parallel and paradoxical interventions

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Antipathetic or sympathetic responses

My job is terrible!I'm mistreated,

misjudged,Underpaid, …!!!

Pull yourself together,

stop whining & complaining!

I'm sorry to hear it. Perhaps

you need another job?

Person A. Person B.

A. is very excited &Upset. He's almost „not quite himself“.B. wants to calm himdown and/or get outof the line of fire.

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Parallel responses

My job is terrible!I'm mistreated,

misjudged,Underpaid, …!!!

So your job is Terrible, they

mistreat & misjudge& underpay you?

That is horrible! How can you stand It! You should quit

right away!!!

…by parallel talkingin a more neutral, mirroring way, or ina more parallel, exaggerating way, B. can help A. take agood look at himself.

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The paradoxical response

My job is terrible!I'm mistreated,

misjudged,Underpaid, …!!!

I've long wantedto say somethingabout the state of

the restroomsIn this place!

Okay – where doyou buy your suits?

I think you lookGreat in black!

...by talking what from theoutside may appear likenonsense, but is rathera calculated paradoxicalintervention, A. Is even moreeffectively thrown off balanceand cannot but leave his position.

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Forum Feedback & Discussion

Let's move over to the (now fixed) Opinionator to get a view of what the class thinks ofsome gender issue statements & then discuss...

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Poll: I have encountered positive or negative discrimination based on my gender

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Poll: I think women and men perform differently at work

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Poll:I have experienced (positive or negative)discrimination during my studies at the HWR Berlin.

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Poll: I think virtual worlds are a gender-free orless gendered teaching/learning environment.