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CULTIVATING WELLNESS IN THE VETERINARY PROFESSION Dr. Ron Del Moro Licensed Mental Health Counselor

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CULTIVATING WELLNESS

IN THE VETERINARY

PROFESSION

Dr. Ron Del Moro

Licensed Mental Health Counselor

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• Veterinary Professionals have 3 to 4 times higher rates of

suicide, anxiety and depression than the general population

• Twice as high as other health care professionals

THERE IS A CLEAR PROBLEM:

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WHAT IS

COMPASSION FATIGUE?

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Compassion Fatigue is the natural consequence of

stress resulting from caring for and helping

traumatized or suffering people or animals. It’s an

occupational hazard for animal care professionals, but

there are proven strategies to help us address this

unique stress. (Dolce, 2014)

COMPASSION FATIGUE:

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COMPASSION FATIGUE:

Emotional exhaustion experienced by caregivers

frequently exposed to highly stressful situations

Stress associated with caring for others

during traumatic times

Caused by: Repeated exposure to death

and supporting peoples intense emotions

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CARING TOO MUCH CAN HURT

How many of you put others needs ahead of your own?

When we focus on others without practicing self-care, destructive behaviors can surface.

Isolation, apathy, bottled up emotions and substance abuse head a long list of symptoms

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SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS :

Feeling overwhelmed

Isolation

Increasing apathy

Loss of

energy/pleasure

Blame others

Complain/bitter

Decrease hygiene

Alcohol/substance

abuse

Loss of sleep

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INDIVIDUAL CHARACTERISTICS:

Perfectionism

Neuroticism

High achievers

Very caring folk

Compassionate

Driven

Critical of self

Mask Feelings

Tend to suppress

Fixers

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CONTEXTUAL FACTORS OUT OF OUR CONTROL:

Euthanasia/death – sometimes daily

Grief rarely gets addressed

Lack of training

negative side of the profession

Stigma with getting help

Professional and social isolation – no one talks about it

Client expectations

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CONTEXTUAL FACTORS WE CAN NOT CONTROL:

Long hours/overnights

Rise of standard of care

Placating angry/abusive clients/fellow clinicians

Lack of Empathy from owners/fellow employees

Death – euthanizing (killing) the clients you

cared for

Especially when you disagree or wish to do more

See lots of ill clients

Clients cannot articulate problem/need – so many unknowns

On call

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OBSTACLES TO GETTING HELP

Stigma of mental illness

Self-reliant – “I can handle it”

Fear of judgments

Nothing can help

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WHAT CAN WE DO

TO AVOID IT?

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“Want to be happy?

Stop trying to be

perfect.”

Brene Brown

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Awareness

Learning to recognize and manage symptoms is the

first step toward healing.

Drop the stigma

Seek support

Be honest with yourself and

others

Exercise, healthy eating, connecting with

others, journaling, and restful sleep.

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PATH TO WELLNESS

Engagement

Making Meaning…why

Increase Self-esteem

Focus on what is going

well

Resilience

Sense of competency

Positive relationships

Optimism

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TAKE RESPONSIBILITY

40% in our control

50% genetics

10% context

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The better care we take of ourselves, the better care we will give clients

“People are not disturbed by things, but the perception of them” (Epictetus)

SELF- CARE …

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PATH TO WELLNESS…

Be aware of inner critic

Give it less energy

Focus on what you did well…not the mistakes!

Be aware of your limits and expectations o Focus on care – not outcomes

Connect - create/be aware of your support system o Work as a team with your team

o Be real – vulnerability is a strength

o Quality vs quantity of relationships

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Exercise

Reflect on what is going well

Build resiliency

o What helps you:

o Ground out?

o Smile/relax/feel content?

o Be present – not distracted by thought?

o Dispute thoughts – no one is perfect – we all make

mistakes

o Let the feelings pass

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PATH TO WELLNESS…

Boundaries – say NO

Be aware of and seek

support for your needs

Monitor work load

o Take breaks

o EAT

o Drink Water

o Sleep/Rest

Seek support…ask for help

Have fun

o At work and home

o Get outside

o Humor

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What is your purpose?

Why are you here?

What are you passionate about?

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WHAT MAKES COMPANIES A GREAT

PLACE TO WORK?

WHY DO SOME COMPANIES KEEP

ATTRACTING AND HOLDING ONTO THE

WORLDS BEST TALENT?

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Its personal

not perk-onal

They know how to foster strong and

rewarding relationships among employees

Creating and building interpersonal

relationships are what make companies

great

The Secret…

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MAKE A COMMITMENT TO YOURSELF TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF!

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CREATE A WELLNESS PLAN!!

What do you need?

How can you get your needs met?

Support each other…

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Praise/Gratitude

Be kind to ourselves…Focus on went well…what are we grateful for

Communication

Nurture Connections

Vulnerability

Seek/accept support

Celebrate personal wins

Have more fun

what recharges your batteries/grounds you out

BLUE PRINT FOR YOUR WELLNESS

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RESOURCES:

Dr. Ron Del Moro: [email protected] 352.283.0028

https://www.avma.org/professionaldevelopment/personal/peerandwellness/pages/get-help.aspx

Professional Resource Network (PRN) 1.800.888.8776 flprn.org

Substance abuse / addiction - Mental illness - Boundary violations Disruptive behavior - Physical disorders - Cognitive impairment

Veterinary Information Network - VIN – vin.com

http://jessicadolce.com/resources/

http://invma.org/veterinary-wellness/#

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QUESTIONS??

Thank you…