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Melodies in His Heart...Don Howren shares his love of music with anyone in the Texarkana area. After 30 years as Minister of Music at First Baptist Church, he will retire on February 27, 2011, to begin a new part of his life...retirement! Read his amazing story and be inspired by this wonderful, giving man.

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I sing like I feel. ~Ella Fitzgerald

I have always loved music, beginning piano lessons at the age of 6 and taking them for 9 years. Music has been such a huge part of my life. However, I never sang a lot -- never really thought I was good enough to sing in front of anyone. Then the choir director for a small church I was attending asked me if I would be interested in singing in the choir. I didn’t have to be great, he told me, just wiling to sing a joyful noise!

What a wonderful gift that choir director gave me! I not only learned a lot about singing, but became so interested, that I decided to take voice lessons. The improvement was amazing! From that point forward, I have been an avid singer -- and some would say an avid dancer! HAHA! I can’t seem to sing without moving with the music.

For many of us who sing in church choirs, the music becomes a large part of our worship. Tears become a familiar sight. Smiles become an even more familiar sight. It is no wonder that we are all drawn to others who share our enthusiam for worshiping the Lord through song. Don Howren is a perfect example of how the Lord uses people to bring others to Christ. He is a wonderful leader for the choir at First Baptist Church and has been for the past 30 years. From his weird times to show up for whatever rehearsal we are having, to his many “Don-isms,” he is an inspiration. Those of us who have had the pleasure of working with him, worshipping God through music, prayer, or just fellowship, know exactly what I am talking about.

And we will miss him when he retires on February 27, 2011.

Sometimes it is difficult for us to accept that God has a plan and we can’t tell him how we want the plan to work! (At least I have a problem with that!) However, I know God has a plan for Don. He has done such a great work in his life so far. The future is something only He knows. However, I know He has something special in store. I can’t wait to see what it is!

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HALLELUJAH! How many ways can the power of this word be sung? If anyone has the answer

to that question, it will be Don Howren. This Minister of Music at First Baptist Church, Moores Lane in

Texarkana, Texas, has sung, discovered, cajoled, explored---lived this idea for most of his life. Perhaps

he began as a 14 or 15 year old Eldon, Missouri, farm boy. Don, a talented teenage trumpet and piano

player, was consistently told by Betty Moor, the Minister of Music at his boyhood church, “You know, God

needs young men in music.” This influential lady, an accomplished trumpet player herself, shared her

love and joy for music with not only the First Baptist Church congregation she served but also with Don

Howren, her young protégé. Add to that equation Geraldine Halderman, the band director at his junior

high and high school, and his mother’s insistence on piano lessons plus his God-given gifts and the map

of Don Howren’s life was drawn.

sounds” with choirs as well as instruments. A variety of churches in Missouri and Illinois preceded the growing Howren Family’s eventual arrival in Texas. Friend and choir member Sharon Gibson writes, “In the late 70s, Don packed up his old car and family (Sue and Todd, Kevin and Kim)” and headed to Fort Worth Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary where Don would pursue his Masters of Church Music Degree. When Don, the student, walked across the street he became Minister of Music for the Gambrell Street Baptist Church, his laboratory for learning. Meanwhile, First Baptist

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After his 1965 high school graduation from Eldon High School, Don enrolled at Southwest Baptist University, Bolivar, Missouri. The best part of this education was Sue Porterfield who on August 26, 1967, became Mrs. Don Howren. Since money was scarce, the couple was compelled to leave Bolivar—just no jobs—and move to Southern Illinois University in Edwardsville, just across the river from St. Louis. Here both Howrens found work in churches, J. C. Penney—whatever in order to make ends meet. Four years after his arrival, Don graduated from Southern Illinois in 1970 with a BA in Music and lots of experience in “making joyful

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Church, Texarkana, had lost its pastor. The committee appointed to find a new pastor included Southwestern students in their search. Dr. William Shields, Committee Chair, discovered Don was about to graduate. “We’re looking for a Minister of Music, too,” he acknowledged, so he returned to Texarkana without a pastor but with a prospect for Minister of Music. Don graduated in December 1980, visited First Baptist Church, worked with the choir one time and moved to Texarkana as Minister of Music in February 1981. “I was told ‘Never go to a church without a pastor,’” Don reflects, “but Sue and I just felt we were being led.” For the first month, the Howrens’ Texarkana home was with Raymond and Lois Anderson who welcomed the new family until construction of their home was complete. From his first day on the job, Don Howren was hopping. The church had two locations at the time—the original downtown location and the gym, the only building completed on their new Moores Lane campus. Each Sunday, Don’s several choirs

raised their voices in praise: 8, 9:15, and 11 a.m downtown and 9 a.m. at the gym, then back downtown for a night service. Thorough rehearsals and careful attention to detail on Howren’s part made all these celebrations possible with few glitches. Choir members

and congregations also made some important discoveries about their new musical leader—discoveries which have been both endearing and exciting. The Shillings, Larue and Clarence, admit, “We have never known anyone with a better sense of humor and ability to make people smile…or a more hardy laugh.” While the words about Don that come to Sharon Gibson’s mind are “passion and energy.” No doubt so many others who have apportioned a part of their time to share with Don—wherever music can be found—will agree. Don Howren, regardless of the year or the place, is all about music. Although his education follows traditional

lines, he delights in exploring various musical styles. For example, traditional music includes the use of a piano and organ with the choir’s singing an anthem. Today, the music Howren shares is blended. “The church’s congregation includes members from 8 or younger to 81 or older, so there

must be something in the music that meets the needs of everyone.” For starters, he has established a 25+ piece orchestra which joins the piano and organ in creating the music. Old hymns have new arrangements, like those of his favorite contemporary composer/arranger Tom Fettke. Theatrical effects like stage lighting, microphones, and large screens have been added to enhance the worship experience, but for Don Howren—music and all the technology are still about worship. Any Sunday service will include both horizontal and vertical music. “Music directed horizontally is about God; music directed vertically is to God. We’re really singing to an audience of One,” he advises. So why is music so significant? Don emphasizes that God thought music was so important, he wrote a whole book of songs, The Book of Psalms. In fact, the Old Testament talks about the trumpeters and singers who, in war, went into battle before the troops. Chopin even wrote many of his Polonaises to encourage the troops. Music affects behaviors and attitudes. Therefore, the music Don Howren shares is guided by technical expertise but filled with a spirit of worship—a spirit nourished by rehearsals. “Isn’t it great when rehearsals stop being rehearsals and become worship?” he has been known to ask. To get to that point, though, a choir rehearsal may include admonitions like “This is not a sad song,” or “Great harmony, but it is supposed to be in unison”, even “Stagger your breathing or breathe staggering.” Throughout a rehearsal, Don’s hands—either or both—are constantly and decisively slicing the air. At times, his eyes are so glued to the sheet music in his hand, he seems oblivious of the group following his directions; at other times, he may implore, “Hold your music up. I’m not on the floor yet.” BUT he always listens—to the melody and rhythm; to the dynamics of the instrument voices—how loud or soft, “Some people think you have two volumes,” he explains, ‘loud and louder.’ You have to work much harder to sing softly.” Tempo and interpretation are also important dimensions of the music on which Don’s choirs work. Tempo, Don clarifies, refers to the emotion of the music while interpretation is the poetry of the piece. “Interpretation gives the music its life, for example, if rushing is the word, then the voices need to make the words sound as though they are rushing—poetic onomatopoeia. “

The continuous choral battle, however, regardless of the age group remains…pronunciation (correctness) and enunciation (clarity). “Don’t get your tangs tongled!,” is a frequent Howren plea. “Vowels make music; consonants make words. Consonants are your friends. OVER ENUNCIATE . Sit up straight, put your feet on the floor, if they’ll reach.” A southern drawl is a problem in this area, Don admits. “I try to help members use vowels correctly. I say it the way we [the choir] said it, then ask how the vowel should have been said. Too many two syllable words are sung with four syllables.” He only shakes his head …and…laughs. “If I can get people to laugh at

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themselves and listen…” With that he raises both hands in a gesture of approval, and a broad smile and sparkling eyes prevail.

Like most choir directors, Don Howren is willing to resort to bizarre tricks to get from his choir what he wants. He seldom admits what they are, but he is well aware of how to use them. He may entice members with a Mystery Trip, or, as Shirley Pinnix remembers, suddenly begin to “just whisper” to get the attention of his talking adults. Mary Ted Mayo recalls, “In one of our choir performances at the Perot, the production was to begin with a crowd scene where everyone was laughing, smiling and greeting each other as we walked about Christmas shopping. The night of the first performance everyone was tense and nervous, and it didn’t help when someone peeked around the curtain and told us that the room was packed. As the curtain rose and we gazed at the orchestra pit for direction, there stood Don Howren in a tuxedo, wearing a pair of Mickey Mouse ears. Needless to say, everyone relaxed and once again Don got “just what he wanted” from his choir.”

“Choir members must be in the choir room on Sunday morning by 10:03,” according to Debbie Brower. “Don says people are more likely to remember an odd time, so rehearsal is set to begin at 7:10 on Wednesday evenings.” Members may even be told, “I need you in place at 5:33 or any odd time.” Choirs are not the only recipients of Don’s directions, however. Vicki Carr, one of his accomplished pianists, reviews the

routine of the orchestra as they prepare for Sunday morning’s service. [The sheet music has been mailed to orchestra members earlier in the week, but this is the first time they have played this music together.] :

“Sunday morning- -a scramble to get to 8 a.m. rehearsal. He starts on time. We tune, and he takes us through the first segment, verbally. He’s obviously thought through every note, planned the flow, the meaning of the lyrics, the balance of fast and slow, the right mix of keys. This is a job not just anyone can do—certainly not a non-musician. He knows the range of each instrument, where our strengths are, and how to cover our weaknesses. Our first run-through is a little rough, but he perseveres, correcting only the worst patches. He trusts that we’ll catch our mistakes and improve on the next go-‘round. Sure enough, when the praise team arrives we’re in pretty good shape. He sees to our needs—offers water, extra copies for forgotten packets, enthusiasm for sleepy players, gratitude for our service. A slight break, and we meet with the choir in last-minute rehearsal. Then God shows up, and the music seems anointed. There is nothing like Don’s face when he

is caught up in the anthem—positively beatific….Don always prays us into worship, into service, into song. He is a man of God.”

