developing personal and social competence
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Developing Personal and Social Competence. Christian education enables us to be Found. HOW do we help our children grow emotionally?. Sam. Peace. MY DEFINING SPACE. Lex. Pete. Each of them faces a challenge. Sam’s challenge is to trust herself and others. - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
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Developing Personal and Social
Competence
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Christian education enables us to be
Found
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MY DEFINING
SPACE
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Lex Pete
PeaceSam
HOW do we help our children grow emotionally?
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Sam
Each of them faces a challenge....
Sam’s challenge is to trust herself and others.
She can only do this if she understands that her
SPACE is valid.
Her risk is TRUSTING other people.
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Sam
This affects the FOOTPRINT Sam leaves on others and others leave on Sam
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Each of them faces a challenge....
Peace’s challenge is to trust herself.
She can only do this if he understands that her
SPACE is valid.
Her risk is TRUSTING her own opinions.
Peace
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This affects the FOOTPRINT Peace leaves on others and others leave on Peace
Peace
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Each of them faces a challenge....
Lex’s challenge is to trust other people.
He can only do this if he relinquishes control.
His risk is discovering that he is VALID regardless of
what he achieves.
MY DEFINING
SPACE
Lex
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This affects the FOOTPRINT Lex leaves on others and others leave on Lex
MY DEFINING
SPACE
Lex
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Each of them faces a challenge....
Pete’s challenge is to trust himself (and others) a
little less.
He can only do this if he realises that he cannot cope with everything.
His risk is to LEARN this... Probably the hard way.
Pete
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This affects the FOOTPRINT Pete leaves on others and others leave on Pete
Pete
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So the children’s SOCIAL competence (their FOOTPRINT) is informed by their EMOTIONAL competence (their SPACE)
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And their EMOTIONAL COMPETENCE (their SPACE) is formed by their experience of care
And TRANSFORMED by their experience of GOD’s LOVE
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MY DEFINING
SPACE
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Lex Pete
PeaceSam
Each child needs to experience God’s love in a different way. There is no single way.
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MY DEFINING
SPACE
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Lex Pete
PeaceSam
How do we enable our Sams, Peaces, Lexs and Petes to experience God’s love?
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Sam
...Needs to be trusted and discover that other’s can
be too...
Practical examples...
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.... Needs to be accepted, not rejected, and learn to
value herself appropriately.
Peace
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.... Needs to learn to allow others to give to
him, to fail and to receive love.
MY DEFINING
SPACE
Lex
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.... Needs to learn to be realistic about himself, to accept struggle, challenge
and difficulty with out being able to solve
everythingPete
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MY DEFINING
SPACE
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Lex Pete
PeaceSam
God’s love is Gods.... It comes through our HANDS
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What have we learned?
• Christian education is NOT at odds with social, emotional formation
• We enable people to grow personally, emotionally and socially within God’s love
• Each child needs to experience a different outworking of that love
• The arenas for this will be the classrooms, playgrounds and sports pitches of our schools
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Christian education enables us to be
Found
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St Irenaeus