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Years ago I knew a man who had a law de-
gree from Yale and was the son of a United
States Senator. He worked for a major multi-
national corporation and was on his way to
becoming a clear “one percenter” until he was
“hijacked” by Jesus.
A Dutch missionary named Cornelius Vander-
breggen led him to Christ. After heading to
seminary for a sound theological education, he
moved his wife and infant son to Bedford Stuy-
vesant, Brooklyn, New York City, where he
began a ministry to the poor and drug ad-
dicted. And it was there one night that his son
grew gravely ill. The child spiked a fever of
over 104 degrees and was in danger of laps-
ing into a coma when my friend got on his
knees and began begging God to heal him.
Somewhere in the wee hours of the night the
Lord spoke to him and said, “If you, as his fa-
ther love him enough to plead with me for hours,
how much more do you think I love him?” Sud-
denly his son’s fever broke and by the morning
light he was as healthy as ever.
Not too long ago, I read the words of a
mother that mirror my friend’s experience. She
says, “It is a constant exercise of faith for me to
relinquish my children into God’s hands. He is a
loving Father, who loves them more deeply than
I ever could.”
Then she goes on, “If you are a parent, you
remember your child’s firsts: first word, first day
of school, first time driving, first job. Those are
major milestones marking your child’s journey
toward independence. The fact that there are
‘firsts’ also means that there are ‘lasts’. The last
time crawling once walking is discovered, the
last day of elementary school, the last time as an
unmarried kid hanging out for Christmas vaca-
tion.
“Parenting is about releasing your children to
step into each ‘first’ God has planned for them,
knowing that all the while you’re preparing them
to leave you. Your job is to work yourself out of
a job—and it’s bittersweet at best. As you sur-
render your children to God each day, you’ll find
the grace to welcome each ‘first’ and ‘last’ in
your children’s lives—and in your own. After all,
He loves them even more than you do.”
According to Ellen Dillard, our Children’s Minis-
try Director, from the time our children are
born to the time they graduate from High
School we have 940 weeks with them.
In Losing Your Marbles, Reggie Joiner writes:
“Go ahead and estimate how many days or
weekends you potentially have with your kids.
Establish a tangible reminder that you and
your family can look at every day. It could
help you become a wiser parent. Why? Be-
cause knowing the number of days your kids
have left at home can make you more inten-
tional as a parent. You will tend to be more
intentional about: leaving work early, watching
your kid’s games, how you spend Saturdays,
driving them to school, helping them with their
homework, going to church as a family, tucking
them into bed, eating meals together.
“Why don’t you number the days you have
with each of your children? See how it affects
the way you parent.”
“Teach us to number our days, that we may get a
heart of wisdom.” (Ps. 90:12).
As I View It—Numbering Your Days Doug Rehberg
Volume 18 Issue 4
Our Staff
Doug Rehberg Senior Pastor
Jerry Zeilstra Director of Christian
Education
Barrett Hendrickson Worship Leader
Lois Walz Executive Assistant
Jerry Rowland Director of Youth
Ministry
Janet Mitlo Administrative Assistant
Sarah Miller Treasurer/
Office Assistant
Amy Warner Music Director
Carrie Hendrickson Youth Ministry Associate
Ellen Dillard Director of Children’s
Ministry
Ethel Keim Organist/ Secretary
Steff Knabe Women’s Ministry
Coordinator
Robert Geminetti Facility Manager
Natalie Wissman
Childcare Supervisor
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How God Is Showing Himself to Me Barrett Hendrickson
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do
not lean on your own understanding. In all
your ways acknowledge Him, and He will
make straight your paths." (Proverbs 3:5-6)
This verse is one I learned in high school be-
cause of a Sixpence None The Richer song.
Over the years, I've kept it in my mind. A
couple of years ago, we would make our
children recite it as they climbed the steps. I
don't know that I can ever forget these
words because of this song. But I'd like to
focus on the second half of verse five with a
story. God has blessed Carrie and me
through so many people in His Church. This is
one of those times.
When we were in premarital counseling, we
were reprimanded because our first budget
didn't have a tithe. That was the first time I
had ever thought about giving my own
money. Sure, when I was a kid, I was usually
given a quarter to put in the Sunday School
offering, but being on my own, leading my
house, making my own money required an
actual sacrifice. From that moment on, we
decided that the first thing out of our pay-
checks would be an offering to the Lord.