His organization, knowledge and attention to detail are hallmarks of whatever Don Howren does whether it is introducing

children’s choir members to music, organizing a trip for the youth choir to sing at the capital or professional baseball games, planning special music for the adult or handbell choirs, or sharing the music of his HALOS Seniors (H-happy, A-active, L-loving, O-obedient, S-singers). This group has sung in every senior citizen living environment –not one too small—in Texarkana. He even finds time for praise teams and ensembles and men’s quartet. Occasionally, guests like Larry Gatlin or Sandi Patty may join his Adult Choir for concerts or

maybe a Southern Gospel group or a TBN camera will find their way to his sanctuary. “I think if you stay with one style, it makes Jack a dull boy,” he acknowledges.

As always, his days are filled with people and projects, but he never forgets the individuals for whom he cares and who really make the music of his life. “He still makes time,” Sharon Gibson observes admiringly, “to sit by a stream with a couple

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of sticks and pretend he’s fishing with his 3-year-old grandson.”

Choir members absent from rehearsal can expect their phone to ring shortly after practice ends at 9 p.m. each Wednesday evening. They know it’s Don just calling to be sure everything is okay with them and to let them know they were missed. To visit his office is to walk through a series of open doors, and conversations may be interrupted by a wave and a “Hi.” His computer screen is handy so that e-mails—often funny—can be found in the mailboxes of his friends. He ministers to many via his hearty laugh and consuming smile. Don enjoys a good joke even when he is laughing at himself.

Jim Crain, currently of Nederland, Texas, tells this Don Howren story:

“The second wedding that Don Howren ever performed was for Jane and me (May 23, 1992). He was excited because he had a 100% success rate at the time! Since we were both very active in the music

ministry at FBC, we asked Don to officiate our ceremony.

“He didn’t own a black Bible at the time so he borrowed a black book from Larry Sims’ office to put his wedding notes in. Of course, Don didn’t grab just ANY black book….Just before the service, he showed it to the men in the wedding party, and we all cracked up laughing! You can see on the wedding video Jane start to laugh as Don shows her the title of the book.

“What was the title? Very appropriate for a wedding---The Complete Christian’s Funeral Guide.

“Don Howren---you gotta’ love him!! We sure do!” Whether through smiles, laughter or tears, Don Howren is a compassionate, caring human being who loves to worship through his music—his passion. He is physically, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually consumed by the mystery and magic of the little black and blank circles inhabiting the lines and spaces on the sheets

of music. His appreciation of the instruments with which he is working is expansive as he coaxes from human voices—the Lord’s greatest instrument—unbelievably beautiful sounds—sounds which even bring tears to his eyes. He is constantly moving—his arms, decisively punching and slicing the space in front of him pausing only briefly to clap a count or pop for emphasis. “Soft is not slow,” he may say. As the crescendo of the music builds, his fist punches the air, his hands slap together, then with open palms facing the choir and begging for force, leading to finality. “Good now…Amen!” his strong, clear voice praises but does not stop. “A phrase ‘We believe in Jesus,’” he begins to explain, “deserves full attention. ‘We believe’ is a little sluggish. We need to hear the J, and sacrifice is not sac-re-fice.” His words do not scold but inform. “Sometimes we get stuck on one note -- that’s when we just set up our tabernacle and forget to keep moving on a passage of music and when we turn that page, the bottom falls out. Our audience has

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to be drawn in.” As the rehearsal proceeds, the atmosphere is charged. “Although your concentration is real high, intensity has to be higher. Attack those vowels—when / an.” No detail escapes his attentive ear or eye. Banter among Don and choir members briefly provides a break and changes the pace, but it’s quickly back to business. For two hours, Don Howren orchestrates his musical workout, and participants leave exhilarated, exhausted and enthusiastic. But all of this is about to change. August 2010 marked the moment of Don and Sue Howren’s life-changing decision. In a meeting with Pastor Jeff Schreve, Howren indicated he was ready to retire, but he wanted to tell his family before he made a public announcement in October. “You can only be a lame duck for so long,” he laughs. As usual, his plans were carefully constructed, but even “the best laid plans” can be unexpectedly altered. One week after Howren’s stunning announcement, the results of six biopsies signaled malignancy. Don Howren had prostate cancer. His urologist and friend, Dr. Todd Payne, recommended Don go to Little Rock for surgery. Coincidentally, his Little Rock surgeon was married in the First Baptist Church to a Texarkana girl. On December 7, Howren had the requisite surgery. Because of early detection and action, he has been declared cancer free. Now, Don and Sue are preparing to begin a new chapter in their lives. “What

what I do; I love the people, but it’s pretty confining. I’m off only three weekends a year.” Understandably, catching up with friends too long neglected interspersed with grandchildren visits in Austin and Houston appears to be the first item on their retired agenda. Cheering from the stands at the College World Series is an absolute must. A trip to Europe—Germany, Italy, Austria, Switzerland—may be in the offing. The people, the scenery, the history, the cathedrals, especially those where composers worked provide unlimited opportunities. Music will always be a part of the Howrens’ lives and travels. The excitement builds in his voice as Don Howren talks about how he and Sue have really gotten into playing bridge. “I have some hours on my doctorate,” he speculates. “I sometimes think about going back to school, but I usually lie down until the feeling goes away. I do want to help out other churches with their music, and I can substitute from time to time. I intend to stay involved.” No doubt staying involved with churches, community, family and friends will not be difficult for Don Howren who prefers to live his philosophy of life rather than write about it. “I love life, love people, and know that every day is a gift from God,” he contemplates. “I treasure every moment. Sue and I are very blessed people.” As for his music, this musician is ready to explore more. “Music is a reflection of our culture and defines generations,” he observes, as he recalls the delight of his Beach Boys world when he was growing up. “When we can’t find words, music says it for us; it is of the heart.” Perhaps that explains why Don Howren’s heart is so inclusive and generous and his laughter so lively.

Although no one is indispensable, some are more difficult to replace than others. As his choir and congregation will confess, there can be no replacement for Don Howren—only a successor. Many will agree with choir member Cathy Burgess: “It has been an honor and privilege to serve with such a great man of God. Don is one of the kindest and most humble people I know. He has taught me so much about music and leading in praise and worship. He has such great talent and has always used that talent to serve and honor the Lord. Don and Sue have both been faithful servants and will be missed by all of us!

HALLELUJAH… for the Howrens!

will retirement be like?” he queries. “I don’t know. I’ve never been retired before.” For starters, the Howrens have some catching up to do, as their travel and visits have been limited for the last 30 years by his church duties. Howren squirms a bit in his chair, “I love my job,” he notes, “I love

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REFLECTIONS

During his 30+ years as Minister of Music at First Baptist Church, Texarkana, TX, Don Howren has influenced many from adolescents through seniors. These are some of their remembrances of Don and

his wife, Sue.

I was told early on that if you miss choir and do not report in Don will call you after choir practice (which is about 9:00) to see if you are o.k. On this particular Wednesday night, I just decided not to go, but I had forgotten to call the church to “check in.” Sure enough, Don called around 9:00 to check on me. I said, “Don I will be honest with you, the Devil made me do it.” There was a pause, and he burst out laughing saying, “I’ve had lots of excuses, but never this one.” Music is a true means of worship for me, and Don’s music ministry is a real blessing. Diane Wingfield

In my opinion, Don Howren is one of the best when it comes to making you feel welcome and glad about being at Wednesday night choir practice. I can also say that I have learned more about reading music and ways to sing better since I have been in choir. He is so talented at everything he does with the music, and the way he orchestrates all of the things involved in the programs and specials we do each year. I love Don and Sue very much and am real glad that I have been a part of the choir. Scott Powell

When Danny and I were looking for a church home in 2001, we felt at home at FBC. Don and Sue made us feel like family, and we have loved being a part of the choir….Not just being a part, but to be such an integral part of leading in worship. Thank you, Don, for allowing us to serve, sing, and worship through the FBC Choir. Wilma Gibbons

What stands out in my memories of Don Howren are the 10 years of youth choir tours that I was so fortunate to take with him. His love for music and kids was shown on all his tours—through 20 states and 2 different parts of Canada. They sang the national anthem at many professional baseball games and enjoyed amusement parks from California to Florida. I honestly do not know anyone that loves roller coasters more than Don, the faster, the better. I will remember him for his love of life, music, friends, and his ministry to everyone he met, his contagious laughter and his 110% of effort. When I hear him praying, he is connected to his Father. Susan Defore

Don Howren is my “minister” –the one I call on for my spiritual needs. He has never told me he was too busy! He has an open door policy to anyone that is in need. I will be forever grateful for him and his willingness to

serve Jesus Christ! Jan Smythe

I started singing in the choir at FBC when Don and Sue came to Texarkana. I can truthfully say that Don has brought a positive spirit and innovative ways, through music, to bring the gospel of Christ to our area. We have all learned much from serving in the music ministry of FBC. It has been such fun to be a part of the choir under Don’s leadership. Jill Treadway

How about…”That sounds really pretty…But it’s wrong”! I appreciate Don’s passion for us to sing the music as correctly as possible. While it’s not all about the music, he encourages us to be the best we can be. Don is the epitome of what a worship leader is and for that I am proud to call him leader and friend. Les Smith

Don has MANY talents. God has also given him the gift to see others’ talents and use them for God’s Kingdom, and each one in our family has had the privilege of serving with Don in various capacities of his music ministry. As a family we feel so very blessed to have been able to use our talents to further God’s story and want to THANK Don for having the sensitivity to see our desire to give to God the gifts He has given us. Telka Clem

Two examples of Don Howren’s leadership really stand out. One is how he has built the complete “program” through the years at our church—choirs, orchestra, hand bells, praise teams and ensembles and men’s quartet. The other is the

caring and compassion he has for his choir members. I truly consider myself to have been a blessed man singing under Don’s leadership. Keith McCloud

