dealing with your child 24/7: homeschoolers guide to conscious discipline with renee kendley...

Dealing with your Child 24/7: Homeschoolers Guide to Conscious

Discipline

With Renee Kendleypeacefulparentingpath.com

Online Conference for Waldorf-inspired Homeschoolers

3 Type of Parenting Practices

*Dominant (violent & non-violent): parents have the power

*Permissive: child has power

*Authentic Leadership: everyone is empowered


Dominant

1) Violent: physical or verbal abuseenvironment: tense, rigid

children learn: coercive, competitivenesschildren feel: powerless & low self-esteem

2) Non-Violent: verbal abuse, time-outs, consequences

children learn: conformity, deviousnesschildren feel: angry, resentful


Permissive

Parents plead, bribe, nagenvironment:chaotic,inconsistent

parents feel powerless& then snap back into dominance

children learn: manipulation, selfish, entitled


Authentic Leadership

*parents exercise self-control and teach

*unconditional love

*fulfilling needs*listening to feelings

*natural consequences*problem solving & family meetings


Authentic Leadership*Children learn respect, self-control, responsibility

*children have a voice, they feel heard

*emotionally resilient

*parents set limits, boundaries

*natural consequences


Which one of these was used by your parents?

Which one is used by your co-parent?

Which one do you use?


Authentic Leadership fits Waldorf


Authentic Leaders feel confident and capable

*parents trust their ability and doing what is right in the moment

*willing to learn more

*modeling

*setting limits peacefully*self-discipline


4 obstacles that could be a challenge for authentic leaders



Aversion to guilt and being the leader




When parent has a dependency issue





Constantly seeking advice from others





Constantly seeking advice from others

Difficulty with isolation of parenting


Heart Connection


What stops you from being an authentic leader?

Free gift: Bringing Yourself Back from Center: A Guided Journey.Questions to guide parents to find emotional triggers & hot buttons

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No scripts for parenting


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Renee has cleared room in her calendar for 20 Get Acquainted Calls for those listeners who are committed to the Authentic Leadership paradigm, but know that they need some extra support in getting

there.

You can spend some time on the phone getting to know each other better. You will tell Renee about your unique family situation, and she will tell you about the different ways that she works with families. If you agree that it’s a good fit, then great! If not, Renee can point you in the

right direction!

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