Even as 21-year-olds making a total of
$17,000, with $6,600 of that going to rent,
we gave first. "When you come into the land
that I give you and reap its harvest, you shall
bring the sheaf of the firstfruits of your har-
vest to the priest..." (Leviticus 23:10b)
Not only do we give a regular offering to
the Church, but we also look for opportuni-
ties to give elsewhere. When a friend is in
need, we are usually willing to give. If there
is something brought to our attention that
God tells us to address, we have a conversa-
tion and usually come up with a similar num-
ber that will significantly serve someone in
need. Recently, we have welcomed someone
into our house while he waits for a new place
to live. We host meals at our place to build
the community of the church. We are giving
beyond what I would think we can, yet we
are still fairly well off. And here's the joy of it
all. It does not make sense.
Please do not read this and think that I am
patting myself on the back for giving. God
knows I don't give enough. Please don't read
this and think that I am asking for money. As
you will see, God is taking care of our family
in ways that far exceed what money can pro-
vide. Please read this as a humble testimony
of what the Lord is doing in my life, being
faithful to His promise that He will provide for
the needs of His children, and my faithfulness
to His command to give generously. We all
know that speaking about money is socially
taboo, but in the early Church, "no one said
that any of the things that belonged to him was
his own, but they had everything in
common" (Acts 4:32b).
The vision statement of Hebron is that "God
will use Hebron to show Himself to the world."
One of those ways is to share stories about
how He is showing Himself to individuals,
through every aspect of life, even finances.
Especially when it doesn't make sense to us .
Ed. Note: This is the first of 2 articles. Next
month: Trusting that God Will Provide
Adult Summer Opportunity Jerry Zeilstra
Sign Up This Month for Community Activity Groups
This summer there will be a special opportunity for adults, teens, and families to join a group
based on an activity that they love or are interested in beginning. Opportunities will include
fishing, gardening, walking, game boarding, grilling, kayaking, playground activities, and
more. Information will be available online and in church beginning May 1.
“God is taking care of
our family in ways that
far exceed what money
can provide.”
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Women’s Ministry Steff Knabe
Women’s Ministry at Hebron is excited about
sharing the love of Jesus BEYOND the bounda-
ries of our own church family. This spring we
have chosen to serve Women’s Choice Network,
one of the designated local mission agencies
Hebron supports. The following true stories are
taken from their website. These stories will give
you added insight into the mission of WCN.
We were just locking the door at our Wexford
location when two young women stepped out of a
sedan. They were sorority sisters from a nearby
campus. One needed a pregnancy test. One was
her supportive friend. Because our nurse had left
for the day, we directed the two freshmen to our
Monroeville location where they were able to
receive both a pregnancy test and STD testing.
When the test results were negative, you never
saw such grateful teenagers. With time to talk to
our nurses, and time to reflect on recent choices,
these two young women were led to a decision
point about their sexual future. Both had visited
birth control clinics, but neither one had ever been
challenged to rethink their relationship expecta-
tions and desires.
(On another occasion) Brooke, a freshman in
college, boldly checked the box “abortion” as her
intention on her intake form. After the nurse did
the pregnancy test, Brooke was clear about her
plan to go forward with an abortion. “I can’t do
this,” she stated. And her reasons seemed valid.
“I’m too young; I just want to be able to finish
school. I can’t afford this, not only do I have to
support myself, but I help my
disabled mom as well.” Each
of these roadblocks seemed
insurmountable. And each cir-
cumstance was addressed with
compassion as our team lov-
ingly showed that none of
these challenges made it im-
possible for her to have a
baby. We also offered her
resources that would meet her
many needs. Something began
to soften. She was processing
the information we offered
her, and she stated she was
rethinking her options. She
asked for an ultrasound. During the ultrasound
she was quiet, but when she did speak, it filled
the room. She simply said “That is amazing.” She
was smiling after the ultrasound as she told us
she definitely thought she would carry her baby
and parent her child. Brooke has returned to us
for follow-up and care. She was able to share
the news with her disabled mom who was com-
pletely supportive of the pregnancy. Brooke’s
journey is just beginning. We continue to meet
often as she prepares for childbirth and beyond.
