attracting true romance

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Attracting True Romance:

Girl! Stop Sweating That Dude!!!

Written by Diana Boss


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This Book is dedicated to the struggle.....

All my ladies FEEL ME.


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This is a humorous account of what we allgo through in the dating game. At first

glance, this book may appear to be a male

bashing book. That is furthest from the

truth. This is a woman empowering book. It

does no one any favors when we dont putourselves and our own personal

development first. For any valuable

relationship, focusing on personal growth

will only strengthen the bond, thus leading

you into an amazing life of healthy, vibrant

friendships, then ultimately TRUE

ROMANCE.


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Sooooo...........

You decided this time would be different.Youve acted like a lady.

And hes come on strong.

Hes even come correct. Hes told you how

beautiful you are, texted you minutes after

you had that hot and heavy make out

session and EVERYTHING. So whats the

harm in having him over to your spot

tonight? Youre not gonna hump him

anyways, and he can be on his way after

you watch this movie, right?


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SYKE!!!!!

How to StopSweating

Dude


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So, ya humped him. So much for playinghard to get.

Rule #1:

Do not call or text him first for 30 days.

Hes a man. He wants a challenge.


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Think of yourself as a rarejewel whose value goes up

the less available you are.


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Rule #2

GET A LIFE.Or better yet, just get back to your amazing,

fabulous dope ass life anyways. How soon

we forget that we are the shit and have far

too much going for us to be sweating no

dude.

Rule #3

Pour that desire for love into your lifes

passion.

If hes worth your time, this will only makeyou more attractive. This is your life. You

only get one shot. Do not miss your chance

to BLOW UP!!! The minutes within should

be invested into people, places, things and

ideas that will reap you a marvelousreturn,which is an incredibly fun and

rewarding life!!


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Rule #4

Keep him to yourself.

Dont talk about him yet to anyone.

ANYONE. Seriously, if you want to stop

breaking a sweat, stressing yourself out

about dude and where this relationship is

gonna go, dont turn it into a love story until

he proves himself to be worth your mention.

Its time to separate the Good Power U

( the va-jay-jay) from your true hearts

desire.


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Rule #5

DO NOT, AND I REPEAT, DO NOT GET

ON FACEBOOK AND BEGIN TO LOOK AT

HIS PAGE AND WALL.


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All the pretty girls hes talking to

will begin to look like they arehitting on him, and when his drop

dead gorgeous cousin tells him


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she loves him and he returns the

sentiment, its curtains

for your imagination.


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Rule #6

Since ya didnt listen to rule #5,

please please PLEASE dont post no witty

retort on the same thread of convo as him

and his cousin, or update your status to

Funny how you give yourself to

someoneand they shit all overyou right in front of your face.


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Rule #7

BE YOURSELF.

You know, clean your house to some kick

ass Drum and Bass or House music, do

your yoga, go to the museum, draw your

paintings, work on your business, etc. Dontconform to the supposed type of your guy.

DO YOU.


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Rule #8

NO SETTLING.

Make a list of values and traits that you

want in someone and stick to that shit. You

dont have to settle.


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Rule #9

Kick it wit yo people.

Your friends are Ultra Rad, and they need

you around and fully present. Give them

your all and enjoy your time with them while

you can. Some day you all will have a

family and you may not be able to make

memories quite like this.


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Rule #10

Day Dates Only

Girl, you know you always end up lettin

him whisk you away and hit it when you

spend the night hitting that whiskey til the

early morn. So for the first 30 days, go to

lunch, the park, fishing, golfing, whatever


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but dont go out to dinner and tha club. Not

yet.

Rule #11:If he is more than 15 minutes late to your

next encounter or just no call, no shows,

CASECLOSED.

NO EXCEPTIONS.

HIS LOSS.


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RULE #12Get in touch with who you really are.

Seriously. Who are you? What special gift

do you have to give to this world?

If you are even reading this, you must

be an amazing woman who is quite social

and active. So you meet tons of amazing

people in turn. Spend quality time with

yourself first to make sure that you are in

alignment with your spirit center. Lets face

it, if we listen to our vibe feelers, we know

exactly that moment when something

comes up that is questionable. Even if that

something is our reaction to an action. Timefor time out. Dont sleep on that feelin, and

DO THE RIGHT THING LIKE SPIKE LEE.


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RULE #14

Create a Dream List

That is, do everything that is your heartsdesire. It is actually along this path that you

will connect with the man of your dreams

effortlessly. The reality is, our existence is a

lifelong journey of discovery. Writing a list of

the things you want to accomplish is a great

step in creating an AMAZING life. A life

partner should complement this list, not

replace it.


