The mission of A Safe Place is to break the cycle of domestic abuse by providing crisis intervention, support services, education and advocacy to survivors, their families and the community while maintaining . . .

“AN OPEN DOOR TO SAFETY” FOR SURVIVORS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE”

WHAT IS ABUSE?

A Safe Place defines domestic abuse as the coercive or violent pattern of behavior used by one person in a relationship to gain power and control over the other.

Domestic abuse is illegal and some examples include: if someone injures you; threatens you/fear for your safety; forces/pressures you into sexual acts; destroys/ threatens to destroy your property; or enters your home against your wishes (if not residing together).

They further expand on this definition by explaining that these examples can also be categorized in terms of:

As you can see, domestic abuse goes far beyond inflicting “physical” injury alone. A more comprehensive list of acts detailing these additional factors are contained in their brochure.

Verbal Abuse: name-calling, putting you down in every aspect of your existence, and blaming you for the abuse.

Emotional Abuse: includes threats, isolation, manipulation, insults, destruction of property, public humiliation, and accusations of affairs, threats of suicide, self injury, or homicide if you leave.

Financial Abuse: includes all aspects in connection with any and all income related matters.

Physical Abuse: includes any forceful behavior such as hitting, chocking, slapping, using weapons, driving recklessly, holding you down, and

preventing you from leaving.

THE BROCHURE IS VERY DETAILED. YOU CAN DIRECTLY OBTAIN A COPY OF SAME TO FULLY APPRECIATE THE

COMPLEX NATURE OF ABUSE BY VISITING THEIR WEBSITE.

“IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW SUSPECTS BEING A

VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, A SAFE

PLACE WOULD BE A VALUABLE RESOURCE FOR

ASSISTANCE!!!!”

First established in 1976 to serve as a domestic violence shelter for victims with the additional goal of prevention and elimination of same. They are a non-profit organization that provides free shelter and support services for those who need them.

They primarily support communities in the Rockingham County area with locations in Portsmouth (2), Rochester and Salem. All services are free and confidential.

It’s inception dates back to in or around the time of the “second wave feminist movement” and the introduction of the first abuse hotline established in 1971. The first actual “shelter” was opened in St. Paul, Minnesota in 1975--so A Safe Place is among one of the beginning pioneers in terms of its development.

A Safe Place (originally named Seacoast Taskforce on Family Violence) was made up of both men and women with the primary focus to educate the community about domestic violence--teaming up with police agencies,

schools, hospitals and medical providers.

The first shelter was a rented a four bedroom house on Islington Street in Portsmouth, N.H. which housed 181 women and 253 children in its’ first 18 months of operation. Thereafter they purchased a permanent residence, the location of which remains confidential.

They work with the AmeriCorps Victim Assistance Program (a multi-agency collaboration which is located in Concord, N.H. providing services to victims of domestic-sexual violence and stalking.

Not only do they serve the individual victims of domestic violence, but also their children, extended family and friends, and the community.

Because of their “open door policy”, they prohibit discrimination on the basis of gender, age, health status (including HIV-positive) physical, mental/emotional ability, sexual orientation, gender identity/expression, socioeconomic status, race, national origin, immigration status, religious and political affiliation.

They pride themselves as being more than a shelter. They are a FIRST STEP for victims of domestic abuse who want to regain control over their lives.

A Safe Place maintains a 24 hour, toll-free hotline (1-800-854-3552).

Their “home base” is located in Portsmouth, New Hampshire. Due to their obvious need for confidentiality, they do not provide a direct address,

however, their mailing address for donations and other administrative correspondence is 6 Greenleaf Woods, Ste. 101, Portsmouth, NH 03801. They

also maintain offices (with local, separate hot-line numbers) located in:

(1) Portsmouth, N.H. (separate from above contact): 603-436-7924; (2) Rochester, N.H.: 603-330-0214; and (3) Salem, N.H.: 603-890-6392.

A website is also available at: http://asafeplacenh.org/, HOWEVER . . .

