December

2012

Presented by:

The Daniel McCree Foundation

Happy

Holidays

2012

VOLUME 6 ISSUE 2

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ABOUT US

MetroEast News is an

outreach project of the

Daniel McCree Foundation.

Our vision and mission is to provide timely information and events to the entire

Southern Illinois Region. We seek to be a voice for those who are traditionally

not heard. (READ MORE)

Southern Illinois Pride History

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Editor: Colby Kluthe

Graphic Design: Jason Brooks

Director: Daniel McCree Foundation

Contributors:

Mickey Johnson (Carbondale)

History & Southern Illinois News

Tess Farnham (Belleville)

Liberal Arts & Education

Susan Spit-Fire Lively (Belleville)

Performing Arts & Spoken Word

Aaron Phillip Ruiz (Swansea)

Autumn Pickard (St. Louis)

Special Features from Daniel McCree (1979-2007)

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St. Louis Gay History Project

TransHaven & Belleville Transgender & Friends

LGBT Center of St. Louis

Metro East Pride of Soutwestern Illinois (MEPSI)

L.A.G.O.S.I

Equality Illinois & Carbonale Pride,

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INTRODUCTION

I must admit to you that the past month has been one of lack-luster

inspiration, and in fact for the first time in nearly 5 years i have not kept

our facebook updated as often and am still having the challenge to

muster the inspiration for the December issue of MetroEast NEWS.

Nonetheless, I find myself firmly in the grasp of winter and nearly halfway thru the month

and simply playing catch-up to what usually happens here at the closing of the year.

Here is my personal advocacy for World AIDS Day 2012:

The Ezekiel Project ministry at MCC of Greater St. Louis has a collection of people lost to

HIV/AIDS over the years, and unfortunately not all of them are named and known This

collection is located at 1919 S. Broadway in St. Louis, and the process of identifying these

individuals is underway.

If you attend or visit MCCGSL in the near future

please take a moment to visit the table located in

the sacred space to help them in adding these

names or adding your loved one to this area.

What I am reminding myself of is the simple

blessing that I am here to continue to write to you,

and the understanding that others out there may

actually expect some of our traditions to go

onward. So humbly I take on that my own inspiration is not ever what it has been about.

Its about you who follow us and of course that which Danny held in his heart as important.

So in my final thoughts for this months issue, I invite our sponsors who have not renewed

to do so, and invite anyone who would like to take part in the creation of this publication to

contact me for details and opportunities at MetroEast NEWS.

. As the editor MetroEast NEWS,

“We seek to be a voice for those who traditionally are not heard.”

The Daniel McCree Foundation advocates for Suicide Prevention as well as outreach in the areas

of HIV/AIDS awareness.

Sincerely,

Colby Kluthe

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Peace & Blessing Bee upon each of you! Colby Kluthe, Executive Director- Daniel McCree Foundation Emily Smith, St. Louis Regional Director danielmccreeorg@gmail.com www.DanielMcCree.Org

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Monday, October 1, 2012

"Scrambled Eggs and Love" by: Daniel McCree "Scrambled Eggs and Love"

by: Daniel McCree

(an excerpt from Aids Daze - 2005)

Scrambled eggs and love were available day and night.

My schedule was my own.

I painted. I put into emotion into everything I did.

My nodes are proof that I did wrong, no contest.

I made my bed I’ll lye in it, only now, no bed, just a couch.

A lovely couch in a lovely room with a lovely view and no

touch.

My blood is warm and I want more am I a loser or a

winner? 100704

i’m in a crazy mans denali,

we are both to good for this world, or may have been at one

point.

I’m more selfish than my good sense tells me is allowed.

I make comment after comment that corners me in.

feelings come and go.

My love is spit on then validated.

i’m asking for forgiveness and sympathy,

ask me for love and i will give it to you.

That's Glierre for you.

READ MORE: Daniel's WORDS

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BandTogether Holiday Concert!

December 22 at 8:00pm

The 560 Music Center in University City, Missouri

Christmas Party Extravaganza

December 22 at 8:00pm

Club Escapade Inc in Belleville, Illinois

Gateway Men's Chorus presents:

HOLIDAY!

December 14 at 8:00pm

The 560 Music Center in University City, Missouri

Q & A Christmas Meet Up Event for Q&A: Alliance for Gender and Sexual Diversity (SWIC)

We will meet up at the City Museum entrance at 6 pm. City Museum, St Louis, MO

701 North 15th Street, Saint Louis, Missouri 63103

We need to go as a group to get the discount where of $6 per person. We need at least 10 people confirmed going to get the discount, other wise the admission is $10 per person. If you can provide a ride please offer. Also, if you want to invite LGBTQA- friendly friends not in Q & A, you may.

