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Page 1: Dealing with Negativity Online

Dealing with negativity online

Ignore and die.

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Firstly, get over it. Not everyone will love you.

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Ever heard of anyone or any brand that hasn’t been bitch slapped before?

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My point exactly. Get over it.

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Why did it happen to me?

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Reason #1: Your product is crap.

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Reason #2: You are arrogant and rude.

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Reason #3: You take 10 years to respond to

his/ her request.

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Reason #4: He/ she was fired that day and was

in a really bad mood.

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Reason #5: He/ she works for a competitor.

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Reason #6: Did I mention your product is crap?

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OMFG! So what do I do now?!

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Breathe. Go grab a cigarette. Really.

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Step #1: Do not respond immediately. Not when

you’re all jammed up with emotions.

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Step #2: Evaluate the feedback. Is there truth in

what he/she said?

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Step #3: Remember that not all negative comments

are harmful. Some provide valuable insights for your brand.

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Step #4: Negative blog post = email the bugger

Negative comment left by a reader = respond with your comment

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Don’t leave a comment ever if it is a negative blog entry.

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It just shows that you’re more preoccupied with what people

think, than the blogger himself/ herself.

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But what do I say?

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Step #1: Thank them for their time. Really.

If they didn’t care enough, they won’t be arsed.

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Step #2: Apologize without inviting a lawsuit.

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Say:“We are sorry to hear of what

you have to go through.”

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Don’t say:“We are sorry we fucked up.”

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Not until you’ve confirmed you really did fuck up anyway. Besides, you

need to clear the apology with Legal.

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Step #3: Address all concerns and offer a solution.

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Don’t be selective over which concern you’d like to address. Please.

This person’s already pissed off.

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Step #4: Ask to call them at a time of their

convenience. And leave your contact details with them too.

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This person doesn’t think you’re a friend. You have no right to say “Hey

dude, I know you’re pissed, give me a call some time eh?”

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Step #5: Follow up persistently

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If it’s a blog post you’re responding to, and somehow, there’s no response to

your email, then leave a blog comment.

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All that the blog comment should say is:Hello, this is [name] from [company]. I

dropped you a note a couple of days ago. I’m sorry of what you have to go through, and I’d like to understand your concerns better. Can

you let me know if you’re free for a chat?

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Saying anything beyond that is just distasteful.

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Can I get the blogger to remove the negative blog entry

if I’ve already apologized?

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Sure, if you’d like another negative blog entry.

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Don’t worry. Chances are, if you’ve clearly shown remorse and sincerity, the blogger

will address it on his/ her blog.

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If not, well, you can talk about it on your own

corporate blog.

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Oh, do I need a corporate blog???

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Let’s leave that for another day.

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Dealing with negativity online

Ignore and die.

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