Don’s love for God, his church, his family and people in general is so evident in all he says and does. His gift, passion and desire to worship our Lord through music, and to lead others to worship with all that is in us, brings us always to the very throne of God. Don is as humble a man as I have ever known and is always an encourager. He is truly an awesome man, spiritual leader and servant of our Lord. We feel so incredibly blessed to have been a part of the choir under Don’s leadership. Larue and Clarence Shilling

Don without a doubt is the perfect example of a mature Christian Leader. He is loved and respected by our Choir and Orchestra and all church members. We are very proud

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of his teaching skills, and we have improved under his leadership. We work hard but the joy that comes as we worship together with Don and Sue is such a blessing. He will be missed! Shirley Pinnix

Don truly knows how to lead us into the presence of the Lord. His dedication and his hard work reveal that. When I see him smile—so full of life and happiness—as he directs us. I see a man that is truly praising the Lord and that encourages me to sing praises. Don has been a great director—the best! Mary Lou Dundee

There is no one who has influenced my life like Don. I can see Jesus in him every day. Wednesday night choir is never a dull moment—in fact, time flies by because we practice, practice, practice! Don always has prayer time with the choir, and he never leaves anyone’s prayer request out—even without writing them down. He is loved by so many people, especially me! Marsha Burris

Don Howren is one of the most dedicated, patient, and caring Christians that I have ever known. He has truly been an inspiration to me. I pray that he will truly enjoy his retirement and will always carry with him the knowledge that he has been a tremendous positive influence on many lives. Kirby Shaddix

Don’s joy is contagious! Looking at Don’s face as he directs the choir—it’s so obvious that

he loves the Lord as he leads us into His presence with singing! (Psalm 98) What a glorious privilege to be in his choir. Judy S. Gibson

Don’s laugh will never fade away. What a joy to see him enjoy leading us in singing praises to our Lord. I remember when we

dedicated our youngest son, Jacob, and asked Don if he would be our church representative. That Sunday Don and Keith showed up in the exact same suit. There came that laugh. Don has truly been a blessing to me and to our family over the years and will have a special place in my heart always. Loretta McCloud

Don is one of the kindest and warmest people anyone could know. I like looking down at that corner of the stage after we’ve sung to see Don with his two- thumbs up, a wink and an ear-to-ear grin, cheering us on and yelling, “Excellent job, Choir!” Gina Sonson

One of the most important reasons to attend FBC is the wonderful music that the choir and orchestra under Don’s leadership provide every week. They open your heart to receive the word of God. I am 61 years old, and in all my years I have never been to a church that had a better Minister of Music. John and Sylvia Ulmer

Every year in preparation for our Youth Choir Tour, Don would make a dry-run of our course and usually take two or three students along for the ride. Any time you traveled with Don, it was an incredible experience of fun, of worship and of forming new relationships. It has been well over a decade since I last traveled on a tour with Don, but not a year goes by when I don’t relive an adventure with another

traveler from our journeys with the FBC Youth Choir. I am so blessed to have known Don, and now as a minister I am so thankful to have such a wonderful model for my own life—someone who daily exemplifies the qualities of a pastor, believer and friend. Todd Bunch, Children’s Minister, Second Baptist Church, Conway, AR Some of my sweetest memories of Don will be times we were singing for the church. Sometimes the words, the music, the intangible essence in the air combined into a moment of pure worship. Don, as he was directing, would look at you, and you knew you were sharing the moment with him. The look only intensified your own worship and your ability to lead the entire congregation in their worship of our Mighty God. Those moments will definitely linger in my heart. Shannon Tuckett

When I think of JOY, I think Don Howren! Don is a living testament of letting the JOY of the Lord shine! He has been such a continuous encouragement to me throughout the past several years. Being able to call him a friend is truly an honor! He will always be the “Music King”! Laurie Dunlap

For a creative person, Don is extremely well organized. I did ten youth choir tours with Don and never observed one detail he had left unprepared. He planned into the “fun” plenty of opportunities for spiritual growth and fellowship with other Christians. His example of “fun within faith” was an excellent message for our young people. I wouldn’t take anything for those trips with our youth choirs under Don’s leadership. Vicki Carr

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Design Showcase

Jean Snyder has lived in her home in Texarkana, AR since 1978, and this past fall, she became ready for a major change!

Jean was inspired by the colors in a birthday card she received, and she wanted to also incorporate some ceramic tiles she hand- painted. The card and the tiles are what we used to chose our color scheme. Sherwin Williams’ “Halcyon Green” paint went on the cabinets and “Window Pane” went on the kitchen walls.

The new countertop is Wilson Art Mystique Gemstone, and it worked perfectly with the fresh paint colors. Jean had a stainless steel refrigerator so she purchased more appliances in stainless and bought a new sink and faucet. We took down a cabinet over the bar to open up the space, and removed the popcorn

1) Kitchen BEFORE Remodel.

2) Kitchen AFTER Remodel.

3) Color-Inspiring Birthday Card.

4) New Brushed Nickel Hardware.

5) Hand-Painted Tiles.

6) New Art Mystique Gemstone Countertop.

7) New Wallpaper in Entry.

8) New Wallpaper and Marble Countertop in Hall Bathroom.

texture from the ceilings in the kitchen and entry. This really helped to update the space.

Jean loved the soft, gray greens from the greeting card so we carried those colors, along with off-whites, throughout the home. We updated her bathrooms and entry hall by hanging new wallpaper. Some people think wallpaper is out of style, but we designers think differently on that subject! After re-wallpapering the hall bath, we decided it needed a new marble countertop. Boze Tile came out and did a new, man-made marble top in an off white.

New laminate wood flooring was installed in the laundry room, kitchen, breakfast area, living room and down the hall, giving a warmth to the space. New light fixtures were installed in the kitchen/breakfast area,

and new brushed nickel cabinet hardware was added after the painting was completed.

The “crowning jewel” was when the ceramic tile backsplash was installed using Jean’s hand painted tiles. We chose a 3 X 6 subway tile to mix with her 6 X 6 tiles. The finished product is just fabulous. We finished this project in 4 weeks.

-Janet,Janet Green Interior Design

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Fish hooked in the mouth were the easiest to unhook (Duh!) and deep hooked fish were the hardest (Duh, Duh!). To make a long story short, all fish were out of the water from 5 seconds to 1 minute. (This is an important thing.)

Their were two techniques used with the deep hooked fish, which is the point of this whole thing. Deep hooked fish in which the hook was removed without tearing out its throat survived just fine in both the short and long term study. Fish that were hooked deep and the hook was left in and the line cut a short distance above the hook also did fine in both parts of the study and had no long term effects. As a matter of fact, giving the fish the hook was actually better for the fish in the short term (started feeding sooner) and the fish shed the hook in a reasonable time.

So the moral of this is: don’t keep the fish out of water for more than one minute and if it’s hooked deep, cut the line and give the hook to the fish.

“Pass the Word.”

Hooked Up

A very cool study was recently published concerning largemouth bass hook removal technique and effects. The study took a scientific look at several common hook removal

methods and their after effects.

A control set of fish were hooked in the oral cavity -- geek talk for the mouth. Some were hooked deep and some not.

Two of the four methods are of interest to us -- a regular hook in the mouth and a regular hook deep in the throat. After testing, the fish were held for six days to assess short tern effects then moved to ponds to observe long term effects.The results were fairly surprising.

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either growing or dying. Which one is it for you?

The Apostle Paul had accomplished so much in his life for Jesus Christ. A big reason he made such an impact for the Kingdom of God was that he never let up. He kept pressing on with Jesus. He kept learning and growing and praying and seeking the Lord. He never coasted. He never celebrated his victories before they were actually won.

HOWARD HENDRICKS

Some years ago, I attended a conference in Houston in which I was taught how to effectively study the Bible. Our teacher was the distinguished professor from Dallas Theological Seminary, Dr. Howard Hendricks. Dr. Hendricks, in his mid-seventies at the time, said, “Do you guys remember the little verse packets that you used to get with the Scripture on one said and the reference on the other? You would take them with you whenever you went so you could memorize God’s Word. Do you remember doing that?” I whispered to myself, “Yes, I remember that. I did it in college.” Then, after a pregnant pause, Dr. Hendricks asked, “Why did you stop?”

He went on to say that he and his wife still worked on memory verses each week. They never quit. I was greatly convicted that I had stopped pedaling and started coasting in this important area of my life. How easy it is to slack off at the ten yard line of life, thinking you have earned the right to just saunter in.

PRESSING ON

Perhaps you have been guilty of coasting to the finish line. Perhaps you feel too old to make a difference. Nothing could be further from the truth. Caleb was 85 years old when he fought the giants at Hebron … and God gave him success (see Joshua 14). If you are still breathing, you are still able to use your life to make a difference in the lives of others. Press on and keep pedaling, all the way to glory. You’ll be so glad you did.

Jeff Schreve Pastor

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On January 31, 1993, I joined the rest of America and watched the Dallas Cowboys play the Buffalo Bills in Super Bowl XXVII. The game was a blowout with Dallas winning 52-

17. The only thing I really remember about that game was a play involving Cowboys defensive tackle, Leon Lett, and Bills wide receiver, Don Beebe.

Lett, the 6’ 6”, 300 pound behemoth, scooped up a fumble late in the fourth quarter. He had a wide open 55 yards to the end zone. Lett had a chance to score a touchdown in the Super Bowl, something very few linemen ever get the opportunity to do. He sprinted his way toward the end zone. Everyone thought it was a sure score, especially Leon. At the 10 yard line, he began to slow down, celebrate the moment and coast into the end zone. That proved to be the formula for disaster. What did Kenny Rogers say? Oh, that’s right, “You never count your money when you’re sitting at the table.” If Leon Lett had remembered that bit of “gambler” wisdom, he would have been a much happier man.

The Bills Don Beebe had a “never say die” attitude. When he saw Lett pick up the fumble, he got on his pony and raced after him, hoping against hope that he could somehow prevent a sure-fire touchdown. Because he pressed on and Lett began to coast, Beebe was able to strip the outstretched ball from the showboating lineman

right before he crossed the goal line. The result? Lett lost his touchdown, and

Beebe made the play of the game.

