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    Listen the Unspoken WordsListen the Unspoken Words

    By: Amin Rajani

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    Listen the UnspokenListen the UnspokenWordsWords

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    Who Went WhereWho Went WhereWho Went WhereWho Went Where

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    Jones flew with Ansett Airlines.

    The Hong Kong flight was onSaturday.

    British Airways flew to the US. Brown went on Wednesda .

    Smith went to New Zealand.

    Qantas flew on Friday

    Zoubari went on Tuesday. Singapore Airlines flew to London.

    Wong went with United Airlines.

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    The Australian flight was on Monday.

    Ansett Airlines flew on Monday.

    Wong flew to Hong Kong.

    Zoubari went with British Airways.

    Brown went to the UK.

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    CommunicationCommunicationCommunicationCommunication

    The transference

    andunderstanding of

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    mean ng

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    Changes Affecting theChanges Affecting the

    WorkplaceWorkplace Hei htened lobalcompetition

    Flattened managementhierarchies

    Expanded team-basedmanagement

    Innovative communication

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    technologies

    New work environments Increasingly diverse

    workforce

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    Success forSuccess forYOUYOUin the newin the new

    global and diverseglobal and diversework lace re uires excellentwork lace re uires excellent

    Success forSuccess forYOUYOUin the newin the new

    global and diverseglobal and diversework lace re uires excellentwork lace re uires excellentcommunication skills!communication skills!communication skills!communication skills!

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    COMMUNICATION MODELCOMMUNICATION MODEL

    EVOLVEDEVOLVED

    COMMUNICATION MODELCOMMUNICATION MODEL

    EVOLVEDEVOLVEDACTION

    INTERACTION

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    TRANSACTION

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    The Communication ProcessThe Communication Process

    Basic ModelBasic Model

    1.Sender

    has idea

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    The Communication ProcessThe Communication Process

    Basic ModelBasic Model

    1.Sender

    has idea

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    The Communication ProcessThe Communication Process

    Basic ModelBasic Model

    2.Sender

    encodes

    idea in

    1.Sender

    has idea

    Slide 12

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    The Communication ProcessThe Communication Process

    Basic ModelBasic Model

    2.Sender

    encodes

    idea in

    1.Sender

    has idea

    Slide 13

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    The Communication ProcessThe Communication Process

    Basic ModelBasic Model

    3.Message

    travels

    over

    2.Sender

    encodes

    idea in

    1.Sender

    has idea

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    The Communication ProcessThe Communication Process

    Basic ModelBasic Model

    2.Sender

    encodes

    idea in

    3.Message

    travels

    over

    1.Sender

    has idea

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    The Communication ProcessThe Communication Process

    Basic ModelBasic Model

    2.Sender

    encodes

    idea in

    3.Message

    travels

    over

    1.Sender

    has idea

    4.Receiver

    decodes

    message

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    The Communication ProcessThe Communication Process

    Expanded ModelExpanded Model

    The Communication ProcessThe Communication Process

    Expanded ModelExpanded Model

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    MiscommunicationMiscommunicationMiscommunicationMiscommunicationIn Center Harbor, Maine, local legend

    recalls the day when Walter Cronkite.

    sailor was amused to see in the

    distance a small crowd on shorewaving their arms to greet him. He

    could barely make out their excited

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    shouts: Hello Walter, Hello Walter!

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    MiscommunicationMiscommunicationMiscommunicationMiscommunicationAs his boat came closer, the crowd grew

    larger, still yelling. Pleased at the,

    captain's hat, waved back, even took a

    bow. But before reaching dockside,Cronkite's boat abruptly jammed

    aground. The crowd stood silent. The

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    ve eran news anc or su en y rea ze

    what they'd been shouting: Low water,low water!

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    Analysis of FlawedAnalysis of FlawedCommunication ProcessCommunication Process

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    Analysis of FlawedAnalysis of FlawedCommunication ProcessCommunication Process

    Sender

    has

    idea

    Warn

    boater

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    Analysis of FlawedAnalysis of FlawedCommunication ProcessCommunication Process

    Sender

    has

    idea

    Warn

    boater

    Sender

    encodes

    message

    Low

    water!

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    Analysis of FlawedAnalysis of FlawedCommunication ProcessCommunication Process

    Sender

    has

    idea

    Warn

    boater

    Sender

    encodes

    message

    Low

    water!

