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Fmb{ Ijocqjca \vmgadr7 Bjrkoc) Jrrvjdrkmo job

Tapqji Fmb{ Ijocqjca7

R`kt kt r`a MNNKDKJI apdav|r mn r`a \JKB Fmme/ ^ktkr `rr|7--sss/Fmb{Ijocqjca\vmgadr/dmh rm

fq{ r`a nqii ~avtkmo nmv moi{ ":2

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R`kt |qfikdjrkmo kt batkcoab rm |vm~kba jddqvjra job jqr`mvkrjrk~a konmvhjrkmo skr` vacjvbt rm

r`a tqfgadr hjrrav dm~avab) Kr kt tmib skr` r`a qobavtrjobkoc r`jr r`a jqr`mv job r`a |qfikt`av

jva omr aocjcab ko vaobavkoc iacji) koraiiadrqji |vm|avr{) jddmqorkoc mv mr`av |vmnattkmoji

jb~kda/

R`a afmme kt Dm|{vkc`r 6

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R`kt afmme kt tq||ikab nmv konmvhjrkmo |qv|mtat moi{ job) jt ap|avkaodab ko r`kt tqfgadr hjrrav

jt r`a dmorvkfqrmvt jva) r`a hjravkji `avako bmat omr dmotrkrqra |vmnattkmoji jb~kda/

R`kt afmme kt batkcoab rm |vm~kba jddqvjra job jqr`mvkrjrk~a konmvhjrkmo skr` vacjvb rm r`a

tqfgadr hjrrav dm~avab/ Kr kt tmib skr` r`a qobavtrjobkoc r`jr r`a |qfikt`av job r`a dmorvkfqrmvt

jva omr aocjcab ko vaobavkoc iacji) jddmqorkoc) mv mr`av |vmnattkmoji jb~kda/

Kn iacji jb~kda mv mr`av |vmnattkmoji jttktrjoda kt vazqkvab) r`a tav~kdat mn j dmh|araor

|vmnattkmoji t`mqib fa tmqc`r/

R`a vajbav kt jb~ktab rm dmotqir skr` jo j||vm|vkjrai{ zqjiknkab |vmnattkmoji fanmva hjekoc jo{

fqtkoatt badktkmo/ R`a dmorvkfqrmvt) D`vktrm|`av \`kik| job Oarfq{ Dmotqirkoc Dmv|mvjrkmo bm

omr jdda|r jo{ vat|motkfkikr{ nmv jo{ ikjfkikrkat vatqirkoc nvmh r`a fqtkoatt badktkmot hjba f{

|qvd`jtavt mn r`kt fmme/

Fmb{ Ijocqjca \vmgadr7

Bjrkoc) Jrrvjdrkmo Job Tapqji Fmb{ Ijocqjca

APDAV\R7 Tadrkmo 6

\AVTMOJI T\JD

Kn {mq jva dimtav r`jo jvht vajd`) r`jo {mq jva ko tmhamoat |avtmoji t|jda/ R`kt kt

r`a nkvtr iattmo {mq hqtr iajvo/ Rm dvajra hmva t|jda ko dvmsbab jvajt tqd` jtaia~jrmvt job fjvt) |am|ia mnrao raota q| job qta r`akv jvht jt |vmradrkmo/ R`a{ skii

`mib r`ah dimta rm r`akv fmb{ mnrao dvmttab job skii jitm j~mkb a{a dmorjdr/ Kn j

smhjo {mq eoms kt bmkoc r`kt ko {mqv |vataoda job {mq jva omr ko jo aia~jrmv r`jo t`akt taobkoc {mq j trvmoc hattjca mn bktkoravatr/ [mq skii omr car ~av{ njv skr` j |avtmo

s`m `mibt dimtab |mtrqvat tm {mq smqib fa fatr jb~ktab rm ck~a r`ah tmha t|jda) fjde

q| j nas |jdat) job jiims r`ah rm vabqda r`akv raotkmo/ Kn j smhjo tra|t fjde s`ao{mq j||vmjd` `av) kr bmat omr oadattjvki{ hajo r`jr t`a bmat omr ikea {mq) t`a gqtr

oaabt hmva rkha rm car dmhnmvrjfia/ \am|ia cqjvb r`akv t|jda |jttkmojrai{)

s`ava~av kr kt) job skii omr j||vadkjra kr kn {mq ko~jba kr/ Vat|adrkoc |am|iat

korkhjra t|jda ko~mi~at omr ko~jbkoc kr skr` mfgadrt) ikea {mqv fjc mv gjdear) mvskr` fmb{ |jvrt qoiatt r`a{ jva saidmhab/

