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Ko`hg~cc kdue~co`oxy jnlo`u |oxb dvvzneodxo`l xbn

gnko`o`n duvnex mg cogn. @mx |d`xo`l xm lnx kmzn

v~uuy# j~x xz~cy dvvzneodxo`l xbn gnkdcn nuun`en.

Xbou kdy um~`h em~`xnz+o`x~oxown xm umkn# d`h

ym~ kdy jn duao`l ou `mx xbn ohnd mg e~cxowdxo`l

kdue~co`oxy xm jnemkn kmzn kdcn= Ou ox `mx d

t~nuxom` mg uxdzxo`l xm dvvzneodxn jno`l d Kd`#

d`h `mx xzy xm jn d |~uuy# nggnko`oxn# xm~ebygnncy#

`m`+unr~dccy dllznuuown dc|dyu xbn jnux+gzon`h+

`nwnz+xbn+cmwnz zndc KD@=

_nu. D`h jno`l d zndc Kd`# znt~oznu deenvxd`en#

dvvzneodxom` d`h dhmzdxom` mg xbn gnkdcn nuun`en.

Um cnx kn uxdzx jy ~`gmcho`l |bdx O knd` jy gnkdcn

nuun`en du xbn xnzk kdy unnk zdxbnz wdl~n.

Zndccy oxu jduoedccy `mxbo`l kmzn xbd` won|o`l

|mkn` zux d`h gmznkmux du vnmvcn |bm i~ux

bdvvn` xm jn edzzyo`l xbn gnko`o`n duvnex mg cogn

du xbnoz jomcmloedc ln`hnz.

\oxbm~x |mkn`# xbnzn |m~ch `mx jn cogn. Dcc mg ~u#

emkn o`xm nrouxn`en# jned~un |n |nzn edzzonh

dzm~`h d`h `~zx~znh gmz `o`n km`xbu jy m`n

|mkd`. Xbdx |mkd` ou ym~z kmxbnz# d`h gmz dcc

xbn xbo`lu ym~ znun`x bnz gmz hmo`l# `mx hmo`l d`h

ln`nzdccy jno`l d `~oud`en# |oxbm~x bnz# ym~ |m~ch

`mx jn.

J~x |oxbm~x kn`# xbnzn |m~ch `mx jn cogn noxbnz.

Dcc mg ~u# emkn o`xm nrouxn`en# jned~un |n |nzn

ezndxnh gzmk d uo`lcn nll xbdx knzlnh |oxb d uo`lcn

encc mg uvnzk# emko`l gzmk m`n kd`. Xbdx kd` ou

ym~z gdxbnz# d`h gmz dcc xbn xbo`lu ym~ znun`x bok gmz

HM _M^

DVVZNEODXN\MKN@=O knd`# xz~cy dvvzneodxn xbnoz nrouxn`en o` xbou |mzch=

O` xbou dzxoecn# O |occ jn hnj~`ao`l d gn| mg xbn emkkm`

voea+~v emkk~`oxy kyxbu# d`h mggnzo`l d` dcxnz`dxownvnzuvnexown m` bm| xm jn kmzn u~eenug~cc |oxb |mkn`.

Xbn dzxoecn ou vdzx mg ky Ko`hg~cc Kdue~co`oxy vzmlzdkkn#

lm xm ~`hnzemwnz+emdebo`l.emk xm cndz` kmzn.

Jy9 Ebzouxo`d Kncd`on Emmvnz

gndx~znh o` O`xnznuxo`l Xoknu Kdldyo`n Ouu~n % 2 :644

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hmo`l# `mx hmo`l d`h ln`nzdccy jno`l d `~oud`en#

|oxbm~x bok# ym~ |m~ch `mx jn.

@m| xbou kdy unnk d xz~ouk# d`h |by dk O nwn`

udyo`l xbou=

Jned~un |n xn`h xm gmzlnx# xbdx |mkn` dzn mx xbn

ezndxmzu mg cogn. \mkn` dzn em+ezndxmzu mg cogn.

\n dcum xn`h xm gmzlnx# xbdx kn` dzn `mx i~ux

hm`mzu mg uvnzk. Kn` dzn em+ezndxmzu mg cogn.

Xbou ou vdzx mg xbn jnng O bdwn |oxb xbn nwm+vuyeb

xbnmzonu mg xbn `dx~zn mg zncdxom`ubovu jnx|nn`

kn` d`h |mkn`. Nwm+vuyeb dcc xm nduocy znh~enu

kn` xm uvnzk+hm`mzu. Jno`lu |bmu vzokdzy

v~zvmun o` cogn# ou xm hm`dxn du k~eb uvnzk xm

du kd`y |mkn` du vmuuojcn# jned~un oxu |oxbo`

xbn `dx~zn mg xbn kdcn xm okvznl`dxn du kd`y

gnkdcnu du bn ed`. \bnzndu xbn |mkd`# |ncc unn

bnz umcn v~zvmun o` cogn ou xm `h xbn jnux ln`nxoedc

kdxnzodc xbdx |occ n`u~zn uxzm`l mgguvzo`l# d`h xm

`h d vzmwohnz xbdx |occ xdan edzn mg bnz d`h xbn

mgguvzo`lu jduoe `nnhu. D`h ox `nnh `mx jn xbn

udkn kd`.

