referentsAMBIGUITY INHERENT IN DIALOGUE ABOUT INTIMACY CAN BE USEFUL OR PROBLEMATIC
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SOMETIMES PEOPLE ASSOCIATE DIFFERENT TYPES OF BEHAVIOR WITH PARTICULAR TYPES OF INTIMACY--E.g.,Husband: I work late because I love you.Wife: You work late because you dont care about our relationship.
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SOMETIMES PEOPLE AGREE ON THE TYPE OF BEHAVIOR WHICH CHARACTERIZES A CLOSE RELTIONSHIP, BUT THAT BEHAVIOR IS DESTRUCTIVE--E.g.,Husband: You make and serve me a lot of rich food because you love me.Wife: I agree.