building relationships for good
TRANSCRIPT
Eldon Boldt, September 27, 2009
James 1:19 (NIV)
19 My dear brothers, take note ofthis: Everyone should be quick to
listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.
1. PRESUMPTION
Proverbs 18:13 (NIV)
13 He who answers before listening-that is his folly and his shame.
(TLB)
13 What a shame--yes, howstupid!--to decide before knowing
the facts!
1. PRESUMPTION
• There is only one way to see things
• Everybody thinks like I do
• People never change
• I can figure out your motives.
2. IMPATIENCE
• Interrupt
• Jump to conclusions
Proverbs 29:20 (NIV)
20 Do you see a man who speaks in haste? There is more hope for a
fool than for him.
Proverbs 19:11 (NIV)
11 A man's wisdom gives himpatience; it is to his glory to
overlook an offense.
3. PRIDE
Proverbs 12:15 (NIV)
15 The way of a fool seems rightto him, but a wise man listens to
advice.
Proverbs 20:5 (TLB)
5 Though good advice lies deepwithin a counselor's heart, the wise
man will draw it out.
Proverbs 15:31 GN
31 If you pay attention when you are corrected you are wise.
• Lawyer
• Theologians
• Historian
• Psychologist
THREE HEARING AIDS
1. LISTEN WITH YOUR EYES.
Mark 10:21a (NIV)
21 Jesus looked at him and loved him.
THREE HEARING AIDS
1. LISTEN WITH YOUR EYES.
2. LISTEN WITH YOUR HEART.
3. LISTEN WITH YOUR TIME.
“Whoever hears my word andbelieves Him who sent me has
eternal life and will not becondemned.”
Hebrews 3:7-8 (NIV)
7 So, as the Holy Spirit says:"Today, if you hear his voice, 8 do not harden your hearts.
Eldon Boldt, September 27, 2009