PRESSING ON OR COASTING IN?

In your life, are you more like Don Beebe or Leon Lett? Are you

coasting to the finish line or are you pressing on? Are you still giving

it your all, going full speed, dreaming big dreams and

attempting great things … or have you quite pedaling? Are you doing the minimum just to get by? Have you stopped reading and growing and challenging yourself to get better? Years ago I heard this straightforward statement: You are Jeff Schreve is Senior Pastor of FBC Texarkana (www.fbctexarkana.org) and Founder

of From His Heart Ministries (www.fromhisheart.org).

Not that I have already obtained it, or have already become perfect, but I press on in order that I may lay hold of that for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus. Philippians 3:12

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Financial Focus...

Now that the Tax Relief, Unemployment Insurance Reauthorization, and Job Creation Act of 2010 is law, you’ll

want to familiarize yourself with how this new legislation affects you — both as a wage earner and an investor. Consider these key parts of the new tax laws:• Income tax rates remain the same. Under previous legislation, tax rates were scheduled to rise in 2011, but the new laws will keep all tax brackets the same. • Payroll taxes reduced by two percent. Your share of the Social Security payroll tax will drop from 6.2 percent to 4.2 percent for 2011. Consequently, you should see more take-home pay. . You may want to consider investing at least part of this savings in another retirement account, such as an IRA. • Top capital gains and dividend tax rates stay at 15 percent. The question of what would happen to capital gains and dividend taxes has been of great interest to most investors. For the past several years, the highest capital gains and dividend tax rate has been 15 percent. However, this 15 percent rate was scheduled to expire at the end of 2010; after that, dividends were to be taxed at one’s standard income tax rate, while long-term capital gains would be taxed at 20 percent for anyone above the 15 percent income tax bracket. But due to the new legislation, the highest tax rate for both capital gains and dividends will stay at 15 percent for at least 2011 and 2012. • The capital gains and dividend tax provisions can have significant effects on your investment decisions over the next two years. You now still have a strong incentive to follow a “buy-and-hold” investment strategy, under which you’d earn the favorable 15 percent rate on capital gains from selling an appreciated asset, such as a stock, that you’ve held at least one year. And the 15 percent rate on dividend taxes will continue to provide you with good reason to seek out those stocks that regularly pay dividends; besides offering an advantageous tax rate, dividends, when reinvested can help build

How Will New Tax Laws Affect You?

Submitted by Dustin StringerEdward Jones Investments

your ownership stake in the dividend-paying investments. (Keep in mind, though, that companies are not obligated to pay dividends and can reduce or discontinue them at any time.) • Estate tax exemption set at $5 million per person. Under previous tax laws, the estate tax was scheduled to be repealed entirely for 2010 only, and then return in 2011, with an exclusion amount of $1 million and a top tax rate of 55 percent. Under the new legislation, the exclusion amount for 2011 and 2012 is $5 million per person ($10 million for married couples), with a top tax rate of 35 percent. The new law also includes a “portability” provision which can provide increased flexibility in estate planning between married couples to attain full use of the $10 million exemption. You’ll need to see your tax and legal advisors to determine what, if any, changes you’ll want to make to your estate plans for the next couple of years as these laws will sunset at the end of 2012. • Gift tax exemption set at $5 million per person. Under previous tax laws, the gift tax exemption for lifetime gifts was $1 million. The new legislation increases the lifetime gift tax exemption to $5 million per person. You should work with your tax and legal professionals

to determine whether the new exemption amount provides opportunities for you to consider during the next two years. As always, changes in tax laws can have a big impact on your financial future — so stay informed and take the steps you need to keep progressing toward your goals.

Edward Jones, its employees and Financial Advisors are not estate planners and cannot provide tax or legal advice.

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Jennifer & JeffJennifer Hughes to Jeff Tanner

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Holland and ScottHolland Patterson to Scott Burton

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The Beginning...

Who says there were no winners in John McCain’s 2008 Presidential campaign? Scott Burton certainly considers himself one. That is because at the Republican National Convention amidst former Presidents, sitting statesmen, and some of the most powerful people in the country, he met the most important person in the building - his future wife. While Scott and Holland admit their relationship didn’t involve love at first sight, they agree that the second time did the trick.

Proposal...

Although they both worked in politics and lived in Washington D.C., Scott had to return to his hometown of Chicago once the campaign ended. Over the next 14 months, the two racked up frequent flyer miles as they never spent more than three weeks apart. It was only a matter of time before Scott returned to D.C. True to the excitement that defined their relationship, he proposed on the eve of Holland’s birthday, at the steps of the Lincoln Memorial in the middle of one of the worst blizzards Washington had ever seen.

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It’s your lucky day!

Tuck a sugar cube into your glove -- according to Greek culture, the sugar will sweeten your union.

The English believe a spider found in a wedding dress means good luck. Yikes!

In English tradition, Wednesday is considered the “best day” to marry, although Monday is for wealth and Tuesday is for health.

The groom carries the bride across the threshold to bravely protect her from evil spirits lurking below.

Saturday is the unluckiest wedding day, according to English folklore. Funny -- it’s the most popular day of the week to marry!

Rain on your wedding day is actually considered good luck, according to Hindu tradition!

Peas are thrown at Czech newlyweds instead of rice.

A Finnish bride traditionally went door-to-door collecting gifts in a pillowcase, accompanied by an older married man who represented long marriage.

Ring in the New!

Engagement and wedding rings are worn on the fourth finger of the left hand because it was once thought that a vein in that finger led directly to the heart.

Priscilla Presley’s engagement ring was a whopping 3 1/2-carat rock surrounded by a detachable row of smaller diamonds.

Diamonds set in gold or silver became popular as betrothal rings among wealthy Venetians toward the end of the fifteenth century.

In the symbolic language of jewels, a sapphire in a wedding ring means marital happiness.

A pearl engagement ring is said to be bad

luck because its shape echoes that of a tear.

One of history’s earliest engagement rings was given to Princess Mary, daughter of Henry VIII. She was two years old at the time.

Seventeen tons of gold are made into wedding rings each year in the United States!

Fashion is Here!

Queen Victoria started the Western world’s white wedding dress trend in 1840 -- before then, brides simply wore their best dress.

In Asia, wearing robes with embroidered cranes symbolizes fidelity for the length of a marriage.

Ancient Greeks and Romans thought the veil protected the bride from evil spirits. Brides have worn veils ever since.

On her wedding day, Grace Kelly wore a dress with a bodice made from beautiful 125-year-old lace.

In Japan, white was always the color of choice for bridal ensembles -- long before Queen Victoria popularized it in the Western world.

In Korea, brides don bright hues of red and yellow to take their vows.

Brides carry or wear “something old” on their wedding day to symbolize continuity with the past.

The “something blue” in a bridal ensemble symbolizes purity, fidelity, and love.

Food and Family

In Egypt, the bride’s family traditionally does all the cooking for a week after the wedding, so the couple can…relax.

In South Africa, the parents of both bride and groom traditionally carried fire from their hearths to light a new fire in the newlyweds’ hearth.

The tradition of a wedding cake comes from ancient Rome, where revelers broke a loaf of bread over a bride’s head for fertility’s sake.

The custom of tiered cakes emerged from a game where the bride and groom attempted to kiss over an ever-higher cake without knocking it over.

Legend says single women will dream of their future husbands if they sleep with a slice of groom’s cake under their pillows.

An old wives’ tale: If the younger of two sisters marries first, the older sister must dance barefoot at the wedding or risk never landing a husband.

Party the Night Away

In many cultures around the world -- including Celtic, Hindu and Egyptian weddings -- the hands of a bride and groom are literally tied together to demonstrate the couple’s commitment to each other and their new bond as a married couple (giving us the popular phrase “tying the knot”).

The Roman goddess Juno rules over marriage, the hearth, and childbirth, hence the popularity of June weddings.

Princess Victoria established the tradition of playing Wagner’s “Bridal Chorus” during her wedding processional in 1858.

The bride stands to the groom’s left during a Christian ceremony, because in bygone days the groom needed his right hand free to fight off other suitors.

On average, 7,000 couples marry each day in the United States.

Valentine’s Day and New Year’s Eve are the two busiest “marriage” days in Las Vegas -- elopement central!

The Catholic tradition of “posting the banns” to announce a marriage originated as a way to ensure the bride and groom were not related.

Stag parties were first held by ancient Spartan soldiers, who kissed their bachelor days goodbye with a raucous party.

Luck or Jinx? Here are a few traditions that according to some may bring one or the other!

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WEDDING PLANNER

Nine to Twelve Months Before • Announce your engagement.• Set an initial budget. • Select a wedding date and time. • Select and book your ceremony and reception locations. • Book photographer and videographer. • Book caterer.• Book florist.• Determine who will officiate at the ceremony. • Set aside blocks of hotel/motel rooms for out-of-town guests. • Book band or DJ. • Sign up for your church’s premarriage counseling, if required.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Six to Nine Months Before • Start compiling the guest list.• Select the attendants for your wedding party. • Purchase the bride’s gown. • Purchase the groom’s tuxedo. • Purchase bridesmaids’ dresses. • Arrange for transportation for the wedding. Limousines, Horse & Carriage, vans, etc.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Four to Six Months Before • Check requirements for blood test and marriage license in your state. • Select and order the invitations and stationery. • Make sure all the men’s attire has been ordered. • Complete the guest lists. • Send your engagement announcement to the newspaper. • Finalize honeymoon details.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Two to Four Months Before • Confirm the menu and catering details with the caterer. • Prepare all maps and directions for the ceremony and reception. • Select your wedding rings. • Buy a wedding guest book. • Set the dates and times with the officiant for the rehearsal. • Plan the bridesmaids’ luncheon and any other parties. • Determine your resources for designing and printing the program for the ceremony. • Arrange the necessary accommodations for out-of-town guests. • Plan a rehearsal dinner, time and place. • Confirm the wedding cake details with the baker.

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Use this checklist to help you keep everything organized and ready for your big day! All the details make the difference!

