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1 Control touch in caregiver-child interaction: Embodied organization in triadic mediation of peer conflict * Matthew Burdelski Osaka University Graduate School of Letters 1-5 Machikaneyama, Toyonaka 560-8532 Japan [email protected] Asta Cekaite Linköping University Department of Thematic Studies SE-581 83 Linköping Sweden [email protected] Abstract: This chapter explores caregiver control touch in encouraging children to comply with the normative rules of everyday social life. Based on linguistic and ethnographic methods undertaken in a Japanese and Swedish preschool, the analysis focuses on control touch in episodes where preschool teachers in the two societies mediated in peer conflict (e.g., hitting, taking another’s toy away). The analysis shows how teachers used control touch with other communicative resources such as gaze, talk, and participation frameworks in intervening in the conflict, which included engaging children in moral * We would like to thank Lorenza Mondada for providing feedback on earlier versions of this chapter.

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Control touch in caregiver-child interaction:

Embodied organization in triadic mediation of peer conflict*

Matthew Burdelski

Osaka University

Graduate School of Letters

1-5 Machikaneyama, Toyonaka

560-8532 Japan

[email protected]

Asta Cekaite

Linköping University

Department of Thematic Studies

SE-581 83 Linköping Sweden

[email protected]

Abstract:

This chapter explores caregiver control touch in encouraging children to

comply with the normative rules of everyday social life. Based on linguistic

and ethnographic methods undertaken in a Japanese and Swedish preschool,

the analysis focuses on control touch in episodes where preschool teachers

in the two societies mediated in peer conflict (e.g., hitting, taking another’s

toy away). The analysis shows how teachers used control touch with other

communicative resources such as gaze, talk, and participation frameworks

in intervening in the conflict, which included engaging children in moral

* We would like to thank Lorenza Mondada for providing feedback on earlier versions of this chapter.

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discourse (e.g., You musn’t do X). It also shows how they used control

touch in facilitating reparatory activity between the children involved. This

included arranging children’s bodies in an interactional space so as to

engage them in remedial work (e.g., Say sorry) within face-to-face

embodied formations. The cross-cultural findings suggest that control touch

in preschool settings is a potentially rich arena for exploring children’s

embodied socialization into moral and social accountability.

Bio notes:

Matthew Burdelski is Professor of Applied Japanese Linguistics at Osaka

University. His research focuses on language socialization and conversation

analysis of young children in homes and preschools. A co-edited volume

(with Kathryn Howard) titled, Language socialization in classrooms:

Culture, interaction and language development (Cambridge University

Press) will be published in March, 2020.

Asta Cekaite’s research involves an interdisciplinary approach to language,

culture, and social interaction. Specific foci include social perspectives on

embodiment, touch, emotion and moral socialization. Empirical fields cover

adult-child and children’s peer group interactions in educational settings and

families. She has co-authored Embodied family choreography with Marjorie

H. Goodwin (Routledge, 2018).

Running head: Control touch in caregiver-child interaction

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1. Introduction

Touch is a basic sensory perception, experienced from the first moments of

life, and essential to normative development and sociality (e.g., Merleau-

Ponty, 1964; Montagu, 1986 [1971]). Human-to-human touch is not only a

dialogic activity— “to touch another is to be touched back” (Elkiss and

Jerome, 2012, p. 517)—but also an inherently social and interactional

phenomenon, as it is embedded within social interaction (e.g., M.H.

Goodwin, 2017); deployed with and on different parts of the body (e.g.,

hands, legs, face); and performed in various ways (e.g., from light to

forceful, punctual to durative, patting to stroking, comforting to violating,

on skin or clothing). As a symbolic resource, touch is constitutive of

relationships in expressing affect, providing care, and exerting control over

others (e.g., Hertenstein and Weiss, 2011).

This chapter explores adults’ use of control touch (Cekaite, 2015,

2016) as part of an ecology of multimodal resources (e.g., C. Goodwin,

2000) in encouraging preschool children to comply with the normative rules

of everyday social life. Such caregiver-to-child touch entails tactile

operations on children’s bodies, designed to gain and sustain their displayed

attention, position them in spatial formations, and engage them in particular

social projects. We focus on control touch in episodes where teachers in

preschools in two societies (Sweden and Japan) mediated in children’s peer

conflict (e.g., Corsaro and Rizzo, 1990; Danby and Theobald, 2012; M.H.

Goodwin, 1990). We show how they employed control touch in conjunction

with talk, gaze, and other resources to arrange children’s bodies into

participation frameworks (Goffman, 1981; see also C. Goodwin and M.H.

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Goodwin, 2004) in ways that afforded, enabled, and transformed, as well as

constricted and limited, children’s engagement in interaction. Through these

frameworks, we show how teachers used touch and talk to indirectly ascribe

responsibility and blame, and in some cases encourage children to negotiate

the interpretation of the conflict. In considering control touch as lodged

within courses of multimodal social action—laminated on talk and

constitutive of social action on its own—and probing children’s responses,

we argue that teachers’ use of control touch in mediating in peer conflict is

tied to educational goals of the institution, such as encouraging children to

get along with others. Our findings suggest that control touch is a rich arena

for exploring children’s embodied socialization into moral and social

accountability.

