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THIS NEW YEAR'S RUNS THE TOWNRUNS RIHANNA

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17 Trendsetter17 Trendsetter

16 My Style Blueprint

19 Funny Thing About Life

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15 Lifestyle15 Lifestyle

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4 Your Say

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Heeello Abu Dhabi !!

We've had a wonderful looooong break as wonderful occasions

converged to make these weeks restful and family focused. There's the

'big eid' for Muslims that marks the end of Hajj--the Eid Al Adha--and

of course our nation celebrates its birthday with a bang, just as North

Americans mark Thanksgiving, and Christians everywhere prepare for

Christmas. So much to celebrate all around.

The activity volume in the capital pumps up with so much to look

forward to: Fifa Club World Cup comes to town with the Capitala

Tennis World Championship close on its heels. Then for music fans

there's The Killers, Creamfields and new year celebrations come alive

with the babe of Barbados, Rihanna.

Through it all, this is a special time to reflect. On what an interesting

year its been; and just how fast time flies. A time to think of how we can

each make a difference in this world in the smallest of gestures.

Do good, stay safe and be happy.

this month

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SaySaySaySayYourSaySayTeam & Statistics:Al Ahli (UAE)

The team has participated in the AFC Champions League twice and was eliminated in the group stage both times. Key players: Hosny Abd Rabo, Clederson Cesar, Bare, Faisal Khalil, Ahmad Khalil and Ismail Al Hammadi.

Pohang Steelers (KOR)

They were Asia’s first club to win the continentalchampionship three times including this year. Key players: Kim Gi-Dong, Choi Hyo-Jin, Denilson, No Byung-Jun, Stevo Ristik, Hwang Jae-Won and Kim Hyung-Il.

Atlante (MEX)

They hold the competition's best defensive record of 7 goals by Los Potros de Hierro during CONCACAF Cham-pions League. Key players: Federico Vilar, Gabriel Pereyra, Christian Bermudez, Luis Gabriel Rey and Rafael Marquez.

Auckland City (NZL)

Star striker Keryn Jordan scored 8 goals in 4 matches in the 2008/09 OFC O-League. Key Players: James Pritchett, Ivan Vicelich and Keryn Jordan. Estudiantes de La Plata (ARG)

Estudiantes de La Plata (ARG)

The first team since the tournament's current format was introduced in 2000 to win the competition after coming through 16 qualifying matches. Key players: Leandro Desabato, Cristian Cellay, Rodrigo Brana, Juan Sebastian Veron, Mauro Boselli and Jose Luis Calderon.

FC Barcelona (ESP)

Barcelona was the highest-scoring team in the lastChampions League with 30 goals. Key players: Carles Puyol, Rafael Marquez, Xavi, Andres Iniesta, Samuel Eto'o, Lionel Messi and Thierry Henry.

TP Mazembe Englebert (COD)

In 42 years, TP Mazembe has competed in 5 CAF Champions League till the finals. Key players: Robert Kidiaba, Eric Nkulukuta, Tshai Mukinayi, Patou Kabangu, Narcisse Ekanga, Tresor Mputu and Alain Kaluyitukadioko.

HotWhat'sin Abu DhabiZayed Sports City Stadium / Mohammed Bin Zayed Stadium

CAPITALA WORLDTENNIS CHAMPIONSHIP

Abu Dhabi International Tennis Complex, Zayed Sports CityDec 31 – Jan 2

“Abu Dhabi is a wonderful city and I think what it is doing to promote the game of tennis across the region is fantastic.” – Roger Federer

The Capitala World Tennis Championship is back and six of the world’s top professional tennis players will be competing for the championship trophy. Here is the line-up of tennis superstars: Roger Federer, Rafael Nadal, Jo-Wilfried Tsonga, Nikolay Davydenko, Stanislas Wawrinka and Robin Soderling.

We were a bit disappointed when Fernando Verdasco, the world number 8 withdrew from the event but the announcement that Stanislas Wawrinka will be taking his place was cause for merriment. Afterall, Wawrinka teamed up with Federer and won a doubles gold medal at the 2008 Beijing Olympic Games and he will now be competing against the fellow Swiss for the Capitala trophy. Tennis enthusiasts will go wild for sure! Meanwhile Capitala Community Cup tournaments (Nov 7 – Dec 5) have kicked off to engage and attract youngsters towards the world of tennis. And the prize? An exclusive session with one of the world’s top players at the Capitala World Tennis Championship. So re-string those racquets and keep ‘em ready, the ball will soon be in your court!

For details on the Capitala Community Cup, visit: www.capitalawtc.com

UAE: Keeping The CovenantAre you ready to be a part of history? Celebrate UAE’s 38th National Day with ADACH as they organize the longest traditional seating in collaboration with Ausha bint Hussain Cultural Center. Thousands of volunteers from across our capital city will be participating under the slogan “keeping the covenant...and proud”. Don’t miss this chance to profess your love for the land of plenty. Do get there on time as the seating will last for 38 minutes and end with a recitation of UAE’s National Anthem.

When? Wednesday, 2nd December 2009 at 5 pm Where? Breakwater - Abu DhabiHow? With your help and best wishes!

Dear Tempo,

I am new to Abu Dhabi and thoroughly confused about tipping in restaurants. I see that there is a service charge (which is really quite high) added to all bills but do these go to the restaurant or does some of it trickle down to the server? Most people I know don’t leave a tip because they say the service charge is too high and it already goes to the waiter, but I have a feeling this doesn’t always happen. Tempo, can you find out for us, so we don’t stiff those who serve us well?

Anna Kumar

Gum shoes on, Anna. We’ll report next issue. Ed

Dear Tempo, I appreciate your magazine for its ‘Making a difference’ section. There are fellow men and women around our city who need help in one way or the other and Tempo’s effort to connect us with them is really encouraging. But I also urge readers to talk to people around them and find out how to help on a personal level. Some families never make their pain public, and they need our support maybe even more than the organised charities. Contribute and share your humanity. Thank you Tempo!

