break your mind open

BREAKYOUR

Mind

POPCORNED BY DEY DOS

OPEN

Your LEADHOSTS

DEYDOS

AMALIAGHIBAN

BY BEING OPEN TO LEARN FROM EVERY SINGLE EXPERIENCE YOU LIVE

How do you break your mind open?

What stops you from learning from every single experience?

MY OWN BELIEFS ABOUT WHAT GOOD & BAD EXPERIENCES ARE

AND HOW THEY AFFECT ME

Never let your printer know that you are in a

hurry…

PRINTERS CAN SMELL YOUR FEAR!

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EVERY TIME WE ENCOUNTER A BAD EXPERIENCE,

WE GET TO KNOW OURSELVES BETTER

How do you usually respond to “bad” experiences?

anger � detachment � ignore it

Is change a “bad”

experience?

SOME FACTS ABOUT

!   Everybody has them !   No one likes them !   Few turn them into positives !   Normally later…

BAD EXPERIENCES

What separates people who thrive from those who

merely survive?

HOW THEY FACE THE PAIN OF THEIR BAD EXPERIENCES

PAIN SUFFERING

It is all about

PAIN

Pain prompt us to face who we have become and

where we are.

WHAT WE DO WITH THAT EXPERIENCE DEFINES WHO WE

CONSTANTLY BECOME

THE PAIN OF INEXPERIENCE

THE PAIN OF INCOMPETENCE

THE PAIN OF DISAPPOINTMENT

THE PAIN OF CONFLICT

THE PAIN OF CHANGE

THE PAIN OF REGRET

THE PAIN OF HARD DECISIONS

THE PAIN OF DISCIPLINE

THE PAIN OF THE NEW

THE PAIN OF NOT BEING Nº 1

THE PAIN OF LEAVING

THE PAIN OF RESPONSIBILITY

What could all these painful experiences

teach us?

LET DISCOMFORT BE A CATALYST FOR OUR

DEVELOPMENT

Blame…

NOPAIN NOGAIN

1. EMBRACE A

To a large degree in life we get what we expect.

GROWTH MINDSET

Why would I want to expect the worst?

2. EMBRACE AND UTILIZE

Use the energy that comes from strong emotions and adrenaline to solve problems and learn lessons.

YOUR EMOTIONS

How can I smartly utilize my emotional

energy?

3. EMBRACE THE VALUE OF

Facing them is inevitable, learning is optional, and we normally learn

long after they happen.

BAD EXPERIENCES

Why would I wait for after?

4. EMBRACE CHANGES LEARNED THROUGH

We either face the hard feelings and embrace change

or we try to escape.

BAD EXPERIENCES

Why would I choose the pain of regret over the

pain of discipline?

5. EMBRACE OWNERSHIP FOR

Circumstances don’t define us, what we do in the face of them does.

YOUR OWN LIFE

Why would I give such power to the

circumstances?

No matter what you have gone through in this role so

far – or what you are currently going through – you have the opportunity

to grow from it.

It’s sometime very hard and difficult to see the

opportunities…

BUT THEY ARE THERE!

THEY ARE THERE!

Even if you can’t see them…

It’s not just about being willing to believe and look

for them, but to pursue them with discipline.

THEN IT GETS EASIER

EVERY TIME!

Life is not the way it’s supposed to be. It’s the way it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference.

virginiasatir

THERE IT IS WHERE THE LEADER IN ME EMERGES

My @XP is not the way it’s supposed to be. It’s the way it is. The way I cope with it is what makes the difference.

Am I ready to look for opportunities in

everything that comes in the way of my @XP?

AM I WILLING TO START AT NSC 2014?