2. Background: Adult to child control touch in situated interaction

Over the last several years, an increasing amount of research on naturally

occurring interaction has shown how adults mobilize embodied resources

such as touch in inculcating children into everyday social life within the

family (e.g., Burdelski, 2011, 2015; Cekaite, 2010, 2015, 2016; de León,

1998; M.H. Goodwin, 2017; M.H. Goodwin and Cekaite, 2018) and

preschool (e.g., Ben-Ari, 1997; Bergnehr and Cekaite, 2017; Burdelski,

2010; Burke and Duncan, 2015; Cekaite, 2010; Cekaite and Holm Kvist,

2017; Hayashi and Tobin, 2015). Children’s earliest and recurrent

experiences with touch occur among family members in which human-to-

human tactile acts are used for gaining attention, displaying affection,

controlling, and caring. Being a child ostensibly entails being touched and

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touching others, though the ways touch is manifested in interaction are

situationally variable. Recently, several studies have discussed control touch

(M.H. Goodwin and Cekaite, 2018) and haptic control acts (Cekaite, 2015,

2016), as tactile behaviors deployed to encourage a child to do something

(e.g., carry out an action or activity). Although a number of other studies

have used various terms, control touch is often implied in them through

action labels, such as pushing, holding, pulling, or gripping. A typical

situation of control touch is to engage children in routine activities for

which they have the rights and responsibilities to accomplish, such as

eating, brushing teeth, or doing homework. For example, in their study of

family interaction in Sweden and the United States, M.H. Goodwin and

Cekaite (2018) observed that parents used control touch along with verbal

directives, or “utterances designed to get someone else to do something”

(M.H. Goodwin, 1990, p. 65), which took diverse grammatical shapes from

indirect (such as hints) to direct (such as imperatives) (e.g., Cekaite, 2015).

They found that sequentially a parent’s directive was often accompanied or

followed by control touch, especially when the child displayed resistance to

complying with verbal or other embodied (e.g., pointing) directives.

Similarly, Burdelski (2015) observed how Japanese parents used control

touch as part of directive sequences aimed at urging children to perform a

next action (e.g., picking up a book that had fallen to the floor). In these

ways, adults use control touch that is sequentially coordinated with vocal,

other embodied, and material resources to initiate and engage children in

specific tasks and activities in and around the home.

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Another situation of control touch is to orient children towards others

in the social world and engage them in social interaction. In a Samoan

community, Ochs, Solomon and Sterponi (2005) observed how caregivers

use tactile means to organize children into corporeal niches (e.g., infant held

upright, laying down or otherwise on back, hip, in arms, on lap, in front of

chest, etc.) (p. 554). In what they refer to as corporeal alignment, in which a

child is nested in the caregiver’s lap or set side-by-side with a caregiver, the

child is turned outward (i.e., towards others in the social world) in

encouraging him or her to attend to what other participants are doing. In a

Tzotzil Mayan community, de León (1998) showed that haptic control acts

were often accompanied by prompting (Schieffelin, 1990) children what to

say to others or by using reported speech to address others for the pre-verbal

child. De León argues that reported speech, in particular, positioned children

as embedded speakers within social activities, and was an important means

through which children emerged as speakers. In Japan, Burdelski (2011)

also observed the use of control touch for social orientation and social

action. Japanese caregivers touched young children on the upper back or

neck and then pressed firmly to encourage them to bow to others as an

expression of thanks. This kind of touch co-occurred with prompting the

child what to say or speaking for the child (Burdelski, 2011). Thus, as

Japanese children’s bodies were tactically manipulated, children were

ascribed as authors (Goffman, 1981) of utterances who use language in

socially appropriate ways while learning specific techniques of the body

(Mauss, 1973 [1935]). In the present study, we are concerned with the ways

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that caregivers employ control touch to orient children towards the social

world of the preschool involving actions with peers.

In many societies, preschool is a central setting of children’s early

sociality and learning to become a competent member of a social group.

Children’s tactile experiences include diverse forms of teachers’ touch. In

their analysis of adult-to-child touch in Swedish preschools, Bergnehr and

Cekaite (2017) identified various categories: 1) control touch, 2)

affectionate touch, 3) affectionate control touch, 4) assisting touch and 5)

educative touch. According to them, teachers used control touch to “direct

the child’s behavior, bodily movements, or attention, or to discipline the

child. The haptic forms used involve holding, steering, taps, pats, lifting,

carrying, and other uses of the hands to direct the recipient’s bodily

movements, stabilize his/her bodily actions or direct his/her attention” (p.

7). They also found that control touch was combined with affectionate

touch, or what they called affectionate-control touch, which was deployed

to, “control – in a mitigated way – the child’s bodily position or orientation.

The haptic forms involve stroke on the arm, a half-embrace, or lifting the

child gently and putting the child in one’s lap to control the child’s bodily

conduct” (p. 7). Bergnehr and Cekaite also reported on the frequency of

touch in their data. They found that more than one-third of cases were

control touch (134 out of 322 tokens) and about one-fifth were affective-

control touch (67 out of 322 tokens). Their findings suggest that when

teachers touched children they did so more than 80% of the time to control

them. They relate these findings to the importance of touch in encouraging

children to be “moral and social beings” (p. 18)

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Studies in other preschools have also observed teachers’ use of control

touch. In a comparative study of bodily conduct in New Zealand and

Japanese preschools, Burke and Duncan (2015, p. 63-68) argued that

teachers’ touch of children could be viewed within a frame of varying

cultural preferences and concerns. They found that in New Zealand teacher-

to-child “touch remains problematic” (p. 63) because of the societal concern

with the maintenance of interpersonal distance with children, and individual

teachers’ anxieties with being accused of inappropriate touching. However,

in the Japanese preschool, frequent teacher-to-child touch indexed the

importance of sukinshippu ‘skinship’ (nurtured in home activities such as

co-sleeping, co-bathing, and nursing), and was considered as not only

“desirable but [also] necessary for a child’s development” (p. 63). They also

observed that Japanese preschool teachers used touch as a primary resource

in disciplining children, even at times in the absence of talk. For instance,

during a group assembly when the students were expected to stand in line

and face forward while listening, a teacher responded to a child who was

fidgeting and poking another child by squatting down and putting her arm

around him to control him (without speaking to him). The researchers also

observed that Japanese preschool teachers’ “non-verbal means of

communication as the first method of disciplining a child” (Burke and

Duncan, 2015, p. 67) was contrastive to the New Zealand preschool where

teachers would typically address the child first (such as by issuing a

directive to stop the behavior). In another study of embodied conduct in a

Japanese preschool, Hayashi and Tobin (2015) observed teachers’ use of

control touch (pp. 32-34) in contexts of intervening in peer conflict. In

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recounting a hair-pulling incident in which two boys each claimed the other

boy had started it, the authors described how a teacher placed herself

between the children and then engaged in holding by putting her arm around

the waist of one child, patting a child’s head, and gripping a child’s arm.