Six to Eight Weeks Before • Mail invitations and announcements. • Set appointment with photographer for your formal bridal portrait. • Select gifts for all your attendants. • Set appointments with any hairdressers and/or makeup artists. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Four to Six Weeks Before • Decide what your menu is going to be for the reception. • Buy a gift for the groom. • Purchase (borrow) all wedding accessories such as the ring pillow, goblets, garter belt, candles, etc. • Choose the music for your ceremony, first dance, parent dances, and party and give information to band, dj, or other musicians.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Two Weeks Before • Make arrangements to have your wedding gifts moved to your new home. • Handle business and legal details such as name changes, address changes, etc. • Get your marriage license and any blood tests which are needed.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- One Week Before • Start packing for your honeymoon. • Give a final head count to the caterer. • Delegate responsibilities to reliable individuals on your wedding day.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- One Day Before • Get a manicure or massage to relax yourself. • Review and rehearse all the details of your participants.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The Big Day • Allow yourself plenty of time to get dressed. • Be sure to eat properly. • Rest and relax with a good bath. • Prepare for your hairdresser and makeup appointments. • Enjoy your wonderful wedding and cherish each and every moment!

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Hey, brides! Have you heard about one of the latest trends in wedding photography? Hint: It involves the

bride wearing a lot less than her gown. Boudoir photography is definitely gaining popularity among to-be brides, but what’s it really all about? Are these these risque pics right for you?

So, what is boudoir photography exactly?Boudoir photography is a sexy new trend that’s especially popular as a wedding day gift from a bride to her groom. Boudoir photos are usually taken wearing just lingerie. They’re hardly X-rated, but rather PG-13 -- as in classic pinup-inspired pics, or what the pros call ‘implied nudes.’ That means you’re not wearing much of anything, but you’re also not showing off anything either (think shot from the back, or lying on your stomach).

When should I schedule the session?If you’re spending time and money on an exercise and beauty routine, you may want to wait until a few weeks before the wedding to show off the results. Plus, a fun

and pampering photo shoot is a good way to indulge and take some time out from wedding planning.

How long does it take?Though it depends on the package you choose, your boudoir photo session will probably last about two hours. Why so long? It takes time for hair and makeup, if you choose this option. It may also take you a little while to relax. Most brides aren’t used to lounging around wearing little, if any, clothing in front of the camera, so your first few shots will likely look a bit stiff.

Where should I have it done?Talk with your photographer to come up with the best location. Many photographers may be able to do a photo session in a studio. Another popular site is a posh hotel room. Your own home or a borrowed home is another option. The main key is to get an okay from your photographer on the locale -- a number of different backgrounds for poses are important, and they’ll also need lots of natural light.

What should I wear?The most important thing -- choose outfits that make you feel sexy. A good rule of thumb: Bring something white, something black, and something in a bright color so you can mix and match. A corset will create sexy curves. In addition to lingerie, don’t forget shoes, jewelry, and that engagement ring.

Should I bring anyone along?Though you don’t want to turn your shoot into a three-ring circus, it can sometimes be a good idea to bring a friend. Why? You’ll feel more at ease if you can make a few jokes with a pal.

Make sure you are comfortable with your photographer. Many women prefer women photographers -- so make sure that if you book a studio with multiple photographers, you know who will be taking your photographs.

You’ll be posing like a pro in no time -- but of course, this is a one-time-only exclusive for a very special audience (your very lucky groom).

Boudoir Portraits...Is this new trend for you?

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Air and HeatingCentral Air450 S. Kings HighwayTexarkana, TX 75501903.832.1212

AlterationsBea’s Alterations2917 N. Stateline Ave.Texarkana, TX903-792-2955

ApartmentsLegacy at Pleasant Grove5911 Richmond Rd.Texarkana, TX888.763.2676

Richmond Oaks Apartments2815 Richmond Rd. Texarkana, TX 903.832.6150

Summerhill Woods Apartments4501 Summerhill Rd.Texarkana, TX 903.793.7888

Three Fountains Apartments1915 Richmond Rd.Texarkana, TX903.838.9801

Westwood Apartments101 Redwater Rd.Wake Village, TX 903.832.8446

AttireAbby Gayle’s4012 Summerhill SquareTexarkana, TX 903.792.0088

Gayle’s4059 Summerhill SquareTexarkana, TX903.792.0056

BanksGuaranty Bond Bank2202 St. Michael Dr.Texarkana, TX 903.792.8600

Texar Federal Credit UnionRichmond Rd.Texarkana, TX 903.223.5626

CakesColdstone Creamery4228 St. Michael Dr.Texarkana, TX903.838.2653

Julie’s Deli4055 Summerhill Sq.Texarkana, TX903.792.3354

Reception ArtsBecky RisingerAshdown, AR870.898.5273

Silver Spoon5530 Scottsdale DriveTexarkana, TX 75503903.838.4648www.silverspooninc.com

CaterersChappo’s Italian Restaurant1617 New Boston RoadTexarkana, TX 75501903.791.1726

Culinary CreationsPam Elliott903.831.4674

Fuzzy’s Tacos4809 Texas Blvd.Texarkana, TX903.791.8226


La Fogata3401 Genoa RoadTexarkana, Ar870.773.1879


Smokey Joe’s BBQ300 W. New Boston RoadNash, TX903.223.8227

Timothy’s4115 N. Kings HighwayTexarkana, TX903.831.5999

Wendy’s4201 Stateline AvenueTexarkana, TX2902 Richmond RoadTexarkana, TX3737 New Boston RoadTexarkana, TX1615 N. HerveyHope, AR124 N. Loop Highway 59Atlanta, TX

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ClothingAbby Gayle’s4012 Summerhill SquareTexarkana, TX903.792.0088

Gayle’s4059 Summerhill SquareTexarkana, TX903.792.0056

Lil’ Pink Hippo3402 Richmond RoadTexarkana, TX903.255.7864

Cosmetic SurgeryCarmony Oral, Facial and Dental Center5305 Cowhorn CreekTexarkana, TX 903.791.8405

DJ ServicesFabienne Thrash Deejay Service903-585-9993

Dry CleaningHoliday CleanersLocations throughout Texarkana Area 870.773.4072

Event LocationsGarrison GardensTexarkana, AR 71854870.773.0275www.garrisongardens.net

Northridge Country Club120 Bill Rodgers Dr.Texarkana, TX 75503903.794.6196www.northridgecountryclub.net

The Pavillion at Elk Meadow8 Miles West of New Boston on I-30382 PR 42042DeKalb, TX 75559903.319.5130

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Prissy Chrissy Ranch915 FM 2148 SouthTexarkana, TX 75501903.838.6121www.prissychrissy.com

Raindrop Hill Farm4300 N. Kings HighwayTexarkana, TX 903.832.7913

Regional Arts CenterCabe Hall321 W. 4th StreetTexarkana, TX 75501903.792.8681www.trahc.org

Fitness CentersAnytime Fitness Richmond Road3415 Richmond Road.Texarkana, TX 75503903.794.5348

FloristsH&N Floral7801 N. State Line5708 Richmond Rd.Texarkana, TX 903.794.1417903.832.2000

Queen City FloralHighway 59 NorthQueen City, TX 903.796.2891

Ruth’s Flowers3501 Texas Bllvd.Texarkana, TX 903.793.6711www.ruthsflowers.net

Scooter Raney at J. Brown for the Home121 College DriveTexarkana, TX903.793.4114

Twisted Vines406 N. Stateline AvenueTexarkana, AR870-772-2700

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Oak Creek Furniture8024 West 7th St.Texarkana, TX 903.832.0793

GiftsDot’s Ace Hardware3411 Richmond Rd.Texarkana, TX 903.838.0059

H&N Floral7801 N. State Line5708 Richmond Rd.Texarkana, TX 903.794.1417903.832.2000

Lane’s Gifts & Collectibles720 Realtor Ave.Texarkana, AR870.773.2123

Mixing Bowl4014 Summerhill SquareTexarkana, TX903.794.4014

Queen City FloralHighway 59 NorthQueen City, TX 903.796.2891

Scooter Raney at J. Brown for the Home121 College DriveTexarkana, TX903.793.4114

Table Manners3205 Kennedy LaneTexarkana, TX 903.838.3538


Hair CareHeadmasters Hair Salon3703 Mall DriveTexarkana, TX903.832.6261

Style StudioLisa Harris3201 Kennedy LaneTexarkana, TX 903.223.1719

HospiceDierksen Hospice6500 N. Summerhill Road, Suite 2BTexarkana, TX903.793.6350

HospitalsChristus St. Michael Health System2600 St. Michael Dr.Texarkana, TX903.614.1000

Health South Rehabilitation515 West 12th St.Texarkana, TX903.793.0088

Wadley Hospital1000 Pine St.Texarkana, TX903.798.8000

HotelsBest Western Texarkana Inn & Suites5219 Crossroads ParkwayTexarkana, AR870.774.1534

Clarion Lacross Hotel5100 N. Stateline Ave.Texarkana, AR870.774.3521www.lacrosse-hotel.com

Courtyard by Marriott5001 North Cowhorn CreekTexarkana, TX903.334.7400

Fairfield Inn and Suites by Marriott4209 Mall Dr.Texarkana, TX 903.838.1000

Hampton Inn & Suites 4601 Cowhorn Creek RoadTexarkana, TX 903.832.3499

Holiday Inn Express & Suites4545 Cowhorn Creek RoadTexarkana, TX 903.223.0008

TownePlace Suites by Marriott5020 North Cowhorn CreekTexarkana, TX903.334.8800

InsuranceBrian PurtleAllstate Insurance3301 Richmond Rd.Texarkana, TX 903.832.5881

Elite InsuranceTammy McDowell1705 N. Kings HighwayNash, TX 903.794.0000

Farm Bureau Insurance4140 McKnight Rd.Texarkana, TX903.838.8707

Greg Cockerell State Farm Insurance4807 Texas Blvd.Texarkana, TX 75503903.793.7502

Kelli Ashbrook State Farm Insurance3410 Moores LaneTexarkana, TX 75503903.223.8100www.kelliashbrook.com

Ron Morrow State Farm Insurance3306 Richmond Rd.Texarkana, TX 75503903.832.5505www.ronmorrowagency.com