Amina Rasheed

wallAbhinav Manmohan: Tempo is probably one of the best magazine's to come out in recent times with vibrant colours and catchy themes. Keep up the good work.

SunnyLikeThis: Walk UAE tomorrow! Fight Diabetes people :)MounaKh @AbuDhabiTempo love Jalal Luqman's work. too busy to go see it though :s

UAEDisaster : IT WAS really nice, i couldn't walk for 2 days. 5 km was too much for me lol thanks for bringing up the memories again : P

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Variety, spice and everything nice!

Julian is a Malaysian expat living in Abu Dhabi. A self-confessed foodie, he likes exploring dining spots across the city. This month he tells us about a local restaurant he recently visited:

Golden Fork is a little eatery in the heart of town which is really easy on the pocket! After popping by at the Sheraton for 2 pints each (total of four) of Amstel Lite, which only cost Dh 50, we wandered over to Golden Fork, for our Chinese dinner. Slurp! We were hungry!“This was my third visit there. The first two times were

simply takeaway experiences (really good BBQ chicken, and half-decent nasi goreng). This time we sat down and had a proper meal - fried rice and really good mixed vegetables with lots of oyster sauce type gravy. The Manchurian chicken was a little spicy for my taste, and the hoi-sin beef was half decent. Overall, it was still a good meal, and we were stuffed. About Dh 33 per head, well priced!

Hmmm… located near KFC on Hamdan Street, Golden Fork seems to offer something for everyone. So folks do pop in for a meal!Fork, for our Chinese dinner. Slurp! We were hungry!

“This was my third visit there. The first two times were pop in for a meal!

Rodeo GrillRopin’ in Customers! Labelled as the best steakhouse in town by its regular customers, Rodeo Grill at the Beach Rotana Hotel and Towers is worth a visit.A club atmosphere with a dress code of smart casual does present a mind boggling styling challenge for any fashionista. However, once you enter through its doors your sense of smell will overcome all your nervous impulses. Tempo popped in for a bite and asked some of its customers, some nervous (we are not the Spanish Inquisition people!) and some very obliging, about the food:

“Their stakes are the best, their beverage list is great too!”- Natalie G“Wagyu stake is great and the service is excellent, eat the steak or eat somewhere else!” - Danny M.“The meat was a little bland for me but otherwise everything else is lovely!” – Aiman A.

Also worth a try are their desserts like the lemon parfait, citron tart, chocolate pyramid, mandarin sherbet(lemon flavour – they sure love lemons), citrus crème brulee and a delightful chocolate tart. For seafood lovers, Rodeo Grill provides mouthwatering seafood cuisines as well. Tempo recommends the lobster bisque!

Fork seems to offer something for everyone. So folks do pop in for a meal!pop in for a meal!

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A club atmosphere with a dress code of smart casual does present a mind boggling styling challenge for any fashionista. However,

Watch out forNew curves...on Fries!The future of French fries in Abu Dhabi was looking pretty dull. Regardless of restaurants

or type of garnishing, the popular snack seemed pretty boring... predictable. Deep fried till

golden brown and always ram-rod straight. Fries were destined to be nothing more than

mere sidekicks to comparatively exciting main dishes like burgers and wraps. Not anymore!

The weary old fries are out! Revamped Curly fries are in and they are exclusive to the

ChipSticks franchise. Tempo had a chat with Mona Al Alawi, the Emirati lady who founded

the franchise along with two local partners. While playing with her son in Modhesh Fun

City, Mona witnessed children enjoying curly fries and had an epiphany about starting a

similar business in Abu Dhabi.

Curly fries were so good, I knew we had to introduce something like this in AbuDhabi!

The project began in August of this year and already they have kiosks in Marina

Mall, Action Zone and HCT (Khalifa City). Determined and persistent, Mona

plans to increase the number of kiosks and make curly fries available to the

masses in every shopping mall, city centre and college canteen. So move

over petty snacks because Curly fries are here to stay!

Good News ladies! Ann Russo Petit has setup shop in Wahda Mall. Your search for unique, affordable and fashionably chic evening wear is over. This trendy boutique carries one-of-a-kind haute couture party dresses and night gowns designed for it exclusively by Ann Russo and other casual dresses made in France, Italy, Turkey & China. The shop’s manager, Mohammed Jasim told Tempo that the outlet caters to women’s demand for classy and elegant evening gowns at affordable rates. The dresses are tagged at Dh 2500 onwards. What the shop lacks in spatial dimensions, it more than makes up for it in variety, design and vibrant colour palette of the formal wear it showcases. It is well worth a visit if your closet space needs a dash of grace and sophistication.

AnnRussoPetit– An Elegant Affair

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Good News ladies! Ann Russo Petit has setup shop in Wahda Mall. Your search for unique, affordable and fashionably chic evening wear is over. This trendy boutique carries one-of-a-kind haute couture party dresses and night gowns designed for it exclusively by Ann Russo and other casual dresses made in France, Italy, Turkey & China. The shop’s manager, Mohammed Jasim told Tempo that the outlet caters to women’s demand for classy and elegant evening gowns at affordable rates. The dresses are tagged at Dh 2500 onwards. What the shop lacks in spatial dimensions, it more than makes up for it in variety, design and vibrant colour palette of the formal wear it showcases. It is well worth a visit if your closet space needs a dash of grace and sophistication.

City bites

Mona

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“I do miss my family back home. I have a one year old kid and a husband both of whom I dearly love. I hope to bring them here some day so that I can give my son a better life and my family a better future.”

“Taiwan was a nice city to work in but people there rarely spoke a word of English and it was difficult for me to bridge the communication gap. I do not face suchproblems here as almost everyone in this city knows English. I am learning a few words of Arabic as well!

“Taiwan was a nice city to work in but people there rarely “Taiwan was a nice city to work in but people there rarely

“However, once I came here I realized that Abu Dhabi is so culturally diverse that I instantly found people from my homeland in the Philippines. Now I have a couple of friends who I can go out with on weekends and on special occasions.

