RELATIONSHIPS

By Dr. Daniyal Malik

• Don’t expect life to be fair.• Leave everything a bit better than you found it.• Lie on your back and gaze at the stars, atleast once a week.• Return borrowed vehicles with the tank full.• Avoid negative people.• Never cut what can be untied.• Be cautious about lending money to friends. You might lose both.• When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.• Resist giving advice concerning matri mony, finances or hairstyles.• Don’t major in minor things.• Praise in public.• Criticize in private.• Never tell anyone they look tired or depressed.• Let people pull in front of you when you’re stopped in traffic.• Be confident. Even if you are not,

pretend to be .No one can tell the difference.• Return all things you borrow.• Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.• Have a firm handshake.• Say “please” a lot.• Look people in the eye.• Learn to play a musical instrument.• Always wear polished or clean shoes.• Compliment three people every day.• Remember birthdays and anniversa ries.• Remember that a successful marriage depends on two things: 1-Finding the right person .2-Being the right person.• See problems as opportunities for growth and self-mastery.• Don’t believe people when they ask you to be honest with them.• Respect your children’s privacy. Knock before entering their rooms.

RELATIONSHIPS

Act on the following instructions for total bliss.They really work!

RELATIONSHIPS• Be kinder than necessary.• Give people a second chance, but not a third.• Never take action when you are angry.• Be your spouse’s best friend.• Don’t quit a job until you’ve lined up another.• Let people know what you stand for-and what you won’t stand for.• When complimented, a sincere “thank you” is the only response required.• Don’t discuss business secrets in elevators. You never know who may overhear you.• Focus on making things better, not bigger.• Begin each day with your favorite music.• Don’t let your possessions possess you.• Send a lot of ‘best wishes ‘cards. Sign them, “Someone who thinks you are terrific.”• Take care of your reputation. It’s your most valuable asset.• Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.• Cherish your children for what they are, not for what you’d like them to be.

A good traveler has no fixed plans and is not intent on arriving. -- Lao Tzu

Two of the greatest gifts we can give our children are roots and wings. -- Hodding Carter

If you don't know where you are going, any road will lead you there. --- George Harrison