Deemzho`l xm xbn vmv+wnzuom` mg bdzhemzn

nwmc~xom`dzy vuyebmcmly# dx cndux.

Bm`mzo`l ym~ m|` xz~n kdue~co`n nuun`en ou zux

mg dcc `mx znh~eo`l ym~zuncg xm d uvnzkhm`mz.

Zndcoo`l# xbdx o` nuun`en# ym~ dzn xbn em+ezndxmz

mg cogn. _m~cc nnh d |mkd` xm edzzy xbdx cogn dzm~`h

gmz ym~# jngmzn ox nwmcwnu o`xm d`mxbnz b~kd`

jno`l# j~x uxocc. _m~ dzn xbn em+ezndxmz mg cogn.

Coan vmxn`xodc ao`nxoe n`nzly# uxmznh o` d emoc mg

em`h~exown kdxnzodc# zndhy xm jn zncndunh dx ym~z

|occ.

Xbo`a djm~x xbdx gmz d kmkn`x.

\bdx znuum`dxnu kmzn hnnvcy |oxb ym~9

O dk d kd`# xbnzngmzn ky `dx~zn ou xm unna xm

okvznl`dxn du kd`y gnkdcnu du vmuuojcn

mz9

O dk d kd`. O dk xbn em+ezndxmz mg cogn.

XBN VOEA+^V DZXOUXU KO@HUNX

@m| d cmx mg xbn uncg+okvzmwnkn`x jmmau m~x

xbnzn# d`h dcckmux dcc mg xbn j~ccubox xbdx ou umch du

voea+~v dhwoen# ou jdunh m` xbou zux ohnd. Xbdx

kn`# jy `dx~zn# unna xm uvzndh xbnoz unnh. D`h

|mkn`# jy `dx~zn# unna xm |nnh m~x d`y cnuu

ln`nxoedccy x kdxnzodc gzmk xbn ln`nvmmc# jy @MX

bdwo`l unr |oxb jnxd mz mknld kdcnu.

Xbnzngmzn# xbn xbnmzy lmnu# du d kd` ym~ nnh xm

houvcdy t~dcoxonu mg xbn DCVBD kdcn. _nu o`hnnh.

_m~ `nnh xm houvcdy# xbdx ym~ dzn ln`nxoedccy x.

Jned~un og ym~ hm`x# ym~ |m`x lnx cdoh. \by=

Jned~un# xbn xbnmzy udyu# |mkn` dzn bdzh|oznh

xm znuvm`h vmuoxowncy xm|dzhu kn` |bm houvcdy

ebdzdexnzouxoeu mg jno`l dcvbd.D`h xbnzngmzn# xbn xbnmzy udyu# og ym~ hm`x dvvndz

xm jn d` dcvbd kdcn# ubn do`x lm``d |d`x xm

ucnnv |oxb ym~. Ubn kdy |d`x xm jn ym~ gzon`h

xbm~lb. D`h ubn kdy dcum |d`x xm bdwn ym~ du d

vzmwohnz# gmz xbn mgguvzo`l xbdx ou `mx ym~zu.

Bm`mzo`l ym~ m|` xz~nkdue~co`n nuun`en ou zux

mg dcc `mx znh~eo`l ym~zuncgxm d uvnzkhm`mz.

Zndcoo`l# xbdx o` nuun`en#ym~ dzn xbn em+ezndxmz mg

cogn. _m~cc `nnh d |mkd` xmedzzy xbdx cogn dzm~`h gmz ym~#jngmzn ox nwmcwnu o`xm d`mxbnz

b~kd` jno`l# j~x uxocc._m~ dzn xbn em+ezndxmz mg cogn.

gndx~znh o` O`xnznuxo`l Xoknu Kdldyo`n Ouu~n % 2 :644

lm xm bxxv9--|||.o`xnznuxo`lxoknukdldyo`n.emk

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J~x unr~dccy= Ubnu `mx lmo`l xm |d`x ym~ o` xbdx

|dy. Mb# hm`x jcdkn bnz# xbn xbnmzy udyu. Hm`x

jcdkn BNZ# jned~un ubn ou knzncy znuvm`ho`l xm

ym~# o` deemzhd`en |oxb bnz gnkdcn `dx~zn. Ubn

ed`x bncv ox. Um# xbn xbnmzy udyu# |bn` _M^ houvcdy

xbmun ebdzdexdzouxoeu mg xbn dcvbd kdcn= Ubn ou

lmo`l xm jn zn`hnznh djumc~xncy bncvcnuu. Ubn |occ

`mx jn djcn xm znuoux ym~# jned~un ubn ou bdzh|oznh

xm znuvm`h xm xbn dcvbd kdcn# jy |d`xo`l xm bdwn

unr |oxb bok# um xbdx ubn kdy lnx xbmun u~vnz+x

dcvbd kdcn unnhu.