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R`a oaab nmv t|jda kt |jvrkdqijv rm j t|adknkd |avtmo job kt omvhjii{ j nqodrkmo mn r`akv

ao~kvmohaor/ Kn r`a{ ik~a ko j baotai{ |m|qijrab jvaj job nvazqaor fqt{ hjiit)aia~jrmvt job tm nmvr`) r`a{ skii fa hmva jddqtrmhab rm `j~koc |am|ia ko dimta

|vmpkhkr{/ Omvhjii{) dkr{ |am|ia skii rmiavjra tmhamoa ko r`akv t|jda hmva tm r`jo

r`mta s`m ik~a ko vqvji tarrkoct/ @msa~av) kr kt zqkra dmhhmo rm ck~a trvjocavt jt hqd`t|jda jt vajtmojfi{ |mttkfia/ Nmv apjh|ia) ko jo ah|r{ aia~jrmv) kr smqib fa

qovajtmojfia rm fa tm dimta jt rm rmqd` j trvjocav (a~ao moa {mq ikea+/ R`kt kt

dmh|iarai{ va~avtab `msa~av ko j nqii aia~jrmv) s`ava kr kt jttqhab r`jr

tmha jddkbaorji rmqd`koc skii mddqv/

Fakoc taotkrk~a rm j smhjot oaab nmv t|jda kt j ck~ao/ Kn {mq jdr bmhkojor job

aorav `av t|jda skr`mqr `av |avhkttkmo) {mq jva cqjvjoraab rm iaj~a `av skr` j fjb kh|vattkmo/ Jii smhao |avdak~a hao jt r`vajraokoc s`m aorav r`akv |avtmoji

t|jda

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skr`mqr jo ktmhamoa t`a najv

mn j smhjo) fq

S`ao {mq j||

r`ah ahmrkmojiij||vmjd` kt sai

Oa~av qta |mtkrkia~ai kn |mttkf

jdda|rjfia rm qta

r`ao kr fadm

t`mqib oa~av fa

jisj{t fa rmbmso jii r`a

TADRKMO 6

o~krjrkmo job j smhjo skii omrt/ R`kt bmator hajo r`jr {mq jva oa~av rm a

vjr`av) {mq t`mqib sjkr nmv r`a vkc`r dq

mjd` tmhamoa |`{tkdjii{) kr kt r`a tjha jt k

) job {mq t`mqib sjkr nmv j smhjo rm ckmha fanmva hm~koc dimtav/

ot mn |msav s`ao j||vmjd`koc j smhjo/ia/ @msa~av) kn {mq job t`a jva fmr` trjo

`akc`r jt jo jb~jorjca/@akc`r djo fa a

bkt|ij{ bmhkojoda/ R`a ekikravjii{ ko r`kt djta tkoda r`a `khmva |msav kt |vmgadrab mo

smhjo {mq sjor rm j||r`mqc`) kr kt fatr rm j||vmj

mv eoaaikoc |mtkrkmosmhjo fadmhat{mq job {mq atrjfikt` j dm

at tjnav rm ap|imkr {mqv `akc`r

rm bmhkojra m~av j smhjo) at|adkjii{ kokrk

hjea `av naai dmhnmvrjfia ko {mqv |vjvvkavt r`jr ta|jvjra r`a rsm mn {mq/

vadk|vmdjra jrrvjdrkmo rmorav r`a korkhjra wmoa

at fanmva bmkoc tm/

{mq sava rm j||vmjd`

~a {mq tkcojit r`jr jo

`jr kt) eaa| jr a{akoc r`ao kr smqib fa

|imkrab f{ hao rm

c mn r`a djtria `mibt`av j |avtmo kt) r`arm r`ah/ Kn r`a

mjd` kt tkrrkoc` `av nvmh j faor

kokrkjii{/ Moda r`amva dmhnmvrjfia skr`hmo bkjimcqa)

