assisting others in breaking the cycle paul mavrogeorge m. a. lmft mavrogeorge consulting with input...
TRANSCRIPT
![Page 1: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/1.jpg)
Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle
Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFTMavrogeorge ConsultingWith input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW
![Page 2: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/2.jpg)
Repentance Model 1. Listen Give the courage to confess 2. Speak Specific Law 3. Listen to contrition 4. Speak the Gospel 5. Speak Absolution *6. Fruits of Repentance*
Speak the Law as a Guide Motivate with the Gospel Deal with changes and tools to help
overcome addiction problems A process of Sanctification
![Page 3: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/3.jpg)
All written material copyright@ Paul Mavrogeorge M.A.
Key Points
Addiction Paradigm Common Beliefs Treatment Stages Intervention : Breaking the Cycle Application of the model…cases?
![Page 4: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/4.jpg)
All written material copyright@ Paul Mavrogeorge M.A.
Addiction Paradigm
Addiction is a unhealthy attachment to objects, behaviors, or people
The purpose of this attachment is to bring temporary comfort or security during a period of deprivation
Individuals will attach to unhealthy object in order to avoid the pain of emotional deprivation
![Page 5: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/5.jpg)
Common Beliefs
How we think and the shame that binds us!
![Page 6: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/6.jpg)
All written material copyright@ Paul Mavrogeorge M.A.
Belief System
Self-image—I am a flawed and unworthy person.
Relationships: If people knew me, they wouldn’t love me.
Needs: They will never be met if I have to count on others.
Hurts, habits, and hang-ups: ______ is my most important need.
![Page 7: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/7.jpg)
INTERVENTIONS
BREAKING THE CYCLE
Original Material by Paul Mavrogeorge
Adapted by Alan Siggelkow
![Page 8: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/8.jpg)
Acting OutCycle
UnhealthyFunctioning
Triggers Ongoing
Susceptibilities
Outcomes Acting Out
![Page 9: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/9.jpg)
Acting OutCycle
UnhealthyFunctioning
TriggersOngoing
Susceptibilities
Outcomes Acting Out
![Page 10: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/10.jpg)
All written material copyright@ Paul Mavrogeorge M.A.
Ongoing Susceptibilities
Childhood abuse (sexual, physical, emotional)
Emotionally rigid or detached family Development of shame based thinking
through childhood Negative core beliefs about oneself and
relationships Unhealthy attachment
![Page 11: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/11.jpg)
Ongoing Susceptibilities
Core beliefs I am unworthy If you really knew me, you would not love me No one will care for my needs but me
These are areas that will be addressed in therapy
![Page 12: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/12.jpg)
Acting OutCycle
UnhealthyFunctioning
TriggersOngoing
Susceptibilities
Outcomes Acting Out
![Page 13: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/13.jpg)
All written material copyright@ Paul Mavrogeorge M.A.
Unhealthy Functioning
H.A.L.T violated (Hungry-Angry-Lonely-Tired)
Depression/Anxiety increase “Ongoing Susceptibilities” are touched Intense anxiety leads to the desire for relief Reason and sanity begin to decrease “All or nothing” thinking styles STINKING THINKING
![Page 14: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/14.jpg)
Unhealthy Functioning
Help them identify behavior patterns that are unhealthy
Identify the behaviors that contribute to their pattern
Identify their key warning signs Thoughts Feelings Physical responses Behaviors
![Page 15: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/15.jpg)
Unhealthy Functioning
What are the lifestyle choices that contribute to their unhealthy functioning
Identify the key choices that must happen to move out of unhealthy functioning
![Page 16: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/16.jpg)
Acting OutCycle
UnhealthyFunctioning
TriggersOngoing
Susceptibilities
Outcomes Acting Out
![Page 17: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/17.jpg)
All written material copyright@ Paul Mavrogeorge M.A.
Triggers
People Places Things Stimulus “The pull to act out”
![Page 18: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/18.jpg)
Triggers
What are the specific things that activate their desire to engage in their destructive behavior
Indicators Thoughts Feelings Actions Physical Reactions
![Page 19: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/19.jpg)
Acting OutCycle
UnhealthyFunctioning
TriggersOngoing
Susceptibilities
Outcomes Acting Out
![Page 20: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/20.jpg)
All written material copyright@ Paul Mavrogeorge M.A.
Acting Out Begins with ongoing thinking of acting out Behavior spirals out of control (Engage in
acting out behaviors)
May involve: Behaviors that are unhelpful and must be
stopped to avoid acting out Behaviors that individual said they would
not do again Behaviors that could cause one to lose a
job or primary relationship Behaviors that risk physical safety
![Page 21: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/21.jpg)
Acting Out
Assist individual in identifying when thinking starts
Key questions When did the thoughts first enter your mind
Identify their key warning signs Thoughts Feelings Physical responses Behaviors
![Page 22: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/22.jpg)
Acting Out
Understanding the intensity is critical Green Light
Thoughts are normal Yellow Light
Thoughts have started Drifting into dangerous territory Now is the time to reach out
Red Light Obsessive thinking Locked onto obtaining relief May require external intervention
![Page 23: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/23.jpg)
Acting OutCycle
UnhealthyFunctioning
TriggersOngoing
Susceptibilities
Outcomes Acting Out
![Page 24: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/24.jpg)
All written material copyright@ Paul Mavrogeorge M.A.
Outcomes
Positive Short term gain Pay-off for the use Must be identified
Negative Long term impact Counting the cost
Spiritually Earthly
![Page 25: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/25.jpg)
Outcomes
Identification of the payoff is critical The short term gain is what can drive them In many cases the payoffs meets a deeper need Identify their key responses
Thoughts Feelings Physical responses Behaviors
![Page 26: Assisting Others In Breaking The Cycle Paul Mavrogeorge M. A. LMFT Mavrogeorge Consulting With input from Alan H. Siggelkow, MSW](https://reader033.vdocument.in/reader033/viewer/2022060106/55143b64550346284e8b467e/html5/thumbnails/26.jpg)
Acting OutCycle
UnhealthyFunctioning
TriggersOngoing
Susceptibilities
Outcomes Acting Out
Start
Fruits of RepentanceGospelLaw
Fruits of Repentance
Probably needto refer to a Mental HealthProfessional