They claimed that such kinds of control touch were used to get children’s

attention, draw children close to the teacher, and emphasize a point. As

related above, studies in diverse societies and settings have described the

use of control touch, but few studies have detailed such touch within (and as

constitutive of) courses of multimodal social action, and its import for

children’s sociality in preschool.

3. Setting, data, and methods

The present study is exploratory, qualitative, and cross-cultural, drawing

upon data from audiovisual recordings of naturally occurring interaction in

two preschools, one in Sweden and one in Japan. In both countries, the

majority of children attend preschool (Sweden: about 95%; Japan: more

than 80%). In Sweden, the primary aim of the curriculum is to develop

children’s empathy and understanding of others’ perspectives, while

foregrounding their agency and independence in alignment with the child-

centeredness and democratic rights granted to children in Swedish society

(Cekaite, 2013). In Japan, emphasis is also placed on both socio-emotional

development, aslearning to develop empathy and get along with others is

viewed as crucial for being a member of a social group (Burdelski, 2010).

The data were collected as part of two larger studies (conducted

several years apart and not coordinated at the time of data collection)

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focusing on teacher-child and peer interactions and socialization. Having

participated together in workshops, data sessions, and conference

presentations over several years, we decided to collaborate on topics of

common interest, especially on how children were encouraged to be moral

and social actors. In both sets of data, we observed that teachers’ touch was

part of a rich ecology of signs (M.H. Goodwin and Cekaite, 2018) for

encouraging this sociality, especially in cases when children breeched social

norms (as described below). Our analysis of control touch was carried out

both independently and collaboratively. After we each identified typical

examples (40 examples in each data set), we came together to view and

analyze the excerpts during data sessions. The examples in each corpus are

thus not exhaustive, as they do not represent the totality of control touch in

each corpus (60 hours in Sweden and 45 hours in Japan). Our aim was to

shed light on common practices, though at times we noted observable

differences across the two cultural contexts (e.g., occasions where a practice

occurred in one preschool but not [or rarely in] the other). Through this joint

effort, we came to focus on situations where teachers used control touch in

triadic mediation of peer conflict, as we observed that this was a common

situation of control touch in both preschools in ways that encouraged

children to be moral and social actors with peers. Children’s conflicts

included physical acts (e.g., pushing, hitting, or pinching), verbal acts (e.g.,

‘It’s mine!’), and acts involving objects (e.g., taking another’s toy away),

which were often made salient to teachers (and to us as analysts) through

children’s crying, shouting, and other response cries (Goffman, 1981) that

often performed an action of appeal (Schieffelin, 1990) for teacher

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assistance. Teachers typically intervened in such conflicts and used various

kinds of haptic control acts that were sustained and transformed over an

episode of triadic mediation (i.e. from initiation to conclusion). In order to

create a common vocabulary of control touch across the two data sets, we

created a heuristic of descriptions (including symbols and terms) (see Table

1), which emerged from our collaborative analysis, and in many cases are

congruent with previous research on touch (e.g., Bergnehr and Cekaite,

2017; Hertenstein and Weiss, 2011; Tanner, 2017). Adapting Mondada’s

(2018) methods of transcribing multimodal features of interaction, we

include control touch symbols (e.g., T =tap, L = lift) in the transcripts to

show their position and timing in relation to talk and embodied actions.

Table 1. Letters in the transcripts indicating various kinds of teacher haptic control acts identified in the data.

Symbol Terms Description

T Tap: Taps, pats or places hand(s)/arm(s) on a child’s body part.

L Lift: Lifts child up or holds child in a lifting position with both hands.

S Set: Sets a child on the teacher’s knee, lap, or on the floor.

E Embrace: Embraces or holds a child body part with one or both arms.

P Pull: Pulls a child’s body part or clothes.

G Grip: Grips or holds onto child’s body part.

R Rotate Rotate, turn, or twist a child’s body from one angle to another.

Sh Shepherd: Shepherds child from one place to another by touching/tapping,

steering, or guiding a child’s body from behind or to the side.

C Carry: Carries a child from one place or another.

Pa Pat: Pats a child on the head, stomach, or other body part.

4. Teacher control touch in triadic mediation of peer conflict

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This section examines how teachers in the two preschools used control touch

together with other semiotic resources in episodes of triadic mediation of peer

conflict, or post-conflict activity. The sequential unfolding of this mediation

can be described as two heuristic activities or phases: (1) INTERVENTION

PHASE (Section 4.1): teacher uses control touch and talk in engaging one or

both children in moral discourse (below) and/or in investigating what

happened; (2) REPARATORY PHASE (Section 4.2): teacher uses control touch

in engaging children in a resolution of the conflict. Although these activities

were useful to us in interpreting the data, they were not always discrete

phases; for instance, explicit moral discourse (e.g., “…is no good”; “You do

not…”) could be also embedded within conflict resolution, and even conflict

resolution itself is a kind of (implicit) moral discourse. Our analysis follows

this heuristic, and attends to the qualitative aspects of control touches (e.g.,

light to heavy, punctual to durative), and their position within courses of

multimodal action. It elucidates ways that teachers used control touch to

engage and sustain children’s participation in operative frameworks of

attention (M.H. Goodwin and Cekaite, 2013) and address children’s potential

or displayed resistance to carrying out a proposed action (Section 4.3).