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The TG Contra…

What is Pride and Where

should it be held

By: Colby Kluthe, Editor- MetroEast NEWS

Pride Celebrations in St. Louis is not only a long-

standing tradition but also among the nations

largest pride festivals boasting more than 100,000

visitors in recent years. As a community advocate

and as someone who has served in leadership

capacity with pride organizations (Metro East

Pride of Southwestern Illinios) I have a unique

understanding about decision-making and forces

which will undoubtedly stir up controversy among

community supporters, business owners, and

government powers that be.

I was in no way surprised at the recent announcement by Pride St. Louis Inc. plans to move the festival to Soldier’s

Memorial in downtown, uprooting its decade long tradition of a festival in Tower Grove Park. I also remember as

a youngster when the festival had a “long held tradtion” of being in the central west end neighborhood, which at

the time was the epicenter of the LGBT community.

In 2012 It is also very clear we are no longer a community which is centered in one neighborhood. The move to

downtown was an option I heard was coming several years ago, and from my own perspective it was a move I

actually expected to take place last year. Nonetheless we who call St. Louis home find ourselves in a struggle

between what we find most comforting and familiar and the natural angst about the upcoming move to

downtown. I know that regardless of the location of Pride in 2013, our community will once again come together

to exemplify the very best of who we are and take the opportunity to share it with our traditions both respected

and growing into the future. The community outrage and dialogue is very much a part of the vitality of Pride and

citizen input and leadership will be needed regardless of whether the festival is held in Tower Grove or any other

location. Pride was never about the location, but rather coming together as a family and celebrating all of who

we are as a community. Tower Grove Park has served us well in years past and while I wholeheartedly support

efforts to keep it there, I would be lacking my own convictions if I did not call it as I have always seen Pridefest-

Tower Grove. Ready—Here GOES!

Pridefest Tower Grove has always been difficult to find parking or access using Metrolink service. But most

obvious to anyone who hasn’t attended a streetscape festival (As downtown would be) Tower Grove Park creates

an environment of social “clicks” that to an outsider would almost appear we have a segregated festival. This

group over here, and that group over there, and festival goers who are generally bunched up with those they

already know. It has been my observation that this tendency always follows the same path, despite concerted

efforts in planning and redesigning the festival grounds in recent years. I have said for many years that St. Louis

pride is perhaps the most segregated pride in the nation—an opportunity that a new venue offers our community

to frankly get to know each other again for the first time.

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The other and I think final point I

want to make about this controversy

is that as someone who helped

establish a pride festival tradition in

a more conservative community

than the City of St. Louis, I cannot

tell you how many times we heard

from civic leaders “wouldn’t you be

more comfortable in a park” was to

me only a way of saying “we would

be more comfortable if you ‘gays’

were isolated in a park rather than

our streets where ‘non-gays’ have to

see you.

Now I am being a bit exaggerated

in my words but the point remains,

and the time has come for our

festival to “Come Out” to our city.

We no longer need 120 acres of land in which to hide, and standing shoulder to shoulder on our city’s most

prominent festival grounds is not only an opportunity but a responsibility we have to one another and to the next

generation of allies and queers in the Gateway City. We must take our place and hold our heads high as we

parade wherever the festival is held. Here is where I think I stand in this debacle… I support Pride St. Louis and

the need to move downtown, However I also recognize that participation for todays small business has decreased

in recent years due to the large amount of money it takes to become a vendor at Pride St. Louis.

Too many business owners do not have hundreds or in many cases thousands of dollars it takes to simply put an

advertisement in the Pride Pages and be a participant in the festival each year. Therefore I wholeheartedly

support the grassroots movement underway to hopefully make pride more accessible to more than the major

corporations that fund and support Pride St. Louis. I hope that Pride festivals of the future can find room for all

players big and small, and an environment that fosters both unity and inclusion of all people. I acknowledge that

Pride St. Louis has a long history of serving the needs and growth of the festival and maintained an event free of

charge for all to enjoy. I hope the 2013 board of directors can lead our community forward into the future in a

manner which all participants feel both valued and accomadated.

Send Comments to: danielmccreeorg@gmail.com

MORE INFORMATION REGARDING THIS GRASSROOTS MOVEMENT:

http://www.facebook.com/KeepPrideInTowerGrove

Tower Grove Pride Organizational Dinner

January 6, 2013 at 5:00pm

Artwork by: Tim Gehner

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TOVA TOUR 2013~! JAN 11-13 I will be traveling to 3 states, 3 amazing clubs, 3

AMAZING SHOWS!

TERRE HAUTE IN ~ Jan 11 at Zim Marss with Keisha Von Lord ,

QUINCY IL~ Jan 12 at Irenes Cabaret Nightclub,

ST LOUIS MO~ Jan 13

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