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Page 1: Building Relationships For Good

Eldon Boldt, September 27, 2009

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James 1:19 (NIV)

19 My dear brothers, take note ofthis: Everyone should be quick to

listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.

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1. PRESUMPTION

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Proverbs 18:13 (NIV)

13 He who answers before listening-that is his folly and his shame.

(TLB)

13 What a shame--yes, howstupid!--to decide before knowing

the facts!

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1. PRESUMPTION

• There is only one way to see things

• Everybody thinks like I do

• People never change

• I can figure out your motives.

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2. IMPATIENCE

• Interrupt

• Jump to conclusions

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Proverbs 29:20 (NIV)

20 Do you see a man who speaks in haste? There is more hope for a

fool than for him.

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Proverbs 19:11 (NIV)

11 A man's wisdom gives himpatience; it is to his glory to

overlook an offense.

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3. PRIDE

Proverbs 12:15 (NIV)

15 The way of a fool seems rightto him, but a wise man listens to

advice.

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Proverbs 20:5 (TLB)

5 Though good advice lies deepwithin a counselor's heart, the wise

man will draw it out.

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Proverbs 15:31 GN

31 If you pay attention when you are corrected you are wise.

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• Lawyer

• Theologians

• Historian

• Psychologist

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THREE HEARING AIDS

1. LISTEN WITH YOUR EYES.

Mark 10:21a (NIV)

21 Jesus looked at him and loved him.

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THREE HEARING AIDS

1. LISTEN WITH YOUR EYES.

2. LISTEN WITH YOUR HEART.

3. LISTEN WITH YOUR TIME.

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“Whoever hears my word andbelieves Him who sent me has

eternal life and will not becondemned.”

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Hebrews 3:7-8 (NIV)

7 So, as the Holy Spirit says:"Today, if you hear his voice, 8 do not harden your hearts.

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Eldon Boldt, September 27, 2009