“I have moved to Abu Dhabi from Taiwan quite recently. It has only been two weeks since I began working here and I love this place already! Like most people, my quest for a good job brought me to the capital city andunderstandably, I was apprehensive about relocating to UAE this far away from home.

Jane Cagais is a server in an upscale coffee shop in Marina Mall. Tempo joins her for a cuppa as she tells us why she calls Abu Dhabi her new home...

MEET.... … Jane Cagais

Jane Cagais is a server in an upscale coffee shop in Marina

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Omron Khan is the Managing Director of a marketing firm. He often travels back and forth between UAE and UK. This is what he had to say about the Heritage Village in Abu Dhabi:

“If you’re a new visitor to Abu Dhabi you may be asking yourself, “Where are the camels?”

“In the midst of shiny buildings and luxurious shopping malls one easily forgets that Abu Dhabi was once a desert inhabited by camels and Bedouins. Some tourists may find themselves putting in some

extra effort to locate places which showcase Abu Dhabi’s culture and heritage. After all, they do need to feel that they are actually in another country.

“Do not despair! There is a little slice of history amongst all the glittering modernity in the form of Heritage Village. If you’re a culture vulture like me you’ll enjoy learning about the traditions and lifestyle of Bedouins

in this recreated living exhibition of how the original inhabitants of this land used to live before oil was discovered.

“OK… so it is a little staged, but once you enter this open-air museum overlooking the Corniche juxtaposed between high rising sky scrapers and Marina Mall, you are certainly transported to a simpler, calmer era. You can stroll

through a traditional market, view the mud brick houses and yes… they have camels too! You can opt for a camel ride or observe falcons in the regular falconry demonstrations.

“It’s well worth a visit and don’t worry, the camels don’t bite!”

Omron Khan is the Managing Director of a marketing firm. He often travels back and

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“If you’re a new visitor to Abu Dhabi you may be asking yourself, “Where are the camels?”

“In the midst of shiny buildings and luxurious shopping malls one easily forgets that Abu Dhabi was once a desert inhabited by camels and Bedouins. Some tourists may find themselves putting in some

extra effort to locate places which showcase Abu Dhabi’s culture and heritage. After all, they do need to feel that they are actually in another country.

“Do not despair! There is a little slice of history amongst all the glittering modernity in the form of Heritage Village. If you’re a culture vulture like me you’ll enjoy learning about the traditions and lifestyle of Bedouins

in this recreated living exhibition of how the original inhabitants of this land used to live before oil was discovered.

“OK… so it is a little staged, but once you enter this open-air museum overlooking the Corniche juxtaposed between high rising sky scrapers and Marina Mall, you are certainly transported to a simpler, calmer era. You can stroll

through a traditional market, view the mud brick houses and yes… they have camels too! You can opt for a camel ride or observe falcons in the regular falconry demonstrations.

“It’s well worth a visit and don’t worry, the camels don’t bite!”

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Have you ever wondered where you can find eco-friendly golf balls in UAE? How about

biodegradable toys, colour pencils made from recycled newspapers, sun jars that store

sunlight, handmade Nepali paper or renewable cellulose loofahs? By now most of you must

be wondering (with raised eyebrows no doubt) whether these products actually exist! They

do and they are available in Ekotribe, a company which offers environmentally friendly

substitutes to a wide range of products. Their product list includes: solar powered totes,

bamboo kitchen ware, eco-friendly shower heads, green books, BPA-free water bottles, and

reusable shopping bags etc of superior design and quality which on disposal get absorbed

into the environment. Showcasing products from brands like Illume, Totally Bamboo,

Preserve, Tucker Bags, Planet Pixies, Ecominders and many other designers, Ekotribe

provides environmentally safe products for a better lifestyle. They even plan to open an

online store: www.thegreenecostore.com

Catch them in the capital next year during the GreenBuild World Summit in ADNEC

(May 24 - 26). Meanwhile visit: www.ekotribe.com

“ Instead of buttermilk, I use fresh milk soured with a tablespoon of vinegar or lemon juice when cooking.” – Jenny M.

“ I store shoes in boxes to protect them against scuffs and scratches and I click pics of each pair and stick ‘em to the side of the box to make my last minute shoe hunts easier!” – Kim Sullivan

“ When cooking meat, I often shred it to make it seem more than it is.” – Adriana Jones

“ I never hang delicate items like loose knits. I always fold them to prevent stretching.” – Marium Shabbir

“ When buying sunscreen, I always make sure it has an SPF of at least 30 and it is water resistant.” – Roma Nath

“ I always vacuum seal meat products to make them look fresh and prevent those unsightly freezer burns.” – Rana Noor

Everyone has something they do better than anyone else. You have the brag rights and Tempo is giving you the space, so send us your helpful tips and tricks to making life simpler and richer. Just make sure its all original and all you!

This month’s picks...

“ I store shoes in boxes to protect them against scuffs and scratches and I click pics of each pair “ I store shoes in boxes to protect them against scuffs and scratches and I click pics of each pair and stick ‘em to the side of the box to make my last minute shoe hunts easier!” –

“ When cooking meat, I often shred it to make it seem more than it is.”“ When cooking meat, I often shred it to make it seem more than it is.”

“ I never hang delicate items like loose knits. I always fold them to prevent stretching.” “ I never hang delicate items like loose knits. I always fold them to prevent stretching.” –

“ When buying sunscreen, I always make sure it has an SPF of at least 30 and it is water resistant.” “ When buying sunscreen, I always make sure it has an SPF of at least 30 and it is water resistant.” –

“ I always vacuum seal meat products to make them look fresh and prevent those unsightly “ I always vacuum seal meat products to make them look fresh and prevent those unsightly freezer burns.”

