celebrating and giving wings to

Celebrating and Giving Wings to...

Unsung Heroes

With Steve Sharpley

Success Is A Mind Game

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O.M.G!

What to

do?

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THE 4 KEYS TO:

BEATING STRESS AND FRUSTRATION

BEING RESILIENT & SUCCESSFUL

BUT FIRST...

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Frustration or Dissatisfaction...

Can be good for us!

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1. WHY?

Doing?

Important?

Meaningful?

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Doing?

Important?

1. WHY?

Meaningful?

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I.Q

E.Q

R.Q

B.B.Q

2. RESILIENCE

How?

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Performance Pressures

“X happens and I feel… Y”

Slowness

Traffic

Mistakes

People

Changes

Weather

Deadlines

Secret 1: Life is not as it seems - The Outside-In Flaw.

Me -

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Secret 2: MSU

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3.FOCUS

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States of Mind:

• In Flow

• Intellectual

• Instinctive

Value:

• Peak Performance, Calm, Optimistic, Creativity, Confidence, Intuition, Wisdom, (Connection)

•Analysis, Planning, Reasoning, Knowledge, Memory, Habits (Disconnection)

• Basic safety, Fight/Flight, Reactive - Speed

Secret 3 : Three States of MindThe intuitive mind is a gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. Unfortunately, we have created a society that honours the servant and has forgotten the gift. – Albert Einstein

You can’t solve a problem at the same level of thinking which created it. – Albert Einstein

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4. SDL

WIIFM?

HOW?

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1) List Strengths

2) List Areas for Improvement

3) Pick 1 -3...

Knowledge, Skill, Desire

HOW?

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STAY FOCUSSED

BBQ / RESPONSE - ABILITY

Finally...

ON-GOING SDL

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COME TO THE EDGE..... (Appolinaire)

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Success is a Mind Game

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