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Dealing with Parents, Elite Athletes and Scholarship Myths

NFHS Summer Meeting

June 26, 2013

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Introduction

Dr. Harold Slemmer Executive Director Arizona Interscholastic Association

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Elite Athletes and High School Sports Culture

Luke Rubenzer - Elite 11 Blog

Luke Rubenzer - Elite 11 Video

Trent Dilfer’s Reality TV Show

Courtesy of Yahoo! Sports

Courtesy of Espnmediazone.com

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Elite Performance Training Industry

Elite Performance Athletics Peoria, Arizona

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Club Sports • USA Badminton

• USA Baseball

• USA Basketball

• USA Football

• USA Golf

• USA Soccer

• USA Softball

• USA Swimming

• USA Tennis

• USA Track & Field

• USA Volleyball

• USA Wrestling

• Average cost to participate in a club sport is $300/month, not including travel.

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True Elite Athletes

LeBron James

Ky Westbrook

Nicole Powell

Reid Priddy

Courtesy of East Valley Tribune

Courtesy of Arizona.SBNation.com

Courtesy of East Valley Tribune

Courtesy of AZCentral.com

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Scholarship Myths – By Sport Varsity Sport - 2012 Data

Total

Schools

Total

Athletes

Men

Women

Synchronized Swimming 5 65 - 65

Tennis 1,176 20,859 10,122 10,737

Track & Field 1,075 90,747 45,218 45,529

Volleyball 1,737 27,169 2,004 25,165

Water Polo 112 3,439 1,610 1,829

Wrestling 322 9,212 8,969 243

Other Sports 12 386 205 181

Total Student Athletes Participating 587,750 341,588 246,162

Multiple Sport Participants 69,901 33,417 36,484

Unique Student Athletes Participating 517,849 308,171 209,678

Scholarshipstats.com

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Scholarship Myths Student-Athletes

Men’s Basketball

Women’s Basketball

Football Baseball Men’s Ice Hockey Men’s Soccer

High School Student-Athletes

549,500 456,900 983,600 455,300 29,900 321,400

High School Senior Student-Athletes

157,000 130,500 281,000 130,100 8,500 91,800

NCAA Student-Athletes (all divisions)

15,700 14,400 56,500 25,700 3,700 18,200

NCAA Freshman Roster Positions (all divisions)

4,500 4,100 16,200 7,300 1,100 5,200

NCAA Senior Student-Athletes (all divisions)

3,500 3,200 12,600 5,700 800 4,100

Percent High School to NCAA (all divisions)

2.90% 3.10% 5.80% 5.60% 12.90% 5.70%

Recruit-Me.com

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Top Scholarship Myths

Thecollegesolution.com

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Top Scholarship Myths

Thecollegesolution.com

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Top Scholarship Myths

• Myth #1: My child is talented enough, the college coaches can get him or her into the school despite poor grades.

• TRUTH: Poor grades turn off a coach’s interest more quickly

than any other factor. o Nearly every school has minimum grade requirements which college coaches must

adhere to.

o No matter how good an athlete your student is, they can’t get around these minimum grades levels.

o If your child is very close to the minimums, colleges might be willing to make an exception. But if there is another student-athlete that your child is competing with for a scholarship who has better qualifying grades, a coach would rather pursue that other athlete. It is simply a better use of the coach’s time.

Collegemadesimple.com

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Top Scholarship Myths

• Myth #2: My child is talented enough. College coaches will find them.

• TRUTH: This is the biggest mistake I see student-athletes make.

o The reality is that a very-very small number of high school athletes receive scholarships because a college coach “stumbled upon their ability.”

o Only the top 2% receive enough media exposure that they are automatically recruited without having to make an effort.

Collegemadesimple.com

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Top Scholarship Myths • Myth #3: We will wait until our child’s senior year to

start looking for athletic scholarships.

• TRUTH: The school selection process can take a year or more, so it’s best to start before your child’s senior year. o Your child’s freshman or sophomore is the best time to

start. Start researching colleges.

o Putting together a list and begin to make contact with the schools. http://www.ncaa.org/wps/portal

http://naia.cstv.com/member-services/attend.htm

Collegemadesimple.com

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Top Scholarship Myths

• Myth #4: We can trust everything the coaches say and promise throughout the recruiting process.

• TRUTH: Coaches as a general rule, must over-recruit. That is, they will talk to and offer more scholarships than they have to give. o They are forced to do this because not every student-

athlete they offer is going to accept.

o Put another way, they will talk to more prospects than they have spots for.

Collegemadesimple.com

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Top Scholarship Myths

• Myth #5: Athletic Scholarships will cover all tuition, room and board, and other related costs.

• TRUTH: This could not be further from the truth. It is very rare for a student-athlete to be offered a full athletic scholarship at any school. o The number of scholarship dollars is highly regulated by

the NCAA and NAIA governing bodies.

o Each college tries to stretch those dollars as far as they can.

Collegemadesimple.com

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Questions

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One in four athletes in elementary

school will be a star when they

reach high school

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The challenge is that four out of five

parents think if their kid is a star in

elementary, they will be a star in high

school

Photo courtesy: www.publicinsightnetwork.org/form/american-

public-media/88a62f87e50d/do-you-let-your-kids-play-contact-

sports. 21 June 2013.

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The additional challenge out there is

we have a large group of coaches

(both high school and club) telling

parents and kids that if you play for me,

I will make you a star!

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2011 article in the Journal of Physical

Education, Recreation, and Dance

states

› “…that because athletic success involves

multiple factors including genetics, mental attitude, access to training, a support

system, and money.”

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Any attempt to predict the future

achievement based on the skill level of

an athlete at ages 9, 10 or 11 is likely

futile but nearly impossible

Photo courtesy: www.allstrengthtraining.com/2011/08/24/

overspecializing-young-athletes-is-a-mistake/. 21 June 2013.

Photo courtesy: a10collegehoops.com.

21 June 2013.

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What is the athletic world like when your

kid is that one out of four…?

Photo courtesy: www.thejournal.ie/in-pictures-

chinas-young-athletes-in-training-745873-Jan2013/.

21 June 2013.

Photo courtesy: www.lcnn1.com/2010/10/1-in-10-

child-athletes-injured-experts-say.html. 21 June 2013.

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PRESSURE

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Time

Travel

School

Coaches

Social Circle

Training/Camps

Try-outs

MONEY-MONEY-MONEY

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Parents and athletes know that despite where they play, who they play for, or what they are told, a full-ride scholarship is rare

2% of all high school athletes receive a full-ride scholarship

An average athletic scholarship is $10,000 or about 1/3 of the total cost

The TOP 2% will be sought out but for the other 98% it is a competition in itself for the dollars

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We can’t ignore

We all have to take some responsibility

as leaders in this field

The only way to keep some balance is to

continue to educate our memberships,

our coaches, our parents, our athletes,

and communities on the realities of

athletics…