Sneaks need not be tossed in the

washing machine for thorough

cleaning after a sweaty workout

session. Instead, remove the insoles,

brush of dirt with a toothbrush

dipped in a detergent solution

and stuff the sneakers with

newspapers while they

air dry.

TempoTip!

GoodThing...GoodThing...It's aEko FriendlyProducts in UAE

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Send us your tips: editorial@abudhabitempo.com

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Each of us can in his, or her, own way make a difference in our world. Sometimes this can be a simple gesture, and sometimes it is a kind word. This page is dedicated to the hero that resides in each and every one of us, and to the sharing of great news that will make our planet a better place for us all.

Abu Dhabi Mall Winter Charity Arts and Crafts Fair

The Nobel Prize winning humanitarian organization, Médecins Sans Frontières (MSF) is the driving force behind many charity events. This time around a second hand book bazaar is being organized on 11th December so that mall goers can buy books at bargained prices. MSF is renowned for its efforts towardsrehabilitation of victims who suffer at the hands of calamity (both natural and... man-made). It will also hold a tombola where lucky shoppers will win prizes! The unlucky ones will still go home satisfied as they will know that they have contributed to a worthy cause.

every one of us, and to the sharing of great news that will make our planet a better place for us all.

Making a Difference is a celebration of good people and good deeds. Please share with us your ideas, activities and community‘public-good ‘ stories. Send them to editorial@abudhabitempo.com

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Every month a container filled with clothes, toy, mobile phones and other items of necessity is sent to Iraq where it is distributed to those who need it most. Contact Rasha Al Mukhtar on Facebook for details on collection points located in Abu Dhabi and Dubai. They can even arrange for a pickup if the location points are not close toyour home.

HelpingHand (aka ‘the Rahma brigade’) Helping(aka ‘the Rahma brigade’)

The largest ever army of volunteers in UAE was mobilized during Formula One Abu Dhabi GP. Can you guess the magic number? A whopping 800!! Thanks guys, all your efforts paid off.

The largest ever army of volunteers

Tempo’sVote!

Putting the Facebook phenomenon to good use is an Abu Dhabi based volunteering group called, Volunteer in Abu Dhabi (no points for guessing that one!). Founded by Lola Lopez, the group has more than 750 followers who receive direct posts on their Facebook page whenever someone posts about a volunteering opportunity. Joining the effort are Ryan Rowe, Suparna Mathur, and Volunteer coordinators: Sofia Diop and Mame Diop. From recruiting volunteers for a diabetes walk on F1 race track or sorting through books for a charity sale, Volunteer in Abu Dhabi is the fun volunteering organization with a serious goal:

Volunteering can help you find your emotional feet, re-discover lost faith and heal wounds. The joy of giving and helping those in urgent need will fill you with warmth and a joy beyondexpression. There is no feeling in the world quite like putting shoes on a child who has never had any.

– Lola Lopez

So if you wish to volunteer and have no idea of where, when and how; join their group and make everyday count!

a) If you could be one

celebrity who would you be?

Sara: Michelle Obama

Ramadina: Elizabeth Taylor

b) A hidden talent you

possess?

Sara: The talent of secrecy.

Ramadina: I love to dance and I do

it well!

c) What is your worst fear?

Sara: Losing my loved ones and

ignorance.

Ramadina: To be alone.

d) If you could be president of your

country for a day, what would you

do first?

Sara: Call my brother and two sisters

to join me for a Presidential

Breakfast and hire ecologists for

future planning projects.

Ramadina: To take all the

children and give them a home and

proper education.

e) Your weapon of choice in a fight?

Sara: Maracas

Ramadina: Magnum 357

WINTER CHARITY

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People Meter is an offbeat way to learn more about our community and its people who come fromdifferent backgrounds, cultures and walks of life.

This month, we invite Sara Svensson andRamadina Macusang to participate inPeople Meter.

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Every letter speaks a thousand words. Welcome to the enchanting world where understanding and discovering your inner-self is as easy as scribbling something on a piece of paper. Graphology is com-monly known as Handwriting Analysis and it is the science involved in producing a personality profile of the writer by examining the characteristics, traits and strokes of his or her handwriting. Tempo gives you a chance to get your handwriting analyzed byGraphologist Riddhi Doshi for free! Send in your scanned writing samples toletters@abudhabitempo.com with ‘Art of Oracle’ in the subject line.

Writing sample from a reader who wishes to remain anonymous:

Analysis: You are very emotional – Your energy levels are good and you can work for long hours – Also have trouble saying ‘No’ – Your speech can get blunt at times – You have the ability to forgive but you never forget – Tend to adhere to selective listening – Digestion is weak – Sometimes you get a little overconfident – You are creative and fond of music – Tendency to put on weight is high – Prone to being cheated.

Advice: Write till the end of the page and ensure that you make the most of all opportunities that come your way.

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Be sure to replenish your office materials ahead of time. Manage your stocks andinventory, reordering ahead of time, so that you won’t waste time in the future waiting for stocks to arrive.

Great TimeManagement Tip #3*

* Part 3 of a 12 issue series

Assertiveness is the ability to make your feelings and rights known to others while making sure that you don’t encroach on theirs. It is an integral tool in officecommunication. Being assertive is about being direct and honest but most people have to learn this skill as they are either too passive or too aggressive. Both of which are a safety hazard in an office environment! Here’s why...

• It helps in stress management as you clearlycommunicate your views to fellow office workers.

• It tends to reduce conflicts in your dealings with others because you present your views without offending them.

• Your needs are met as per your requirements ascolleagues know exactly what you want.

• People can count on you and this forms the root of stronger, trustworthy office relationships.

• It gives you peace of mind and body. You don’t get ulcers fretting about office politics as you are more focused on your work.

Become More AssertiveAssess yourself: Take a good look at where you stand. What changes in personality and style to do you need to make to get people to take you more seriously? If you

are aggressive then you need to figure out why people feel threatened by you.

Criticism: You must be ready to listen to and identify all constructive criticism that comes your way. Don’t try pleasing everyone at once. Just make small changes in your everyday routine, for example: try listening to what people really want.

