teen living table manners & proper etiquette while dating

Teen Living

TABLE MANNERS & PROPER

ETIQUETTE WHILE DATING

K-L-D CHART (CREATE THIS CHART ON THE BACK OF YOUR UNIT 4 PACKET)

KNOW LEARN DO/GOAL

KNOW-L-D

KNOW LEARN DO/GOAL

Write down

what you KNOW about proper

manners and

etiquette

K-LEARN-D

KNOW LEARN DO/GOAL

As we go through the rules of

etiquette and manners, write down what you

LEARN.

K-L- DO!

KNOW LEARN DO/GOAL

WRITE DOWN AT LEAST

TWO GOALS OF HOW YOU

WANT TO IMPROVE

YOUR MANNERS/ ETIQUETTE

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Manners are decided by society. History has stated them as adapted from royalty

Know that manners differ from one culture to another. If you are living or traveling abroad, you may wish to do some research beforehand.

You will be judged by your manners

WHY MANNERS?

Table etiquette - courtesy shown by good manners at meals

Table manners reflect part of your personality to others

Makes eating a pleasant experience for everyone

Most rules of etiquette involve common sense and consideration of other people

TABLE ETIQUETTE

Sit down from the left side of your chair

COMMON RULES OF ETIQUETTE

Assist with passing of foods when appropriate; pass to the right

COMMON RULES OF ETIQUETTE

PRETTY WOMAN

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Use flatware from the outside in

COMMON RULES OF ETIQUETTE

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NAPKINPlace on lap before starting to eat; cover your mouth and nose if you must cough or sneeze

Leave on your chair if leaving the table and returning during a meal

Leave to the left of the plate when finished with the meal

COMMON RULES OF ETIQUETTE

When eating with a small group wait until everyone is served before eating

COMMON RULES OF ETIQUETTE

Follow actions of host/hostess as a guide when dining in someone’s home

COMMON RULES OF ETIQUETTE

Avoid talking with food in your mouth; chew with your mouth closed

COMMON RULES OF ETIQUETTE

Cut food into bite-size pieces as you eatCut meat one bite at a time

COMMON RULES OF ETIQUETTE

CURSE OF THE BLACK

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Sit up straight; avoid leaning on elbows while eating

COMMON RULES OF ETIQUETTE

Place spoon on soup plate rather than the bowl/cup when finished eating

COMMON RULES OF ETIQUETTE

Place the knife and fork on the plate with the handles parallel to the edge of the table when finished eating

COMMON RULES OF ETIQUETTE

Break one piece of bread/roll and butter one piece at a time

COMMON RULES OF ETIQUETTE

Place butter on your own plate before buttering your bread/roll

COMMON RULES OF ETIQUETTE

PRINCESS DIARIES

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CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE

1) Turn your phone on silent/vibrate when you go to a restaurant or sit down to eat at someone’s home.

CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE

CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE

2) If you are expecting an urgent call during dinner, let your date/guests know up front and explain why it is necessary to answer.

CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE

3) If you do get an urgent call, excuse yourself from the table to take the call (but stay in view). Make the call as quick as possible.

CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE

4) Do NOT check your phone at the dinner table if it vibrates. If you MUST check it, do so discreetly under the table.

DO NOT HAVE YOUR PHONE OUT AT DINNER…. EVER!

CELL PHONE ETIQUETTE

5) Never take a picture of your date/guests or the food unless they have asked you to do so.

AT & T COMMERCIA

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TippingWhat do you think about tipping?

Is it necessary?Do you ALWAYS tip?

TIPPING ETIQUETTE

TIPPING ETIQUETTE

Good service= a tip of 18% (15% - 20%) of the pre-tax bill

Excellent service= 20%If your experience was so poor that you feel the server has earned no tip, you should contact the establishment’s manager and discuss your displeasure with him/her.

TIPPING ETIQUETTE

In which situations/establishments do you leave a tip – at McDonald’s or at Olive Garden?

TIPPING ETIQUETTE

FULL SERVICE RESTAURANT: Leave a customary tip (15% - 20%)

BUFFET STYLE (provide beverage and fresh plate service) : Lesser amount (5% - 10%)

FAST FOOD RESTAURANTS: No tip is necessary

TIPPING ETIQUETTE

When do restaurants automatically include a gratuity on your bill?

TIPPING ETIQUETTE

Many restaurants automatically charge 18% of the bill on parties of 8 or more. May charge

different percentages on either smaller or larger groups.

TIPPING ETIQUETTE

Is it really necessary to leave a tip? Have you heard of sub-minimum wage?

TIPPING ETIQUETTE

In Utah (and many other states) servers in restaurants may earn only $2.13 per hour.

Tips are an assumed/built-in portion of their earnings.

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