bknnavaodat/ [mqv cmji

ii{/ [mqv cmji t`mqib

ataoda job rm fvaje

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h|mvrjoda t`mqib jitm fa

`jr |vmpkhkr{ omvht jva bkqirqvat/ Nmv apjh|ia) Gj|jo

rjob hqd` dimtav r`jo J

mo~avtjrkmo/ R`kt |vmpkhkhktdmotrvqab jt j tapqji

|ijda farsaao rsm dqirqvat) f

havai{ j nqodrkmo mn q|fvkock`mqib jitm fa hjba r`jr r`av

joca ko ia~ait mn rmqd`ko

mvht farsaao dqirqvat

qirqvat/ Tmha |am|ia skii fimta) s`kia mr`avt hkc`r vag

irmcar`av/ Kn {mq jva dqv

smhjot |vmpkhkr{ rm {mq kt joav sj{) jii {mq `j~a rm bm k

`a fa`j~at jvmqob

aoavjii{/ Kn t`a kt dmhhmoi{n |avtmo rmsjvb a~av{moa) r`a

`jr r`kt kt tkh|i{ |avtmo t|ad

mvr mn tapqji jb~joda/ Kr k

mdjrkmo mn r`a koravjdrkmo |ijpjh|ia) ko j dvmsbab fjv

|jve) kr smqib fa jdda|r

imta) `msa~av ko jo jvaj r`hkc`r dmha jdvmtt jt kh|mtkoc

adattjv{/

Omvhjii{) moa t`mqib ap|adr r`

a|jvjrat rsm |am|ia nvmh ajd`fa j||vm|vkjra nmv trvjocavt/ Tm~ao nqvr`av/ Kr kt omr jisj{t

s`jr kt tqnnkdkaor nmv |vmpkhkr{/hjba ko jo a|ktmba mn

dimta rjieav/ R`a d`

garrktmoab skr`ko kod`at mn rmhhqokdjrkoc skr`) rqvokoc r`

Jt {mq j||vmjd` j smhjo) fa d

at|mota/ Kn t`a hm~at fjde) {`jr bktrjoda job hjkorjko kr jt

morkoqmqti{ rv{koc rm dimta`a dmo~avtjrkmo dmorkoqat

vqtr cvmst) {mq skii |vmimtaoatt kt cvjbqjii{ hmv

saidmhab/ Caoavjii{) dmhnm

t nmiimst7

|qr mo r`a njdr

navaor ko bknnavaorta |am|ia raob rm

avkdjot s`ao ko

{ dmqib fajb~joda kn kr rmme

r ko vajikr{ kr kt

oc/ R`a |mkora kt j njkvi{ ijvca

c job |vmpkhkr{

job jitm skr`ko

dmhnmvrjfia fakocadr r`kt |vmpkhkr{

mqt rm eoms kn j

jb~joda mv tkh|i{t apjhkoa `ms

mr`av |am|ia

j rmqd`{naai{ tmvrkr djo fa jttqhab

knkd job kt omr jo{

jitm rvqa r`jr r`a

t j fkc vmia/ Nmvmv jhqtahaor

jfia rm trjob njkvi{

r kt hmva m|ao) krrm fa dimtav r`jo

r j bktrjoda s`kd`

mr`avt vajd` smqibarkhat r`kt djo fa

f~kmqt rm a~av{moaR`a |mkor sjt saii

akonaib skr` r`a

vjdrav khhabkjrai{

`a |avtmo `a sjttkrqjrkmo jsesjvb/

vanqi rm hajtqva `av

q jva fatr rm vat|adrj fqnnav kotrajb mn

r`a cj|/ Jtob r`a ia~ai mn

jfi{ omrkda r`jra |avhkrrab jobrjfia bktrjodat cm

Korkhjra rmqd

dimta

Djtqji|avtmo

dmo

T

J tmdkji bktrjod@msa~av) nmv trvkt j dmhnmvrj

Kn {mq bmor f

{mqvtain/

`koc rm jfmqr :< kod`at (nmv

nvkaobt) njhki{) job dmq|iat+

i :0 kod`at rm 2 naar (konmvhji

avtjrkmo skr` nvkaobt+

mdkji 2 rm :6 naar/

mn :6 naar hkc`r taah qoikeocavt s`m `j~a oa~av t|meao)