4.1 Intervening in peer conflict

In this section, we examine teacher’s use of control touch in intervening in

children’s peer conflict through which they engaged children in moral

discourse; due to space, here we will not discuss the use of touch in

investigating what happened.

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In intervening in peer conflict, teachers often used control touch to

separate the children in conflict and engage one or both children in explicit

moral discourse, such as by reprimanding or negatively assessing children’s

actions, or reminding them of preschool social norms. This discourse invited

the addressed child to attend to and reflect upon a prior untoward act. In many

cases, the child displayed attentive listening by responding non-verbally.

Teachers’ use of control touch together with verbal language contributed to

the ascription of responsibility and blame, and of particular membership

categories (Sacks, 1992) terms, namely offender and victim within the peer

conflict. It is important to note that teachers in both preschools did not

explicitly assign responsibility or blame to children, or label them as offender

or victim. Rather, these categories were evoked and emerged through the use

of talk and touch within the intervention phase and, more broadly, episodes of

mediated conflict management. As we will show, teachers employed either

dyadic touch formations (i.e., teacher touched only one child across an

episode) or triadic touch formations (i.e., teacher touched both children, but

usually in different ways) together with other semiotic resources in ways that

encouraged children’s moral and social accountability.

In Excerpt 1 from the Swedish preschool, a teacher uses a dyadic touch

formation. Just prior to the excerpt, two girls (Iwone and Neah) had been

climbing onto and jumping from a pile of stackable blocks when they begin

physically competing over who will go next. When Iwone escalates the

conflict by hitting Neah on the cheek and pinching her, Neah starts crying,

which draws the intervention of a teacher who has ostensibly seen what has

happened. (In the transcripts, touch symbols are marked from beginning to

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end with a vertical bar, e.g., |T----------|), and continuation of touch is marked

with an arrow, e.g., |S-----à; non-verbal actions other than touch are

described in parenthesis).

Excerpt 1 (It’s not okay to pinch others, Iwone: 2;5, Neah: 3) 01 TEA: du.

Listen. 02

fig

((approaches IWO from behind and kneels down))| #T----------------------------------------------| #fig.1-1

1-1. TEA touches IWO on her back. 03 TEA: L--------------------|

R--------------------| 04

fig

|du. (.) de är #inte okej att knipas. Listen. It’s not okay to pinch others. |S----------------------------------à |E----------------------------------à #fig.1-2

1-2. TEA sets IWO on his knee while embracing her. 05 IWO: ((slighly tilts heard to side)) 06 TEA: det e det inte

It’s really not. S------------------à E------------------à

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Here, the teacher uses a series of control touches in conjunction with talk and

gaze in gaining Iwone’s attention and engaging her in moral discourse, which

ascribes culpability to her for acting in a morally sanctionable way. More

particularly, while approaching Iwone from behind, he issues a verbal

directive to “listen” (line 1), followed by lightly tapping (T) on Iwone’s back

(line 2; see Figure 1-1). He further engages in control touch to extract Iwone

from the site of the conflict and thereby separating the two children, by lifting

(L) her up and off the blocks and rotating (R) her body towards him (line 3).

He then sets (S) Iwone on his left knee in a side-by-side formation (Ochs,

Solomon and Sterponi, 2005) (line 4; see Figure 1-2), which orients Iwone’s

gaze to both the teacher and the peer (Neah). In this formation, the teacher

uses a half-embrace (E) (lines 3 and 4; see Figure 1-2), by activating one arm

to support and control Iwone’s body. This series of control touches are

laminated (i.e., overlapping with the talk and other resources such as gaze)

(C. Goodwin, 2017), which allows the teacher to sustain the embodied

formation as he engages Iwone in explicit moral discourse (lines 4 and 6).

This discourse includes a negative assessment (C. Goodwin and M.H.

Goodwin, 1992; Pomerantz, 1984) to convey a social rule (line 4: “It’s not ok

to pinch”). When Iwone tilts her head as a display of alignment (line 5), the

teacher repeats the assessment in a truncated form (line 6: “it’s really not”). In

these ways, a teacher intervened in a peer conflict by using control touch to

invite the child’s attention, remove her from the conflict situation, and engage

her in moral discourse that urged her to reflect upon her inappropriate

physical act. (The continuation of this excerpt will be examined in Section 4.2

in relation to the reparatory phase).

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In addition to dyadic touch formations, teachers in both preschools used

triadic touch formations within the intervention phase. In these formations,

teachers at times applied touch to both children but in different ways (e.g.

controlling one child while comforting the other), as illustrated in Excerpt 2

from the Japanese preschool. Just prior to the excerpt, a girl (Mao) has come

up behind a boy (Anik), who was seated on the floor playing with a train, and

suddenly pushed him over. Having observed this unprovoked act of physical

aggression, a teacher rushed over to Anik to soothe him, and then quickly

pursued Mao who has escaped from the immediate scene. As we join the

episode, the teacher uses control touch to forcefully pull (P) on Mao’s arm to

bring her back to the site of the conflict (see Fig. 2-1). (Here, touch symbols

include a superscript with the child’s name [e.g., PMAO, PANIK] to indicate

which child the teacher’s touch is aimed.)