JewelersAlexander’s Jewelers3701 Mall DriveTexarkana, TX903.832.3557

Blue Isle Expressions3402 Richmond RoadTexarkana, TX903.791.9992

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Crocker’s Jewelers3117 Kennedy LaneTexarkana, TX 75501903.832.8686

Micah’s Jewelers2812 Richmond RoadTexarkana, TX903.735.2336

Make-upGayle’s4059 Summerhill SquareTexarkana, TX903.792.0056

Salon Visage EsthetiqueMary Ann Robbins4506 Summerhill Rd.Texarkana, TX903.794.4007

SanctuaryKimberly Parham, M.D.3502 Richmond RoadTexarkana, TX 75503903.334.8661

Medical EquipmentRespiratory Solutions3101 Kennedy Lane, Suite 1000Texarkana, TX 75503903.793.2110

Pet GroomerBows & Tows254 E. New Boston Rd.Nash, TX 75570903.223.3647

PhotographerImage Forward Photography200 Heather Dr.Texarkana, TX 75501903.334.9605www.imageforwardtxk.com

PhysiciansExpress Care5483 Summerhill RoadTexarkana, TX 75503903.223.5931

Ly Gaylor, M.D.DermatologistCollom & Carney Clinic5002 Cowhorn Creek RoadTexarkana, TX 75503903.614.3006

Philip Hahn, M.D.Advanced Foot Care5606 Summerhill RoadTexarkana, TX 75503903.791.1222

Jon Northam, M.D.6 Woodmont CrossingTexarkana, TX903.791.1044

Mark Wren, M.D.Physiatrist3510 Richmond Road, Suite 400Texarkana, TX 75503903.831.6275

Vision Source4401 Morris LaneTexarkana, TX 903.838.9063

PlumbingCentral Air/Roto Rooter450 S. Kings HighwayTexarkana, TX 75501903.832.1212

Real EstateAnnette KilkerRemax5120 Summerhill Rd.Texarkana, TX 75503903.277.3744

Impact RealtyBill and Tracy Spradlin1200 N. Kings Hwy., Suite 104Nash, TX903.748.3186903.748.2477

Jason ThomsonRemax5120 Summerhill Rd.Texarkana, TX 75503903.794.5250

Teresa LiepmanRemax5120 Summerhill Rd.Texarkana, TX 75503903.276.9464

RefreshmentsBJ’s Refreshment Center3260 N. Stateline Ave.Texarkana, AR 870.774.5931

Bolls Distributing700 E. Broad St.Texarkana, AR 870.774.9283

The Villa Liquor Store5108 N. StatelineTexarkana, AR [email protected]

RentalsBig Event / Atlas Game Room2837 New Boston Rd.Texarkana, TX903.334.7444

Dot’s Rentals814 N. Robison RoadTexarkana, TX 75501903.792.70113413 Richmond Rd.Texarkana, TX903.838.0551

Freeze FramePhoto Booth Rental1005 Brown Dr.Wake Village, TX903.224.2391903.691.9046

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RestaurantsAmigo Juan2004 Hampton RoadTexarkana, TX 903.794.2300

Amigo Juan4301 Morris LaneTexarkana, TX903.334.6971

Chappo’s Italian Restaurant1617 New Boston RoadTexarkana, TX 75501903.791.1726

Daddy Dougaloo’s905 New Boston RoadTexarkana, TX 75503903.791.0172

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Fuzzy’s Tacos4809 Texas Blvd.Texarkana, TX903.791.8226

Golden Corral3809 Sowell LaneTexarkana, TX 75503903.334.8399


La Fogata3401 Genoa RoadTexarkana, AR 71854870.773.1879

Shorty’s Donuts2729 New Boston RoadTexarkana, TX 75501903.832.6686

Silver Spoon5530 Scottsdale DriveTexarkana, TX 75503903.838.4648


Tasty Donuts1443 N. Kings HighwayNash, TX 903.838.0422


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Wingstop2700 Richmond Road, Suite 14A1Texarkana, TX903.255.00904501 N. State Line,No. 106Texarkana, TX903.792.9464

Retirement/Assisted Living HomeCornerstone Retirement Community4100 Moores LaneTexarkana, TX903.832.5515

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Spas/SalonsAll About YouDiana Gregory/Lori Campbell4100 Summerhill Sq.Texarkana, TX903.792.7775

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SanctuaryKimberly Parham, M.D.3502 Richmond RoadTexarkana, TX 75503903.334.8661

TravelVickie’s ToursPO Box 682Hooks, TX903.547.3030

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Wedding AttireBridal Castle3209 Kennedy LaneTexarkana, TX903.838.3886

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He has mastered plants, planes and pistols, tackled pedagogy and continues to learn about parenting.

His first introduction to plants came on the farm he and his family operated in Lamar County near Paris, Texas. When the role was called in Paris High School, he answered for Mark Butler, the middle son of the Butler Family. In 1978, Mark graduated from high school and immediately headed to Texas A&M, College Station from which he earned his BS in Mechanized Agriculture, Class of 1983. Along the way, he met and married Alison, a teacher then and now a First Grade teacher in Redlick ISD. When Alison and Mark were first married, they had no money for a honeymoon, so they saved. By the arrival of their second year, they had enough money to fly (something Mark had never done

before) to Cancun. This was a life-changing moment for him, as he fell in love—again—this time with flying. While working for the USDA, he also took lessons, earned his private pilot’s license and bought the airplane in which he had learned to fly. At the same time, he lived on and managed the airport in Gilmer, Texas. “We just opened the hangar door and flew when we got ready to go to dinner. It was great.” Alison had just finished her practice teaching at UT Tyler and was in need of a real teaching job. Her list of choices included Fort Worth, Killeen or Houston, all of which had flight schools. Alison chose Killeen, and they moved. The choice was also a good one for Mark, who enrolled in the flight school at nearby Central Texas College. Since he already had private pilot flying time, Mark combined his flying hours

with instruction and earned his instrument license, commercial pilot’s license and worked as a flight instructor for Central Texas College. Everything just worked together to hasten his certifications.

Once again opportunity knocked. This time Mark answered the door. He was hired to fly freight in small twin engine planes on the graveyard shift. Now the shift had come not only in their location, Houston, but also in their time. Alison taught first grade during the day while Mark slept. She came home from her workday just as he was heading out to his job. The two would meet for breakfast the next morning, then off she went to school and Mark to bed. When he awakened in time, Mark would prepare dinner for them to share before his departure. A year or two of this was enough, so Mark moved up in the size of his aircraft

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and company, and their family headed to Charlottesville, Virginia. His new company was committed to aviation, so Mark spent lots of time in the air between his Virginia base and corporate offices in Chicago. Now he was flying the Beechcraft King Air 200 and the Cessna Citation 650—small jet aircraft. “The first year I was gone for 200 nights. The corporation’s philosophy was if you could justify the trip, you could fly the aircraft. The pilots were treated like ‘little gods.’ It was the perfect job. I loved it, and the family environment was wonderful.” As is too often the case in the “boom or bust” world of aviation, Mark’s “perfect job” company merged with a larger, less progressive company that was not aviation oriented. The airplanes were grounded, and Mark was looking for a job. “I took the first job west of the Mississippi I could find,” he explains. “It was in Texarkana.” After flying for a local company for about a year and half “I got tired of being away from home and going on everybody’s vacation—more work than pleasure, so I left aviation.” Utilizing his mechanized agriculture knowledge, Mark started manufacturing his own livestock food with a small food mill and feed store, and he did that for about eight years. Then came….the ice storm of 2000 followed all- too- quickly by 9/11, 2001. “It was tough,” he shakes his head as he remembers the challenges not only to the nation and region but also personal. “God is great! December 2001, three people walked through the door of my feed store and just asked to buy the business, so I decided to sell.” Friends of Mark’s encouraged him to apply for the horticulture teacher position at Texas High School. William Little, the current teacher, was getting ready to retire. His were big shoes to fill, and Mark took advantage of the rare opportunity. The change was perfect for Mark and his family.

His daughter Andrea enrolled in Texas High as a freshman the following year. Now Andrea has graduated from high school and moved on to Henderson State University to major in theater. Son Jake is a Texas High junior and wants to work in the mission field as a pilot. “My wife’s a schoolteacher, so all our schedules are pretty much the same. We get to have dinner as a family every night.” A sly smile that requires some coaxing sneaks across Mark’s face. “Perfect, perfect life!” Mark’s chief work responsibility these days is his Texas High classroom. “Teaching is a wonderful profession. It’s hard—the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Many days I’ve wanted to go home and kick the dog; many days are wonderful. I don’t know why teachers are not treated like the pilots on my job were treated—like gods. Parents want to know that your kids are safe, protected, and you’re gonna’ be there to help turn out students who honor fathers and mothers. We’re here to do it.” Aside from the classroom instruction, Mark and his students manage two large greenhouses and an outdoor nursery which accommodates trees, shrubbery and ground covers—hardy plants. One greenhouse is used as a workshop where plants are propagated, repotted, generally using a pearlite potting mix and peat moss, and allowed to grow. Their inventory includes sturdy plants, like a rare aloe vera and some one-of-a-kind plants. Here a large tank filled with circulating water currently houses about 300 catfish, 10-12” long and about 1/2 pound or less. This aquaponics project siphons the effluent water from the tank to use for watering the greenhouse plants. Additionally, a large circular shield can be placed over the tank. Small circles which can absorb light and moisture have been created within the shield’s boundaries, and seeds placed inside. Lettuce, basil, leafy green

vegetables with short growing seasons can be cultivated in this environment, i.e. grown hydroponically. The commercial greenhouse houses spring bedding plants or other plants in season, and a wealth of healthy ferns. “Ferns,“ Mark advises, “should be bought in mid-March when temperatures no lower than 45 degrees are a certainty.” Profits from the greenhouse sales are plowed back into the horticulture program. “I was fortunate to follow William Little. His foresight provided a nice base of operations for us.” The steady rhythmical pace of Mark Butler’s gait and his speech seldom change as he moves from one career or subject to another, yet he is an amazing man. There appears to be no job from which he shrinks if he decides he wants to do it, and his mind constantly uses the experiences of his past as a bridge to new learning—new experiences—in the present. Is that statement confusing enough? Translated it means: Appearances are deceiving, and Mark Butler lives several different lives— husband of Alison, parent of Andrea and Jake; dedicated teacher of horticulture and

Pistol NRA Pistol Instructor Texas Certified Concealed Handgun InstructorShotgun NRA Sports-Shotgun Coach USA Shooting-Shotgun Coach ATA- Shotgun Coach

Growing up, Mark drove to high school every day with his gun rack attached to his pickup’s back window, and a Winchester 30-30 and Remington 870 shotgun, comfortably and safely placed there. He used the long guns when he hunted deer or duck with his brothers and

Below: Marks teaches his student how to properly grip a handgun.

