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ABC of PARENTING

Always trust your children to Allah's care.

Bring them to the Masaajids.

Challenge

them to high goals In deen.

Delight in their achievements "Masha`Allah"

Exalt Allah in their presence

"Subhaan`Allah"

Frown on evil " Astaghfirullah"

love and understanding

Give…

Them…

Hear

their problems, be there for them.

Ignore not their childish fears,

tel them Allah is Always there.

Joyfully

accept their apologies, Allah is All Forgiving.

Keep their confidence.

Live a good example before them, Islamic ettiquettes.

Make them your friends.

Never ignore their endless questions!

Open your heart to their love.

Pray for them by name,

...May Allah make them the coolness of your eyes.

Quicken your

interest in their spirituality, Dhikrullah (remeberance of Allah)

Remember their needs, show mercy to them

Show them the way of Our Prophet

Muhammad and his companions. (peace be upon them All)

Teach them to appreciate every

little thing in life. "Alhamdulillah"

Understand they are still young and Innocent. "Fitrah"

Verify your statements,

speak clearly (Repeat it 3 times) like the way Prophet Muhammad {peace be upon him} used to

Wean them from bad company.

X eXpect

them to obey, Allah and their parent

Yearn for Allah's best for them.

Zealously guide them in the Qur'aan and Sunnah.

Source of text: From the DDN Yahoo Group

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