Excerpt 2 (You must not push, Mao: 2;5; Anik: 2;6) 01 TEA:

fig |#PMAO-----------------------------à |#fig.2-1

2-1. TEA pulls on MAO’s arm, as ANI stands on the left facing away. 02 TEA: |nande |oshita no ka na::?|

(I) wonder why (you) pushed (him). |PMAO-----------------------------à |PANIK---------------------à

03 |nande |oshita no? ima mitaini::. Why did (you) push (him)? Like just now. |PMAO---|GMAO-----------------------------à |GANIK-----------------------------------à

04 |nanimo shi|tenai deshoo Aniikucha::::n.| Anik hasn’t done anything, right? GMAO-------------------------------------| GANIK------------------------------------à

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05 |oshitara |abunai desho::::? If (you) push it’s dangerous, right? |PMAO-------|GMAO-----------------------à GANIK-----------------------------------|

06 |kega shichau |Ankikuu:::::. Anik will get hurt. GMAO-------------------------à |EANIK-----------------------à

07 fig

|sakki mo sensei |yutta yo #ne:::. I also told (you) before, right. |GMAO-------------|PMAO—PMAO---PMAO----à |EANIK------------------------------à #fig.2-2

2-2. TEA forcefully pulls on MAO’s arm with her right hand, while embracing ANI (left) with her lef thand. 08 TEA: oshitara ikema|sen.

(You) must not push. HMAO-----------|PMAOà EANIK---------------à

In comparison to Excerpt 1 (see line 1: “du”/“listen”), here the teacher does

not preface her initiation of control touch with a verbal attention-getting

marker. Rather, before speaking, she approaches Mao, grabs her arm and

pulls (P) her near (see Fig. 2-1). Similar to prior observations of a Japanese

preschool that non-verbal communication is often the “first method of

disciplining a child” (Burke and Duncan, 2015, p. 67), here the teacher’s

control touch is sequentially designed to prepare the child’s body to display

attention to the teacher, as a preliminary to the moral discourse (lines 2-6).

During this discourse, the teacher transforms her control touch by gripping

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(G) (Hayashi and Tobin, 2015, p. 32-33) on Mao’s wrist while gazing at her,

which invites Mao to reflect upon her act towards her peer.

As she initiates the moral discourse in which she employs control

touch to Mao, the teacher quickly shifts to a triadic touch formation to

incorporate Anik into the emerging multiparty framework. More

particularly, as she initiates an interrogative to Mao (line 2: “[I] wonder why

[you] pushed him?”), the teacher reaches her other hand towards Anik who

is turned away and pulls (P) him close in. This control touch transforms into

a visibly light grip (G) that keeps Anik in the triadic framework, as the

teacher continues her explicit moral discourse aimed at Mao. Similar to

Excerpt 1, here the teacher’s control touch adjusts Mao’s body to encourage

her to attend to both the teacher and the other child (Anik), which urges her

to reflect upon her prior untoward action towards her peer.

Although the teacher continues to use various forms of control touch

on Mao, she shifts to an affective-control touch (Bergnehr and Cekaite,

2017) on Anik, implicitly ascribing to him the category of victim. That is,

while continuing her moral discourse with Mao (line 5: “If [you] push, it’s

dangerous, right?”), she releases her grip on Anik’s arm and then embraces

(E) his lower torso with her left hand (see Figure 2-2). This touch is light

but nevertheless controlling, as it keeps Anik in the triadic framework;

however, Anik’s upper torso and head turn away from the teacher and Mao

(see Figure 2-2), representing a body torque (Schegloff, 1998), which

suggests his primary orientation to resume playing with the train. As she

affectionately embraces Anik, the teacher upgrades the force of her control

touch on Mao by pulling (P) on Mao’s wrist and arm in four short spurts

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(lines 7 and 8). These pulls occur at interactionally relevant points in the

teacher’s talk, namely near the end of turn constructional units (bolded

portions as follows: line 7: “sakki mo sensei yutta yo ne::”/“Before too I

told [you], right?; line 8: “oshitara ikemasen”/“[You] must not push”), and

are thus interactionally deployed to “emphasize a point” (Hayashi and

Tobin, 2015, p. 34), by reminding Mao of the social rule that she has just

breached. By using touch with two children in asymmetrical ways, the

teacher underscores the severity of the child’s action and encourages her to

align with this moralizing discourse. (The continuation of this excerpt is

examined in Section 4.3 in relation to resistance).

This section has shown ways that teachers in the two preschools used

various kinds of control touch together with other semiotic resources in

intervening in children’s peer conflict that organized children into

frameworks through which they engaged one of the children in moral

discourse in holding the child morally accountable. As revealed, teachers

used control touch coordinated with multimodal resources in dyadic and

triadic formations, which were instrumental in organizing children’s

attentive embodied participation and in encouraging their sociality as moral

and social actors.

4.2 Engaging children in the reparatory phase: Establishing and

maintaining children’s bodily orientation

Following the intervention phase, teachers in both preschools used control

touch to engage children in a reparatory phase or ‘remedial work’ (e.g.,

apologizing) (Goffman, 1971), so as to reestablish interaction between the

children in restoring the social order and interpersonal relations. Here, we

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examine how teachers used control touch to adjust and manipulate

children’s bodies (often the body of the ascribed offender) in achieving a

face-to-face ‘F-formation’ (Kendon, 1990) with the opponent (Björk-

Willén, 2018; Holm Kvist, 2018). This reparatory phase included the use of

control touch in prompting one or both children to use language to perform

specific social actions; here, we focus on expressions of apology (e.g.,

Björk-Willén, 2018; Burdelski, 2013). The first illustration is provided in

Excerpt 3, from the Swedish preschool, which is the immediate continuation

of Excerpt 1 examined earlier.