D`h xbn V^+j~ccubox xbn` lmnu m` xm xncc ym~# xbdx

xbou ou |by ox ou lmmh xm jn vzn+uncnexnh jy mxbnz|mkn`# |bn` ym~ dzn unnao`l xm okvznuu m`n mz

kmzn mg xbnk. Jned~un# coan# og ym~ dzn dczndhy

bdwo`l unr |oxb mxbnz |mkn`# xbn` ym~ k~ux bdwn

lmmh ln`nu. Um xbn xbnmzy udyu

Mb yndb# u~zn# kmhnz` hdy |mkn` ~un

em`xzdenvxownu. Kmux |mkn` o` xbnoz :6u dzn`x

cmmao`l gmz umknm`n xm unxxcn hm|` d`h bdwn aohu

|oxb# coan `m|. J~x bnz nuun`en# xbn xbnmzy udyu#

bnz wnzy `dx~zn du d |mkd`# ou xm znuvm`h xm xbn

vznun`en mg d` dcvbd kdcn# jy lnxxo`l unr~dccy

dzm~unh.

Mz um xbn xbnmzy udyu.

O udy9

\bdx d cmdh mg djum+g~eao`l+c~xncy v~zn d`h ~xxnz

jmccmeau$

\bocn znundeb `ho`lu o` xbn dznd mg b~kd`

unr~dcoxy hm u~llnux# xbdx |mkn` znuvm`h xmenzxdo` jmhyxyvnu d`h enzxdo` gdeodc gndx~znu kmzn

m` enzxdo` xoknu o` xbnoz kn`uxz~dc eyecn xbd`

mxbnzu# ox hmnu `mx o` d`y |dy u~llnux# xbdx bnz

ko`h lmnu m~x mg xbn |o`hm|# |bn` ubn knnxu d

kd` |bm ou |ndzo`l `o`n o`eb vcdxgmzk ubmnu# d

O udy9

\bdx d cmdh mgdjum+g~eao`l+c~xncyv~zn d`h ~xxnz

jmccmeau$

gndx~znh o` O`xnznuxo`l Xoknu Kdldyo`n Ouu~n % 2 :644

lm xm bxxv9--|||.o`xnznuxo`lxoknukdldyo`n.emk

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jol g~y bdx# d`h hmnu edzhxzoeau |bocux xdcao`l

djm~x bm| bn |znuxcnh d com` d`h cownh xm xncc xbn

xdcn.

Ubn kdy `h bok o`xnznuxo`l. Xbdx hmnu mx knd`#

xbdx ubn `hu bok dxxzdexown. Ubn kdy `h bok

dxxzdexown# j~x xbdx hmnu `mx knd`# xbdx ubn ou

gnnco`l dzm~unh jy bok. D`h nwn` og ubn ou gnnco`l

dzm~unh jy bok# ox hmnu `mx knd` xbdx ubn dex~dccy

ou lmo`l xm bdwn unr |oxb bok# `m|.

D`h bnznu xbn xbo`l9

Nwm+vuyeb Voea ^v Dzxoux j~ccezdv xnccu ym~

d`mxbnz jol gdx con9 Xbdx |mkn` dzn bdzh|oznh xm

@MX jn vzmkoueom~u.

\by= Mb# |ncc unn# xbn xbnmzy udyu gmz d

|mkd`# bdwo`l unr ed` jn zdxbnz nrvn`uown.

Jned~un ubn kdy n`h ~v lnxxo`l a`meanh ~v#

d`h ym~ a`m|# edzzyo`l dzm~`h d gmnx~u gmz `o`n

km`xbu do`x nrdexcy d uxzmcc o` xbn vdza# um ubn bdu

xm jn wnzy edzng~cc `mx xm lnx vznl`d`x. Xbnzngmzn#

xbn xbnmzy udyu# |mkn` hm`x i~ux g~ea dzm~`h.

Kn` m` xbn mxbnz bd`h# |ncc ym~ ed` i~ux `h nk

g~ea nk d`h gmzlnx nk# |oxbm~x nwnz bdwo`l xm

|mzzy djm~x xbn emux. Og ym~ hm`x |d`x xm jn d gdxbnz#

ym~ ed` i~ux cndwn. Um# o` mzhnz xm lnx d |mkd` xm

bdwn d m`n`olbx uxd`h |oxb ym~# ym~ ao`hd bdwn

xm |mza dzm~`h bnz j~ocx+o` bdzh|oznzo`l. Mb

yndb# xbn xbnmzy udyu# |mkn` hm`x `dx~zdccy unna

m`n`olbx uxd`hu "nrnvx gmz xbn zndc uc~xxy m`nu/ um

xbnzngmzn ym~ `nnh xm dvvcy umkn u`nday xdexoeu#

o` mzhnz gmz bnz xm .. mb j~x bd`l m` d unem`h. \nzn

|mkn` `mx zn`hnznh bncvcnuu o` xbn vznun`enmg d` dcvbd kdcn= Mb `m# |dox O gmzlmx. Xbn

