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Coping with Loss, Grieving, & Death Definition: 1. Loss- is an actual or potential situation in which a valued object, person, or the like is inaccessible or changed so that it is no longer perceived as valuable. 2. Bereavement is the subjective response to a loss through the death of a person w/ whom there has been a significant relationship. 3. Grief is the total response to the emotional experience of the loss & is manifested in thoughts, feelings, & behaviors. 4. Mourning is the behavioral process through which grief is eventually resolved or altered; it is often influenced by culture & custom. Stages of Grieving: Kubler- Ross Stages of Grieving 1. Denial – Refuses to believe that loss is happening, is unready to deal w/ practical problems, may assume artificial assume artificial cheerfulness 2. Anger- Client or family may direct anger at nurse or hospital about matters that normally would not bother them 3. Depression- grieves over what has happened & what cannot be 4. Acceptance- comes to terms w/ loss, may have decreased interest in surroundings & support persons, may wish to begin making plans 5. Bargaining – Seeks to bargain to avoid loss, May express feeling of guilt or fear of punishment for past sins, real or imagined Martocchio’s Five Clusters of Grief 1. Shock & disbelief

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Page 1: Coping With Loss

Coping with Loss, Grieving, & Death

Definition:

1. Loss- is an actual or potential situation in which a valued object, person, or the like is inaccessible or changed so that it is no longer perceived as valuable.2. Bereavement is the subjective response to a loss through the death of a person w/ whom there has been a significant relationship.

3. Grief is the total response to the emotional experience of the loss & is manifested in thoughts, feelings, & behaviors.4. Mourning is the behavioral process through which grief is eventually resolved or altered; it is often influenced by culture & custom.

Stages of Grieving:• Kubler- Ross Stages of Grieving1. Denial – Refuses to believe that loss is happening, is unready to deal w/ practical

problems, may assume artificial assume artificial cheerfulness2. Anger- Client or family may direct anger at nurse or hospital about matters that

normally would not bother them3. Depression- grieves over what has happened & what cannot be4. Acceptance- comes to terms w/ loss, may have decreased interest in surroundings & support persons, may wish to begin making plans5. Bargaining – Seeks to bargain to avoid loss, May express feeling of guilt or fear of punishment for past sins, real or imagined

Martocchio’s Five Clusters of Grief

1. Shock & disbelief2. Yearning & protest3. Anguish, disorientation, & despair4. Identification in bereavement5. Reorganization & restitution

• Engel’s Stages of Grieving

1. Shock & disbelief – refusal to accept loss2. Developing awareness – anger may be directed at hospitals, nurses3. Restitution - mourning4. Resolving the loss – attempts to deal w/ painful void5. Idealization – produces image of dead persons that almost devoid of undesirable features6. Outcome – importance of the lost object as source of support

Symptoms of Grief

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1. Repeated somatic distress 2. Tightness in chest3. Choking or shortness of breath4.Sighing5. Empty feeling in the abdomen6. Loss of muscular power7. Intense subjective distress

Assisting Clients w/ their Grief1. Provide opportunity for the persons to tell their story.2. Recognize & accept the varied emotions that people express in relation to a significant loss.3. Provide support for the expression of difficult feelings, such as anger & sadness4. Include children in their grieving process.5. Encourage the bereaved to maintain established relationships.6. Acknowledge the usefulness of mutual help groups7. Encourage self-care by family members particularly, the primarily caregivers.8. Acknowledge the usefulness of counseling for especially difficult problemsNursing Diagnosis: Clients w/ Grief & Loss1. Anticipatory grieving related to: perceived potential loss of loved one2. Dysfunctional grieving related to: multiple past or current losses3. Impaired adjustment related to: disability requiring change in life –style4. Social isolation related to: inability to engage in satisfying personal relationshipsCare of the Dying Client

Signs of Impending Clinical Death1. Loss of muscle tone

– relaxation of the facial muscles(jaw may sag)– difficulty speaking– difficulty swallowing & gradual loss of the gag reflex– decreased activity of the GIT– possible urinary & rectal incontinence– diminished body movement

2. Slowing circulation– diminished sensation– mottling & cyanosis of the extremities– cold skin, first in the feet & later in the hands, ears, & nose

3. Provide spiritual support• need for love

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• need for hope