different human behavior
TRANSCRIPT
The capacity of mental, physical, emotional, and social activities experienced during a human being's life. Includes the behaviors as dictated by culture, society, values, morals, ethics, and genetics
DEFINITION
REASONS:
• Emotionaly reactive• Extrelmy detail-oriented• Longer to make decisions• Prone to anxiety and depression• Introverts people
EMOTIONALLY REACTIVE
People who are highly sensitive will react more in a situation.They may more concern about people reaction.
DETAIL ORIENTED
Highly sensitive people are the first ones to notice the details in a room, the new shoes that you're wearing, or a change in weather.
LONGER TO MAKE DECISION
They are more aware of details that could make decisions harder to make. Even if there is no "right" or "wrong" decision.
PRONE TO ANXIETY
All highly sensitive
people will go on to have anxiety but they need to be handled in the right way. You can't over-protect them, but you can't under-protect them, either.
THEY ARE INTROVERT
They are shy and are characterized by concern primilary with their own thoughts and feelings rather than with external things.
REASONS:• They are insecure
• Pain and Discomfort
• Frustration
• Social Exclusion
• Watching Violence in the Media
Insecure
• Criticism: If parents always criticized the child by telling him that he is not acting like a man and if he didn't manage to meet their expectations then he might grow up believing that he is not a man enough
• Not meeting expectations: If the child had certain expectations for his behavior and if he didn't meet these expectations then he might also develop such self doubts
• Feeling inferior to other men: If a man always compares himself unfavorably to other men then there is a big possibility that he will develop self doubts
Pain and Discomfort
• Certain situations are conducive to aggression that even the most docile person will resort to aggression.
• Pain increases the probability that an organism will aggress.
Frustration
• Closeness to the goal object.
• The greater the closeness to the goal, the greater the frustration when it is not achieved and the higher the probability of aggression.
Social Exclusion
• Excluded
Being excluded from a group of peers can lead to considerable aggression in the laboratory .People who feel socially rejected are more likely to see others' actions as hostile and are more likely to behave in hurtful ways toward people they have never even met.
Watching Violence in the Media
• Being exposed to violence on TV increases aggressive behavior in children
• More violence people watch on TV as children, the more violence they exhibit years later as teens and adults
HELPING BEHAVIOURS
Refers to voluntary action intended to help the other with reward regarded or disregarded.
Altruism:Helping another person with no expectation of receiving a reward.
Prosocial Behavior:Behavior that helps others regardless of the helper’s motive.
Why do we help? (Reasons)
• Social norms• Social Exchange• Similarity• Reducing Guilt Feeling• Relive their Own Sadness
SOCIAL NORMS
Two basic social norms are common in human societies.
1)Norm of reciprocity 2)Norm of social responsibility
Norm of Reciprocity:
Social rule that we are obligated to help those who help us.
“if you don’t go somebody’s funeral, they won’t come to yours” (yogi Berra)
(e.g. if we help someone, he / she will help in return)
Norm of social responsibility
Social rule that we should help those who depend on us.
(e.g. parents care for their children, teachers guide student)
Social Exchange
Social exchange theory :The theory that social relationships are best understood by people’s desire to maximize their benefits and minimize their cost.
To obtain recognition and positive feedback at low cost
“man do not value a good deed unless it brings a reward”
(Ovid, Epistulae ex ponto)
Reducing Guilt Feeling
The idea that good deeds, cancel bad deeds.Relive their Own Sadness
Help someone else with the goal of helping self
Why Do Some People Help More Than Others?
The Effect of Mood on HelpingFeel Good , Do Good
Closeness : more likely to help those we know
“it’s curious how, when you’re in love, you yearn to go about doing acts of kindness to everybody.
(P.G Wodehouse, the mating season ,1949)
36
No
yes
No
yes
yes
No
NO help
NO help
NO help
Try to help
Interpret as emergency?
Assume responsibility?
Notice the incident?