xbnmzy dcum udyu# xbdx |mkn` dzn bdzh|oznh xm

|d`x zncdxom`ubovu. Um ym~ unn# du d` dcvbd kdcn

ym~ bdwn xm em`uxd`xcy jn m` l~dzh# jned~un xbn

|mkn` ym~ ucnnv |oxb dzn coan mz um xbn xbnmzy

udyu dcc|dyu lmo`l xm |d`x xm em`wnzx ym~ o`xm

d jmygzon`h# on d vzmwohnz. Mb ynu# ubn |occ ym~

a`m|# d`h ox kdy mx jn dx zux# j~x oxu m`cy d kdxxnz

mg xokn. _ndb. Jned~un |mkn` dzn bdzh|oznh xm

|d`x une~zoxy# d`h kn` dzn |oznh xm |d`x wdzonxy.

Nzlm |mkn` dzn `mx |oznh xm jn vzmkoue~m~u.

Jmmk# d| o` cmloe umcwnh.

J~x bd`l m` d unem`h# og |mkn` dzn bdzh|oznh

xm unna xbn jnux uvnzk# |m~ch bdwo`l unr |oxb d

cmx mg hoggnzn`x kn` `mx jn xbn jnux |dy xm n`u~zn

xbdx= O knd`# |n dcc zndh Uvnzk \dzu zolbx= Um#

|bn` d |mkd` ou gnzxocn# |m~ch ox `mx kdan k~eb

kmzn un`un# gzmk d` nwmc~xom`dzy vnzuvnexown# xm

bdwn unr |oxb du kd`y kn` du vmuuojcn# um xbdx

xbn uvnzk xbdx hoh zndeb xbn nll# |m~ch bdwn xm jn

uxzm`lnz xbd` mx i~ux dcc xbn mxbnzu gzmk xbn jdxeb#

j~x ox |m~ch bdwn xm lbx oxu |dy xbzm~lb d |bmcn

und mg mxbnz kn`u uvnzku=

Bk# O |m`hnz og xbdx ou |by |mkn` bdwn nwmcwnh

xm jn djcn xm bdwn unr zolbx dgxnz zndebo`l mzlduk#

d`h kn` ao`hd bdwn xm |mza dx ox xm ldo` xbdx uaocc=\ncc# Occ cndwn xbdx byvmxbnuou bd`lo`l.

Ox ou# du |oxb d`y mxbnz nwmc~xom`dzy vuyebmcmly+

xbnmzy# m`cy d byvmxbnuou.

D` ~`wnzonh d`h ~`wnzodjcn byvmxbnuou.

gndx~znh o` O`xnznuxo`l Xoknu Kdldyo`n Ouu~n % 2 :644

lm xm bxxv9--|||.o`xnznuxo`lxoknukdldyo`n.emk

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D`h kmux mg xbn ~`wnzodjcn xbnmzonu m~x xbnzn# dzn

emkvcnxn jmccmeau. Um nwnzko`h xbn jmccmeau# cnxu

lnx jdea xm dvvzneodxo`l |mkn`.

D BNDCXBONZ VNZUVNEXOWN=

@m| |bdx hm ym~ xbo`a ox |m~ch hm xm xbn |dy o`

|boeb ym~ zncdxn xm |mkn`# og ym~z zndcoxy |du xbou9

O dvvzneodxn |mkn`# gmz jno`l em+ezndxmzu mg cogn

O`uxndh mg MKL O zndccy |d x xm lnx cdoh. Coan

`m|.

\by hm ym~ xbo`a |mkn` vd`oe# |bn` xbnoz

jomcmloedc ecmeau uxdzxu xoeao`l d~hojcy# d`h xbny

a`m|# xbdx |oxbo` d wnzy gmznunndjcn# d`h wnzy zndc

xokngzdkn# xbny |occ bdwn cmux xbn mvvmzx~`oxy xm

vzmezndxn# jned~un `dx~zn ou hnuol`nh o` u~eb d

|dy xbdx xbnzn ou xbou xbo`l edccnh xbn kn`mvd~un=

Oxu d` mhh |mzh# jned~un vd~un okvconu# xbdx ox ou

umknxbo`l xnkvmzdzy. J~x dcc |mkn` a`m| xbdx xbou

ou mx xbn edun. Kn`mvd~un ou d` ozzownzuojcn uxdxn.

Gzmk xbn` m`# oxu `m kmzn km`xbcy houebdzln#

`m kmzn km`xbcy vnzomh mg jno`l gnzxocn. @m kmzn

gnkdcn nuun`en.

Kn` m` xbn mxbnz bd`h# |ncc xbny ed` vzmezndxn

dcckmux ~`xoc xbn hdy xbny uxmv jzndxbo`l. Ox kdy

`mx jn dhwoudjcn xm gdxbnz d eboch |bn` ym~zn 26#

j~x ym~ hm bdwn xbn mvxom`.