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dad on their farm. He never purchased a pistol until he was in college. When he married and kids began to arrive, the guns were put away. In 2007, Mark’s friends Raymond Calhoun and Jessie Walker invited him to go shoot pistols with them. “It’s kinda’ one of those things men gravitate toward,” Mark chuckles. Eventually, they encouraged Mark to get his concealed handgun license. To qualify for a concealed handgun license in Texas, a person must:

1. Be 21 years old. (Members and for-mer members of the armed forces must be 18.)

2. Have a clean criminal history, including military service and recent juvenile records.

3. Not be under a protective order.

4. Not be chemically dependent.

5. Not be of unsound mind.

6. Not be delinquent in paying fines, fees, child support, etc.

7. Be eligible to purchase a handgun by completing the NICS check.

8. Complete required training.

Required training means a 10-15 hour course which includes both classroom instruction (6-7 hours) and a score of 70% on a written examination and a shooting range (3-4 hours) score of 70%. “The state is very generous on shooting,” Mark affirms.(Consult the website of the Texas Concealed Handgun Association (TCHA) for thorough information.) As is his custom, Mark wanted to learn, but he did not think sitting through a “quickie” one day class would be sufficient. His only alternative was to earn his Instructor’s license and organize his own course, so that’s what he did. He went to Austin, completed the DPS instructor’s school and passed the tests. He returned to Texarkana a State Certified Handgun Instructor and started his own Texarkana Pistol School. His aim is to equip his clients with the knowledge to feel safe

and confident in handling their guns, thus increasing their pleasure. To achieve that goal, he tailors his classes to the needs of his clients—1 on 1 private classes; pairs or groups—clients determine. He seldom completes his classes in one day, but can. His schedules are constructed to facilitate his clients’ needs. All of his classes follow state mandated guidelines, although plastic models are used in the classrooms. No guns appear until the clients are on the shooting range, since safety is a major concern within the classroom and the curriculum. When students come to class with no idea about the handgun suitable for them, Coach Butler provides them examples. Although there are many models from which to choose (much like cars), the

two basic types are the revolver and semi-automatic. The basic difference between the guns is the way the ammunition is loaded: revolvers depend on cylinders which hold the bullets. When the trigger is pulled, the projectile is fired, and the cylinder rotates to position another round. When all the rounds have been fired, the gun must be manually reloaded. Semi-automatics utilize a magazine which is loaded with bullets and then the magazine is inserted into the pistol. After the trigger is pulled and the round is fired, the recoil operation of the handgun automatically extracts and ejects the shell casing and reloads the chamber with a new round. The semi-automatic pistol is somewhat more complex than the revolver. Students’ choices depend, in large part, on personnel preference. Their size

Above: Using the appropriate equipment for training purposes is essential.

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and the size and recoil of the pistol are also considerations. The purpose of the shooting range is to refine a student’s marksmanship and build confidence. Their goal is to learn to aim for the center mass, since it is the largest part of the body; and there are fewer chances to miss.” This is the quickest way to stop an aggression against us,” Mark affirms. There are other lessons to be learned at the range as well. Some may not be in the plans, like a Corpus Christi friend who was not paying attention but had her finger on the trigger of her gun. She almost shot her foot off. “That incident and scare in itself made me a believer in safety,” she declares. Coach Butler’s students probably would not have made such a mistake. Although he moves and speaks at a steady, unhurried pace, he is acutely aware of everything that is happening around him. Safety is uppermost in his mind and his teaching, and he understands the importance of attention to every detail of the gun and the gun user’s behavior. The emphasis of his total program is on responsibility. Earning a Concealed Handgun License imposes a new responsibility on the licensee—a new document of identification to accompany a driver’s license. If a licensed handgun user is stopped by a law enforcement officer, both the driver’s license and the CHL should be displayed to the officer—even if the gun is not in the vehicle. “By law,” Butler explains, “if a handgun user is in an automobile, the CHL does not have to be displayed. I feel like we have less to explain when we show it. For his own protection, the officer is likely to direct the driver to put his/her hands on the steering wheel and instruct: ‘Without using your hands, tell me where it [the gun] is.’ “I have had nothing but good experiences with local police and DPS officers,” a quick addition from Mark.” I have always been treated with courtesy. Most officers treat a driver with more respect and probably less suspicion.” Butler, who considers himself more coach than instructor, gets involved with his students so that they understand not only the tool they have chosen to use but their legal responsibilities as well. “I am concerned that my students leave with the confidence that they can defend themselves

and their property. In Texas, they can legally defend a third person and the third person’s property, if that’s what the third person wants. There needs to be an understanding between the two.” Obviously, those who earn their CHL from the Texarkana Pistol School and Mark Butler are well prepared. Currently, however, Butler and his son, Jake are embarked on yet another adventure—the sport of shotgunning, i.e. skeet and trapshooting (first mentioned in 1793). Both sports, born out of hunters’ desires to improve their shooting, use competitive style shotguns called “over and under” and require sharp eyes and quick reflexes. Skeet shooting involves a uniform series of shots at clay targets, while targets are thrown in more random trajectories in trap shooting. “Skeet shooting,” according to Butler, “is a more gentlemanly, nurturing environment while trap is more competitive, more intense and individual.”

When Jake became interested in trapshooting competitively, Butler— “dad, coach, supporter, money-man, driver”—and his son spent lots of time together and almost wore out the family pick-up going to competitions. “Distance is an issue,” Butler explains. “and coaches are scarce.” When Jake was ready to move beyond his 4H and AIM guidance, Butler conducted an internet search for nearby coaches to work with his son. The name of Bret Erickson from Lovelady, Texas, appeared. Erickson, a National Shotgun Coach, was all apologies, as his new job meant he was unavailable for working with Jake. Erickson’s new job? He had just been hired to coach the USA’s Olympic Trapshooting Team. After too many futile searches, Mark Butler realized there was only one thing to do—he needed to become certified as an instructor in trap and skeet shooting, and he is well on his way to achieving that goal.

In the Fall of 2010, he discovered he could become certified as an instructor through USA Shooting, the governing body for USA Olympic Shooting and also ATA (Amateur Trapshooting Association). Potential coaches usually study with one trainer in both the classroom and on the range. Coach Butler has completed the Level 1 certification (can work up to 4—Olympic coach) which enables him to coach American Trap and Skeet Shooting and USA shooting style (Olympic, International).

Coach Butler’s ultimate goal is to establish a place for Bowie County youth to be able to shoot ATA and Olympic style. “FFA is making a big push toward clay shooting, “Mark reports. “Texas is behind the curve here.” Boys and girls can participate in skeet and trap shooting, and equipment exists for youngsters as early as fourth or fifth grades. In junior high, participants become more competitive, and in high school students are able to compete against better adults. “It’s very humbling,” Coach Butler confesses, “to be beaten by a junior high student.” College scholarships are available, and Olympic competition is a potential for trap and skeet shooters. Jerry Pardue, a Trap and Skeet shooting coach at Tennessee Tech University has written, “Skeet shooting is a way of life—exercise for the body, mind, and soul….Through winter and summer [competitors] shoot at millions of targets—breaking most of them—meet new people, and travel across the United States.” Probably the major drawback to sport shooting is the expense. Ammunition, equipment and facilities are costly. That is why Butler is in search of an organization or patron that can underwrite his program. He is also encouraging school officials on the Texas side to consider sport shooting teams as a part of their competitive sports program. Although Mark Butler’s primary job is “teaching,” he will be certified for “coaching” when his plans and dreams become reality. A pervasive pause while Mark Butler squares himself in his chair. A slight, almost subtle smile creeps into his seriousness. “The only thing I’m trying to get across is I’ve had the opportunity to stand on the shoulders of some very, very good people. Why did it take 50 years for me to realize so many people have helped me get where I am—helped shape my life for the good? I’ve had some bad influences in my life, but I’ve been shaped by all the good that’s come.” Mark Butler’s shoulders are broad and welcoming, as he leads, persuades, informs, directs his students in planting seeds, firing guns, setting goals, assuming responsibility, showing respect and thinking of others. He, too, is “very, very good people” for those whose lives he touches.

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EVENT Realtor’s BallWHERE Northridge Country Club

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EVENT African - American Committee Meeting

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EVENT American Cancer Society’s Relay University

WHERE Lufkin, Texas

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1. Front row: Shirley Crawford, Janelle Williamson, Michelle Miller, Heather Keith and Brooke Bender; Back Row: Alena Potts, Kelli Lovell, Mary Finkerbinder, Barbara Walker and Sharee Williams2. Heather Keith, Barbara Walker and Michelle Miller3. Michelle Miller, Barbara Walker, Heather Keith and Kelli Lovell4. Brooke Bender5. Heather Keith receiving National 5 Star Award6. Alena Potts, Mary Finkerbinder, Shirley Crawford and Janelle Williamson7. Shirley Crawford and Mary Finkerbinder8. Kellie Lovell and Shree Williams9. Mary Finkerbinder receives pendent for one of many Heroes of Hope

The Texarkana Relay for Life won 3 awards: National 5 Star Award, East TX Regional Excellence Award and the Umbrella Award.

