key principles for successful parenting

PARENTING: Key Principles

THRIVE FOR SUCCESS Parents should pursue success in every task that

they are encountering. The principal is that you

should raise your children to thrive for success in

everything they do.

THRIVE FOR SUCCESS in school

in sports

in household chores

in relationships

SHOW YOUR LOVE Tell them you LOVE them every minute of

everyday.

SHOW YOUR LOVE when they come back from school.

when they are frustrated & need you.

when they accomplish something.

while you are parenting and directing them.

PERSONALIZATION Remember people are different (even siblings).

Every person have their own special qualities so

treat each child based on his/her own personal

traits.

PERSONALIZATION Be personalized with your

interactions and avoid

comparisons with other children

at all costs.

NO DESPAIR There is always room for improvement. Do not be

too harsh on yourself, because there is always

another chance to try again.

NO DESPAIR try again and again and again

KEEP IT BALANCED Do not over do it. Do not spoil your kids or be

too harsh on them.

KEEP IT BALANCED create a balance between love and

severity.

HAVE A LIFE Do not shut yourself up and sacrifice everything

for the sake of your children. Remember that you

are human and you too have needs. Parents should

have interests and hobbies that are not child-

centered.

HAVE A LIFE TOO MUCH focus and

emphasis on the kids is harmful.

BE PATIENT Raising children requires a lot of patience and

repetition. Normally children forget the rules,

regulations and values set forth by you, so you need

to do a lot of repetition to ensure that these rules

are remembered and followed.

BE PATIENT Parenting is a long term process

so be patient and your kids will

sprout into beautiful trees.

BE CONSISTENT In their everyday life; children need consistency and

they need boundaries. They need to know that

once a rule is set it is non-reversible or negotiable

(with few minor exceptions).

BE CONSISTENT Children will test your

boundaries, so be consistent to

earn credibility.

Be Patient Be Consistent Have a Life

No Despair

Keep it Balanced

Be Personalized Thrive for Success Show your Love

Key Principles Of PARENTING