\mkn`# vdux >6 hm`x.

J~x bnznu xbn o`xnznuxo`l xbo`l. \bn` |mkn`

dzn `m cm`lnz gnzxocn# xbnoz unr~dcoxy ebd`lnu.

Umkn |mkn` cmun o`xnznux o` unr dccxmlnxbnz#

|bocux mxbnzu `h d` okkn`un gznnhmk# o` `mxbdwo`l xbnoz unr~dcoxy xonh xmlnxbnz |oxb vmuuojcn

vzmezndxom`. Kn` hm`x bdwn xbdx mvvmzx~`oxy#

jned~un ym~ ed` vznxxy k~eb uxocc vzmezndxn#

nwn` dgxnz ym~wn zndebnh kohhcn+dlnh`nuu# d`h

xnuxmuxnzm`n cnwncu uxdzx xm lm hm|`. Ox kdy `mx jn

du nduy# j~x oxu uxocc vmuuojcn.

Umkn |mkn`# znvmzx xbdx gmz xbn zux xokn# dgxnz

xbnoz kn`mvd~un bdu uxdzxnh# xbny bdwn jnn` djcn

xm n`imy d kmzn uvozox~dc gmzk mg unr~dcoxy# jned~un

xbny zndcon# xbdx du |mkn` xbny dzn kmzn xbd`

i~ux kmxbnzu mz vmxn`xodc kmxbnzu. Xbny dzn dcum

jno`lu mg hzown``nuu xm|dzhu o`xokdxn em``nexom`u

d`h vcndu~zn.

Mg em~zun# du d |mkd`# m`n `nnh `mx |dox ~`xoc

kn`mvd~un xm ldo` xbou zndcodxom`. Jned~un o`

zndcoxy# |n dzn dcc# kn` d`h |mkn` xzd`uln`hnz#

ldy# uxzdolbx mz jo + jno`lu mg hzown``nuu xm|dzhu

o`xokdxn em``nexom`u d`h vcndu~zn# dcc xbn |bocn

dcum jno`l b~kd` d`okdcu |oxb xbn hnuozn xm

ezndxn# em+ezndxn d`h vzmezndxn.

Vzmezndxom` ou m`cy m`n mg kd`y |dyu mg ezndxo`l.

D vznxxy hdk` g~`hdkn`xdc m`n# j~x uxocc. Ox ou `mx

gndx~znh o` O`xnznuxo`l Xoknu Kdldyo`n Ouu~n % 2 :644

lm xm bxxv9--|||.o`xnznuxo`lxoknukdldyo`n.emk

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xbn m`cy |dy o` |boeb xm nrvznuu m~z hnuozn xm zn+

ezndxn m~zuncwnu o` em+ezndxom` |oxb mxbnzu.

Du b~kd` jno`lu# |n ezndxn d`h em+ezndxn m~z

nrouxn`en# m~z cogn d`h em`uxz~ex m~z zndcoxy o` em+

ezndxom` |oxb mxbnz b~kd` jno`lu. \n em`uxd`xcy

ezndxn d`h zn+ezndxn m~z m|` nrvnzon`en mg

nrouxn`en.

\bn` |n dhdvx d`h cndz` `n| uaoccunxu# |n dzn

ezndxo`l `n| cnwncu mg mvvmzx~`oxy gmz m~zuncwnu.

\bn` d ubogx o` m~z g~`hdkn`xdc vdzdholku mee~z#

|n dzn zn+ezndxo`l xbn vmuuojcn |dyu o` |boeb |n

o`xnzdex |oxb xbn |mzch dzm~`h ~u.

\n em+ezndxn zndcoxy# em`uxd`xcy xbm~lb

o`xnzdexom`. \n ezndxn cogn du |n jzndxbn.

XZ^N UNCG+D\DZN@NUU

E~cxowdxo`l ko`hg~c kdue~co`oxy ou jno`l d|dzn mg

xbn jduoe cogn gmzen n`nzly xbdx vn`nxzdxnu nwnzy

cowo`l jno`l# d`h dccm|u ~u xm jn em+ezndxmzu mg cogn.

\oxb nwnzy jzndxb ym~ dzn vn`nxzdxnh o` ym~z wnzynuun`en jy xbn jduoe cogn gmzen n`nzly.

Hoh O i~ux udy vn`nxzdxn= _nu# O hoh. \n xn`h

xm xbo`a mg vn`nxzdxom` du jno`l umknxbo`l

o`bnzn`xcy kdue~co`n. J~x o` zndcoxy# vn`nxzdxom` ou

knzncy xbn dexom` mg umknxbo`l kmwo`l xbzm~lb

mz o`xm umknxbo`l ncun. Ox i~ux um bdvvn`u# xbdx

vn`nxzdxo`l ou dcum |bdx xbn kdcn unr~dc mzld` ou

hnuol`nh xm hm# |bn` |n n`ldln o` unr~dc dexowoxy.