Say ‘NO’: Let go of the fear of disappointing people. You need to know when to say ‘no’. Colleagues indulging in gossip want you to join in while you are busy with work; say ‘no’! Another office worker needs a favour and asks you to finish their 100 page report by tomorrow; say ‘no’. You get the idea, right?

Your voice: If you have a different opinion then the popular one, don’t be afraid to voice it. Speak your mind when others ask for your judgment. If they want to know what your cubicle buddy thinks they’ll ask him!

Don’t feel attacked: Similarly, when people differ from your view point, don’t feel ambushed. Confidently state your beliefs with sound reasoning and others will soon understand the way you perceive an issue. Engaging in a war of words never ends with the other party saying, “Oh I see my mistake, I understand you perfectly now!”

Assert Yourself!Abu Dhabi is hosting so many international events that it is only a short while before your hostessing skills will be put to the test by guests visiting from back home ormaybe worse... your In-laws! 'So what?' you say. Afterall, you have aced all cooking classes, thrown away all unsightly junk (or atleast hidden it) and the house has survived a round of merciless cleaning. But wait! Have you paidattention to all the details? For example: How do you plan to place the napkins on the table? If yourreply is: 'In a messy heap', then you need to read this next bit!

Do it in Steps

FLOWER

Step 1: Begin with a square cloth napkin placed on the table with its design side facing down.

Step 2: Fold in all the corners towards the centre of the square.

Step 3: Fold in the corners once again.

Step 4: Flip the napkin over very carefully. Fold in the corners towards the centre one last time.

Step 5: Hold the napkin in the centre with your finger. Pull out the flap under each of the cor-ners. You can place the napkin in the middle of the dinner plate.

Riddhi Doshi is a renowned Graphologist

practicing in UAE & India. To know more about this

interesting art form, join her Facebook

group: Art of Oracle

Be sure to replenish your office materials ahead of time. Manage your stocks andinventory, reordering ahead of time, so that you won’t waste time in the future waiting for stocks to arrive.

Management Tip #3*

Remember to smile as guests rave about your new napkin folding skills.

FLOWERNAPKIN ARTICHOKE

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Resolution # 1Light up your life and your home.Resolution # 1Resolution # 1

Naturally Gorgeous

· Use a straw to drink cold drinks and other beverages (those which will not raise eyebrows on use of a straw, for example: if you drink green tea through a straw we will be thoroughly displeased). This way the liquid bypasses your teeth, lessening surface staining.

· Drink plenty of water after eating foods that stain, typi-cally those foods with alot of artificial colouring in them.

· Mommy was right! Brush your teeth twice a day, everyday. Period.

· Schedule regular teeth cleaning sessions with your dentist. Experts say that professional whitening can last a lifetime if you watch what you eat and drink.

· Deeply coloured foods are to be avoided while whiten-ing and two days after the treatment. Some major teeth staining culprits to watch out for are (hold your breath): soft drinks, red wine, smoking, sports drinks, blueberries, coffee and tea.

Tempo says: Don’t smoke, stick to mineral water and keep smiling!

What is the first thing people notice about you? No, it’s not the Gucci shoes or the Rolex wristwatch. Although we are sure they have played their part well in helping you make a good first impression. The answer is: Your smile. Actually, to be more precise, your teeth. You might be a bombshell like Salma Hayek but one look at rotting or discoloured teeth and people will run in the other direction yelling, “Freddy Kruegar on the loose!”

So how do you keep those yummy treats from spoiling your teeth? The answer is simple: Don’t eat them. However, unless you are a monk of some sort, there is no way that’s possible! Tempo understands your dilemma (actually, most of us are in the same boat as you). So here are few tips on side-stepping the problem:

Winter means cool weather, long walks andunfortunately dry skin! Don’t worry; Tempo is here to your rescue. We give you an easy recipe for SkinSoftening Honey Bath: Take 2 tsp honey, 1 cup very hot water and a few drops of pure essential oil. Dissolve the honey in the water. Pour the mixture into the bath water. Switch of your mobile phones and relax.

Gorgeous

Pearly Whites!

(those which will not raise eyebrows on use of a straw, for example: if you drink green tea through a straw we will be thoroughly displeased). This way the liquid bypasses your teeth, lessening surface staining.

· Drink plenty of water after eating foods that stain, typi-cally those foods with alot of artificial colouring in them.

· Mommy was right! Brush your teeth twice a day, everyday. Period.

· Schedule regular teeth cleaning sessions with your dentist. Experts say that professional whitening can last a lifetime if you watch what you eat and drink.

· Deeply coloured foods are to be avoided while whiten-ing and two days after the treatment. Some major teeth staining culprits to watch out for are (hold your breath): soft drinks, red wine, smoking, sports drinks, blueberries, coffee and tea.

Tempo says: smiling!

CHEAP TRICKS TO AVOIDTEETH STAINING

LifestyleSo you must have given plenty of thought to healthy changes you need to make in your life for next year; like giving up full cream dairy products, going for early morning walks and spending more time with your family than at the office etc. Have you thought of resolutions for your home? Yes, you read it correctly; a person’s home is where he or she spends so much time, and so it makes perfect sense for it to reflect their changing attitude towards life.Let’s welcome 2010 with the latest limited edition from The One.

Resolution # 2Make more good memories and preserve them tastefully.

Resolution # 2Resolution # 2

Resolution # 3Keep track of time; don’t waste it on unnecessary things.

Resolution # 5Remember to rest your back, use

a trendy cushion for support.

Resolution # 4Everyone needs a reminder now and then of how much you love them!

Purples, soft blues,

metallics, golden greens,

greys and yellows are the

‘in’ colours thisseason!

TempoTip!

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KICKINGKICKING

Wrap it up!This season Tempo brings you a hot must-have accessory for a cool new look. Dudes and dudettes, the scarf is back! Take your pick from a variety of designs, colours, textures, and let’s not forget the numero uno deciding factor... brand name!