    Channel

    carries

    message

    Message

    distorted

    Receiver

    decodes

    message

    Hello

    Walter!

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    Barriers That CausedBarriers That CausedCronkite MiscommunicationCronkite Miscommunication

    Barriers That CausedBarriers That CausedCronkite MiscommunicationCronkite Miscommunication

    Receiver

    Language skills

    accus ome oacclaim andappreciative crowds.

    Maine accent makes"water" and "Walter"

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    Listening skills

    .

    Receiver moreaccustomed tospeaking than tolistening.

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    Barriers That CausedBarriers That Caused

    Cronkite MiscommunicationCronkite Miscommunication

    Barriers That CausedBarriers That Caused

    Cronkite MiscommunicationCronkite Miscommunication E o rom ted

    interference

    receiver tobelieve crowd

    was respondingto his celebritystatus.

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    Physical barriers

    ,

    distance betweensenders andreceivers.

    Which of these barriers could be overcome through

    improved communication skills?

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    OTHER BARRIERSOTHER BARRIERSOTHER BARRIERSOTHER BARRIERS

    Filterin

    Selective Perception

    Information Overload

    Being Self-Absorbed Criticizing the Speaker

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    Communication apprehension

    Cultural Barrier High context & low context cultures

    Non-verbal words

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    Overcoming CommunicationOvercoming Communication

    BarriersBarriers Realize that communication is

    imperfect.

    Adapt the message to the receiver.

    Improve your language and

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    s en ng s s.

    Question your preconceptions.

    Plan for feedback.

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    Organizational CommunicationOrganizational Communication

    Functions: internal and external Form: oral and written

    Form: channel selection dependent on Message content

    Need for immediate response Audience size and distance

    Audience reaction

    Need to show em ath friendliness formalit

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    Flow: Formal: down, up, horizontal

    Informal: grapevine

    C i ti Fl iC i ti Fl i

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    Communication FlowingCommunication FlowingThrough Formal ChannelsThrough Formal Channels

    Horizontal

    Downward pwar

    Downward

    Management

    directives

    Horizontal

    Task coordination

    Information sharing

    Upward

    Employee feedback

    Progress reports

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    o p ans, po c es

    Company goals

    Mission statements

    Problem solving

    Conflict resolution

    Reports of customer

    interaction, feedbackSuggestions for

    improvement

    Anonymous hotline

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    Forms of Communication FlowingForms of Communication FlowingThrough Formal ChannelsThrough Formal Channels

    Oral

    WrittenElectronic

    Written

    Executive memos, letters ElectronicOral

    Telephone

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    Annual report

    Company newsletterBulletin board postings

    Orientation manual

    -ma

    Voicemail

    Instant Messaging

    Intranet

    Videoconferencing

    Face-to-face conversation

    Company meetingsTeam meetings

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    Knowledge ManagementKnowledge ManagementKnowledge ManagementKnowledge Management

    The rocess of or anizin anddistributing an organizationscollective wisdom so the right

    information gets to the right people athe right time

    KM be ins b identif in what

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    matters to the organization

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    Interpersonal CommunicationInterpersonal CommunicationInterpersonal CommunicationInterpersonal Communication Oral Communication

    Advantages: Speed and feedback.

    .

    Written Communication

    Advantages: Tangible and verifiable.

    Disadvantages: Time consuming and lacks feedback.

    Nonverbal Communication

    Advanta es: Su orts other communications and

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    provides observable expression of emotions and

    feelings. Disadvantage: Misperception of body language or

    gestures can influence receivers interpretation of

    message.

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    GrapevineGrapevineGrapevineGrapevine

    Grapevine Characteristics Informal, not controlled by management.

    Perceived by most employees as being more

    believable and reliable than formal

    communications. Largely used to serve the self-interests of those

    who use it.

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    esu s rom:

    Desire for information about importantsituations

    Ambiguous conditions

    Conditions that cause anxiety

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    Politically CorrectPolitically CorrectCommunicationCommunication

    Politically CorrectPolitically CorrectCommunicationCommunication

    Certain words stereotype, intimidate, and insultindividuals.

    In an increasingly diverse workforce, we must be

    sensitive to how words might offend others.

    Removed: handicapped, blind, and elderly Replaced with:physically challenged, visually

    impaired, and senior.

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    harder to communicate accurately.

    Removed: garbage, quotas, and women.

