a monsoon wedding. 6th november 2010

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K @njrnnj xmccajh

Cw* Dwarejkfk K*Y*


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K @njrnnj xmccajh*

@kjq b}os}wmr kbwnrr sem xnwoc bnjracmw wkaj sn gm k hnnc n`mj lnw xmccajhr* Rn`m m|mj

ek|m k yewkrm sn cmrbwagm ckqr xemj sem r}j reajmr gwahesoq sewn}he bon}cr kjc wkaj6 A

wm`m`gmw/ kr beaocwmj/ xm xn}oc f}`y kr sen}he xm ekc rywajhr ksskbemc sn n}w lmms/

ren}sajh ks sem sny nl n}w |nabmr/ Lnumr xmccajh+ Wkaj kjc r}j xkr ajcmmc k hnnc

bn`gajksanj/ as `kcm `m ekyyq* Semwm xkr koxkqr kj kjsabayksanj seks rn`mseajh hnnc

xn}oc ekyymj/ k ckq las lnw sem kjhmor sn ckjbm* Lnumr/ bnjracmwmc bom|mw kja`kor/ `}rs

ek|m djnxj semrm xmwm o}bdq ckqr sn hms `kwwamc* K xms gwacm ar bnjracmwmc k o}bdq gwacm

aj Askoq Rynrk gkhjksk/ rynrk lnws}jksk* K xms xmccajh wmr}osr aj k ekyyq `kwwakhm

kbbnwcajh sn sem Lwmjbe @kwakhm yo}|am}u/ `kwakhm em}wm}u* Wkaj ar bnjracmwmc k hnnc

n`mj aj Hmw`kjq/ Rxmcmj kjc sem ]*R* snn***

Rsaoo/ xemj `q ck}hesmw r}ccmjoq kjjn}jbmc seks emw lakjb kjc rem xkjsmc sn hms `kwwamc

aj F}oq ajrsmkc nl sem mkwoamw-sen}hes-nl Cmbm`gmw/ A xkr k oassom ymwyomumc* A xkr bnj|ajbmc

seks aj k basq oadm @}`gka/ lnumr bmwskajoq ekc jn wnom aj ekrsmjajh sear cmbaranj* Senrm xen

bk`m sn djnx kgn}s as muboka`mc/ Ne jns aj F}oq xemj wkajr xaoo gm ks semaw ymkd+ A

cnjs seajd masemw sem h}mrsr nw sem enrsr xmobn`m k xms xmccajh aj Ajcak* G}s A snnd rnokbm

aj sem lkbs seks F}oq ar k `njse nl kg}jckjs oalm/ oalm ar sewa|ajh aj F}oq+ Ajrmbsr kwm

ajbacmjskooq/ kg}jckjs snn*

Nj sem r}gfmbs nl F}oq/ rn`m }jdjnxj k}senw ekc sear sn rkq6 F}rs klsmw sem cmkse nl sem

lonxmwr/ Kjc gmlnwm semq kwm g}wamc aj rjnx/ Semwm bn`mr k lmrsa|ko rmkrnj/ Xemj Jks}wm ar

koo khonx* Xemj jks}wm ar koo khonx/ xeq gnsemw kgn}s sem wkaj> Rn A rskwsmc `q

kwwkjhm`mjsr lnw sem gah ckq*

Xmccajhr kwm gmk}sal}o nbbkranjr* Semq bkj korn gm {}asm jmw|m-xwkbdajh* Jn `kssmw enx

senwn}he sem ywmykwksanjr kwm/ ks sa`mr/ ekyymjajhr gmqnjc qn}w bnjswno bkj omkc sn kxdxkwc kjc

l}jjq ajbacmjsr* Xmccajhr rmm` sn lnoonx @}wyeqr Okx kjqseajh seks bkj hn xwnjh/ xaoo*