My Style My Style

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The One Thing I Regret Buying:Sunglasses, I end up loosing them!

The One Thing I Dream of Buying:Private Jet

My Style Inspiration:Will Smith and Usher

Trousers: French Connection - Dh 270

Shirt: FrenchConnectionDh 150

My Style Philosophy:Be brave, be bold and be you!

Tempo spots fashionable and smart dressers around the city.

What do you do (work)? IT Sales and Marketing

Would you like to be featured on My Style Blueprint? If you do contact: 026673349, blueprint@abudhabitempo.com

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By Rantan Rave

An irreverent look at the idiosyncrasies of language.

Names: Of Nader and NadiaAs multi-racial (of Arab and another nationality) families become increasingly common, couples in the relationship are facing a rather daunting task finding a name that will please all nationalities involved. So when choosing names for their babies, most are opting for easy, non-threatening, certainly non-guttural names that are acceptably Arabic but still universal sounding. Enough to be “assimilatable” into other cultures. The naming tug of war between the couple usually gives way to the choice of middle ground not-too-ethnic Arabic names, like Sami, Nadia, Hani, Dana etc, that are borderline ‘international’. Indeed nowadays during an introduction of children by multi-racial families (involving an Arab husband) you can predict (with a huge degree of certainty) that the first born may be a son named ‘Sami’ or a daughter named ‘Sara’. If the couple have a third child, who’s a girl, it is likely she may turn out to be a Nadia, Laila, Nora, or Deena. More kids? It gets a bit tougher here, but there are still options: how about Dania, Dana, Hanna, Dalia, Ida, Iman, Camilla or Rabia?

Finding “easy” Arabic boy’s names is much more difficult because the name pool of easy names is significantly smaller. So while the first born may be “Sami” or “Hani”, for subsequent boys names families find they have to resort to a raft of more ethnic sounding names such as Jamal, Anis, Amir, Basel (the latter of which is a neutral name in Arabic even if it is a pompous one in English), Omar, Nasser or Najeeb.

As these names become overused, and the multi-racial marriage phenomenon grows, we may well see an increase in the crossover ‘genre’ of names (mostly biblical ones with Anglo, Arabic, Latin, and Greek variations) such as Yousef/ Joseph/ Yorgos, John/ Hanna/ Yanni, Nooh/ Noah, Issa/Jesus etc. Interesting times to be sure. Let’s wait and see...

Send us your feedback, questions, or just simply tell us about your linguistic (mis)adventures.

Email:arablish@abudhabitempo.com

On Arablish

Remember last issue when I talked about the large amount of refuse which regularly piles up in my apartment’s garbage chute and blocks access to the lift? Well, let’s stay on the garbage and landfill topic.... perhaps brainstorm ideas and solutions. Number one: Why do we have to buy more than we consume? This one’s easy, think twice before buying. Number two: Why do we rush to throw things if others might need them? The solution is that we clearly need to get into ‘recycle, reuse and resell’ mode. Ideas: let’s do swap meets, garage sales and more classified advertising to place reusable items in appreciative homes. Number three: Why don’t we give more to others who need it but can’t afford it rather than throwing it away perfunctorily? Solution: Give items you don’t need any more to charity, but fix them up first (be nice) and give it to people who need it. Believe it or not, there are families right here in the Emirates who are hurting. The big picture: We all need a little realignment on life, social responsibility and ethics. Appreciate the virtues of simpler living, and stamp out excess when you see it. Right now, our landfills are brimming and so is my garbage chute. Anyone know where I can recycle a soapbox?

Comments? Send them to editorial@abudhabitempo.com

“In the states, most stores honour the price tags, even if they have a mistake on them. There is a prevailing philosophy that the customer is always right. I think some stores in UAE also do that.” Barry S.

“In the states, most stores honour the price tags, even if they have a

“Clearly it is a mistake. The lady should decide whether or not she wants to buy it based on the price correction.” F.S.“Clearly it is a mistake. The lady should decide whether or not she

“Of course they should give it to her at the price on the tag! If she had spoken to the manager before paying, they may have done that.” Dina K.

Send your stories to mystory@abudhabitempo.com

ABOUT LIFEABOUT LIFEABOUT LIFEABOUT LIFEABOUT LIFEABOUT LIFEABOUT LIFEFUNNYTHING

What would you do if this happened to

you? Would you insist on paying the price

on the tag, pay the higher cost or return

the item?

“I think it is all much ado about nothing. She should pick up another shirt.” Praveen P.

I went to one of the stores on the top floor of Marina Mall and they had a sale; really good savings, too (up to 60%). I picked up a pair of pants and went to the cash register where an Italian tourist (she wanted to pay in dollars, that’s how I knew) looked quite distraught.

She had picked up an embroidered blouse and it had a tag of Dh 129 as the original price and Dh 99 as the new price. But the cashier told her that there had been a mistake, the product had beenmislabeled and the price was actually Dh 149. The lady finally bought the blouse at Dh 149 but was clearly unhappy about it.

She left the store, and I bumped into her outside in the atrium where she was muttering to herself. She argued that the store had to uphold the cost on the label, and got up saying she would go back and talk to the store manager. I felt sorry for her but not sorry enough to agree with her decision. I thought perhaps if she felt strongly enough about it, that she should just return the item and get a refund. Sent in by A. Summer

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She left the store, and I bumped into her outside in the atrium She left the store, and I bumped into her outside in the atrium where she was muttering to herself. She argued that the store had where she was muttering to herself. She argued that the store had to uphold the cost on the label, and got up saying she would go to uphold the cost on the label, and got up saying she would go back and talk to the store manager. I felt sorry for her but not sorry back and talk to the store manager. I felt sorry for her but not sorry enough to agree with her decision. I thought perhaps if she felt enough to agree with her decision. I thought perhaps if she felt strongly enough about it, that she should just return the item and strongly enough about it, that she should just return the item and get a refund. Sent in by get a refund. Sent in by

On the Garbage Soapbox

“Clearly it is a mistake. The lady should decide whether or not she wants to buy it based on the price correction.” “Clearly it is a mistake. The lady should decide whether or not she

“Of course they should give it to her at the price on the tag! If she had spoken to the manager before paying, they may have done that.”

