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  • 8/15/2016

    1

    Continue to Be Your Best,

    Despite All That Stress

    David Lee

    How does what you saw in the video relate to

    our topic “Continue to Be Your Best, Despite All That Stress?

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    2

    You are a Knowledge Worker Athlete and Need

    to Treat Yourself Like the Elite Athlete You Are

    If you were an Olympic Athlete,

    what would you do to…

    1. Keep your spirits up, your attitude positive, and to stay focused on your goal, despite your grueling training and setbacks?

    2. Make sure you are physically at your best, despite your grueling training?

    …and how can you translate these

    principles to you and your team as mSL

    progresses?

    For Question #1, Did You Include?

    1. Remind yourself of why you’re doing what you’re doing…why it matters.

    2. Ask people you respect for their perspective on how to deal with the challenges you’re facing.

    3. Notice and challenge negative self-talk.

    4. Practice empowering self-talk.

    5. Enlist the help of your trusted advisors to help you stay focused and upbeat.

    6. Get serious about having fun.

    7. Celebrate your successes.

    1. Keep your spirits up, your attitude positive, and stay focused on your goal, despite your grueling training and setbacks?

    For Question #2, Did You Include?

    1. Adequate sleep

    2. Food that fuels performance, not lethargy

    3. Staying hydrated

    4. Appropriate exercise/fitness regimen

    5. Recovery time

    2. Make sure you are physically at your best, and don’t get worn down because of your grueling training?

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    Just Like Elite Athletes, Knowledge Worker

    Athletes Need To Engage In Recovery Balancing Challenge and Recovery

    The secret sauce of elite performers with staying power

    Balancing Challenge and Recovery

    “Recovery is king. Exercise is

    queen.”

    Scott Sonnon, originator of Tactical Gymnastics

    Mini-Recovery Moments

    • Switch tasks…

    • Watch a funny or inspiring video

    • Take a brief defocus break every 60 to 90 min.

    • Take a brief walk after sitting down for X minutes.

    • Have a brief fun conversation

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    At Home Recovery That Works for You?

    Takeaway

    Pick the principles and practices of being a Knowledge Worker Athlete you most relate to and implement.

    Takeaway

    Reactivate the recovery practices that have worked for you and experiment with different recovery practices to add to your repertoire.

    You are a Knowledge Worker Athlete and Need

    to Treat Yourself Like the Elite Athlete You Are

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    How to Use Power Ups to Keep Your

    Energy High and Boost Resilience Please Finish These Sentences

    • I feel most alive and happy when…

    • Here are two simple “little things” in life that boost my mood (and are legal )…

    • It would make me a happier camper—and maybe even healthier—if I started doing _______ again.

    These Are Some of Your Power Ups

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    Real World Power Ups Are The Key to

    Keeping Our Mood Positive & Being

    Stress Resistant (aka Resilient)

    How

    Power Ups

    Boost Mood

    and Build

    Resilience

    They Do It By

    Strengthening

    Vagal Tone

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    Power ups, Productivity, and

    Resilience

    …Which Makes You…

    1.Less reactive

    2.Less affected by difficult people and difficult circumstances

    What Happens When Your

    Vagus Nerve Has Low Tone?

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    How to

    Strengthen

    Your Vagal Tone

    and

    Build

    Resilience

    The key to strengthening vagal tone is experiencing microbursts of Positive Emotions, NOT…

    …orchestrating—or waiting for—some some big uplifting occasion or…trying to reduce your negative emotions.

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    …orchestrating—or waiting—for some big uplifting occasion or…trying to reduce your negative emotions.

    Presence

    Cute Animal Videos Takeaway

    Reflect on the Power Ups that work best for you…and do more of them.

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    Takeaway

    Look for opportunities to find and create microbursts of positive emotions…i.e. Power Ups

    Mental Tools for Building Resilience

    Instant Perspective

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    “This tough

    time I’m going

    through is

    a chapter,

    not the whole

    story.”

    What’s Your Achilles Heel?

    What’s Your Achilles Heel?

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    Instant Perspective

    Time

    Travel

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    What

    Situations Get

    Under Your

    Skin…and

    Therefore

    Could Benefit

    From You

    Using Time

    Travel Instant

    Perspective?

    Glass

    Half

    Full

    Compare

    &

    Contrast

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    Source: https://www.flickr.com/photos/mtaphotos/

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    Where Might You Benefit From

    Compare and Contrast? Instant Perspective

    The Ultimate Power Up, Relationship

    Building, and Morale Boosting Practice

    Gratitude

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    Feeling and Expressing Gratitude Gratitude Research

    1. Fewer physical symptoms.

    2. Exercised more.

    3. Felt better about their lives.

    4. More optimistic.

    5. More likely to help someone else.

    6. Better sleep duration and quality.

    Source: Thanks!: How the New Science of Gratitude Can Make You Happier by Robert A. Emmons, Ph.D.

    How to Unleash the Power of

    Gratitude

    1. Reflect on times you’ve been spared.

    2. Acknowledge all your little helpers.

    3. Keep a nightly gratitude journal.

    4. Be on the lookout for opportunities…

    5. Decide now…

    What you appreciate appreciates. What you don’t appreciate, depreciates… ...including hard work, initiative and excellence.

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    Who will you call… Take Aways

    1. Look for opportunities to apply Knowledge Worker As Athlete lessons as mSL unfolds.

    2. Experiment with different recovery practices to see what ones work best for you.

    Take Aways

    3. Remember engaging in recovery is not self-indulgent, it is smart and allows you to perform at your best and not burn out.

    4. Reflect on the Power Ups that work best for you…and do more of them.

    Take Aways

    5. Look for opportunities to find and create microbursts of positive emotions…i.e. Power Ups

    6. Notice when you are stressing yourself out and apply Instant Perspective

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    Take Aways

    7. Look for opportunities to feel gratitude

    8. Look for opportunities to express gratitude, and by doing so, uplift others

    Building resilience is like physical

    fitness, it takes ongoing practice.

    When You

    Do The

    Things We

    Discussed

    You Feel

    Better and

    Perform

    Better.