    Replaced with terms:postconsumer waste materials,

    educational equity, andpeople of gender.

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    Communicating in Teams

    By:

    Amin Rajani

    TEAMWORKTEAMWORKTEAMWORKTEAMWORK

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    TEAMWORKTEAMWORKTEAMWORKTEAMWORK

    TOGETHER WE MAKE A

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    LearningLearning

    ObjectivesObjectives

    LearningLearning

    ObjectivesObjectives Discuss importance of communicatingin team oriented workplace

    Identify Characteristics of successful

    teams List techniques for Team-based written

    and oral resentations

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    How to become effective listener

    learn importance of nonverbalcommunication

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    Communicatin in TeamCommunicatin in Team

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    effective only wheneffective only wheneveryone learns toeveryone learns toeffective only wheneffective only wheneveryone learns toeveryone learns to

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    ....

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    Communication MethodsCommunication MethodsCommunication MethodsCommunication Methods

    Casual Conversation

    Traditional method Electronic means

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    -

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    GROUPGROUPGROUPGROUP

    individuals, interacting

    and interdependent,who have come

    to ether to achieve

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    particular objectives.

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    TeamTeamTeamTeam

    individual efforts

    result in aperformance that is

    reater than sum of

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    individual inputs.

    Stages of TeamStages of TeamStages of TeamStages of Team

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    2. Storming

    Stages of TeamStages of TeamDevelopmentDevelopment

    Stages of TeamStages of TeamDevelopmentDevelopment

    1. Forming

    3. Norming 4. Performing 5. Adjourning

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    S f T D l

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    Stages of Team Development

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    FormingFormingFormingForming

    Feelings of... Excitement

    Suspicion

    Optimism

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    ear

    Anxiety Anticipation

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    StormingStormingStormingStorming

    es s ance

    Uncertainty

    Impatience

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    Discomfort

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    NormingNormingNormingNorming

    a e y ansecurity

    Acceptance

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    Focus on theprocess

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    AdjourningAdjourningAdjourningAdjourning

    Completion and letdown

    Excitement and regret

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    How does the conflictHow does the conflictbegins?begins?

    How does the conflictHow does the conflictbegins?begins?

    Conversion of

    different opinioninto acute condition

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    .

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    Interpersonal conflictInterpersonal conflictInterpersonal conflictInterpersonal conflict

    Conflict occur betweenpeople. (e.g)

    Disagreement between twoor more people

    Conflict between husband

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    and wife

    Family conflicts

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    Conflict IndicatorsConflict IndicatorsConflict IndicatorsConflict Indicators

    communication

    Increase in rumors Avoidance of normal

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    Body languages

    Misunderstanding

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    GroupthinkGroupthinkGroupthinkGroupthink

    agree without

    examine alternativesor considering

    contin enc lans.

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    Ch t i ti f f lCh t i ti f f lCh t i ti f f lCh t i ti f f l

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    Characteristics of successfulCharacteristics of successfulTeamTeam

    Characteristics of successfulCharacteristics of successfulTeamTeam

    Small size, Diverse Makeup

    Agreement on purpose

    Agreement on procedure

    Ability to confront conflict

    Use of good communication

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    techniques

    Ability to collaborate rather thancompete

    Shared leadership.

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    Strategies for reaching GroupStrategies for reaching GroupDecisionDecision

    Strategies for reaching GroupStrategies for reaching GroupDecisionDecision

    Consensus

    Minority Averaging

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    Authority Rule with

    Discussion

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    ConclusionConclusionConclusionConclusion

    Team should s end as muchtime together as possible withinworking hours.

    People need to be comfortableto work well together.

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    needs to be wiped out.

    Insecurity is the enemy of teamexcellence and goodmanagement.

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    Listening and NonverbalListening and NonverbalCommunicationCommunication

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    ListeningListening

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    What is Listening?What is Listening?What is Listening?What is Listening?

    ,

    of receiving, constructing

    meaning from, and responding to

    spoken and/or nonverbalmessages; to hear something with

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    Effective communication is 2-way depends on speaking and listening

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    Fast FactsFast FactsFast FactsFast Facts

    We listen at 125-250 wpm, think at1000-3000 wpm

    75% of the time we are distracted,

    preoccupied or forgetful 20% of the time, we remember

    what we hear

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    More than 35% of businesses

    think listening is a top skill forsuccess

    Less than 2% of people have hadformal education with listening

    Wh ki d f liWh ki d f liWh ki d f liWh ki d f li

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    What kind of listener areWhat kind of listener areyou?you?

