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Page 1: Counseling East Asian Indian Immigrants/Americans · 2018. 9. 7. · Arranged marriages are very common, and often it is not the bride and groom who decide to marry each other, it

Counseling East Asian Indian Immigrants/Americans

Joan Palikhel

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Where is East Asia? Mongolia Japan China Hong Kong North Korea South Korea * India and Nepal are also sometimes included

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East Asian Indian Immigrants/Americans

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Indian Cultural Practices

Religion

Caste System

Families and Collectivism

Marriage/Divorce/Infidelity

*In India, there are hundreds of different ethnic subgroups that have distinct languages, cultural practices, and customs.

See slide on Caste Systems for more info.

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ReligionThe largest religious affiliation in India is Hinduism (83%).

Oldest organized religion ever known. 2,500 years old.

Polytheistic

Figure Heads of Hinduism

Brahman (supreme spirit)

Brahma (creator)

Vishnu (preserver)

Shiva (destroyer)

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Brief Introduction to Hinduism

https://youtu.be/tHw5kstT3fo

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The Caste System

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The Indian Family SystemStory of Lord Ganesh and Kumar

http://www.ted.com/talks/devdutt_pattanaik#t-75913

Gender roles

Grandparents

Parents

Children

In-Laws

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Marriage/Divorce/Infidelity

Marriage is one of the most important institutions in India

Union of families, as well as Individuals

Dharma

Arranged marriages are very common

Caste

Marriage

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Very uncommon

Neglect/abuse

Divorce is changing

women fighting for rights.

Death of husband

Sati System(Dharma practice)

https://youtu.be/c664PH7Csk0

Divorce

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Very little research

Usually husband

Culturally more acceptable

Women have harsher consequences

Suicide

Infidelity

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East Asian Indian Americans

Immigration

Assimilation Challenges

Counseling Techniques

Resources

Cultural

Religious

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When Did Indians First Start Coming to the USA?

U.S. Immigration Act of 1965

Many students

People who were already here could sponsor family members

View America as a safer place to live

Jobs

Education

Money

Respect

opportunity (for self, and family)

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Assimilation Challenges Eastern VS Western

Family Structure

School

Work

Holidays

Minority Status

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Counseling Techniques

Evaluate Appropriateness of Theories

Understand Level of Acculturation

Common Behavior Characteristics

Handout!!

Models of Counseling Interventions

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Namaste!

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Questions?

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References Braun, F. K., Fine, E. S., Greif, D. C., & Devenny, J. M. (2010). Guidelines for Multicultural Assessment: An

Asian Indian American Case Study. Journal Of Multicultural Counseling And Development, 38(3), 130-141.

Das, A. K., & Kemp, S. F. (1997). Between Two Worlds: Counseling South Asian Americans. Journal Of Multicultural Counseling & Development, 25(1), 23-33.

Ibrahim, F., Ohnishi, H., & Sandhu, D. S. (1997). Asian American Identity Development: A Culture Specific Model for South Asian Americans. Journal Of Multicultural Counseling & Development, 25(1), 34-50.

Khanna, A., McDowell, T., Perumbilly, S., & Titus, G. (2009). WORKING WITH ASIAN INDIAN AMERICAN FAMILIES: A DELPHI STUDY. Journal Of Systemic Therapies, 28(1), 52-71.

Madathil, J., & Sandhu, D. S. (2008). Infidelity in Asian Indian marriages: Implications for counseling and psychotherapy. The Family Journal, 16(4), 338-343. doi:10.1177/1066480708323086

Ramisetty-Mikler, S. (1993). Asian Indian Immigrants in America and Sociocultural Issues in Counseling. Journal Of Multicultural Counseling & Development, 21(1), 36-49

Srinivasan, A. V. (2011). Hinduism for dummies. Hoboken, NJ: John Wiley & Sons, Inc.

Walsh, F. (2012). Normal family processes (4th ed., pp. 297-323). New York, NY: The Guilford Press.

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Notes for Marriage/Divorce/Infidelity slide___________________________________

Depending on where the family lives, marriage can happen at very young ages, especially for girls. According to Hinduism, the main purpose of marriage is the performance of dharma (dharma is a responsibility or duty)Arranged marriages are very common, and often it is not the bride and groom who decide to marry each other, it is the families decisions. Marriage is often viewed as an adherence to cultural traditions, rather than being based on spousal love and intimacy. Procreation is related to marriage ‘duties’ rather than feelings of love and intimacy.

Note for Divorce slide___________________________________

Divorce is very uncommon, but it can happen in cases of neglect or abuse. Even though the divorce might be in reaction to physical or mental danger, the divorce is still highly stigmatized, and it reflects badly on the family. usually reflects badly on the girls family, as the divorced wife is looked at as being the reason why the marriage did not work. She is blamed for the problems in the marriage, and so is her family. It is easier for men to remarry, and usually very hard for the woman to remarry. Even when a husband dies, women typically do not remarry. (see video on Sati System!)