All of Us: Ministering to the Same-Sex

Attracted

Imagine…

What is same-sex attraction (SSA)?

Where does SSA come from?

What other problems does it manifest?

What role do affections play? (Prov. 4:23, Ps. 34:18)

Where does the pastoral shepherd fit in?

Where does the church fit in (Psalm 68:5-6)?

Patience, prayerfulness, involvement, consideration, preparation, and the unexpected

Believe it or not, this can help you too!

Romans 12:15-16 (NKJV)– 15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep. 16 Be of the same mind toward one another. Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion.

i. Connect with your own brokenness in order to pastor to the wounds of others (v. 15);

ii. Empathise (v. 16a)- same mind, same heart;iii. Don’t emotionally disengage and be lofty, but

humble (v. 16b, Ps. 131:1, Elanor Rigby). iv. Remember to keep yourself safe.

The church with healing presence

Preach and practice lament and include it in worship!Be a listener, not a problem solver.

About Liberty Christian MinistriesWe provide: - support, hope, and insight to Christians struggling with

unwanted SSA;- help to those with children, parents, family and others who

are same-sex attracted or living the ‘gay’ lifestyle;- resources such as articles, book reviews, and other

information.Online: http://www.libertychristianministries.org.au Email: lcmi@iinet.net.auPhone: 9818-8111

What Liberty Offers Training pastoral staff, preaching, testimony; One-to-one for those struggling; Support groups for those struggling with unwanted SSA; We run support groups for parents (two in Sydney); Other resources:

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Key Learning Points for those who struggle…1. Jer. 2:13, 17:9– broken cups and sick hearts2. Isaiah 53, 61:1-7 – God is in the business of healing hearts3. John 5:39-40 – Knowing the Bible is not enough4. Matt. 11:29-30, Heb. 12, Lament. 3 – God doesn’t remove

struggle: He helps and uses it. He disciplines for us to return.5. Titus 2:11-14 – I have choices and am not a hapless victim6. John 4:1-25 – Jesus is the living water7. 1 Corinth. 6:9-11 – some were once ‘gay’ 8. Psalm 139:23-24 - God, tell me why I’m doing what I do!9. Revelation 21:6-7 – war against sin has a higher purpose10. Luke 15:11-32 – The gut-wrenching father heart of God