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TheArt&PracticeofEffectiveCommunication

Preparedfor:MontanaHeadStartDirectors

June6,2017

Inourtimetogethertoday,wewill…

- Explore theartandpracticeofeffectivecommunicationinourlives

- Practicestrategiestoincreaseourcommunicationskills,especiallylisteningasanactofleadership

- Share whatworks(anddoesn’twork!)tocommunicateinyourworkplaceandinlife

- Havefun!

Whatdoyouhopetolearn/shareinthisworkshop?

Humantimeline…

Iamaneffectivecommunicator

Humantimeline…

MystaffthinkIamaneffectivecommunicator

Humantimeline…

Myspouse/parent/child/bestie(chooseone)thinksIamaneffectivecommunicator

Peopleownthatwhichtheyhelptobuild.

MargaretWheatley

“Progressmovesatthespeedoftrust”

ListeningasanActofLeadership

“Mostpeopledonotlistenwiththeintenttounderstand;theylistenwiththeintenttoreply.”

http://youtu.be/-4EDhdAHrOg

ListeningasanActofLeadership

• EachpersonisgivenequaltimetotalkEveryonedeservestobelistenedto• Thelistenerdoesnotspeak– doesn’tinterpret,paraphrase,analyze,giveadvice,orbreakinwithapersonalstory Peoplecansolvetheirownproblems• ConfidentialityismaintainedPeopleneedtoknowtheycanbecompletelyauthentic

ListeningasanActofLeadership

Eachpersonwillhave2minutestorespondtothefollowingQs:• Whenisthelasttimeyourememberedbeingfullylistenedtoo?Howdiditfeel?• Growingup,whatwasyourexperienceasaleader?Whatfeltsupportive?Whatinterferedwithyoureffortstobealeader?

Watchyourthoughts fortheybecomewords,

Watchyourwords fortheybecomeactions,

Watchyouractions,fortheybecomehabits,

Watchyourhabits fortheybecomeyourcharacter,

Watchyourcharacter foritbecomesyourdestiny.

RalphWaldoEmerson

Personalreflection…

CommunicationinREALtime?

“WhathappenedatworkthispastweekthatisanexampleofagreatORaterriblecommunicationexperience?”

TimeManagementMatrixUrgent NotUrgent

Important

I

ACTIVITIES:CrisesPressingProblemsDeadline-drivenprojects

II

ACTIVITIES:PreventionRelationshipbuildingRecognizingnewopportunitiesPlanning,recreation

NotImportant

III

ACTIVITIES:Interruptions,somecallsSomeemail,somereportsSomemeetingsPopularactivities

IV

ACTIVITIES:Trivia,busyworkMostsocialmediaSomephonecallsTimewasters

Estimatewheredoyouspendyourtime.WhatcanyoudotoexpandtimespentinQuadrantII?

Takingithome…

What’sONETHINGthatIcancommittodoingdifferentlyasaresultofwhatI’veexperiencedtoday?

Our work …

Neverdoubtthatasmallgroupofthoughtful,committedpeoplecanchangetheworld.Indeed,itistheonlythingthateverhas.

MargaretMead

TheArt&PracticeofEffectiveCommunication

Preparedfor:MontanaHeadStartDirectors

June6,2017

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