What would you do if this happened to What would you do if this happened to What would you do if this happened to

you? Would you insist on paying the price you? Would you insist on paying the price

on the tag, pay the higher cost or return

the item?

get a refund. Sent in by get a refund. Sent in by get a refund. Sent in by get a refund. Sent in by

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vHere are some hip and happening dance classes around town:

African Dance: The Club, ADCB Building, (Corniche), call: 02 673 1111

Latino Mix: InterContinental Fitness Club, call: 050 875 0111

Salsa: Mardi Gras, Capital Hotel, ADCB Building (Corniche), call: 02 626 2533

Brazilian Samba Dancing came to the capital this October

on Corniche as a part of Yasalam events. While shaking and

‘shimmy-ing’ to its beats, did you think of where this exotic

dance originated? Do you know what ‘Samba’ actually means?

Alright, ease those frown lines, Tempo has the answers for you

right here!

Samba is derived from the Portuguese verb ‘sambar’ – so it quite

literally means to ‘dance to rhythm’. The dance has African and

European roots. If you feel slightly liberated while performing

those body-shaking, buttock-jiggling dance moves it’s because

you are vibrating to the rhythm of a dance practiced by former

slaves who migrated from Bahia in northeast Brazil. Through

the decades, the dance was integrated with other regional

dances like Polka, Xote, Lundu, Maxixe and others to become the

urban dance of Rio de Janeiro. Don’t confuse it with the Rumba

though! Rumba is a dance with more Afro-Cuban influences.

Modern Brazilian Carnival originated in Rio de Janeiro in 1641,

when the city's bourgeoisie imported the practice of holding

balls and masquerade parties from Paris. It originally mimicked

the European form of the festival, later absorbing elements

derived from Native American and African cultures. Anyways,

let’s put a brake on Samba Theory 101 and move on to

practicals! Are you up for a fun, hip-shaking and belly-wriggling

dance session right here in Abu Dhabi?

Samba is derived from the Portuguese verb ‘sambar’ – so it quite

MUSIC WILL SET YOU FREE!MUSIC WILL SET YOU FREE!MUSIC WILL SET YOU FREE!MUSIC WILL SET YOU FREE!CultureTalk

Dear Molly,

Since you value this woman’s work it would be unfair to hurt

her by complaining to the manager. The best solution to this

malodorous riddle is to talk to her discretely. That’s what I

would do. Take her aside when she is on a break and inform her

of the issue, even if it is upsetting for her. It is more important

for you to tell her the truth than to save hurting her feelings. I

am sure she will recognize in the long run that you might have

saved her job. If she doesn’t, no matter; know that you did the

right thing. Your advice will also serve you well as aromathera-

py is an important part of a good facial.

v

Dear Um Saif,

I have a problem and I would like to have your input . There is a hair salon that I have been going to for a number of years. I go there for haircuts and herbal facials. The service is excellent and I really like their beautician. However, lately I am not interested in going to the salon as the lady who gives me my facials has hands that smell of onions. I am embarrassed to bring it up with her because I know her hands are clean but the stench destroys my herbal facial experience. What would you do in such a scenario? Do I bring it up with the manager? I really don’t want to switch salons but I can’t stand the odour either!

Molly S

FIFA Abu Dhabi 2009, What is it?OK, I admit my ignorance. I know it is a kind of a football league but how it works is a mystery to me even after an intense Wikipedia session. There is a championship here as well as in South Africa in six months. Which one is the real championship? Also, what about the Big One that happens every four years that everyone outside of North America gets all excited about?

I am perplexed as this is all new to me. Where I grew up we have football too, but it was played by huge guys with helmets on who hit each other hard and often got carried off the field in stretchers. The strategy is easy to follow and the scores usually end up as double digits. Only one man on each team can use his foot to advance the ball.

FIFA seems to be what I recognize as soccer. You know, the game in which a bunch of players in shorts and adverts on their shirts randomly run around a huge field after a speckled ball for a very long time. If you are lucky, you might get to see one or two points made. Only one man on each team can use his hands to advance the ball.

I opted for the sports package on my veryexpensive local cable TV, I wish I hadn’t. I have sixchannels of soccer games 24/7/365. I’d rather watch paint dry. Don’t even get me started on Cricket!

- Randy Parker

Randy has been a resident of Abu Dhabi since August, 2008 and works in the travel industry. He has a blog at:http://expatuae.blogspot.com/

FIFA Abu Dhabi 2009,

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Travelling through the Abu Dhabi Airport Terminal 3, you fashionistas can now contribute to a good cause by purchasing items from Project PEP. This is a collection by designer Jimmy Choo and 25 per cent of all its profits will be donated to the Simelela Rape Centre in Cape Town through the Elton John AIDS Foundation. The proceeds will enable the clinic stay open 24 hours per day, and thus provide access to a life saving treatment which needs to be administered within the first 72 hours of exposure to HIV.

TRENDSETTERS SHOP FOR CHARITY

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By Samantha Davis

2. Focus on the Present: Now we all know the kniving, underhanded techniques we sometimes use to get one-up on our opponents when in a heated debate, for example: reminding them of the past. Don’t! It is no use digging up past events and mistakes. Sure, history might repeat itself, but it will get you nowhere in terms ofsettling the issue at hand.

2. Focus on the Present: Now we all know the

1. Listen Carefully: When in an argument, try to grasp what the other person is saying instead of thinking of your next retort. It is tough, but effective communication is a two-way street! You can only explain your side well if you try to really understand other’s point of view.

