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This is a presentation given to group of parents at a church in Sydney's (Australia) north western suburbs.John Clear [email protected]TRANSCRIPT
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Your mobile phone has features you don't know how to use
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Had a conversation with anyone about how to stay safe online
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You know the password for your wireless internet access at home
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You are the one who will set up the new computer/TV/set top box/home theatre system for your house
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YOU are the one everyone blames when the technology fails in your house –
and maybe at work.
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Their Space
Young people are spending their time in a space which adults find difficult to supervise or understand
Hannah Green and Celia Hannon“Their Space: Education for a digital generation”
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Social NetworkingWhat’s the big deal?
Why is it important?
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Where does my internet data go?
Me
ISP
ISP
Larger ISP
Larger ISP
Regional ISP
Australian ISP
PacificISP
PacificISP
Friend
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So…
many people can potentially see all the content anyone puts on the internet
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Extract Information?
Spider Programs can
• find particular words on web pages
• find patterns in images
• find images with lots of skin
• find images with faces or bodies using face detection algorithms
• find patterns, skin etc in videos
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Where could it go?
Your words and pictures
could be used
in pornography,
with violent imagery,
with obscene language,
in racist and hate propaganda
IN A WAY YOU DIDN’T EXPECTImage from: http://blog.celebsnapshot.com/2008/09/03/governor-sarah-palin-clad-in-bikini-with-firearm-in-hand.aspx accessed 26/7/2009
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claims…
more than 600 million active users
50% of active users log on to Facebook in any given day
average user has 130 friends
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Flickr CC licensed image by Ken Banks Kiwanja.net
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Should you friend a student?
Photos of Spanky512 | Spanky512’s Profile
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Should you friend a student?
Photos of Spanky512 | Spanky512’s Profile
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What happens if you change your mind about material you have put on the internet?
web.archive.org
Web site which stores copies of other web sites for archiving
so you can look up a web site from 1996!
It includes texts, audio, moving images, and software
as well as archived web pages.
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Keeping Up Appearances
or… “How come I’m not more beautiful?”
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Cyber bullying is a crime!
Section 545AB of the Crimes Act 1900 (amended) (NSW, Australia)
Flickr licensed image by Morning theft
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What is Cyberbullying?
Cyber bullying is when an individual, or group, use the internet, mobile phones or other technology to intentionally hurt another person or group of people.
Flickr CC image by *mangu* wanders by mistake…
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What is Cyberbullying?
Cyberbullying is different to normal bullying:
no escape – 24/7
broadcast repeatedly
anonymous.
less likely to tell
tend be nastier online than they ever would be face to face.
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What can we do as parents?
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Teach our children good habits
Photos, profile pics and Avatars
Username Spanky512 or John Clear or metaljar?
Your personal details
Personal details of others
What to do if someone sends you an offensive or inappropriate message
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Take a walk in their shoes, be equipped!
CC Flickr Image by Klearchos Kapoutsis
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Dipping your toe in the ‘online waters’
Blog
Wiki
Flickr photo account
Skype
Web 2.0Web 2.0
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Current data
The Australian covert bullying prevalence study
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Extent of bullying
At school today, 100000 children will be bullied by the end of lunchtime in Australian schools
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Fotographic
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Prevalence
In a class of 30 students in Australia today:
3 are bullied “most days”
5 are bullied once a week
8 are bullied at least once a term
1-2 bully others “most days”
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Overt and Covert bullying
Flickr image by beboehmer
Licensed image from Let’s Fight It Together –
childnet international
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Covert bullying cycle of inaction
Normativeculture ofacceptanceof (covert)bullying
Poor teacher response due to inability or inexperience to recognise it, and/or beliefcovert bullying is lessharmful or not a form of bullying.
Student bullied feels less empowered due toteacher inaction.
Studentinvolvedbelieve covert bullying is tolerated or condoned
Students who are bullied are less likely to seekhelp or tell
Cross et al 2008
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Examples of Cyberbullying
Teasing
Spreading rumours
Sending unwanted messages
Defamation
Masquerading as another person
Threatening violence via digital means
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Stealing someone’s online name
Altering messages
Doctoring photographs
Secretly recording conversations
Posting damaging information
Internet polling
Examples of Cyberbullying
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The effects of being bullied
impaired social and emotional adjustment (Nansel et al., 2001)
poor academic achievement(Beran & Lupart, 2009; Nansel et al., 2001)
anxiety, depression and suicidality(Kaltiala-Heino, Rimpela, Marttunen, Rimpela, & Rantanen, 1999)
poorer physical health(Wolke, Woods, Bloomfield, & Karstadt, 2001)
higher absenteeism(Strabstein & Piazza, 2008)
increased loneliness and low self esteem(Jankauskiene, Kardelis, Sukys, & Kardeliene, 2008)
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Who bullies?