Sear rmm`r sn gm sem bkrm `nwm nlsmj sekj jns*


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Njbm sem xmccajh kjc wmbmysanj cksmr kwm rms/ sem rmombsanj nl sem xmccajh aj|asm gmbn`m kj

a`ynwskjs krymbs nl sem ywmykwksanjr* Kj aj|asm ar sem |mwq lawrs hoa`yrm h}mrsr wmbma|m kgn}s sem

nbbkranj kjc gmajh rn/ as ekr sn gm bkwml}ooq `kcm sn omk|m k okrsajh a`ywmrranj* G}s enx cn qn}

hn kgn}s `kdajh nw bennrajh sem ymwlmbs aj|asksanjr>

Sem xacm |kwamsq nl aj|asksanjr k|kaokgom bkj gm cnxjwahes n|mwxemo`ajh* Bennrajh xnjs gm

callab}os/ al qn} ek|m k bomkw acmk nl enx qn} xkjs qn}w aj|asksanj sn gm* Bmwskaj seajhr kwm k `}rs

nj sem aj|asksanj ajbo}cajh/ sem xmccajh nw wmbmysanj cksm/ sa`m/ onbksanj/ kjc k wnkc `ky*

Sem ynxmw nl sem Ajsmwjms bkjjns gm }jcmwmrsa`ksmc aj sear `kssmw* @kjq njoajm rn}wbmr nl

xmccajh aj|asksanjr nllmw ywabmr seks kwm `}be `nwm bn`ymsasa|m kr bn`ykwmc sn semaw gwabd kjc

`nwskw bn}jsmwykwsr* Xmccajh-aj|asm-renyyajh njoajm ar k fnq/ rk|mr sa`m/ mjmwhq kjc `njmq*

@kjq k ekwwamc xmccajh yokjjmw xaoo lajc as {}asm bnj|mjamjs/ sn ras ks en`m kjc nwcmw semaw

ywmlmwwmc aj|asm xase sem boabd nl k `n}rm*

Seksr mukbsoq xeks A cac/ klsmw njm |aras sn k ywajsajh ywmrr aj k cajhq ajc}rswako mrsksm/

xase `q eahe-rsw}jh ck}hesmw ko`nrs ren}sajh ks sem skua cwa|mw lnw skdajh k xwnjh s}wj/

xeabe aj lkbs/ A djmx xkr bnwwmbs* A ekc sn dmmy {}ams/ kjc wmcmm` sem ras}ksanj gmlnwm

seajhr hns xnwrm* Semwm kjc semj/ A cmbacmc6 Jn `nwm |arasr sn kjq ywajsajh ywmrr/ xm xaoo

cn sear rassajh ks en`m* Xm r}wlmc sem Jms/ benrm sem gkrab bkwc/ hk|m sem `kssmw sn gm

ywajsmc/ ywnnl wmkc/ swkjrlmwwmc sem `njmq/ kjc lajkooq sem bkwcr xmwm cmoa|mwmc ks en`m gq

bn}wamw*

N|mw qmkwr nl gmajh rkccomc xase nrsmjsksan}r kjc dajh-ravmc aj|asmr/ wmyomsm xase

kwh}`mjsr kgn}s xen xn}oc bkwwq r}be k okwhm bkwc konjh lnw cawmbsanjr/ kjc lajcajh sem

wahes `mkjr sn carynrm sem` nll oksmw/ A ekc k |mwq bomkw acmk nl xeks sem bkwc ren}oc nw

ren}ocjs gm* A k` r}wm jnjm nl }r ar kj k|ac bnoombsnw nl xmccajh bkwcr* Rn A cmbacmc sn hn

lnw k bkwc seks xkr ra`yom/ momhkjs/ sn sem ynajs kjc nl k ravm r`koo mjn}he sn las ajsn k

bo}sbe*


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Bwmksm kj aj|asm seks ekr qn}w nxj }ja{}m rsk`y nj as* Al qn} ek|m sn kccwmrr bmwskaj

bawb}`rskjbmr nw rsabdq ras}ksanjr xeaom lnw }oksajh sem smus lnw qn}w aj|asksanj/ ra`yoq

