being social: a guide for fraternity men
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Being SocialA GUIDE FOR FRATERNITY MEN
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James BalandránTexas Chi ’10
Province Sigma [email protected]
linkedin.com/james.balandranfacebook.com/james.balandran
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Types of Recruits
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Types of Recruits
Source: North American Interfraternity Conference
Always Joiners
Maybe Joiners
Never Joiners
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Types of Recruitment
Always Joiners
Maybe Joiners
Never Joiners
Formal Recruitment
Year Long Recruitment
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Formal Recruitment
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Formal Recruitment
Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday
Kappa SigmaSigma Alpha
EpsilonIFC Pool Party Event Bids Tuned in
Pi Kappa PhiKappa Sigma
Sigma Alpha Epsilon
Pi Kappa PhiUC Theater
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What are we?
Sigma Alpha Epsilon
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What are we?
Sigma Alpha EpsilonBrotherhood
The True Gentlemen
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What are they saying?
Sigma Alpha Epsilon
Kappa Sigma Pi Kappa Phi
BrotherhoodThe True
Gentlemen
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What are they saying?
Sigma Alpha Epsilon
Kappa Sigma Pi Kappa Phi
Brotherhood Brotherhood Brotherhood
The True Gentlemen
Star and Crescent Pi Kapp Creed
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What are they saying?
Sigma Alpha Epsilon
Kappa Sigma Pi Kappa Phi
Brotherhood Brotherhood Brotherhood
The True Gentlemen
Star and Crescent Pi Kapp Creed
Social Events Social Events Social EventsIntramurals Intramurals IntramuralsScholarship Scholarship Scholarship
Values Values Values
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How We Can Be Different
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“Stop telling prospective members what your organization does. Start showing them what your organization can do for them. Start suggesting ways that they can make a difference, immediately, within your organization.
That’s your challenge. Get me excited about your club, your council, your committee, or your chapter. Let me see why you love it. Help me understand how it would make me enjoy my college experience more. Help me see myself in it.”
TJ Sullivan
Source: The Hungry Student Leader Blog (TJSullivan.com)
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People Join People
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“I hate Frats. My first two years of college were miserable. I went from class, to work, and then home...One day I met this goofy kid named Manfred Mecoy who asked if i wanted to go to play broomball with some of his friends. I didn’t realize until I got there that it was a recruitment event for SAE.
I met a lot of people that changed my view of Fraternities...I still hate Frats, but I love my Fraternity.
Casey Lang
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“When I arrived at Ol Miss in 1986, there was only one Fraternity I could join, Sigma Alpha Epsilon. Working to put myself through school, I could not accept the bid that was given to be...
Joe Clark, the advisor at Miss. Sigma, saw something in me. One night, when i returned to my dorm room, i found an envelope. In it, was a check for my first semesters dues, and a note that said “Pledge Meeting Tuesday at 7.”
It is because of Joe that I am an SAE today.
M. Todd Buchanan
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What is your story?
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Secrets
•Be the Host
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Secrets
•Be the Host
•Be Authentic
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Secrets
•Be the Host
•Be Authentic
•Care
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