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COMMUNICATING VALUES Serra Serena Retreat Center November 19-21 2010 by Fabiano Mello & Juliana Vilarinho

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Page 1: COMMUNICATING VALUES Serra Serena Retreat Center November 19-21 2010 by Fabiano Mello & Juliana Vilarinho

COMMUNICATING VALUESSerra Serena Retreat Center

November 19-21 2010

by Fabiano Mello & Juliana Vilarinho

Page 2: COMMUNICATING VALUES Serra Serena Retreat Center November 19-21 2010 by Fabiano Mello & Juliana Vilarinho

ABOUT YOURSELF

A. Listening or speaking – which one is more challenging for you?

B. Which sentences below are true for you?1. I learn better when I read.2. I learn better by listening only.3. To me, taking notes is fundamental for the learning process to take

place.

C. Which sentence(s) best represent(s) your aim at this retreat:1. I´m interested in joining a BK retreat and the fact it´s in English is

just a plus.2. I´m willing to practice my English skills, specially speaking.3. I´m willing to practice my English skills, specially listening.4. Despite the fact my skills are intermediate or above , I don´t mind

being in touch with users of the language from various levels.5. My English skills are below intermediate, still I´m willing to be

exposed to an English-speaking enviromnent.6. If none of the above, please share your aim:

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Useful Expressions

• Sorry (Repeat, please) or ( Sorry, I don´t understand)

• Excuse me (to call someone´s attention) (also to say you´re sorry)

• What´s this (word in Portuguese) in English, please?

• How do you pronounce it, please?

• Can you spell it, please? S- T- A – P – L – E

• Can I be excused ? (in case you need to be away for some minutes)

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Introduce yourself

• I was born in (city, state).• I have a degree in ___________.• I am a high school/ undergraduate student.• I work as a ___________.• I enjoy ...sports, dancing, arts, reading, ...• I have lived in SP for ( 20) years.• I have lived in Campinas since I was born/

2000.• I´m single.• I have three brothers and two sisters.• I´m married. I have three children – two

daughters and a son.

Page 5: COMMUNICATING VALUES Serra Serena Retreat Center November 19-21 2010 by Fabiano Mello & Juliana Vilarinho

Accuracy Co-operation Gentleness Positivity

Appreciation Courage Happiness Respect

Balance Creativitity Harmony Responsible

Benevolence Detachment Honesty Self confidence

Calmness Determination Humility Serenity

Care Discipline Introspection Simplicity

Cheerfulness Enthusiasm Intuitive Stability

Clarity Faith Lightness Strength

Cleanliness Flexibility Loyalty Sweetness

Compassion Forgiveness Maturity Tirelessness

Contentment Freedom Openness Tolerance

Constant Generosity Patience Truthfullness

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Accurate Cooperative Gentle; Kind Positivity

Appreciative Courageous Happy Respectful

Balanced Creative Harmonious Responsible

Benevolent Detached Honest Self confident

Calm Determined Humble Serene

Careful Disciplined Introspective Simple

Cheerful Enthusiatic Intuitive Stable

Clear Faithful Light Strong

Clean Flexible Loyal Sweet

Compassionate Forgiving Mature Tireless

Content Free Open Tolerant

Constant Generous Patient Truthful

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4 Rs Roles – child, brother, husband, professional, father....Relationships Responsabilities Routine

Meditation StepsInward – Let go of the 4Rs. Allow time to be with yourself, appreciate it.Aim at going to bed / awakening with the experience of a very positive thought.Upward – Through this positive energy you naturally connect with silence (fullfiment) and God. Enjoy.Outward – Naturally share the fragrance and waves of your experience.

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Smile - Music by charlie chaplin

Smile though your heart is aching Smile even though it's breaking When there are clouds in the sky, you'll get by If you smile through your fear and sorrow Smile and maybe tomorrow You'll see the sun come shining through for you

Light up your face with gladness Hide every trace of sadness Although a tear may be ever so near That's the time you must keep on trying Smile, what's the use of crying? You'll find that life is still worthwhile If you just smile

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Music by Elton John, lyrics by Tim RicePerformed by Elton John

From the day we arrive on the planetAnd blinking, step into the sunThere's more to be seen than can ever be seenMore to do than can ever be done Some say eat or be eaten Some say live and let live But all are agreed as they join the stampede You should never take more than you give (Chorus) In the Circle of Life It's the wheel of fortune It's the leap of faith It's the band of hope Till we find our place On the path unwinding In the Circle, the Circle of Life Some of us fall by the wayside And some of us soar to the stars And some of us sail through our troubles And some have to live with the scars There's far too much to take in here More to find than can ever be found But the sun rolling high Through the sapphire sky Keeps the great and small on the endless round (Chorus repeats) On the path unwinding In the Circle, the Circle of Life.

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http://moviesegmentstoassessgrammargoals.blogspot.com/

http://learnenglish.britishcouncil.org/

http://learnenglishkids.britishcouncil.org/

www.onlinenewspapers.com

www.bbc.co.uk www.cnn.com

http://a4esl.org Any sites you recommend?

www.usalearn.org

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• Just a Minute (JAM)

• Traffic Control (TC) 7 am, 10:30 am, 12:30 am, 5:30 pm, 7:30 pm, 9:30 pm

• Food for thought: talks, thought of the day(www.bkwsu.org; www.bkpublications.com)

• Prioritize time for empowerment

• Meditate after getting up, before going to bed.

•Share

• Retreat now and then ( and... it´s in all of us to be wise)

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[email protected]

• www.blogdofabiano.com

[email protected]

• bkserraserena.blogspot.com• [email protected] (C/O Ricardo)

[email protected] – retreat place

[email protected] – enrollment

• www.bkwsu.org/brasil