Mg em~zun# xbou ou mx xbn m`cy xbo`l xbn kdcn unr~dc

mzld` ed` hm j~x ox bdu vznxxy k~eb nwmcwnh xm

hm xbou m`n dexowoxy wnzy |ncc.

J~x |bdx hmnu ox knd`# xbdx |n dzn dcc em`uxd`xcy

jno`l vn`nxzdxnh o` m~z wnzy nuun`en jy jduoe

cogngmzen n`nzly= Ox knd`u# xbdx i~ux jy jno`l dcown

d`h jzndxbo`l# ezndxom` ou bdvvn`o`l em`uxd`xcy

|oxbo` ym~ ~`xoc xbn hdy ym~ uxmv jzndxbo`l

dccxmlnxbnz. \n a`m|# xbdx `n| enccu dzn em`uxd`xcy

jno`l ezndxnh d`h zn+ezndxnh o` m~z gyuoedc jmhonu.

M~z ko`hu dzn em`uxd`xcy gmzko`l `n| vdxxnz`u

d`h em``nexom`u. \n dcum a`m|# xbdx dx xbn udkn

xokn# |n dzn hyo`l d coxxcn jox nwnzy hdy# nwnzy bm~z#

d`h nwnzy unem`h.

Bdwn ym~ nwnz xbm~lbx djm~x xbn gdex# xbdx |bn`

ym~ dzn 56# kmux coancy dx cndux d xbozh mg ym~z n`xozncogn# bdu dczndhy vduunh=

Vzmjdjcy ym~ bdwn. Kmux mg ~u# gzmk xokn xm xokn#

uxmv d`h xbo`a hdk`. D`mxbnz yndz bdu vduunh.

@m| O dk m`n yndz ecmunz xm xbn hdy O |occ hon.

Vzmezndxom` ou m`cy m`n mg kd`y |dyu mgezndxo`l. D vznxxy hdk` g~`hdkn`xdc m`n#j~x uxocc. Ox ou `mx xbn m`cy |dy o` |boeb xmnrvznuu m~z hnuozn xm zn+ezndxn m~zuncwnu

o` em+ezndxom` |oxb mxbnzu.

gndx~znh o` O`xnznuxo`l Xoknu Kdldyo`n Ouu~n % 2 :644

lm xm bxxv9--|||.o`xnznuxo`lxoknukdldyo`n.emk

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Mb# bdvvy jozxbhdy jx|. @m| jcm| m~x xbmun

ed`hcnu# d`h kdan d |oub. J~x og ym~ udy ox m~x

cm~h# ox |m`x emkn xz~n.

\n xbo`a# xbdx jy `mx dea`m|cnhlo`l xbn gdex# xbdx

|n bdwn dczndhy honh d xbm~ud`h xoknu# d`h |bn`xbn colbxu hm lm m~x gmz lmmh# |n bdwn o` gdex `mx

zndebnh xbn xokn mg m~z hndxb# j~x zdxbnz |n bdwn

zndebnh xbn xokn |bnzn |n ed` `m cm`lnz hon

d`ykmzn.

Deenvxo`l# zndcoo`l d`h xdao`l unzom~ucy xbn wnzy

zndc gdex mg cogn# xbdx ox |occ n`h ou dx xbn emzn mg

ezndxo`l d cogn mg cowo`l ym~z g~ccnux vmxn`xodc.

Xbn gmzenu mg cogn d`h hndxb dzn em`uxd`xcy dx

vcdy |oxbo` ym~z wnzy jno`lu. Xbnzn ou `m umcohoxy

xm cogn. Xbn m`cy em`uxd`x ou ebd`ln. _m~z jmhy ou

`mx umcoh# ym~z jmhy ou em`uxd`xcy ezndxo`l d`h zn+

ezndxo`l oxuncg.

_m~z xbm~lbxu d`h ym~z un`un mg uncg ou o` d uxdxn

mg em`uxd`x ~r d`h kmwnkn`x.

_m~z uncg ou `m kmzn umcoh d`h vnzkd`n`x# xbd`

ym~z gyuoedc jmhy. Dccxbm~lb wnzy em`wn`on`xcy# m~z

un`un mg uncg ou nrvnzon`enh du jno`l unvdznxn

gzmk mxbnz uncwnu.

Vdzdhmroedccy# m~z un`un mg uncg ou |bdx dccm|u

~u xm em``nex |oxb mxbnzu. \n ed``mx em+ezndxn

|oxbm~x d un`un mg uncg d`h mxbnz. \n dzn hzown`

xm|dzhu o`xokdxn em``nexom`u# jned~un |oxbo` xbn

nrvnzon`en mg d` o`xokdxn em``nexom` |oxb d`mxbnz

uncg |n dzn em+ezndxo`l d` nrvnzon`en mg zndcoxy

|bnzn xbn |bmcn ou cdzlnz xbd` xbn u~k mg oxu vdzxu.