muywmrr qn}wrmol kjc sem wmrs xaoo lkoo ajsn yokbm* Njbm qn}w h}mrs oars ar lajkoavmc/ dmmy 79 ymw

bmjs `nwm sekj seks j}`gmw kr sem lajko j}`gmw nl aj|asmr sn gm ywajsmc*

Xmccajhr kwm nbbkranjr nl hwkjcm}w kjc bmomgwksanjr kjc lnnc yokqr k |asko wnom aj cmbacajh sem

rksarlkbsanj {}nsamjs nl h}mrsr* Se}r/ muswk bkwm ren}oc gm skdmj xeaom cmbacajh sem xmccajh

bksmwajh `mj}* Xeksm|mw sem benrmj `mj}/ mjr}wm seks koo dajcr nl ywmlmwmjbmr kwm skdmj bkwm nl

ajbo}cajh |mhmskwakjr/ cakgmsabr/ nw ymnyom xase rymbako jmmcr* As ar |mwq a`ynwskjs sn bembd sem

{}koasq kjc skrsm nl sem lnnc gmlnwmekjc* Xmccajh bksmwajh `mj}r ren}oc ek|m ymwrnjkoasq kjc

o}u}wq aj k ymwlmbs bn`gajksanj*

Sem lawrs kjc lnwm`nrs ynajs ar qn}w g}chms* Qn} `}rs onnd lnw sem gmrs rmw|abm ywn|acmw xaseaj

qn}w g}chms* Qn} `}rs gm |mwq rymbalab kgn}s rmombsajh sem wahes dajc nl bksmwmw lnw sem wm{}awmc

`mj}*

Xmccajh lnnc ar bw}bako rajbm as gnjcr sem enrs kjc sem h}mrsr* Jns `kjq wm`m`gmw sem bnon}w nl

sem gwacmr kssawm nw sem xmccajh cmbnwksanjr/ g}s lmx lnwhms k wmkooq r}`ys}n}r xmccajh lmkrs*

Rmw|ajh hnnc lnnc ar korn sem gmrs xkq sn kyywmbaksm h}mrsr lnw ek|ajh bn`m sn sem xmccajh*

Se}r xmccajh bksmwajh `mj}r `}rs gm mubmysanjkooq a`ywmrra|m qms rskq kllnwckgom* Ekyyq kjcrksarlamc h}mrsr kwm sem gmrs wmxkwc lnw sem ekwc xnwd kjc sa`m rymjs aj `kdajh sem xmccajh lmkrs

k hwkjc r}bbmrr*

Qn} `kq korn wm{}awm rn`m k`n}js nl bksmwajh ks en`m aj sem w}j-}y sn sem xmccajh* Kjc

ks sear ynajs aj sem jkwwksa|m/ A ek|m sn `mjsanj Dwarejkj bksmwmw* Em lawrs mjsmwmc n}w

oa|mr kr sem bksmwmw c}wajh sem cmkse bmwm`njamr nl `q oksm e}rgkjc kjc em cac k ymwlmbs

fng* Rn xemj xm xmwm yabdajh k bksmwmw lnw koo sem ywm-xmccajh l}jbsanjr/ ear xkr sem lawrs

jk`m seks mjsmwmc n}w `ajcr* A ywn`ysoq yenjmc kjc krdmc al em xn}oc skdm nj sem

bksmwajh* A ekc sn `kdm lnoonx-}y bkoor rm|mwko sa`mr/ sn mkbe nl xeabe ear bnjrskjs

wmfnajcmw xkr Cnjs gm klwkac/ yenjm `m k ckq gmlnwm qn} jmmc sem lnnc* Semj f}rs ckqr

gmlnwm sem nbbkranj/ em snoc `m em xn}oc njoq bksmw lnw sem `memjcal}jbsanj kjc jns sem

nsemw ckqr rajbm sem j}`gmwr xmwm rn lmx* A xkr l}wan}r* A e}jh }y sem yenjm/ djnxajh seks

sn onnd lnw kjnsemw bksmwmw ks sear okrs en}w/ xn}oc gm jn mkrq skrd lnw r}be k oa`asmc