Boys and Girls
Cruel teasing and name calling most common
Boys
More overt/physical
Girls
More covert – threats, exclusion, rumours, using technology
(Jankauskiene, Kardelis, Sukys, & Kardeliene, 2008)
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Why bully others?
Boys
Dominance
Power
Girls
Social confidence
Maintain exclusive group of friends
(Jankauskiene, Kardelis, Sukys, & Kardeliene, 2008)
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But!
while children who are being bullied and the bullies themselves have higher levels of depression than other children…
…the bullies themselves have the highest levels of depression(Kaltiala-Heino et al., 2000; Kaltiala-Heino, Rimpela, Marttunen, Rimpela, & Rantanen, 1999)
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Cyberbullying Terms
Flaming – heated exchange
Harassing and threatening messages eg: “text wars”, “griefers”
Denigration - sending nasty SMS, pictures or prank phone calls “Slam books” (websites or negative lists)
Impersonation - Using person’s screen name or password eg: message to hate group w/ personal details
Outing or trickery - sharing private personal information, messages, pictures with others
Posting “set up” images/video e.g. “happy slapping”
Ostracism - Intentionally excluding others from an online group eg: knocked off buddy lists
Sexting sharing explicit material by mobile phone
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What we know…
Students who cyberbully others
access to mobile phone
no internet use rules at home
wireless internet access at home
bully others face to face
cyber and face to face bullied
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Students who cyberbully others
male, secondary student
favourable attitudes to cyber bullying
below average academic achievement
more lonely and less connected to school
more likely to engage in unsafe sex, graffiti, use drugs more often, steal, truant
(Cross et al, 2008)
What we know…
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Do we focus on the technologyor the behaviourto manage cyber bullying?
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What actions can be taken to tackle cyber bullying?
Mobilise bystanders
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What actions can schools take to prevent and manage cyber bullying?
The majority of peer interventions are effective, with the bullying stopping within 10 seconds of peer intervention (Hawkins et al., 2001)
Reconciliation occurred when bystanders intervened and less when teacher intervened. (Fujisawa et al, 2005)
Students who are ‘defended’ are better adjusted, and report less peer-reported victimisation one year later (Sainio, Veenstra, Huitsing, & Salmivalli, 2009)
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What actions can we take to prevent and manage cyber bullying?
education
awareness
netiquette
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Advice for students who report being cyberbullied
Keep a record
Tell someone
Contact your phone or internet service provider and report what is happening
If messages are threatening or serious, contact the police
Don't reply, block the sender
Change your contact details
Keep your username and passwords secret
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What doesn’t seem to work?
Grouping children with problem behaviours
Exclusion by pro-social peers
Punishment only
Diffusion of responsibility
Peer counselling / mediation
Banning technology…
What about mobile phones?
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at home…Recommendations: Dr Michael Carr-Gregg
Parents must insist on the following rules to ensure teenage safety on the internet…
No computers in the bedroom
Real Wired Child by Dr Michael Carr-Gregg
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at home…Recommendations: Dr Michael Carr-Gregg
Parents must insist on the following rules to ensure teenage safety on the internet…
No computers in the bedroom
An online family contract
Real Wired Child by Dr Michael Carr-Gregg
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All computer use may be monitored
Limit screen time (quantity and time-of-day)
For ALL types of screens – TV, computer, IM, cell phone, games, iPod
Have rules for what must be completed before screen time
Devices downstairs at bedtime – nothing in their room
Allow Internet access only when parents are home
Only communicate (e-mail, IM, TXT) with people you already know (in real life)
Parents have a list of all accounts you use and all passwords
Discuss list of sites they are allowed to visit
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What to do when…
Somebody stumbles on inappropriate material
You feel uncomfortable
You get a virus / spyware
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Before Screen Time…
Today’s homework is finished
Your homework is in your bag
Your space is cleaned up
You have completed today’s household chores
You are on schedule with any project you have
Instrument practice is complete
It is BEFORE xxx on school nights (xxx on non-school nights)
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at home…Recommendations: Dr Michael Carr-Gregg
Parents must insist on the following rules to ensure teenage safety on the internet…
No computers in the bedroom
An online family contract
Adequate filtering
K9 web protection is free
Parents need to stand up and take responsibility.
Real Wired Child by Dr Michael Carr-Gregg
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Take A Walk Through Cyberspace – With Your Child
Pull up a chair next to your child at the computer and ask them to…
Share with me all the programs and sites you use for gaming, IM and social networking sites
Share with me all the screen names and email accounts you use and passwords
Show me your personal website, and any profiles you have on social networking sites, as well as your “away” message
Share with me your buddy list – ensure you know IRL
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Take A Walk Through Cyberspace – With Your Child
Pull up a chair next to your child at the computer and ask them to…
Ask if they’ve shared their password with a friend
Define cyber-bullying and discuss
Check for naivety and “netiquette”
Create a safe, respectable online personality
Establish trust - but-verify policy
Consider appropriate technology for their age
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John Clear
No matter how old you are, when you go out into the world,
hold hands and stick together