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Agile Coaching? Sure thing! What about Life Coaching in Agile Thinking?

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02/08/2013 | LAST Melbourne

@realestate_auVictoria Schiffer @Erdbeervogel

“You don’t have to be sick to become better!”

(Michael Josephson)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/tambako/ (Tambako the Jaguar)

“The devil you know is better than the devil you don't know!”

“But is there a devil at all on the new road?”

Joseph O’Connor & Andrea Lages

http://www.flickr.com/photos/tambako/9352616577 (Tambako the Jaguar)

Support

http://www.flickr.com/photos/gnuckx/8076464389 (Gnuckx)

forwardmove

goals

“Setting a negative goal is like going shopping with a list of things that you do not want to buy.” Joseph O’Connor

& Andrea Lages

http://www.flickr.com/photos/smitty/199457812 (smitty42)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/carbonnyc/8456219474 (CarbonNYC)

The only person you should try to be better than, is the person you were yesterday. (Unknown)

You!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/tmab2003/4277896845/ (TMAB2003)

It’sYou!

about

Filter

http://www.flickr.com/photos/kevinpoh/4545094285 (kevinpoh)

Beliefs

http://www.flickr.com/photos/baileysjunk/3631094798 (BaileyRaeWeaver)

“What the thinker thinks, the prover proves!”

(Robert Anton Wilson)

“Life is 10% How You Make It and 90% How you Take It“ (Irving Berlin)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/mabahamo/4751785617 (Manuel Bahamondez H) Choice

Attitude

http://www.flickr.com/photos/peter-trimming/6611749509 (Peter G Trimming)

Pull, not push

‘But’ is the great eraser.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/snakebiteheart-/6847637842 (SnakeBite Heart)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/bluehillranch/6420193921 (305 Seahill)

EmpoweringLimiting

Pressure Words

Abstract Words

shouldmust have to

need to ought to

failure

relationship

stress

want to

don’t want toChoice

frustration

success

Unconsidered Opinionsbetter

obviously clearly

worse

Overgeneralizationsnever

nobody always

can’t

can

everybody

Beliefs

http://www.flickr.com/photos/criminalintent/5229017560 (Lars Plougmann)

“Life begins at the end ofyour comfort zone.”

(Neale Donald Walsch, Autor)

There is a solution to every problem. (NLP Presupposition)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/eriwst/2421129047 (eriwst)

Anything can be accomplished when the task is taken in small enough chunks.

(NLP Presupposition)

You cannot not communicate

(NLP Presupposition)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/marcel030nl/2556824810 (Marcel030NL)

The Meaning of Your Communication is the response you get

(NLP Presupposition)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/markusthorsen/3091394736 (markusthorsen)

“I didn't fail the test, I just found 100 ways to do it wrong.“

(Benjamin Franklin)

FailureFeedback

is only

http://www.flickr.com/photos/mikeparker/1393311040 (Michael H Parker)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/56380734@N05/5914710795 (Comrade Foot Jens Rost)

Every behaviour has a positive intention.

(NLP Presupposition)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/laserstars/908946494 (jpctalbot)

“You have not yet reached the limit of what you are capable of.”

Ability

Joseph O’Connor & Andrea Lages

Get your

out of the way!http://www.flickr.com/photos/angeldye/7967897282 (angeldye)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sparetomato/2641110677 (sparetomato)

“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.” (Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People)

silence!courage for

http://www.flickr.com/photos/paulholloway/2104762221 (Paul Holloway)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/mcleod/7004084690 (Scott McLeod)

“Question everything. Learn something. Answer nothing.” (Euripides)

PowerfulQuestions

http://www.flickr.com/photos/hygienematters/5452837491 (SCA Svenska Cellulosa Aktiebolaget)

What...? How...? When...?

Why...?

FreshPerspective

http://www.flickr.com/photos/mathias-erhart/280056079 (mathias-erhart)

What If...?

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challenge free

take

Joseph O’Connor, & Andrea Lages

http://www.flickr.com/photos/visualpunch/8745184787 (visualpun.ch)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/pagedooley/6861256042 (kevin dooley)

Meetings

Decision

http://www.flickr.com/photos/inafrenzy/5787848646 (InaFrenzy)

making

PerformanceReviews

http://www.flickr.com/photos/lifeontheedge/6871511101 (Marshall Astor - Food Fetishist)

Conversationhttp://www.flickr.com/photos/gibbons/1400055656 (Esther Gibbons)

Difficult Situationshttp://www.flickr.com/photos/31762350@N03/4090808706 (al_bee)

Different people, great variety

http://www.flickr.com/photos/nagarjun/6387774307 (Nagarjun)

Learninghttp://www.flickr.com/photos/telachhe/3342173731 (Tela Chhe)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/jayneandd/4451411132 (jayneandd)

Success

http://www.flickr.com/photos/kheelcenter/5279692906/ von Kheel Center, Cornell University

Happy Team

http://www.flickr.com/photos/frenchy/30217136/ (Francois Schnell)

Steps?

What are you going to do as

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“Triumph is just a little umph added to try.” (Tim Owens)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/stannate/3912535987 (stannate)

disclosed

http://www.flickr.com/photos/kjfnjy/5249145754 (Ken and Nyetta)

“Coaching with NLP: How to be a Master Coach” by Joseph O’Connor, & Andrea Lages www.goodreads.com/book/show/258916.Coaching_with_NLP

TED Talk: “Your body language shapes who you are” by Amy Cuddywww.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are.html

Manifesto for Agile Software Developmentwww.agilemanifesto.org

What The Thinker Thinks, The Prover Proves - 140 sec session, Stoos Connect NL 2013www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4GLy_zJjcI

“Your Attitude Determines Whether Or Not You’ll Succeed”http://www.businessinsider.com.au/attitude-determines-success-2013-1

“Strengthsfinder 2.0” by Tom Rathhttp://www.goodreads.com/book/show/56454.StrengthsFinder_2_0

Secrets

Thank you :)Iteration Manager

& Life CoachingStudent

02/08/2013 | LAST Melbourne

@Erdbeervogel

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Victoria Schiffer