Like Brooke, all of our clients rely on our team
for encouragement and support. Thank you for
being there for young women like Brooke. Your
faithful giving enables us to be here as our cli-
ents face life’s challenges.
Their director writes, “As a city-wide network,
we are almost always available to meet needs at
our various locations. And far beyond medical
testing, our teams serve our clients by listening,
caring, and sharing the truth about God’s plan
for sexuality. For women and men in our city,
these are life transforming visits.”
This month the women of Hebron have the
privilege to serve this city-wide network that
God is using to save babies and transform
lives. We plan to share the love of Jesus by
gathering gift items for new moms and babies.
Join us to worship, pray, enjoy a light break-
fast, wrap gifts and create gift cards. You
don’t want to miss this! Can’t wait to see you
there!
We will gather to-
gether for a light
breakfast, a sweet
time of worship, and
fellowship with one
another from 9:00 to
11:00 am in the Bar-
clay Building.
We will prepare 75
gift bags for new
moms and 75 gift
bags for their new-
born babies, gift
wrap larger gifts,
and make gift cards.
Stop at a ticket sta-
tion in the Barclay
Building & Tower en-
trance to the main
building on May 1
where there will be
stations set up to take
a ticket which will list
the specified items
you are to gather.
We will also gather
new newborn, con-
vertible car seats,
new or slightly used
cribs with side rails
that do not go down
or new pack ‘n plays.
If needed, in order to
make these larger
items more afford-
able, we suggest that
you team up with
your Grove or a
group of friends and
make a group pur-
chase.
Place your gathered
items in the desig-
nated “gathering
spots”. (Or bring them
with you on May 7.)
Reserve your spot by
emailing jayne-
Let us Gather to-
gether as servants of
Jesus Christ. May He
be glorified!
Children’s Ministry Ellen Dillard
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New this year: VBS Sunday Night Family
Kick Off June 26th! Our journey for Preschool and Elementary kids and their par-
ents begins on Sunday, June 26th @ 5:00 pm at the Barclay
Building as we Kick Off our VBS week with a Family Experi-
ence. Our desire is to give parents and their children the opportu-
nity to learn about Jesus together in an engaging and relevant
way. We also want families to have fun together. Our Sunday night Family Experience provides the opportunity to help shape
the way parents and children see faith - together. It gives parents the cues they need to nurture their child’s growing faith.
When families share experiences together they create history as a family. When families experience fun together, children
begin to understand they were made to enjoy and be enjoyed. Parents can use shared experiences as teachable moments to
shape the way their children see the world. Sunday night also includes games, crafts and dinner.
During VBS we will hit the road with Paul and ask the same questions he asked while making some incredible discoveries along
the way. Grab your gear, check your GPS and get ready to “Walk This Way!”
Elementary Preschool
Grades: K-5th Grade (just completed) Ages: 4 Years Old, as of 9/1/16 & diaper free
& Special Needs—K-5th
Dates: June 26—June 30 Dates: June 26—30
Time: 5pm, Sunday Family Kick Off, Barclay Building Time: 5pm, Sunday Family Kick Off, Barclay Building
Monday - Thursday: 9:00—12:15, Kids Only Monday - Thursday: 9:15—Noon, Kids only
Location: Barclay Building Location: Main Building, 2nd Floor
Check In Begins at 8:45, Doors open @ 9:00 Check-in begins @ 9:00, Doors open @ 9:15
Children are welcome to invite friends. VBS is a great time to introduce friends to Jesus and Hebron. Our VBS compliments our
Sunday morning 252 Basics Summer Series in June and July, and provides an easy “on-ramp” for VBS visitors to return on the
weekends to continue the conversations about faith started during the week of VBS.
Parents and teens are invited to be a part of VBS. Opportunities to serve include: Prayer Team, Small Group Leader, Assistant Small Group Leader, Crafts, Kitchen, Games, Registration, Decorating, Nursery, Set-Up and Clean-Up.
“But Jesus called the children to him and said, ‘Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them,
for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.’” Luke 18:16. Thank you to each adult and teen who
welcomes children in Jesus’ name each week. Thank you for saying “YES!” to the next generation.
