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DR VIJAY NAGASWAMI. CONNECT RIGHT. Enriching your marriage & getting more out of your life. About Dr. Vijay Nagaswami. Relationship Expert with 27years of experience Highly sought after marital therapist with pan India clients and visiting NRI ’ s. - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
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CONNECT RIGHTEnriching your marriage& getting more out of your life
DR VIJAY NAGASWAMI
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About Dr. Vijay Nagaswami
• Relationship Expert with 27years of experience
• Highly sought after marital therapist with pan India clients and visiting NRI’s.
• Wide experience - Deputy Director of Schizophrenia Research Foundation (India), Adviser to WHO & ILO, heading HR function in the corporate world, corporate therapy
• Author of several bestsellers on the subject of marriage
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Prita Maitra – Editor in chief of Westland - about Dr. Nagaswami
“….in assessing the success of Vijay Nagaswami's two titles in Westland's series dwelling on the 'The New Indian Marriage' so far, The 24 X 7 Marriage and The Fifty-50 Marriage, one should start with the numbers, which are always telling!The first has already sold 15,000 copies and the second 7,000 + and counting.
Dr Nagaswami's fluent and non-judgemental style invites the confidence of readers who have previously been at a loss coming to terms with the changing demands of an equal marriage in India today. In a country which is increasingly looking to professional guidance -- rather than parental dictates -- in terms of choosing (and keeping) a spouse, he has rendered priceless advice…”
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Deccan Herald, Bangalore
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Fortnightly Columnin “The Hindu” By Dr Vijay Nagaswami
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Importance of marital harmony and life space balance
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A balance in life spaces is a must - for productive work life and enriched personal life
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Early in career, work assumes greater significance
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Marriage puts pressure on work equation.. reaching a balance becomes a struggle
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A little later, work demands increase and marital equation gets disturbed
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Result – life space balance is lost
Too many demands on self.A vicious cycle sets in.Productivity drops.Enthusiasm gets hit.General feeling of well-being reduces
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Optimal investment in two important lifespaces is key to success
Optimal investment in work space gives
feeling of productivity
Self esteem
Lifestyle
Status
Optimal investment in marriage space gives
sense of self-worth and contentment
opportunity to re-charge ourselves
feeling of groundedness & rootedness
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While workspace (survival) is taken care of, marriage space (happiness) is not…
work space taken care of we receive adequate training to achieve whatever the workspace promises us
Relationship space is
ignored
we pretty much wing it,
hoping things will magically
become better in the years to
come
they rarely do, and emotional
baggage full of unresolved
conflicts accumulate
and neither partner has the
tools to deal with them, since
factory-set defaults don’t
work very well
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Enriching the marital space is done by
Increased connectedness and intimacy
creating and respecting ‘i’ and ‘we’ spaces
learning how to solve problems together
defining a marriage template that works for both of them
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“THE CONNECT RIGHT” Programme
CONVERSATIONS
SEMINARS
WORKSHOPS
To get an overview and thoughts for actions
To get a deeper understanding, appreciation and thoughts for actions
To engage, share , process learning's thro group activities, talks and discussions
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“THE CONNECT RIGHT” SEMINARS
DURATION THREE HOUR SESSIONS
TARGET POPULATION MARRIED INDIVIDUALS AND COUPLES
GROUP SIZE 15 to 40 INDIVIDUALS
PERSONAL SHARING NOT EXPECTED
TONE LIGHT, OVERVIEW
ISSUES ADDRESSED NEEDS & EXPECTATIONS, DOING THINGS TOGETHERSMART COMMUNICATION 101, WHO’S THE BOSS? FIGHT SMART, WORK AND MARRIAGE BALANCE& MANY MORE ASPECTS OF THE MARRIAGE.EACH ISSUE WILL BE COVERED BY ONE SEMINAR
METHOD TALK BY FACILITATOR PUNCTUATED BY SMALL ROLE-PLAYS BY PARTICIPANT VOLUNTEERS
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“THE CONNECT RIGHT” CONVERSATIONS
DURATION TWO HOUR SESSIONS
TARGET POPULATION MARRIED INDIVIDUALS AND COUPLES
GROUP SIZE 10 to 12 INDIVIDUALS
PERSONAL SHARING PREFERABLE, BUT NOT COMPULSORY
TONE SERIOUS, INTENSE
ISSUES ADDRESSED NEEDS & EXPECTATIONS, DOING THINGS TOGETHERME & MY FAMILY Vs YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, WHO’S THE BOSS? FIGHT SMART, CHILDREN AND THE MARRIAGE, INTIMACYAND MANY MORE ISSUES IN THE MARRIAGEEACH ‘CONVERSATION’ WILL ADDRESS ONE ISSUE
METHOD THEME INTRODUCED BY FACILITATOR AND ISSUES DISCUSSED IN DEPTH WITH PARTICIPANTS.
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“THE CONNECT RIGHT”WORKSHOPS
DURATION 1 – 2 DAYS (PREFERABLY RETREAT)
TARGET POPULATION ONLY FOR MARRIED COUPLES
GROUP SIZE 10 to 15 COUPLES
PERSONAL SHARING SOME SHARING DESIRABLE, BUT NOT COMPULSORY
TONE SERIOUS WITH LIGHT INTERLUDES
ISSUES ADDRESSED WORSHOP 1: THE 24X7 MARRIAGE: LAYING THE FOUNDATIONS
WORKSHOP 2: THE FIFTY-50 MARRIAGE: RETURN TO INTIMACY
METHOD TALKS, DISCUSSIONS, SMALL GROUP ACTIVITIES, COUPLE ACTIVITIES, SHARING, PROCESSING
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Your Investment in “THE CONNECT RIGHT” Programme
CONVERSATIONS
SEMINARS
WORKSHOPS
Mail to [email protected]
Or
Call +919840066987