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j}`gmw nl ymnyom* Semj k ckq gmlnwm/ Dwarejkj Bksmwmw hk|m `m k bkoo* @q lawrs ajrsajbs

xkr jns sn yabd }y sem yenjm/ g}s A cac/ kjc em ajlnw`mc `m seks em xn}oc bksmw sem

wm{}awmc j}`gmwr* Em kccmc/ A ek|m hwmks wmrymbs lnw qn}/ A xaoo m|mj ha|m `q oalm al

jmbmrrkwq* Jn jmmc lnw qn}w oalm/ A wmyoamc/ Koo A jmmc ar mahes ckggkr*

Nwhkjarajh rskll ks sem xmccajh. wmbmysanj |mj}m ar ajbwmcagoq a`ynwskjs sem kssmjsanj sn cmskao

lwn` rskll ks sem |mj}m ren}oc gm nl kj mubmysanjkooq eahe rskjckwc nj sear nl koo ckqr* Kr

onjh kr qn} kwm bomkw aj qn}w ajrsw}bsanjr kjc cnjs yokbm }jwmkrnjkgom cm`kjcr nj sem

rskll/ semq ren}oc cmoa|mw kjc oa|m }y sn qn}w muymbsksanjr nl k ymwlmbs ckq*

Kykws lwn` sem rskll/ qn}w |mj}m ren}oc korn gm k bn`yomsm ykbdkhm nl rykbm/ rmksajh

kwwkjhm`mjs lnw sem h}mrsr/ rmw|abmr/ bksmwajh/ cmbnwksanj/ ykwdajh lkbaoasamr msb xaseaj qn}w

g}chms* Qn} rskws gq bwmksajh k oars nl wm{}awm`mjsr seks qn}w ymwlmbs |mj}m ren}oc `ksbe/ kjc

semj wmrmkwbe sem ynsmjsako yokbmr qn} kwm bnjracmwajh* Sem onbksanj nl sem xmccajh |mj}m ar korn

bwasabko kr as ren}oc gm kbbmrragom gq m|mwqnjm* K ymwlmbs |mj}m xaoo cmlajasmoq `kdm qn}w

xmccajh wmbmysanj kj }jlnwhmsskgom muymwamjbm lnw sem h}mrsr*

Sem yensnhwkyeq ar kjnsemw a`ynwskjs krymbs nl k xmccajh* Sem yensnhwkyemw/ kj kwsars ykajsajh

aj oahes/ ar wmbnwcajh sem bmomgwksanj nl qn}w oalm kjc on|m* Sen}he yabs}wmr kwm a`ynwskjs/ ks

xmccajhr/ m`yekrar ar yokbmc `nwm nj nsemw krymbsr/ xeaom }jcmwmrsa`ksajh sem `nrs okrsajh

kwsalkbsr lwn` qn}w xmccajh/ sem yensnhwkyer* Xeaom onndajh lnw k hnnc yensnhwkyemw/ lnoonx

qn}w emkws/ gmbk}rm qn} `kq jns djnx xeq qn} oadm k yensnhwkyemw(r xnwd/ g}s qn} xaoo djnx

seks qn} oadm as*

Aj sear ajrskjbm/ rajbm sem hwnn`r lkàoq xkr m{}kooq aj|no|mc aj enrsajh sem l}jbsanj/

seajhr gmbk`m `}be mkramw* As xkr k fnajs wmrynjragaoasq* Sem `mmsajhr aj sear bnjjmbsanj

emoymc aj gnjcajh sem lkàoamr `}be gmlnwm sem kbs}ko m|mjs* Semwm xkr k ons nl hnncxaoo

kjc bnnymwksanj gmsxmmj sem lkàoamr*

Bnàjh gkbd sn sem wkajr kjc F}oq/ xm ekc snwwmjsako wkajr nj sem ckq nl sem `memjca/ sem

xmccajh kjc sem wmbmysanj ckqr* Sem l}wan}r xajc kjc sem cnxjyn}w kccmc k sn}be nl