fia bktrjoda rm t|aje nv

ika~a r`kt rm fa tm) ck~a kr j rv{

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\KDRMVKJI MO \AVTMOJI T

Bj~a kt hjekoc jomr`av |mm

kcomvkoc fmb{ |mtkrkmot job ia~a

Tdjviarr korm r`a fmmr`/ T`a kt t

kh|vattab f{ nmibkoc `av jvht

T`a kt rv{koc rm jdr |jttk

j~mkbkoc a{a dmorjdr/ Bj~a t`mqib

fmbkat job vatqha |mtkrk~a bkji

vada|rk~a rm `kt dqvvaor jb~jodat/

Bj~a kt qtkoc fmb{ ijocqjca `avsjort rm dmha jdvmtt jt omor`va

fmb{ `akc`r dmh|jvab rm `avt/ Qtk

sj{ bmat omr oadattjvki{ hajo r`jr r

fqr kr bmat t`ms dmqvrat{/ Tdjviarr

job a~ao |avhkrt `kh rm hm~a dimtav

nas kod`at ta|jvjrkoc `av

`job/ Kr kt kh|mvrjor rm j||v

nvmor tm jt omr rm fimde `av ko mv kork

JDA

v j||vmjd` `ava f{

it/ @a `jt dmvoavab

`mskoc r`jr t`a kt omr

jdvmtt `av fmb{/

~ai{ dmonvmorjrkmoji f{

a~ao r`a |ijoat mn r`akv

cqa jt Tdjviarr ktor

R`a rjfiat `j~a f

r`a kh|mvrjoda mn

rmsavkoc m~av

korkhkbjrab/ R`a

|mttkfi{ m~av) r`a `

r`jr `a kt fakoc jc

`khtain job rv{koc

d`ko jsj{ nvmh `av/

bmso job jttavrkoc

kobkdjrmvt mn bktkor

atrjfikt` dmorvmi m~a

rm `kt jb~jorjca/ @araokoc tm `a imsavt `kt

oc fmb{ ijocqjca ko r`kt

`a hjo kt iatt bmhkojor)

||vadkjrat r`kt j||vmjd`

r`jo omvhji skr` moi{ j

nmvajvh job `kt

mjd` j smhjo nvmh r`a

hkbjra `av/

S`kt|avkoc f{ akr`

korm r`akv |avtmoji t|

Bj~a dmqib rjea r`kt

rm hm~a dimtav/

ao rqvoab ko r`kt tkrqjrkmo/ R`kt kii

mb{ |mtkrkmot job ia~ait saii/ Tdj

j~a hjekoc `kh naai tqfmvbkojr

ijoa `av fmb{ hjeat aodvmjd`at oa

jinsj{ hjve mo r`a rjfia/ Bj~a kt t

vattab q|mo job kt |qiikoc `kt bvkoe

rm j~mkb bkvadr a{a dmorjdr f{ hm~k

Kr kt a~kbaor r`jr Tdjviarr kt |qrrko

`av |mtkrkmo m~av `kh/ R`ata

vatr jt t`a kt qtkoc fmb{ ijocq

r`a vaijrkmot`k|/

av tap kt j cvajr sj{ rm nmvda |am|ia r

jda/ Tkoda Tdjviarr kt bmkoc r a s kt

rm hajo r`jr t`a kt koravatrab job sj

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\vmpkhkr{ jt kokrkjrab f{ j smhjo ktmn koravatr/

@ava) Hjve kt jiimskoc Gqika rm t

t|jda farsaao r`ah/ @a jt aocjca

kotrajb mn |qt`koc `khtain mo `av jo

Hjvet |mtrqva kt m|ao) saidmha job

rjekoc saii rm kr/

|msavnqi hattjca

R`kt kt saidm

T`a `jt hm~ab ko

ikeai{ jdda|r j ek

kt jitm rmqd`koc

batkvat `kt dimtao

vkoe r`a nkoji fkr mn

b `av ko dmo~avtjrkmo

b ko~jbkoc `av t|jda/

bmhkojor job Gqika kt

ab rmqd`koc job sjt kokrkjrab f{ Gq

rm Hjvet |avtmoji t|jda job smqib ~

t tkoda t`a kt immekoc jr `kt hmqr`/

kt rka s`kd` kt j trvmoc tkcoji r`jr

tt/

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Gqika kt ck~koc mnn t

iajokoc ko rmsjvb `k

korkhjd{/

ha ~av{ trvmoc |mtkrk~a tkcojit/ T`a kt |qt`ab vkc`r

dimtkoc r`a bktrjoda a~ao nqvr`av/ \vmpkhkr{ kt ji

q| jcjkotr Hjve job kt

mtr jisj{t j nmvh mn

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R`kt rapr kt moi{ jo apdav|r mn r`a 0