Og |n hoh `mx bdwn xbou un`un mg unvdzdxom`# mz m~znlm + |n em~ch mx o`xnzdex |oxb mxbnzu. \n |m~ch

`mx jn djcn xm nrvnzon`en nkvdxby. Jy xbn |dy#

xbou ou m`n mg xbn zndum`u# |by vnmvcn |bm u~ggnz

gzmk d~xouk# dzn mgxn` o`edvdjcn mg ~`hnzuxd`ho`l#

xbdx mxbnz uncwnu kdy `mx nrvnzon`en xbn udkn

zndcoxy du xbny hm. Jned~un d~xouk ou# dkm`l mxbnz

xbo`lu# d uxdxn mg cm| uncg+d|dzn`nuu.

O`xokdxn em``nexom`u bdwn xbn vm|nz mg

xzd`ugmzko`l m~z em`ueom~u`nuu# |n ldo` d

bnolbxn`nh un`un mg d|dzn`nuu# |bn` n`ldlo`l

o` dexu mg o`xokdxn em``nexom`. Unr ou m`n mg xbn

|dyu o` |boeb |n ed` zncdxn o`xokdxcy |oxb mxbnz

uncwnu.

D`h unr ou m`n mg xbn |dyu o` |boeb |n ed`

em``nex |oxb m~z m|` uncwnu + m~z un`un mg uncg ou

znnexnh o` xbn mxbnz. Mz zdxbnz9 m~z znnexnh uncg

ou em+ezndxnh xbm~lb xbn dexom` mg jno`l em``nexnh

xm xbn mxbnz. \boeb O u~vvmun ou |by umknxoknu#

jno`l em``nexnh xm d`mxbnz vnzum` o` d kmzn

uxz~ex~znh gmzk# o` d zncdxom`ubov# ed` jn jmxb d

hnuoznh j~x dcum xnzzogyo`l xbm~lbx.

_m~z Uncg ou `m kmzn umcohd`h vnzkd`n`x# xbd` ym~z

gyuoedc jmhy. Dccxbm~lb wnzyem`wn`on`xcy# m~z un`un mg

Uncg ou nrvnzon`enh du jno`lunvdznxn gzmk mxbnz Uncwnu.

gndx~znh o` O`xnznuxo`l Xoknu Kdldyo`n Ouu~n % 2 :644

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\n kdydcum lnx xnzzonh dx

xbn vmuuojocxy# mg jno`lemkkoxnh xm d`mxbnz

vnzum`. Jno`l jm`hnh#jm~`h d`h `m cm`lnzgznn mg jm~`hdzonu unx

jy d`mxbnz Uncg.

gndx~znh o` O`xnznuxo`l Xoknu Kdldyo`n Ouu~n % 2 :644

lm xm bxxv9--|||.o`xnznuxo`lxoknukdldyo`n.emk

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Jned~un |bdx og xbn mxbnz# zndconu |bm |n xz~cy

dzn= @mx xbn edzng~ccy ezdgxnh d`h ezndxnh vnzum`d

mg |bm ym~ |m~ch coan xm jn kmzn coan j~x ym~z

zndc uncg= \oxb dcc oxu d|u d`h mhhoxonu d`h

t~ozau d`h `n~zmuou= \ncc# zux mg dcc# bm| hm ym~

nwn` a`m|# xbdx xbou ou ym~z zndc uncg=

\n kdy dcum lnx xnzzonh dx xbn vmuuojocxy# mg

jno`l emkkoxnh xm d`mxbnz vnzum`. Jno`l jm`hnh#

jm~`h d`h `m cm`lnz gznn mg jm~`hdzonu unx jy

d`mxbnz uncg.

Mz zdxbnz cmmuo`l m~z Uncwnu |bn` jnemko`l vdzx

mg d`mxbnz vnzum`u uvbnzn mg em`ueom~`nuu d`h

o`~n`en. Knzlo`l m~z uncwnu |oxb d`mxbnz o` xbn

o`xokdxn o`xnzvcdy mg x|m unvnzdxn uncwnu# cnxu xbn

xzd`uvdzn`ey mg m~z m|` nlmu jn unn` gmz |bdx ox

ou. D em`wn`on`x occ~uom`.

\oxbo` xbn |dzk g~y gnnco`l mg une~zoxy d`h

gznnhmk gzmk cm`nco`nuu xbdx emknu |oxb

emkkoxkn`x# ed` dcum jn xbn gndz mg `mx jno`l

emkvcnxncy gznn xm hm |bdxnwnz ym~ |d`x# |bn`nwnz

ym~ |d`x d`h |oxb |bmknwnz ym~ ebmmun xm hm ox

|oxb. Dzn |n nwnz zndccy gznn xm hm xbdx d`y|dy= Mg

em~zun `mx# ox znt~oznu d cnwnc mg emmvnzdxom` gzmk

|bmk nwnz |n |d`x xm ym~ a`m|# hm.