In keeping with A Safe Place’s commitment in providing CONFIDENTIAL services, they offer further, critical advice on behalf of victims involved in these compromising domestic violence/abuse situations by stating--via their website –the following:

“Please remember that your visit to this site or any other site on the internet is saved to your computer. If you think your computer is being monitored and may affect your safety, please consider using other computer resources such as the public library, your work computer or another public computer.”

SERVICES PROVIDED

A Safe Place provides extensive services with regard to issues of domestic violence ranging from support groups to assist victims, their family and the community as well as a wide range of informative educational programs.

They provide crucial assistance by working with the victims individually to create a safety plan in connection with their abusive situation. The safety plan is designed to encompass a variety of situations--whether the individual is directly involved in an abusive relationship, leaving the relationship, after the relationship is terminated, or with regard to the overall emotional well being of the victim.

An example outlining the guidelines of the safety plan is provided in Figure 1 on the following slide.

Enhance Safety in Abusive

Relationships

Important Phone Numbers.

Code Word for when to call 911.

Escape Route.

Know whereto go.

Make your house safer i.e.

weapons.

Enhance Safety in Explosive Moment

Stay near exit.

Have phone near by.

Enhance Safety When Leaving

Reach out to others.

Have money ready.

Have a plan ready.

Plan for your children

Put together a bag.

Enhance Safety After You Leave

Consider a protective order.

Upgrade Security.

Get the word out.

Change your routine.

Get support.

Emotional Health

Think positive.

Read.

Get support.

Do what is safe for you.

FIGURE 1.

They provide a “confidential” emergency shelter for victims—a critical component required in order to keep women and children safe from imminent danger. The shelter is available to anyone in need and provides not only housing but includes weekly house meetings and support groups.

They provide Court and Social Service advocacy to assist individuals in:

(1) obtaining protective orders (temporary and permanent)

(2) accompany victims to court proceedings, and (3) to refer these individuals to pro bono services

when needed.

They also provide comprehensive information and education through interactive presentations and workshops as provided for in their brochure . . .

ALL FREE OF CHARGE!

At present, A Safe Place “employs”:

12 Full time staff 2 part time staff

And , elicits the aid of:

4 AVAP volunteers as well as Numerous additional volunteers and interns

--to help break the cycle of domestic violence.

Accordingly, in order for the organization to maintain providing the unreimbursed services they do, it is necessary to fund the organization’s efforts through various avenues (in terms of both monetary sources as well volunteering efforts). In this regard . . .

SPONSORS

WISH LIST

RECYCLED CELL PHONES

A Safe Place encourages members of the community to donate their old cell phones by either dropping them off at the shelter or an organization known as Shelter Alliance. Shelter Alliance recycles the old cell phones and equips them with the capacity to directly access local 911 services. They then provide these phones to domestic violence shelters who in turn provide same directly to the victims for emergency situations.

Volunteers are required to commit to 30 hours of interactive training (training sessions held twice a year) and to engage in 16 hours of supervised “on-the-job” training before being placed into a volunteer position. They assist by providing services and related advocacy through phone contact, support in the court system, and at social service agencies.

Not only does A Safe Place provide services to human victims of domestic abuse, they also provide services and advocate on behalf of our four legged friends . . .

. . . in accordance with guidelines set forth by the National Humane Society.

PET ABUSE AND ITS CONNECTION WITH DOMESTIC ABUSE

Pet Abuse & Domestic Abuse:

Signs of Hope

Publication of A Safe Place

Domestic Abuse Support Services

They also provide a comprehensive seasonal publication which includes, amongst other things, personal

domestic violence success stories.

If you examine the director’s corner of the publication more closely, it explains that in addition to the basic services provided, they’re described as

“portals” to re-establishing a life without abuse. They additionally provide extended services to these individuals , for example,

buying new locks to fix broken ones; providing clothes and supplies for work and school, gas and food

cards, toiletries and sometimes furniture (as resources allow); assistance in finding permanent housing; making additional human service referrals; and in some instances, by providing plane tickets to other states or

countries for an individual’s safety (as resources allow).

A Safe Place is sincerely committed to accomplishing it’s ultimate mission however they can while consistently maintaining their primary purpose . . . .

To remain focused on their mission,

“To break the cycle of domestic abuse by providing crisis intervention, support services, education and advocacy to survivors, their families and the community.”