Excerpt 3 (Are you saying sorry, continuation of Ex. 1, Iwone: 2;5, Neah: 3) 07 TEA: |då får du säga förlåt till Neah.

In such case you have to say sorry to Neah. |S-----------------------------------------à |E-----------------------------------------à

08 09

IWO: TEA: fig

((looks towards TEA, slightly tilts head)) |o så får |ni |(.) hoppa en i |ta|#get And you have to jump one at a time |S--------|L---------------------------- |R--------------|S-------- |#fig.3-1

3-1. TEA orients IWO’s body towards NEA while setting her down on the floor in a standing position. 10 TEA: |säger du förlåt?

Are you saying sorry? |T-------------------|-------

11 IWO: |((nods))

fig ((#touches NEA))

#fig.3-2

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3-2. As IWO (center) reaches towards NEA, TEA removes his light touch from IWO’S back. 12 TEA: ((stands up and moves away))

The teacher employs control touch by embracing Iwone who is seated on his

knee, while prompting her to say “sorry” to Neah (line 7). In the preschools

observed, prompting children was embedded within triadic frameworks in

which a child was expected to, in Goffman’s (1981) sense, animate an

utterance to a peer. Here, although Iwone does not verbally animate the

apology to Neah, she slightly nods in alignment towards the teacher, as a

possible “expression of a credible commitment to change” (Goffman, 1971,

p. 108). In response, the teacher briefly returns to the explicit moral

discourse (discussed in Section 4.1) by reminding Iwone of a preschool

social norm (line 9: “And you have to jump one at a time”). Simultaneously,

he engages in a series of control touches on the child’s body—these include

lifting (L) Iwone off his knee, rotating (R) her body towards Neah, and

setting (S) her down onto the floor—to position her in a face-to-face

formation with Neah who is sobbing (see Figure 3-1). While this series of

control touches arranges Iwone’s body outward (i.e., away from the teacher

and towards the victim) to carry out the remedial act of apology, it also

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allows the teacher to observe and monitor the children’s remedial

interchange from the side.

Children responded to teachers’ prompts in various ways, such as by

animating the prompted expression, resisting (see Section 4.3), or producing

an action in their own way as in this excerpt. Here, as the teacher prompts

Iwone for a second (line 10: “Are you saying sorry?”), Iwone reaches out

and affectionately touches Neah’s back, which performs the remedial action

through a different modality. The teacher responds to this affectionate touch

by retracting his own control touch on Iwone’s back (see Figure 3-2), which

is followed by standing up and moving away from the girls (line 13). These

responses bring the teacher’s role in the reparatory phase (and the entire

episode of triadic mediation) to a close.

As suggested, during the reparatory phase, teachers used various kinds

of control touch along with prompts in encouraging one child what to say to

the other child. In the Japanese case, especially, prompts were frequently

used, and children were expected to animate an expression immediately.

When children did not do so, teachers continued to use control touch along

with repetitions of the prompt, as in Excerpt 4 from the Japanese preschool.

Prior to the excerpt, Mao has pushed Hina who has fallen to the floor and

then escaped from the scene. We join the episode just after the teacher has

‘shepherded’ (Cekaite, 2010) (i.e., used touch to propel the child’s

locomotion) Mao back to the scene of the conflict where Hina is crying.

(Here, PMAO+APRON indicates the teacher’s pulling of Mao’s apron strings).

Excerpt 4 (Say, sorry, Mao: 2;6, Hina: 3;1) 01 HIN: |.h onaka oshita.=|

(She) pushed (my) stomach.

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| ((crying)) | 02 TEA: =|onaka oshita.

(She) pushed (your) stomach.| |PMAO+APRON-------------------|

03 HIN: n n n 04 TEA:

fig

|#gomen ne da yo ne.| It’s (I) am sorry, right. |GMAO---------------| #fig.4-1

4-1. TEA grips onto MAO’s forearm while prompting her to say sorry to HIN. 05 HIN: |((intense crying)) 06 TEA: |Hinachan |ni gomennasai tte. |

Say (I) am sorry to Hina. |PMAO+APRON------------------------à

07 MAO: | ((gazes at TEA)) | 08 |gomennasa:i.

(I) am sorry. |((gazing at HIN))

09 HIN: |((intense crying)) 10 TEA: |daijoobu? ((to HIN)) |

Are (you) alright? PMAO+APRON-----------------|

11 HIN: |((crying)) 12 TEA: |((finishes tying together MAO’s apron strings))

When Mao and the teacher arrive back at the scene of the conflict, Hina

reports to the teacher her version of the event (line 1), to which the teacher

indicates a receipt through repetition (Greer et al., 2009) (line 2). While

doing so, the teacher begins pulling tightly on Mao’s apron strings

(PMAO+APRON). This tactile operation on Mao’s play clothing does more than

perform a side task (i.e., tying the loose strings of the apron together), but

orients Mao’s body to the expected reparatory activity (i.e. apologizing to

Hina). The teacher then addresses Mao by prompting her to say “sorry” to

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Hina (line 4). This prompt occurs with a slight shift in the teacher’s control

touch in which she suspends pulling Mao’s apron strings to gripping (G) her

arm, while gazing at her (see Figure 4-1). When Mao does not repeat the

apology, the teacher releases her grip on Mao’s arm and resumes tying

Mao’s apron strings. While doing so, she again prompts Mao what to say

(line 6: “Say [I] am sorry to Hina”). Thus, the teacher uses various forms of

control touch (on the child’s arm, on her clothes) to orient the child’s body

towards the victim while prompting her to apologize in engaging her in the

expected remedial work.