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RULE #15

WORK OUT AND GET YA TEETH DID!

Thats right! Get to working on all thosethings that enhance your self image and

worth. Remember back in the day when

people used to say, I aint studying you?

Real Talk! Dont study others, study

yourself. So lose that weight, get those

braces and that new haircut! Then do what

is necessary to represent yourself at your

best, and anything you cant change, learn

to love!


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RULE #16ABSOLUTELY NOOOO PICTURES!!!

Or should I say, Ab-SLUT-lutely NO

pictures? Within the beginning of any

romance, girl, dont send that fool nopictures! Damn girl, can you save

SOMETHING for later? When he gets that

pic, itll be less Damn, shes so fine and

more like sayin Im a trick! Save the freak

in you for your man for real.


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RULE #17

WHY YOU TRIPPIN??

Is there really something special about this

guy and your relationship? Or is he just

satisfying your co-dependency issues? Iknow this pill can be hard to swallow , but

you better crush that shit up and get to the

bottom of this pattern that you may be

doomed to keep repeating if you dont

answer the question. Again, it is the time

you spend exploring yourself that will help

you to answer these questions over time.


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RULE # 18

Dont beat yourself up.

Look, this habit of interaction didnt happen

overnight. Just keep working these rules

and forgive yourself if you have the

occasional flip out or slip up. Just nip it inthe bud when the wrong urges or emotions

come up, and remember that everyday is a

new day to start all over.


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RULE #19

Be true to yourself about how you feel

about dude.

If after full examination you realize that you

really actually like this guy and your

relationship, then allow yourself to like him.

Just dont set any expectations. Allow him

to court you in his time while you do your

thing in yours.


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RULE #20

shoulda been Rule #1

LEARN TO LOVE MEN FOR WHO THEYREALLY ARE.

Not who we want them to be. Enjoy the

likeable traits and become true friends with

them. If you are like us, most men that you

know are fantastic friends, just not the

greatest partners. Or even more important

still, perhaps this is not the best use of your

relationship with one another. Love them for

who they are for you, and expect nothing

more.


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RULE #21NO TWITTER FEED HUNTING, ANDSTILL

NO SEARCHING ON THEIR FB PAGE!!!!!

Youre playing with fire, dunny. Unless you

just LOVE to be miserable and playingmental Fill in the Blank.


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RULE #22Make a Vision Board.

If you keep looking for the things homie is

NOT doing as your pastime, you better

believe that you will find more and more!Start setting your eyes directly on your

desires! Take a large piece of cardboard

paper, get some magazines that have

images of the lifestyle you would like to

enjoy, create words of inspiration out of the

words and letters of the magazines

headings, and go to town creating a

collage! Look at your masterpiece everyday

to remind yourself where you are headed

and what is coming to you. The guy that

best fits that lifestyle will come with the

territory, please believe, especially if you

have his qualities in their as well!


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Rule #23STOP OVERREACTING.

So he hasnt called you today. BIG DEAL!

Get busy. You have shit to do. Hell holla at

you later.


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Rule #24Dont change up your priorities.

If you have a goal set in mind and have

been diligent about it, then keep it moving.

Dont always be so available. This isnt aform of game playing, its just keepin it real.

You are driven and your man will only

respect that. If you have conflicting

schedules this early in the game, only the

more reason to be extra excited and create

special moments when you DO get

together.


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Rule #25Consult with God and your inner spirit

guide.

Another shoulda been #1 Rule, but I knew

we had to get you out of the danger zonewith the first few rules. Ask the Higher

Power if this is the right guy for you, and let

your conscience be your guide.


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Rule #26

Are you EXPECTING something great or

something awful out of this?

This new love interest or romance can be agreat growth experience for you, no matter

how it plays out. You may be growing to

stop taking all the bullshit, or putting

yourself out there to quickly. You may be

learning how to be treated like a queen,

something someone may never had done

for you before. Whatever the case may be,

enjoy your steps of growth! You are

becoming more of the woman that you

know you are!!


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RULE #27Love thyself.

All in all, you will never love someone or

allow them to love you unless you love

yourself. However you find your peace andquiet, take that time with yourself and use it.

Meditate, Pray, and all that. Listen, if you

dont take the time to love yourself, forgive

yourself, and figure out what you want to

get out of this life, then why in the world do

you expect that someone else will take the

time to do it for you? Dont neglect loving

and caring for yourself, it is crucial to

happiness! If you follow all of the rules in

this here book, you will find yourself having

dug yourself out of the rut youve created in

the past. Now, open up your universe to

true love!!!


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