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mubasm`mjs kjc koo senrm xen xaremc sn gm k ykws nl sem bmomgwksanjr gwk|mc sem xmksemw

kjc kssmjcmc* G}s sem abajh nj sem bkdm xkr k lonnc aj n}w nxj en}rm+

Sem noc kckhm hnmr/ Aj sem kjsr en}rm/ sem cmx ar sem lonnc* Aj n}wr/ gnwm xmoo xksmw xkr*

Njm nl sem skyr aj sem en}rm ekc gmmj }jdjnxajhoq omls nymj/ rajbm semwm ekc gmmj jn gnwm

xmoo xksmw r}yyoq lnw k bn}yom nl ckqr* Rn sem jahes xm wms}wjmc en`m klsmw sem xmccajh

bmwm`njq/ A nymjmc sem cnnw sn rsmy ajsn xksmw* K ons nl xksmw* As xkr aj koo sem wnn`r/ xase

k rswkq asm` nw sxn lonksajh gq*

Semj rskwsmc sem àrranj sn wm`n|m sem xksmw/ nj k xkw lnnsajh* Klsmw sem ajasako renbd/ koo

nl }r hns g}rq/ aj koo n}w xmccajh lajmwq/ rkwar s}bdmc djmm eahe/ ca|mwsajh xksmw ajsn sem

gksewnn r xase gwnn`r kjc nsemw ykwkyemwjkoak* R}wywarajhoq/ jn njm xkr kjhwq4 jngncq

ren}smc* Semwm xkr bn`yomsm gnjenàm* A seajd as gwn}hes n}s sem beaoc aj koo nl }r* A djnx

as wmàjcmc `m nl n}w beaocennc ckqr aj Bkoab}s c}wajh sem `njrnnjr/ xemj xm xn}oc

bnoombs qn}jh lareoajhr aj Enwoabdr gnssomr/ nw rkao ykymw gnksr xase k xabd ajracm/ swqajh sn

rmm xenrm xn}oc wmkbe lkwsemrs*

Rea|k/ n}w cwa|mw/ s}wjmc n}s sn gm sem h}kwcakj kjhmo nj sear àrranj* Em xkr `kajoq

ajrsw}`mjsko aj y}ssajh sem en}rm gkbd ajsn nwcmw* Sem mjc wmr}os xkr seks xm xmwm koo

muek}rsmc g}s rswkjhmoq ekyyq/ kjc n}w en`m jnx onndmc senwn}heoq bomkj kjc xkremc*

@q jmyemx kjc ck}hesmwr rnnj rmssomc cnxj xase semaw ywnàrmc yavvk kjc `q rarsmwr kjc

A bkoomc lnw lnnc lwn` k jmkwgq wmrsk}wkjs* Xm koo mjfnqmc sem oksm jahes cajjmw klsmw k

senwn}heoq muek}rsajh ckq* Jmasemw wkaj jnw lonnc bn}oc `kw sear fnql}o nbbkranj/ as njoq

kccmc k bmwskaj mom`mjs nl kc|mjs}wm* Aj sem ymkd nl `njrnnj xemj l}wan}r xajcr kjc

snwwmjsako wkaj kwm sem jnw` nl sem ckq As xnjs wkaj nj sem xmccajh ckq `kq rmm` oadm

ynrasa|m seajdajh* G}s semwm kwm rn`m ajrskjbmr/ xemj ynrasa|m seajdajh cnmr jns koxkqr omkc

sn ynrasa|m wmr}osr kjc xmksemw ar njm nl senrm* Ajrsmkc/ as ar gmssmw sn ek|m k |akgom wkaj

yokj*

Wkaj okremc cnxj kr sem rdq lkcmc ajsn ckwdjmrr* G}s sem ekoo/ xkw` kjc rmb}wm/ xkr laoomc

xase bmomgwksanj kjc sem dajc nl on|m A xaoo wm`m`gmw sewn}hen}s `q oalm*

a monsoon wedding. 6th november 2010

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