4.3 Responding to children’s embodied resistance

In engaging in triadic mediation of peer conflict, teachers in both preschools

used control touch to sustain children’s displays of attention and address one

or both child’s potential or displayed embodied resistance to the teacher’s

control touch deployed in ascribing responsibility and blame to one of the

children (Excerpt 5: one child resists) and in negotiating the interpretation of

the conflict (Excerpt 6: both children resist). First, in Excerpt 5 from the

Japanese preschool (continuation of Ex. 2 above), when prompting Mao to

say sorry to Anik for having pushed him, the teacher exerts mild control of

Mao’s body, by griping (GMAO) her arm and embracing (EMAO) her (line 9).

When Mao displays embodied resistance by attempting to break out of the

teacher’s embrace (line 10), the teacher responds by upgrading her control

touch to a forceful pull (PMAO) (line 9).

Excerpt 5 (Say sorry, continuation of Ex. 2, Mao: 2;5; Anik: 2;6) 09 TEA: Aniiku ni |gomen ne: |tte yutte mi|te.

Try to say sorry to Anik. GMAO-------|EMAO--------------------|PMAO--à

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PANIK------|GANIK--------------------------à 10 MAO: |((moving out of TEA’s embrace)) 11 TEA:

fig

yu#ttemite kuda|#sai. Please try to say it. ((takes hand/arm off Anik)) PMAO------------|S--à GANIK-----------| #fig.5-1 #fig.5-2

5-1. TEA pulls forcefully on Mao’s arms.

5-2. TEA embraces MAO with one arm. 12 MAO: |maochan wakannai.=

[I] don’t understand. |SMAO-------------à |EMAO-------------à

13 TEA: ||=wakannakunai. (You) don’t not understand. ||SMAO----------------à ||EMAO----------------à ||((shaking head))

((3 turns skipped)) 17 TEA:

fig

|Aniikuchan #gomen ne wa:::? What about (saying) sorry (to) Anik? |SMAO-----------------------------------à |EMAO-----------------------------------à #fig.5-3

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5-3. TEA makes a small adjustment in her control touch of MAO. 18 MAO:

gomen ne. Sorry. ((gazing toward ANI))

19 TEA: SMAO-------à EMAO-------à

20 moo yaccha ikenai yo:: Maocha::n. (You) must not do it (=push) anymore, Mao. SMAO-----------------------------à EMAO-----------------------------à

21 i::::i::? Okay? SMAO------à EMAO------à

22 MAO: ((nods twice))

In responding to Mao’s embodied resistance, the teacher upgrades her

control touch by forcefully pulling on Mao’s arm to draw her close to the

teacher (see Figure 5-1). She uses both hands for this effort, by freeing up

her other arm/hand with which she had been using to lightly embrace Anik.

The teacher pulls Mao into a seated position (SMAO) on her lap, followed by

embracing Mao (EMAO) with one arm that locks her into this position (see

Figure 5-2). This series of control actions are accompanied by prompting

Mao to apologize to Anik (line 11: “Please try to say it [=say sorry]”). When

Mao displays further resistance, this time verbally (line 13: “[I] don’t

understand” [presumably why she pushed Anik]), the teacher prompts Mao

again to apologize (line 17). While producing this prompt, the teacher

presses her embracing arm on Mao’s back and orients Mao’s body and gaze

towards Anik who is now standing facing towards Mao (see Figure 5-3).

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This triadic participation framework, which has been arrived at through the

teacher’s series of control touches on both children, results in Mao

animating the apology expression to Anik (line 18). The teacher, however,

continues her control touch on Mao in upbraiding her for pushing Anik (line

20), as a return to the moral discourse begun earlier.

In the previous example, the teacher’s control touches in response to

the child’s resistance contributed to ascribing blame and responsibility to a

child, evoking the category of offender who needed to perform remedial

work with the victim (e.g., apologize). In this way, the child’s resistance

was also aimed at escaping not only the teacher’s haptic control in

encouraging her to perform social action (as remedial work) but also the

teacher’s indirect ascription of blame and responsibility.

As mentioned earlier, especially in the Swedish preschool, teachers

also at times engaged children in extended negotiation of the interpretation

of the conflict in which each child was urged to tell his or her side of the

event, where ascription of blame and responsibility was avoided (if it

occurred at all). Yet, even within these negotiations, children also on

occasion resisted participating in episodes of triadic mediation, leading at

times to teacher’s use of control touch. In Excerpt 6, the eruption of a

physical conflict between two girls at a play table has resulted in a teacher

shepherding them to an alternative space on a carpet, away from other

children. After the girls have each been given the opportunity to tell her side

of the event, the teacher attempts to close down the investigative phase (line

1) and initiates the reparatory phase in which she urges Maja to “say

something to Layal” (as an indirect prompt to Maja to apologize to Layal)

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(line 2). Here, we observe how Layal tries to physically escape this remedial

work, and how the teacher responds using talk and control touch (In this

excerpt, a superscript [e.g., PFOOT] indicates control touches on Layal’s foot,

ankle, and leg).

Excerpt 6 (Then I’m getting hold of your legs, Layal: 4, Maja: 4) 01 TEA: |du. så e de.

Listen. So it is. ((to LAY)) 02 LAY: |((covering her face in her hands)) 03 TEA: vill du säga något till layal?

Do you want to say something to Layal? ((to MAJ)) 04 MAJ:

fig

((nods)) fast Layal ( ). sen slog hon mej. But Layal ( #[10 seconds unclear] ). Then she hit me. #fig.6-1

6-1. Maja (on left) telling her side of the story. 05 LAY: ((turns away with hands covering face)) 06 TEA: men (.) det handlar ju inte om det nu.