There are many ways that adults and teens serve Jesus in Children’s Ministry. These include: Small
Group Leader, Storyteller, Host, Skit Director, Worship Leader, Classroom Coordinator, Monthly
Staging, Craft Coordinator, and on the Kitchen Staff. In addition there are technical folks who run
sound and media shout for us. And there are others who serve faithfully by cleaning up for us! Thank
you for faithfully showing Jesus to children and their parents.
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252 Basics Summer Sunday Mornings
@ 11:00 for K-5th Grade Small Groups
We will start with the foundation of our faith: Jesus. We will
cover a sweeping overview of why Jesus came and help kids
understand how they can have a relationship with Him. Then
for the rest of the summer, we’re off traveling around with
Paul through his experience on the road to Damascus all the
way through his shipwreck at Malta. Paul was a man of extreme faith in Jesus. He went wherever he was called and had ad-
venture at each destination. He also wrote some important letters to the churches with principles kids can apply a couple thou-
sand years after Paul first wrote them. We want kids to realize that the story of Jesus can not only change them, but also can
change the entire world.
Children’s Ministry, cont.
First Look at Summer Sunday Mornings
@ 9:30 & 11:00 for Preschoolers
God made everything – the sun, moon, stars, planets, clouds,
rain, oceans, animals, flowers, you and me…everything! Join us
in June and July where we are taking preschoolers to visit
“Creation Station”, where each week preschoolers will discover
a new train car that shows them what God made on each day!
We will spend two Sundays on day six so that we can emphasize the special relationship God has designed for us to have with
Him. Please pray as preschoolers are given a “first look” at the God who loves them, made them, and wants to be their friend
forever.
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Lost & Found
Pharmacy to
Open Soon Linda Smith
Lost and Found
Pharmacy and
Soda Fountain will
soon open in For-
ward Center at
11555 Frankstown Road in Penn Hills next to McDonald’s.
This is a dream come true and an answer to much prayer.
Since the last Hebron Herald we now have the Pharmacy
completed. We’re waiting for the inspection from the State
Board of Pharmacy. As of April 16, a date has not set for the
inspection. Once that is accomplished, Sean Parsons will be
able to order the pharmaceuticals and install the sign over
the door.
On April 5 a circa 1924 soda fountain and serpentine
counter from Hotel Charlotte in Charlotte, North Carolina,
was installed by Larry Ventec and his crew. On April 13 the
occupancy permit was received. On April 14 the Allegheny
County Health Dept. inspection was approved.
Still to happen—installation of the stools for the soda foun-
tain and delivery of Hershey’s ice cream.
So stay tuned for our GRAND OPENING DAY! In the mean-
time pray for: all to happen in God’s timing and not ours; for
a clear mind for Sean and Shannon; and for the Lord’s name
to be glorified in all we do and say.
Stop in anytime for a shout out and a helping hand if possi-
ble. Thanks for your support!
Spotlight on Missions
Shraders/North Africa Gordon Slippy
David, Emily, Mae, Wes,
and Miriam Shrader are
living in North Africa,
bringing the good news of
Jesus to their local commu-
nity, and serving other
families who minister in
similar ways.
In their recent newsletter, they imagined what it would be
like for their neighbors to live in freedom – not civic freedom
as we think of it, but freedom from the yoke of sin, guilt, and
shame. Here is what it could look like:
† Freedom from selfishness and self-preservation at all
costs.
† Freedom from keeping up appearances to honor the
family, while feeling only shame within.
† Freedom to trust someone else, and to be trustworthy
yourself.
† The precious abandoned babies we bathe and feed
on Saturday mornings would be adopted into loving fami-
lies without the bleak future of growing up parentless in
an orphanage.
† A husband would not drink away his disappointment
and anger with what little money his wife earns; instead
they would be a part of a loving church family that helps
them navigate their financial struggles.
† People would take responsibility for their actions,
repent, and believe they are forgiven instead of blaming
everything on “the neighbor”.
† There would be fewer walls around homes, less need
for a guard or watch dog, and more open doors.