By Samantha Davis

LIFECOACH COUCHAny real relationship has its fair share of conflicts and disagreements. In itself, conflict isn’t a problem but handling it correctly can make or break a relationship. All it takes is a little bit of effort on your part. It’s all about effectively communicating your views to the other party which can lead to a more favourable outcome. Here are a couple of points to keep in mind:

3. Show Empathy: Don’t get aggressive whensomeone comes at you with criticism, listen for the other person’s pain and respond with empathy for their feelings. Also, it might not seem like it then but what they say might be true. Leave room for self-assessment later on.

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4. Admit your Mistakes: Personal responsibility is a strength, not a weakness. If you have made a mistake then own up to it. This might cause the other party to respond in kind and admit their folly as well. Afterall, it takes two to Tango.

5. Use “I” Messages: Refrain from saying things like, “You are responsible for this mess,” begin statements with “I”, like, “I feel frustrated when this happens.” It sets a less accusatory tone and helps the other person understand your point of view rather than feeling attacked.

6. Take a Time-Out: Good communication is also about knowing when to take a break. If you feel that you are moments away from physicallyattacking the other person then it might be a good point to take a time-out and get your mind to calm down. Have lemonade or Kitkat.

Enough talk about settling debates. How about sparking some? Here are the results of two opinion polls conducted on our website. Do you agree or disagree? Tell us why, email: editorial@abudhabitempo.com

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Just when you thought Abu Dhabi couldn't be more abuzz with music and entertainment, the capital brings you THE KILLERS, live in concert at Emirates Palace on the 8th of December.

The Killers is an American alternative rock group, originating in Las Vegas in Nevada. Formed in 2002, the group has released 4 albums so far and sold more than12 million with their last album. Their music is influenced by artists from the Eighties and Nineties like Depeche Mode, Oasis, David Bowie, Duran Duran, New Order and The Smiths. From the moment The Killers took the stage, their excitement at performing new material after two years of playing recycled tunes was palpable, and the good vibes were contagious.

This is a band that has worn its musical influences on its sleeve since day one. From their first album, Hot Fuss (2004), to their latest, Day and Age (2009), they have matured into a global music sensation. Songs like “Are we human”, “Somebody told me”, “When You Were Young”, “Mr. Brightside”, “Smile Like You Mean It” are some of the many hits you will recognize. Notice that their hit "All these things that I've done" exposes the sonic bridge between The Killers' previous incarnation aselectro-pop outfit and their current transformation into a stadium rock band. Heard in the context of the earlier songs, the new tunes sound like the obvious next step in the band's musical evolution. The Killers are four sharp-dressed Sin City hipsters who have already seduced the rest of the world with their danceable rock attack.

Now they are about to show Abu Dhabi, what all the fuss is about. You don't want to miss this live performance as Brandon, Dave, Mark and Ronnie Jr. take the stage on the lawns of the Emirates Palace.

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Abu Dhabi Environment agency has launched Shaheen’s World, a portal that will engage kids to actively participate in conservation of their environment. How? By making it more fun ofcourse! The website will inform them about issues plaguing our planet and it will also raise awareness on global issues, water, energy, waste, air and biodiversity. Shaheen, a 16 year old Emirati, will be their eco-guide along with his kid sister, Noura. There are 8 interactive games on the website and more are on the way to raise the grand total to 13. Moreover, children can take eco-polls and share their eco-safety stories by posting them online.

HE. Majid Al Mansouri, Secretary General of EAD, elaborated on the purpose of the website, “At EAD, we continue to teach children about the importance of environmental protection, and now we are posting this lesson where we know our children will see it, on the Internet. I encourage every parent, teacher and guardian to interact with their children through this Web experience. When I was growing up, it was important for children to connect with their environment and webelieve Shaheen’s World will help themdo that.”

Visit: http://www.ead.ae/shaheensworld/en/Visit: http://www.ead.ae/shaheensworld/en/

1. YOU get to be the celebrity everyone’s raving about in Abu Dhabi.

2. Find out all the hot spots to visit around town in our Uptempo Abu Dhabi Guide.

3. Check out Abu Dhabi Events to keep track of what’s happening in our city throughout the month.

4. Live healthier, happier and trendier. Read our crisp and funky editorials!

5. Search for stuff at unbeatable rates with Tempo Classifieds.

6. Experience Abu Dhabi with regular Tempo updates through Youtube, Facebook,Twitter and Twitpic.

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The Corporate Community Reaches Out

Tamakkan is an entrepreneurship and innovationorganization aimed at helping young entrepreneursimprove, enhance and develop their businesses, on a solid business footing and with the advantage of well established marketing and business techniques. The intention is that the ‘support environment’ will foster the learning of best practice, innovation and betterperformance. Much of the support would come from peers who share knowledge and experiences, and also from the mentorship and guidance of mature andestablished companies.

In Support of Entrepreneurs

Tamakkan plans to support entrepreneurs of small and medium businesses. Many fledgling businesses here lack strategic focus and marketing know-how. And with the strong business environment here, Tamakkan is aimed at tapping into the knowledge and expertise of operating companies, leveraging this information for the benefit of the community and for the development of SMEs.

A Platform for Knowledge Transfer

Tamakkan offers a nurturing environment of knowledge and information exchange. This is done through monthly seminars which act as a valuable networking platform that encourage dialogue from the young entrepreneurs themselves who may want to share knowledge about new/emerging marketing dynamics. The information, at the seminars and online, covers a wide range of business and marketing related topics including newmethodologies and technologies, case studies, best practices and fundamental (tried and tested) business principles.

How you can Participate

If you are an entrepreneur and would like to attend our seminars, or a corporate who wants to support thisinitiative, send an email to info@tamakkan.org.Corporates can easily participate by offering pro bono expert speakers, volunteering, as well as providing barter services.

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I kNOw you have been working very hard. NOwadays, NOthing much has changed. You must have NOticed that our company is NOt doing NOticeably well as yet.

NOw the newspapers are saying the world`s leading ecoNOmists are NOt sure if the United States may go into aNOther recession.

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