    What kind of listener areWhat kind of listener areyou?you?

    Do you zone out?

    Do you remember whatssaid?

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    Can you identify the

    important points?

    Is all you hear blah blah

    blah?

    The ListeningThe Listening

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    The ListeningThe ListeningProcessProcess

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    The Listening ProcessThe Listening Process

    Perception

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    The Listening ProcessThe Listening Process

    PerceptionTune In

    Reduced by:

    1. Impaired

    Hearing

    2. oisy

    when we

    1.are interested

    in the topic

    2. are in moodto listen

    3. sense that

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    surroundin

    g3. Inattention

    4. pseudoliste

    ning

    message s

    important

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    The ListeningThe Listening

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    The ListeningThe ListeningProcessProcess

    Perception

    Evaluation

    Interpretation

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    Listening ProcessListening ProcessListening ProcessListening Process

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    Listening ProcessListening ProcessBarriersBarriers

    Listening ProcessListening ProcessBarriersBarriers

    Mental Barriers Inattention

    Prejudgment

    Frame of reference

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    Closed-mindedness

    Pseudolistening

    Listening ProcessListening ProcessListening ProcessListening Process

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    Physical and Other Barriers

    Listening ProcessListening ProcessBarriersBarriers

    Listening ProcessListening ProcessBarriersBarriers

    Hearing impairment

    Noisy surroundings

    Speakers appearance

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    Speakers mannerisms

    Lag time

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    Slide 77

    Stop talking / DontStop talking / DontStop talking / DontStop talking / Dont

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    Stop talking / Don tStop talking / Don t

    interruptinterrupt

    Stop talking / Don tStop talking / Don t

    interruptinterrupt od has given usod has given ustwo ears and

    one mouth we

    can hear twice

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    can hear twice

    as much as we

    speak

    Control external andControl external andControl external andControl external and

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    Control external andControl external andinternal distractionsinternal distractionsControl external andControl external andinternal distractionsinternal distractions

    He never

    stops

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    Become activelyBecome activelyBecome activelyBecome actively

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    Become activelyBecome activelyinvolvedinvolved

    Become activelyBecome activelyinvolvedinvolved

    Listen to

    A team can

    go farwhen

    more than

    spoken words

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    everyone

    pulls

    together.

    Separate facts fromSeparate facts fromSeparate facts fromSeparate facts from

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    Separate facts fromSeparate facts from

    opinionsopinions

    Separate facts fromSeparate facts from

    opinionsopinionsalways

    remain a

    fact

    (Reality)

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    Ask clarifyingAsk clarifyingAsk clarifyingAsk clarifying

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    Ask clarifyingAsk clarifying

    questionsquestions

    Ask clarifyingAsk clarifying

    questionsquestionsPlease helme understand

    by explaining

    more about

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    Paraphrase toParaphrase toParaphrase toParaphrase to

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    Paraphrase toParaphrase to

    increase understandingincrease understanding

    Paraphrase toParaphrase to

    increase understandingincrease understandingIf I maysummarize,

    does this

    means

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    Take notes to ensureTake notes to ensureTake notes to ensureTake notes to ensure

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    Take notes to ensureTake notes to ensure

    retentionretention

    Take notes to ensureTake notes to ensure

    retentionretentionhave short

    pencil than a

    long memory

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    RE HEARRE HEARRE HEARRE HEAR

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    RE HEARRE HEARRE HEARRE HEAR R: Repeat the message you

    heard

    E: Empathize the sender

    H: Help the sender with

    question

    E: Empty your mind

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    A: Attend to the speaker

    R: Read between the linesDo only one thing at a time;listening is a full-time job.

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    Most Irritating ListeningMost Irritating ListeningMost Irritating ListeningMost Irritating Listening

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    Most Irritating ListeningMost Irritating ListeningHabitsHabits

    Most Irritating ListeningMost Irritating ListeningHabitsHabits

    6. Showin interest in

    something other than what

    the speaker is saying.

    7. Saying Yes, but . . ., as ifthe listeners mind is made

    up.

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    8. Topping the speakers story

    with That reminds me . . .or Thats nothing; let me tell

    you about. . . .

