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If$they$both$wish$for$peace,$Allh$will$cause$their$reconciliation.$

Indeed$ Allh$ is$ Ever$ All

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pardon! should! precede! your!punishment;! for!indeed!it! stops!

the!problem!before!it!begins.!!

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Fifth:' It! is! from!the! way!of! the!intelligent! ones!to! relinquish!

some!of!their!rights!for!the!greater!good.!There!is!no!harm!for!

you!to! forfeit!some!of! your!rights,! even!if!it! be!difficult!upon!

you,!in!order!to!preserve!your!family!and!marriage.!!

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Sixth:'Be!mindful!not!to!allow!a!third!party!to!enter!upon!your!

marital! affairs.!So,! if!a! problem! occurs! then! do!not! rush! to!

others!with!it!until!you!first!exhaust!every!means!to!resolve!it.!How!many!marital!problems! occurred!as! a!result!of! involving!

people!in!your!affairs?!In!the!beginning!it!was!just!the!two!of!

you,!which!means!there!were!only!two!opinions.!So,!imagine!if!

the!number!of!opinions!were!to!increase.!The!paths!that!lead!to!

marital! rectification! will!be! severed,! causing! the! problem! to!

magnify.!Perhaps!you!both!desire!marital!rectification,!but!are!

unable!to,!and!it!is!more!grievous!and!bitter,!because!of!family!

feuding.!!

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The! husband! and! wife!become! innocent! byVstanders.! I! have!

witnessed!this!scenario!a! number!of! times!when!dealing!with!

family! issues;! the! husband! and! wife! wish! to! resolve! their!

problem!by!themselves!without!the!involvement!of! others.!So!my!sister,!reflect!over!the!statement!of!Allah,!the!Most!High,!If$

you$fear$a$breach$between$them$twain$(the$man$and$his$wife),$

appoint$ (two)$ arbitrators,$ one$from$ his$ family$ and$the$ other$

from$ her's;$ if$ they$ both$ wish$ for$ peace,$Allh$will$ cause$ their$

reconciliation.$Indeed$Allh$is$Ever$All