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EVENT Texarkana Cotillion Debutante Ball

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EVENT Phantom BallWHERE Texarkana Country Club

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February Calendar of Events

FEbruary 4CHRISTUS St. Michael Foundation GalaFundraising event with dinner and entertainment for the Texarkana Community Clinic. Individual reservations and table sponsorships available.6:30PM - Northridge Country ClubFor more information call 903-614-2024 or visit www. christusstmichaelfoundation.org.

FEbruary 4-6, 11-13Tex*Rep presents Nunsense! It’s Habit-Forming!Due to an unfortunate accident in the kitchen of the Little Sisters of Hoboken convent, some 52 nuns have gone on to their reward. Adding to the unpleasant event, the nunnery’s coffers lack the funds to pay for a decent burial for all the sisters, leaving four of them in cold storage. They decide to raise funds by putting on a talent show, taking over the school auditorium, which is currently set up for the eighth grade production of “Grease.” Singing, dancing and

comic surprises abound in this show that has become an international phenomenon. Laughter is a blessed event with these zany nuns.Friday and Saturday at 7:30PMSunday at 2:00PMStilwell Humanities Building TC CampusRESERVATIONS: 903-831-STAR (7827)

FEbruary 10Four R’s of Volunteer ManagementFREE Seminar presented by Mary Beth Harrington, Director of Community Outreach, Texas Association of Nonprofit Organizations. Four R’s of Volunteer Management: Recruitment, Recognition, Retention= Revenue and More! Recommended for Volunteer Managers/Coordinators as well as Directors and staff of non profit organizations. Registration required at www.tano.org/en/cev/1356Nelson Room at Texarkana Public Library9:00AM - NoonFor more information call 903-794-2149

FEbruary 12America’s Sweethearts PageantSponsored by Covergirl ProductionsThe pageant will benefit the American Heart Association. Registration is open to all girls ages 3 months-21 years. Visit www.jkenterprises.org for more info or to register online, or contact the Pageant Director via email at [email protected] High School Auditorium - 10:00AM800-606-3538

FEbruary 13American Cancer Society will be having their 2011 Survivor/Caregiver Dinner at Christus St Michaels from 4:00PM - 6:00PM.Please call 903-831-5422 for more info.

FEbruary 18Texarkana Area Veterans Council 12th Annual Veteran’s Benefit Chili Cook-OffCome taste some of the wildest, tangiest, and most outlandish chili concoctions inNortheast Texas - Southwest Arkansas.Taste them all and cast your vote for your favorite! All proceeds benefit the Texarkana area veterans council and are used to purchase the dav van.11:00AM - 1:00PMTruman Arnold Center, Texarkana College$5.00 General admission$3.00 Military & student (ID required)

FEbruary 19Girl Scouts Green GirlsThey will go over the Girl Scout Leadership Experience and do some work out of the “Its your world, Change it” Journey. This event is open to all girls between the grades of 6th and 12th. There will be a $5 fee for this event, and if you have not already registered with Girl Scouts you must pay the $12 registration fee as well. Deadline to register for this event is Friday, Feb. 11th, 2011.Girl Scout Diamonds Texarkana Office5:00PM - 7:30PM870-773-2151

FEbruary 22Hands On Texarkana Annual Draw DownTickets are $100-Includes BBQ Dinner for two and a chance to win $5,000. There will also be a silent auction.Collins Home - 6:00PM903-798-3211

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EVENT Four States Reining Horse Association Banquet

WHERE Adult Learning Center

WHEN 1/8/11

1. Group photo. Faces shown: Richard and Leann Hampton, Linda Lilly, Joe and Suni Hensley, Brent Blackwood2. Stuart Russell, Winner of the Rookie II Class3. Jim Lane, winner of the LTD Non-Pro Saddle, Non-Pro Winner and International Non-Pro Winner4. Kevin Dee, 3 pl Rookie II Winner 42 3

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EVENT Hands On Texarkana Annual Donor Appreciation

WHERE The Collins Home

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1. Julie & Ron Collins2. Diana Greenlee, Richard Seymur and Joy Jordan3. Barbara Walker and Ann Nicholas4. Linda Willis and Maxine Crow5. Richard Reynolds and Kelly Mitchell6. Roy and Carol Pit7. Darla Ciganero and Kathey Graves8. Richard Reynolds and Pat Thompson9. Micki Wright and Darla Ciganero10. Elaine Christenson and Dean Ransdel11. John Almer, Ron Collins and Curt Green12. KV and Beverly Manley13. Julie Collins and Rick Futrell

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Texarkana Humane SocieTy

1. Artie is a one year old Catahoula Leopard. He currently weighs 85# and is still growing. His owner could not takehim when he moved. He has been neutered and current on shots. He is also on hw and flea prevention. He would loveto have a nice country home and some children to play with. Artie sits on command and we are working on the rest ofhis manners. 2. toby is a deer head Chihuahua. He was abandoned in an apartment and was emaciated when he was found. He is 8 months old and weighs 10 pounds. He is a real cracker-jack and not for the weak of heart. He is very playful and loves to bark. He would make a great pet for an active family. He is neutered and current on shots. 3. SAbrinA is a Golden retriever mix that is dreaming of a home. She is about 4 years old, weighs 65 lbs and is fully vetted. She loves children and other dogs but does not like cats. She was found in early Spring with a chain grown into her neck, it is now completely healed. Please consider adding Sabrina to your family, she would be a wonderful addition to your family. 4. SiSter is an 8 mo. old Lab Mix. She is going to be a big girl. She loves to run and play, is very energetic, loves sticks and other dogs. She is housetrained, but mostly stays outside. She is a big love, however, she does not get along well with cats or chickens.

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Volunteers who agree to provide a foster home for our strays are provided with medical care for the animals. the Humane Society pays for all immunizations and spays or neuters the animal.

our goal is to place these animals in permanent homes with responsible, loving pet owners.

All of our services are provided through private donations from our community.Donations are accepted and needed! our animal friends appreciate you and your donations are tax deductible! (the Humane Society is all volunteers and all money goes towards the animals.)

We’ve got a full house! Please come visit us us at PetSmart on Saturday, February 12 for national Adoption Month, as well as on Saturday, Febraury 26. you might find the addition your family has been looking for!

For more information, contact Sherrie thompson, President, at 903.838.6334, or go to www.texarkanahumanesociety.com.

Do you have an animal that needs a new home? Please don’t neglect it! if you live within the texas city limits, call Animal Control and they will come pick up for free; Arkansas city limits, call or drop off are free! or, call us and let us help you find a foster home. We will list your animal on our Facebook page at no charge. Let us help!

the texarkana Humane Society is a non-profit volunteer organization dedicated to re-homing orphaned animals, promoting the human-animal bond, preventing animal cruelty, educating children and adults about responsible pet ownership and preventing pet overpopulation.

in an effort to reduce overpopulation and the unwanted pet population, the texarkana Humane Society sponsors a low-cost spay/neuter program. the reduced cost spay/neuter certificates are available to anyone in the community.

You cannot do a kindness too soon , because you never know how soon it will be too late .-Ralph Waldo Emerson

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1. bon bon 1-2 yrs old Female 2. ZeVA 1 yr Female 3. Dot 6 months Female

4. PrinCeSS 2-3 years Female 5. SHyLo 2+ years Male 6. Abby 3+ years Female 7. GrACie 3 years Female 8. there are many cats to love!

This is Maggie and her new owner, Rachel. Before Rachel rescued Maggie, she was sadly just skin and bones, in desperate need of someone to rescue and love her. Rachel did just that! They did a lot of traveling over the

Pick me.Choose me.Love me.

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adopt one.

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holidays and she was a big hit with the whole family. She even made friends with Rachel’s

Mom’s dog, the family Schnauzer.Thank you for caring, Rachel!

We love happy endings!

(Courtesy of TexarkanaHumane Society)

the texarkana Animal Shelter exists to provide protection and care for abandonded, abused, neglected and unwanted companion animals and to promote animal welfarethrough programs and services that mutually benefit animals and people.

tSA is always in need of caring, capable volunteers to assist in with duties at the shelter, adoption events, fund-raising activities and more.

your tax-deductible donation to tAS will help care for and assist in the adoption of loving animals to good homes!

the texarkana Animal Shelter is located at 203 Harrison, texarkana, Ar, 71854. For more information, call 870. 773.6388, or visitwww.texarkanaanimalshelter.net.

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Making life better... from the ground up.

Wondering if there is anything you can do with that worn and unattractive concrete patio or

driveway? Building an outdoor kitchen and interested in having concrete countertops, cabinet cases and flooring? Remodeling your home and looking for a rich, beautiful and unique floor covering? Want to put your logo in concrete at the entry to your business? Consider decorative concrete!

Decorative concrete overlays and staining by Gooding Decorative Concrete can transform your existing concrete into beautiful, one-of-a-kind surfaces. Using overlays and stamps, stains and dyes, pigmented concrete sealers and epoxies, templates and engraving … and your imagination … you no longer need to tear out, hide or cover your worn and unattractive concrete. We can transform it into a beautiful and durable surface.

The overlay systems combine the

strength of cement with the durability and bonding power of polymers and acrylics. Colors are added to enhance the beauty of these durable products. Stains and dyes, along with engraving equipment are used to score decorative patterns into your existing concrete surfaces. A penetrating cure and seal is

applied to provide superb durability, weather and UV resistance and ensure a long product life.

Gooding Decorative Concrete’s mission is to transform your existing concrete by providing outstanding customer service, delivering excellent results and employing talented and dedicated men

and women. Marshall Gooding, owner,

has extensive experience in the construction industry. His interest in the industry began with the influence of his mother, Ann Gooding, an

interior designer. He has built homes, cabinets, furniture, arbors, and water features. Our staff, including Debbie Brower, Jaclyn Gooding, and Miranda Williams, all graphic designers, have a combined total of more than 30 years of experience.

Gooding Decorative Concrete is a small family owned and operated contractor business specializing in staining, engraving, overlaying and stamping established concrete. The business center is located in Texarkana, Texas, with easy access to all residential and commercial sites in the Ark-La-Tex and surrounding area.

Gooding Decorative Concrete makes it possible for customers to convert their dreams and ideas into plans. We take those plans and convert our customer’s dreams into reality.

For a free estimate, give us a call. We’d love to talk with you!

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