    Most Irritating ListeningMost Irritating ListeningMost Irritating ListeningMost Irritating Listening

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    Most Irritating ListeningMost Irritating ListeningHabitsHabits

    Most Irritating ListeningMost Irritating ListeningHabitsHabits

    .

    talked about previously.

    10. Asking too many

    questions about details.

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    Based on International Listening Association , January 2001.

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    Nonverbal CommunicationNonverbal Communication

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    Non r a ommun cat onNon r a ommun cat on

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    all unwritten and unspokenmessages, both intentional and

    unintentional.

    Why do we studyWhy do we studyWhy do we studyWhy do we study

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    Why o w stu yWhy o w stu ynonverbal communication?nonverbal communication?

    Why o w stu yWhy o w stu ynonverbal communication?nonverbal communication?

    onver a messages

    communicate emotions

    Nonverbal communication is

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    s rong y re a e o ver a

    communication

    [ http://www.soapboxorations.com/donnellking/nvcom.htm]

    Forms of NonverbalForms of NonverbalForms of NonverbalForms of Nonverbal

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    Forms of NonverbalForms of NonverbalCommunicationCommunication

    Forms of NonverbalForms of NonverbalCommunicationCommunication

    intonations

    Eye contact

    Facial expression

    Posture and

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    gestures

    Appearance of

    people

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    Eye contactEye contactEye contactEye contact

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    Facial expressionsFacial expressionsFacial expressionsFacial expressions

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    Facial expressionsFacial expressionsFacial expressionsFacial expressions

    Slide 98

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    Posture and gesturesPosture and gesturesPosture and gesturesPosture and gestures

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    Hand Gestures Mean DifferentHand Gestures Mean DifferentHand Gestures Mean DifferentHand Gestures Mean Different

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    Things in Different CountriesThings in Different CountriesThings in Different CountriesThings in Different Countries

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    E X H I B I T 119

    Hand Gestures Mean DifferentHand Gestures Mean DifferentThings in Different CountriesThings in Different CountriesHand Gestures Mean DifferentHand Gestures Mean DifferentThings in Different CountriesThings in Different Countries

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    Things in Different CountriesThings in Different Countries(contd)(contd)

    Things in Different CountriesThings in Different Countries(contd)(contd)

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    E X H I B I T 119 (contd)

    Communication Barriers andCommunication Barriers andCommunication Barriers andCommunication Barriers and

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    Communication Barriers andCommunication Barriers andCultural ContextCultural Context

    Communication Barriers andCommunication Barriers andCultural ContextCultural Context

    -

    Cultures that rely heavily on nonverbal andsubtle situational cues to communication.

    Low-Context Cultures

    Slide 102

    Cultures that rely heavily on words to convey

    meaning in communication.

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    HighHigh--HighHigh--vs.vs.

    LowLow--ContextContext

    vs.vs.

    LowLow--ContextContext

    Slide 103

    E X H I B I T 1110

    f lf lf lf l

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    Appearance of peopleAppearance of peopleAppearance of peopleAppearance of people

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    Forms of NonverbalForms of NonverbalForms of NonverbalForms of Nonverbal

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    Forms of NonverbalForms of NonverbalCommunicationCommunication

    Forms of NonverbalForms of NonverbalCommunicationCommunication

    Time

    Space

    Territory Appearance of documents

    Slide 105

    (Silent messages)

    How can these nonverbal forms be used to sendpositive messages?

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    SSSS

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    SpaceSpaceSpaceSpace

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    T itT itT itT it

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    TerritoryTerritoryTerritoryTerritory Intimate

    Touching

    6-18

    Personal Close -1 to 2

    Close 4-7 feet

    Far - 7-12 feet

    Public

    Close - 12-25 feet

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    Far - 2 to 4 feet

    Far - 25 feet or

    greater

    A f d tA f d tA f d tA f d t

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    Appearance of documentsAppearance of documentsAppearance of documentsAppearance of documents

    Slide 109

    Different Cultures ...Different Cultures ...Different Cultures ...Different Cultures ...

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    What is

    your

    space?

    invasion of your space

    Feel troubled

    Get defensive

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    Become aggressive

    Retaliate

    Do you know what you areDo you know what you areDo you know what you areDo you know what you are

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    saying?saying?saying?saying?

    Slide 111

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    ATTITUDEATTITUDEATTITUDEATTITUDE

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    e w o e eam

    benefits whenever one brin s a

    Slide 113

    positive attitude tothe table.

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