behavioral models
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FIRO - B
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FIRO-B Measures InterpersonalNeeds:
All Human Interaction
Inclusion
Control
Affection [ Openness ]
These categories measure howmuch interaction a person wants in the areas of
socializing, leadership and responsibilities, andmore intimate personal relations
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Expressed
How we interact with others
Wanted
How we want others to interact with us
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Inclusion
How much do you connect with othersor want attention and recognition fromthem?
The extent to which we includeourselves with others (EXPRESS) orWANT others to include us
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Expressed Inclusion Behavior
Talking and joking with others
Involving others in projects andmeetings
Initiating contact and showing interestin others
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Wanted Inclusion Behaviour
Being around
Seeking recognition
Getting involved in high profile projects
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Control: the extent to which we controlothers actions (EXPRESS) or WANT
others to guide us
How much do you take charge or want
others to give directions
Control
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Expressed Control Behaviour
Directing people
Decision-making
Assuming responsibility
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Wanted Control Behaviour
Requesting clarification
Wanting direction and guidance
Concern for rules Affection
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Affection/Openness
The extent to which we EXPRESSliking or loving or WANTING others tobe close to us
How much do share about myself andwant others to share with me?
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Expressed Affection
Reassuring and supporting colleagues
Giving gifts to show appreciation
Coaching and developing others
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Wanted Affection
Being flexible and accommodating
Listening carefully to others
Trying to please people
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Inclusion types. the undersocial (low EI, low WI)
the oversocial (high EI, high WI)
the social (moderate EI, moderate WI)
Control types the abdicrat (low EC, high WC)
the autocrat (high EC, low WC)
the democrat (moderate EC, moderate WC)
Affection types the underpersonal (low EA, low WA)
the overpersonal (high EA, high WA)
the personal (moderate EA moderate WA)
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FIRO-B Models
Fundamental Interpersonal Relationship Orientation-Behavior (FIRO-B) is an instrument thatassist organizations with team-building and how to effectively communicate with others.
The FIRO-Binstrument identifies a person's reported need to engage other people and to beengaged by others. Differences in this interaction need causes conflicts among team members,when their needs are not being met and the members do not have a framework for understandingan individual's different need for inclusion.
The instrument identifies one's need to control others and to have others exercise control overthem. When one encounters someone who has a higher expressed control need than they want
then there is a tendency to feel micro managed. When the supervisor's expressed control needisn't as high as one's want to be controlled there is a tendency to feel abandoned. The need for openness is extremely important in building relationships, and relationships are the
secret to successful networks, so those with low expressed or wanted needs in this dimensionhave to work at overcoming their innate desire to stay in their comfort zone of close friends. Theneed for inclusion, control and affection manifest itself in two ways - the need to express, and theneed to receive.
When working in teams, these different needs provide a strong foundation for understanding theinteractions that are happening between team members and an opportunity to enhance respect
and trust between team members. FIRO-Bis an excellent tool for team members in a number of areas: managing behavior and itsresults; recognition of sources of and solutions to stagnation in communication and conflict;acknowledgment of unique contributions of the individual, which leads to greater appreciation.
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FIRO-B Models
Is an instrument that assist organizations with team-building and how toeffectively communicate with others.
The FIRO-Binstrument identifies a person's reported need to engageother people and to be engaged by others.
When working in teams, these different needs provide a strong foundationfor understanding the interactions that are happening between teammembers and an opportunity to enhance respect and trust between teammembers.
FIRO-Bis an excellent tool for team members in a number ofareas: managing behavior and its results; recognition of sources of andsolutions to stagnation in communication and conflict; acknowledgment ofunique contributions of the individual, which leads to greater appreciation.
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able patient powerful proud quiet reflective
relaxed religious responsive searching self-assertive self-conscious
sensible sentimental shy silly smart spontaneous
sympathetic
dignified energetic extroverted friendly giving Happy
helpful idealistic independent ingenious intelligent introverted
kind knowledgeable logical Loving warm wise
witty
accepting adaptable bold brave calm caring
cheerful clever complex confident Dependable
mature
modest
nervous
observant
Organized
tense
trustworthy
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Johari Window
Johari Window is a model used toexamine the self disclosure process.
It provides a pictorial representation ofhow known you are to yourself and toothers.
Johri- First Name of its creators-JosephLuft and Harry Ingham
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There are two key ideas behind thetool:
That individuals can build trust with othersby disclosing information aboutthemselves.
That they can learn about themselves andcome to terms with personal issues withthe help of feedback from others.
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How coworkers can increase their mutualunderstanding
Is a model to understand the process ofSelf Disclosure
The entire Square represents you as awhole
It contains everything that there is to knowabout you
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Open
All information aboutyourself that you haveshared with others.