But (.) it’s not about this right now. 07 LAY: ((quickly “crawls” away from TEA and MAJ)) 08 TEA:

fig

|nä. Layal. (0.6) |#kom. (0.2)|. kom. No. Layal. Come. Come. |((reaches for L’s foot))|#fig.6-2

6-2. TEA reaches out for LAY’s foot. 09 LAY: ((stops moving, facing away with hands covering

face)) 10 TEA: kom laya:l (1.5) laya::l

Come Layal Layal 11 ((reaching towards LAY’s leg))

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12 fig

|#kom. | Come. GFOOT—-|PFOOT--R---|PLEG--R-- #fig.6-3

6-3. TEA pulls on LAY’s foot with one hand. 13 TEA: |då tar jag dig i benen. |

Then I’m getting hold of your legs. |GLEGS------------------------------|

fig

#PLEGS-------------------------------- #fig.6-4

6-4. TEA pulls on LAY’s legs with both hands. 13 ((TEA tries to persuade both girls to apologize to each other;

LAY repeatedly refuses.))

Here, both girls resist the teacher’s attempt to initiate the reparatory phase,

with Layal doing so in a highly embodied way. More specifically, when

Maja verbally resists the teacher’s attempt to urge her to perform remedial

work (line 2) by re-opening the telling of her side of the conflict (line 4:

“…Then she hit me”; see Figure 6-1), Layal resists participating any further

in this episode of teacher-mediated conflict resolution. While covering her

face with her hands, she quickly crawls away on her feet and hands off the

carpeting and onto the wood flooring, escaping the physical proximity and

facing formation with Maja (line 6). The teacher responds to this embodied

display of resistance by directing Layal to “come” and then reaches for

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Layal’s foot but is not able to touch it as Layal gets further away (line 7; see

Figure 6-2). When Layal ignores the teacher’s attempts to verbally coax her

back onto the carpeted area (line 10), the teacher approaches Layal and

initiates a series of control touches on her feet and legs. As shown in line 12,

these touches include using one hand to grip onto Layal’s foot (GFOOT) and

then to pull on her foot (PFOOT; see Figure 6-3) in order to rotate (R) Layal’s

body back towards the teacher and Maja on the carpet. When Layal further

displays embodied resistance, the teacher makes an announcement (line 13:

“Then I’m getting ahold of your legs”) while exerting more forceful control

touch on Layal; that is, she uses both hands to grab (G) onto Layal’s legs

and then strongly pulls on both of Layal’s ankles in order to drag her back to

sit close to the teacher and Maja (see Figure 6-4). In these ways, the teacher

coordinated control touch and talk, and in particular used talk to inform the

child about her upcoming or concurrent uses of control touch. The

configuration of multiple embodied resources, including talk and touch, was

used to inform the child about the adult’s embodied response to the child’s

resistance.

5. Conclusion

In this chapter we have examined how teachers in preschools in two

societies, Sweden and Japan, employed control touch (and other kinds of

touch) in mediating peer conflict. We have detailed the common sequential

structure of these episodes, characterized as intervention phase, which

included engaging children in explicit moral discourse, and reparatory

phase, which included engaging children in remedial work in face-to-face

embodied formations. Teachers employed control touch along with a range

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of multimodal resources, including talk and gaze, in indirectly ascribing

blame and responsibility to individual children and assigning categories of

offender and victim, and at times encouraging them to negotiate the

interpretation of the conflict or “who did what to whom.” This use of

control touch as part of larger episodes of triadic conflict management that

employed multiple semiotic resources was adaptable to the contingencies of

the situation and “answerable to the distinctive interests of a particular

social group” (C. Goodwin, 1994, p. 606, on “professional vision”). As

educational settings with specific goals, these preschools had “distinctive

interests”—these interests were lodged with the goals of the preschools and

embedded within the wider society in which the teachers themselves were

members—to care for children and shape their moral and social

development in culturally specific ways. As a symbolic resource, teachers

used control touch (along with talk and other embodied resources) in

working towards these institutional and societal interests; for instance, in

Sweden the teachers’ control touch recurrently included giving children the

opportunity to tell their version of events in ways that promoted children’s

agency as lodged within democratic rights and individual perspectives that

are highly valued in Swedish society. In Japan, this control touch typically

included providing children with formulaic expressions (to which they were

expected to repeat verbatim) as part of what it means to be a member of a

social group who can discern social situations and use language in expected

ways.

As an exploratory study, our analysis has raised questions about

situational, individual, and possible cultural differences of control touch in

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triadic mediation of peer conflict. A Japanese teacher’s staccato-like pulling

of a child’s arm was deployed at interactionally relevant places in an

utterance to emphasize a social rule; whereas, a Swedish teacher’s

announcement of a control touch (e.g., “Now I’m taking hold of your legs”)

was deployed prior to and concurrently with talk in response to the child’s

resistance to a verbal directive. Similar to Swedish families and preschools

(Cekaite, 2015), verbal requests and directives usually pre-empt bodily

control acts, which serve as a last resort when the child has not complied

with a directive, thereby providing children with interactional opportunities

to engage in the requested action by themselves. Thus, in the Swedish

example, the teacher’s verbal prefacing and coordination of control touch

operated as a resource that mitigated the adult’s physical manipulation of

the child’s body. In these ways, our analysis is only suggestive, and thus

more analysis of control touch in preschools and other early educational

settings as it is lodged within and constitutive of social action within various

communities could lead to a deeper understanding of the ways control touch

play a role in children’s sociality.

Finally, our findings have revealed that preschool teachers’ control

touch encourages children’s sociality and moral accountability by orienting

them to appropriate conduct in the social world of the preschool. Thus, it is

notable that young children are interacted with and socialized not only as

linguistic subjects, but also as embodied subjects, whose bodily actions,

composure and conduct are monitored and shaped by adults in contingently

relevant and meaningful ways.

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