Am I Relationship Material?

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Question: • I am in a new relationship but I

am not happy • I was in a relationship a few

years ago but then moved away

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• I moved back but was even unhappier

• I have had some short relationships • Then I met a girl who was not

interested

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• I pursued her and finally got her • Now I know she is not the one

for me, but I don’t want to hurt her feelings

• I also don’t want to make mistakes again

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• Is it possible that I only go after girls I cannot have?

• How will I finally meet the right one?

• Have I set a pattern that I cannot break?

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Answer: • Did you decide that you are not

good at relationships and are you now providing proof to yourself?

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• Infatuation is not Love • You enter into a relationship

with expectations • If your expectations are not

met, you want to walk away

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• When your expectations are not met: – Find someone else – Lower your expectations – Ask why your expectations are so

important to you

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• Resolve your inner division • Draw two columns on a sheet • List the advantages and disadvantages of

staying in a relationship • List the advantages and disadvantages of

leaving the relationship

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• Complete all four lines for each reason before moving on to the next reason

• Complete at least 30 reasons

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• Use this method to determine why you are leaving a relationship

• Find the wisdom in the relationship

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• What did you learn from each relationship?

• What should you be grateful for?

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• You can choose not to do this introspection and continue to learn the same lessons

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• You are getting ready for the most important relationship

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