Whenever you tellsomeone a piece ofinformation aboutyourself, your open
self increases
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Hidden
Information that you are aware, but thatyou have not disclosed or discussed withanyone.
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Blind
Information thatothers know aboutyou, but you yourself
are not aware of thisinformation.
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Unknown
Neither you, nor othersare aware of theinformation about you.
Luft and Ingham always
believed that therealways remains a portionin everyone which isunknown.
So there are alwaysthings about you todiscover.
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Johari Window
Johari Window is a person specific model, there is adifferent window made for each person that we interact.
JW for you and your mother will be different from youand your Boss.
All the sizes of panes can change as your relationshipsevolve.
The main objective of JW is to increase the size of openarea so that both you and your colleague are aware ofyour perceptual limitations.
This is partly accomplished by reducing the hidden areathrough disclosure.
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Transactional Analysis
Eric Berne
Transactional Analysis (or TA as it is oftencalled) is a model of people and relationships
that was developed during the 1960s by Dr. EricBerne. It is based on two notions, first that wehave three parts or 'ego-states' to our'personality, and secondly that these converse
with one another in 'transactions' (hence thename). TA is a very common model used intherapy and there is a great deal written about it.
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Method of Analyzing Social Intercourse, called atransaction, between two or more people whoencounter each other.
In every social intercourse there is a stimulusprovided by one individual and a response tothat stimuli given by another individual
Analysis of Stimulus Response relationship canbe done by analyzing the ego state of anindividual.
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Stimuli
Stimuli are events in the environment thatinfluence behavior.
A single stimulus can serve manydifferent functions.
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Parent
Huge collection ofrecording in the brainof an individual of
attitudes andbehaviors imposed onhim in his early years.
Uses Always, never,
should etc
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Parent, Adult and Child
We each have internal models ofparents, children and also adults, andwe play these roles with one another inour relationships. We even do it withourselves, in our internal
conversations.
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Parent
There are two forms of Parent we can play. The Nurturing Parentis caring and concerned and often
may appear as a mother-figure (though men can play ittoo). They seek to keep the Child contented, offering asafe haven and unconditional love to calm the Child'stroubles.
The Controlling (or Critical) Parent, on the other hand,tries to make the Child do as the parent wants them todo, perhaps transferring values or beliefs or helping the
Child to understand and live in society. They may alsohave negative intent, using the Child as a whipping-boyor worse.
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Child
Collection of recordingwhich comes to himnaturally from his ownseeing, hearing feeling
and understanding as achild.
Curious, Impulsive,dependent
I wish, I care, I guess, Ido not care etc,
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Child
There are three types of Child we can play.
The Natural Childis largely un-self-aware and ischaracterized by the non-speech noises they make(yahoo, whee, etc.). They like playing and are open and
vulnerable. The cutely-named Little Professoris the curious and
exploring Child who is always trying out new stuff (oftenmuch to their Controlling Parent's annoyance). Togetherwith the Natural Child they make up the Free Child.
The Adaptive Childreacts to the world around them,either changing themselves to fit in or rebelling againstthe forces they feel.
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Adult
An individual in this stateprocesses, verifies andupdates the data which hehas received from other two
stares The Adult in us is the 'grown
up' rational person who talksreasonably and assertively,neither trying to control nor
reacting aggressively towardsothers.
I see, I think, In my opinion
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Ego States
Every time a transaction takes place, thereis always an ego state which is reflectedfrom both the parties
We keep on changing our Ego staesaccording to situation and the person withwhom we are communicating
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Communications(transactions)
When two people
communicate, eachexchange is atransaction. Many ofour problems come
from transactions whichare unsuccessful.
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Kinds of transactions
Reciprocal/Complementary (the simplest)
Crossed
Duplex/Covert (the most complex)
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Reciprocal or Complementary transactions
A simple, reciprocal transaction occurswhen both partners are addressing theego state the other is in. These are also
called complementary transactions
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Example 1: A: "Have you been able to write the report?" (Adult to Adult)
B: "Yes - I'm about to email it to you." (Adult to Adult)
Example 2:
A: "Would you like to skip this meeting and go watch a film withme instead?" (Child to Child)
B: "I'd love to - I don't want to work anymore, what should we goand see?" (Child to Child)
Example 3:
A: "You should have your room tidy by now!" (Parent to Child) B: "Will you stop hassling me? I'll do it eventually!" (Child to
Parent).
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Crossed transactions
Communication failures are typically caused bya 'crossed transaction' where partners addressego states other than that their partner is in.
Example: Foreman to worker: How many pieces have you
made till now? (A-A)
Worker to foreman : Whenever Ill complete the whole
work Ill let you know. (P-C) In this communication further transaction stops.
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Ulterior, Duplex or Covert transactions
Ulterior transactions has double meaning.On the surface level it is a clear adultmessage. But it also carries a hidden
message.