† They would fast because of their favor with the Lord,
not to earn that favor. They would fix their eyes upon the
three Persons of the Trinity instead of the five pillars of
faith.
Please PRAY for the Shraders’ ministry, family, and up-
coming plans. They will be visiting Hebron this summer.
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Thank You…
Thank you for the gift of a beautiful Easter lily. Its
many blossoms and buds have brought warm thoughts
and much pleasure. Keep up your good ministry in the
work of the King! Very Sincerely, Nellie Phillips
We want to thank all the wonderful people at Hebron
for all of their prayers and support in the passing of
my mother, Pat Anderson. It means more than you
know and is very appreciated.
Tom, Angela, Sydney, Jack, and David Anderson
You have cared about, and for, Bill and I these past 8
weeks while he was dealing with heart issues, medica-
tion interactions, fainting. Your prayers were with us—
enveloping us with God’s peace...your concern commu-
nicated thru Grove groups...individuals... The check we
received as well as a collection from “Amazing
Women” relieved the anxiety I felt about missing work
(and the fact that Bill was unable to work) during that
time. We know you love and care—THANK YOU. Bill
is resuming normal activity—working sensibly, eating
well, exercising. We are grateful for the good report
from the cardiologist...and he now regularly schedules
appointments. As he mentioned one day, this was a
mere blip in light of eternity. Bill & Joan Painter
French Toast Casserole (Women’s Heart Breakfast)
Ingredients:
12 slices bread (cubed) 1—8 oz. pkg. cream cheese (softened)
1 dozen large eggs 2 c. whipping cream
1/2 c. maple syrup 1/4 t. maple flavoring
Instructions:
Place bread cubes in pan sprayed with Pam. Mix cream cheese, eggs, whipping
cream, syrup and flavoring together until blended. Pour over bread cubes being sure
to cover all bread (can push down to get moist). Cover with foil and refrigerate for
at least 8 hours or overnight. Bake covered at 375 degrees for 45-50 minutes.
Changes in Youth Ministry
At the April 18 Session Meeting, Session accepted the
resignation of Youth Ministry Director, Jerry Rowland,
effective May 26, 2016. Jerry has been with us since Oc-
tober 2011, when he was hired as a full-time Youth Minis-
try Associate. Recently, his primary duties have included
ministry to grades six through twelve, recruitment and
training of volunteer staff, one-on-one discipleship of
youth, and administration of the youth program.
In his resignation letter, Jerry writes: “This decision has
been extremely difficult. (Rachel & I) love the students, Heb-
ron, and working with the staff here. Over the past year our
lives have evolved and changed, and I have found it diffi-
cult to feel a call for youth ministry in the church setting at
this point in my life. My family has been grateful to be a
part of the community and ministry at Hebron. It has been
an honor to serve God alongside the staff here and pour
into lives of students. There will be so much that we miss
about the people and ministry at Hebron moving forward.”
Jerry will be working with the staff and volunteer leaders
to set up the ministry for a successful summer, transition,
and future. The Session and staff are endeavoring to en-
sure that the youth program remains strong in the short-
term this summer and in the long-term going forward.
Jerry, Rachel, and Evie will be missed. We wish them
God’s richest blessings as they seek to follow His call.
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Financial Update Sarah Miller
Giving Update: Giving through March totals $243,876. This
is short of our budget by $24,099. We have been able to
make up a portion of this through slightly lower than budg-
eted expenses. However, we have ended March with a
deficit of $22,016.
In the last couple of Herald articles, we have talked about the
different ways to give at Hebron—one of the newest of
which is via credit card. In conjunction with this, we are also
excited to be able to offer credit card payments as an ex-
tension for our online registrations. We believe that this will
be beneficial to those wishing to make payments for summer
trips and various other events such as the Holly Alm Golf out-
ing.
It is through your continued gifts to Hebron that we are able
to provide the many opportunities available for all ages. From
Women’s Beyond Day to Vacation Bible School and the many
summer trips for the youth, none of these would be possible
without your support.
Ways to Give:
Stock Gifts
Checks/Cash
Online bill pay through your bank
Online Giving (via credit card or through a bank account)
visit www.hebrononline.org/#/worship/give
If you have any questions about ways to give, contact me at
[email protected] or 412-371-2307 x15.