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Being Heard Clearly at the Leadership Table and Beyond
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How do you show up? How do you want to be seen and heard?
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Leading Like a Swan
Leading Like a Swan video
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Takes 1/10 of a second to form an impression of a stranger, and longer exposures don't significantly alter those impressions (Harvard, 2004)
Keys to First Impression
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I POP
Intention
Presence
Open your
throat
Pithy Message
Strategy for Being Heard Clearly
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+ What Is Your Intention?
What message do want your listener/audience to take away?
Will you inform, inspire, entertain or persuade?
Read your audience WIFM How will what you say
benefit them? What is their knowledge
base? What will be their attitude?
Intention
Amparo Villablanca, M.D.
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+ Presence
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+ Wardrobe • Bold colors send a
powerful message • Crisp business attire
shows power and direction
• Dress ‘one level up’ • Casual attire can send a
too relaxed message • Fads can make you
seem ‘out there’
• Consider your props (pen, glasses, binder, briefcase)
Original Source: “Effective Meetings: Demonstrate Your Leadership Skills by Moving Agendas Forward” by Nadine T. Katz, M.D.
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+ Call your smart phone and leave a message.
Open your
throat
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+ Do You Like Your Voice? Does your voice sound tense or
relaxed?
Do you trail off at the ends of
sentences?
Do you mumble or
speak too fast?
Do you insert fillers such as UM
or ER?
Do you inflect your sentences upward or end
in gravel?
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+ Tense vs relaxed speaking
Breathe from below Open the back of your throat Relax your jaw to form the vowels Replenish your breath as needed
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Master Relaxed Breathing
Breathe through your nose with your lips closed.
Keep your molars apart and your tongue tip forward.
Air will come in automatically!
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+ Articulate clearly
Introduce yourself clearly
Say the ends of words
Pronounce all parts of many syllable word
Modify up-talk and glottal fry
Eliminate filler words
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+ Pause exercise
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Daily Vocal Warm-Up
Water before caffeine Lip flutters or tongue trills Ingo Titze straw exercises Hum or sing in the shower Recite a few tongue twisters Eleven benevolent elephants Red leather - yellow leather
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+ The Message
Presentation
Pitches
Pithy Message
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+ Pithy Presentations
Hook: Grab the attention of your audience.
Core: What is your key message? Develop two to three supporting points that you can expand upon. Tell a story or share an experience. Provide supporting facts. Use effective visuals. Master reading from notes.
Close: What do you want your audience to remember a day or week from now?
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+ Video of Michael Bay at Consumer
Electronics Show in Las Vegas
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+ Nancy Duarte – Present Visual Stories
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+ Video of Kate Middleton reading
from a script
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Message
Value Proposition
Elevator Pitch Professional Statement
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+ Video of Message Mapping
by Carmine Gallo
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I make public speaking easy for
professionals. Public speaking skills are
acquired not inherited.
Speakers undergo an assessment of six core competencies to determine
their strong and weak areas. trust you
We then train online using audio, video and written feedback.
In 15 seconds…
In 30 seconds…
I develop an action plan to provide them with the tools and strategies to achieve
their speaking goals.
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Develop your pitch Introduce yourself, give a project update, present
your research idea for funding, ask for a promotion…
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Present it to a partner
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+ Melissa Block – NPR video
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“We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations.” Charles R. Swindoll
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+ Video of Elena Kagan at Supreme
Court Confirmation Hearing
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+ What’s next for you?
Revisit your initial situation - What would you do differently now?
Be a detective and see what happens when you are stressed?
Leave an office message daily.
Pick a behavior and change it.
Consider online coaching.