the charismatic champion - simple actions that work

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Of all the species of animals and plants that occupy our world, it’s undoubtedly the human race that dominates the continents, the oceans and beyond. It's not our physical strength – a simple contest between a gorilla and a worlds strongest person will demonstrate this point – yet for some reason we have the ability to push these creatures to the verge of extinction and set the rules for the existence of life. Some will argue that it's our incredible knack for thinking and rationalisation that causes us to be capable of such vast knowledge, technological discoveries and innovations. However, none of this would be possible without one key factor: cooperation, a process that encompasses communication, joint efforts and a sense of communal togetherness to achieve mutually beneficial outcomes. When people cooperate, they can often achieve more than going it alone by combining ideas, supporting each other and making a commitment to get the job done. Every individual has something to offer and can contribute to the other’s success; not working with the right people however, can have the complete opposite effect. One thing is for sure, without cooperation, it is quite possible that the human race would not have evolved to high society that we are today, regardless of our individual intellects and abilities. The future of any success is determined on how well a person is able to get along with others. Getting ahead in life doesn't just involve learning new things and becoming an expert, working hard or being the best. While the familiar saying, "It's not what you know but who you know" might be accurate sometimes, it would be even more precise if it was followed by, “...and they liked you”! When you get along with people, others are far more willing to do more for you, to go out of their way for you and to recommend you to others. Here are some keynotes from a recent presentation on the subject. Hope you like it!!!

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THE CHARISMATIC CHAMPION simple actions that work

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WHY IT'S IMPORTANTbecause it promotes friendships, creates

opportunities and builds trust

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WHEN, WHERE AND WITH WHOM? anybody, anyplace at anytime

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PEOPLE WILL GO OUT OF THEIR WAY FOR YOU

but only if they like you

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YOU BECOME MORE ATTRACTIVE TO OTHERS

they feel good when they're with you

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NOT BEING CHARISMATICcould mean you MISS OUT to someone else who is

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AND THAT HURTS ouch!!!

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HERE ARE SOME TIPSto make new friends, improve business opportunities

and open new doors around you

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THREE SIMPLE STEPSto becoming a charismatic champion

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CHARISMA IS A SKILL THAT CAN BE DEVELOPED

like any skill it requires practice and repetition

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STEP ONE‘STATE-OF-MIND’

become what you think about most of the time

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THINK, BELIEVE AND DOactions speak louder than words

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CONVINCE WITH ATTITUDE body language, words and behaviour

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CHARISMATIC TRAITSpresence, power and warmth

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STEP TWO‘UNLOCK THE BARRIERS’

neutralise discomfort of pain, stress and fear

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BUILD CONFIDENCEdiscover comfort, peace and clarity

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THE DIFFERENTCHARISMA STYLES

for different people in different situations

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1: FOCUS CHARISMATICallows people to be heard, understood and feel appreciated

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2: VISIONARY CHARISMATICdelivers a convincingly bold vision whilst inspiring and

involving others in your vision

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3: KINDNESS CHARISMATICcreates an emotional connection by providing

warmth and acceptance

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4: AUTHORITATIVE CHARISMATIC leads people to listen and obey through

the projection of power and status

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MIX IT UPalternate or blend the different styles depending on

your specific goals, personality and situation

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STEP THREE‘PUTTING IT TOGETHER’

planning, practice and preparation is themark of a professional

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MAKE FIRST IMPRESSIONSopinions are formed within seconds and often

starts with your appearance

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ESTABLISH FAMILIARITYpeople feel most comfortable with

those who are similar to them

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VERBALCOMMUNICATION

listen twice as much as you speak

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NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION

accounts for 90% of all communication which includes tone of voice, eye contact and body language

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PAY ATTENTIONpeople don’t always say what they mean, nor do

they mean what they say

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ENJOY THE BENEFITSexperience the new way people relate to you

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CONCLUSIONEXPECT EXCITING CHANGE

new things will happen

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SETS YOU APARTbe held to higher standards than others

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GAIN TRUSTpeople will naturally feel more comfortable with you and open up

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AND ONE MORE THINGcharisma is a powerful tool, use it wisely

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