appreciating children for capacity building

8/4/2019 Appreciating Children for Capacity Building

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HAPPY MORNING

PARENTS

WELCOME

MUMMIES AND DADDIES


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Uncommon AdvicesUnderstand and keep in mind thetypical development of children.

Keep your expectations tied to thedevelopment of the children.

Do not underestimate thedevelopment, nor get frustrated withtheir development.


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Provide an active, developmentally

appropriate environment where

children are free to explore, interact

with one another, challenge

themselves.


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Observe your child, and get to

know him/her well.


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How can you help develop

your child's conscience?

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e make rules or we tell

them how to behave . GoBeyond this & explain the

rules ofbehaviour and why

they are important.

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Psycho-Social Development

Initiative versus Guilt(3 6 years)

Initiative:

Increased awareness of self and world outside of home

Eagerly attempts new tasks and play activities

Successful attempts at new tasks which help children learn

and master many things, which becomes self-reinforcing

(proud of themselves) and self-controlling to gain the

approval of adults


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Self-Concept 3 - 6 yearsEgo-centric thinking

I am the world and the world is just like me!

Repetition/Practice :

Mastery Competence

SELF-CONFIDENCE

SELF-ESTEEM


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From the last two slides you

would have realizedWe need to appreciate efforts more

than results.

We need to provide opportunities to

children to repeatedly do something

they try.

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Capacity Building Through

Appreciating

Appreciate your kids. What have

you got to lose?


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Appreciation helps develop

self-confidence.It helps your child get a

sense of right from wrong,

and prevents him fromfeeling neglected.

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Feeling gratitude and not

expressing it is likewrapping a present and not

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Let your children know you

appreciate them

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The key - Appreciate them

for what they are not just forwhat they do.

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Kids want so badly toplease their parents, the

trick is being able to be

pleased.

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Can I be pleased with mychildren even when they act

their age?

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Appreciate by paying attention

Appreciate your children by

really paying attention when

they show you their artwork,

school papers, and other

creative works.

If you just give them a quick compliment and only look fora second, the child can sense that you are not being

sincere.


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Encourage your children to participate

in activities that make them feel good.

Give your children appropriate

responsibility. It shows that you trust

and respect them.

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Two-year-old, Reshma lets her mom

know whenever she has gone to the

bathroom by herself, and when shegets a hug and a 'Well done, good

girl!' from her mother, her day is

made!

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On the other hand, Rohan just

refused to put her toys back in his

toy bag after playing, and wouldonly do so after his mother had

shouted and threatened his many

times.

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If only Shruthi's mother praised her

every time when she did indeed put

her toys away, instead of shouting

at her every time she didn't,

Shruthi's behaviour may have been

different.

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Help children build momentum

by accumulating smallsuccesses.

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Say Thank youevery time they hand

you something, do you a favor, or listen

to instructions.

Let hugs, kisses, compliments and

rewards be plentiful.

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Ideas

StarChart.

Non verbal expressions.

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Wall of fame.

Celebration of success.

AppreciateM

yself Game.

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Talking about good qualities of your

child and good/right things he/she does

to others. (In front of your child)

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Achievement Book

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Dont attach but with your

complimentAll compliments become pointless

and meaningless if they always

come with some criticism attached.

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Start out each day new!Dont bring up

misdeeds from

yesterday. Try toleave yesterday

there, and dont let

it destroy today.


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Appreciation

vs.

Encouragement


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What are you taking

home today?

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Conclusion

There is no quick fix or magic

solution

The good news is that building

capacity is readily achievable

with the implementation pointsdiscussed in the presentation.


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THANK YOU PARENTS

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Questions?

THANK YOUFOR LISTENING &

YOUR COMMITMENT TO ACT.

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