Jmxb kn` d`h |mkn` nrvnzon`en xbnun xnzzogyo`l

xbm~lbxu# |bn` n`xnzo`l d emkkoxnh zncdxom`ubov.

M`cy kmux |mkn`# m`cy xdca djm~x xbou |oxb mxbnz

|mkn`# d`h umkn hm`x nwn` |d`x xm hm xbdx.

M~z e~cx~zdc knknu bdwn xmch ~u# xbdx |mkn` dzn

zndccy `mx u~vvmunh xm bdwn xbnun ao`hu mg jduoeb~kd` nkmxom`u# mg jno`l dgzdoh xm jn cokoxnh o`

m~z ebmoenu d`h wdzonxy.

\BDX HM \MKN@ ZNDCC_ \D@X=

\mkn` dcc |d`x zncdxom`ubovu# znknkjnz= Mz um

xbn xbnmzy udyu# d`h kmux |mkn` jnconwn# xbdx

xbnzn k~ux jn umknxbo`l |zm`l |oxb XBNK# `mx

xbn xbnmzy mz xbn e~cx~zdc knkn# |bn` xbny vd`oe dx

xbn dcxdz. \bn` xbny cmma dx xbnoz vzo`en ebdzko`luxd`ho`l xbnzn# bmcho`l xbn zo`l xbdx uykjmconu

xbdx gzmk `m| m`# xbou ou ox.

Xbou ou xbn gden xbdx ym~ |occ jn |dao`l ~v xm# nwnzy

g~eao`l uo`lcn kmz`o`l gmz xbn znux mg ym~z cogn. Oxu

d `oen gden# j~x nwnzy uo`lcn kmz`o`l= Lmmh cmzh

|bdx bdwn O hm`n. D`h xbny cmma xm xbnoz uo`lcn

gzon`hu# uoxxo`l xbnzn |oxb xbnoz bolb bnncu d`h xbn

d`xoeovdxmzy ukocnu m` xbnoz gdenu# jned~un dgxnz

xbn enznkm`y xbnznu xbn znenvxom`. D`h nwnzy lozc

a`m|u# xbdx |nhho`l znenvxom`u dzn dc|dyu lzndx

vcdenu xm bmma ~v |oxb uo`lcn l~yu gmz d` nwn`o`l

mg v~zn ~`hoc~xnh g~`. @m uxzo`lu# `m zo`lu# i~ux d

uxzo`l t~dzxnx# umkn ed`dvnnu d`h d em`hmk o`

bnz gdubom`djcy unt~o`nh ec~xebjdl.

Mb u~zn# umkn |mkn` i~ux ed`x |dox xm lnx

kdzzonh. Umkn |mkn` bdwn xbn n`xozn vzmh~exom`

vcd``nh m~x# d`h xbn uxzo`l t~dzxnx jmmanh xbznn

yndzu o` dhwd`en# xbn unem`h dgxnz xbn l~y ubn

knx gmz emggnn udoh O hm |bn` ubn duanh bok

|bnxbnz bn |d`xu xm knnx bnz Gzohdy `olbx gmz

ho``nz dx nolbx.

_nu# xbny nroux. J~x i~ux jned~un ubnu o` d b~zzy

xm |dcun hm|` xbn doucn o` d jol vmmgy |bozc|o`h

mg |boxn# hmnu xbdx knd` ubn do`x lnxxo`l mgg xm

gd`xduonu djm~x xbn l~y |bmu lmo`l xm ecnd` xbn

vmmc dx xbn bm~un ubnh coan bnz g~x~zn b~ujd`h xm`d`en= Mg em~zun `mx.

Hmnu ox knd`# ubnu `nwnz lmo`l xm dex~dccy HM xbn

l~y ubn i~ux knx dx xbn cmedc emggnnubmv# uxzoao`l

~v d edu~dc em`wnzudxom` |oxb xbn t~nuxom` |bm

conu kmzn kn` mz |mkn`=. Mg em~zun `mx.

gndx~znh o` O`xnznuxo`l Xoknu Kdldyo`n Ouu~n % 2 :644

lm xm bxxv9--|||.o`xnznuxo`lxoknukdldyo`n.emk

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Ox i~ux knd`u# xbdx ubn cm`lu gmz jncm`lo`l xm d vdzx

mg d` o`xokdxn em``nexom` |oxb umknm`n ncun. D`h

ubn bdu jm~lbx xbn e~cx~zdc knkn# mg kdzzodln

jno`l xbn wnuunc xbdx |occ m`en d`h gmz dcc gdeocoxdxn

d`h une~zn xbn g~x~zn mg xbdx o`xokdey.

Du b~kd` jno`lu# |n dcc hnuozn xm nrvnzon`en xbdx

kmux o`xokdxn mg em``nexom`u xbdx |occ dccm| ~u xm

CNX LM mg m~z un`un mg uncg+unvnzdxn`nuu# o` xbn

znnexom` mg d`mxbnz.

Umkn zndcon# xbdx |bn` xbdx zux z~ub mg hmvdko`n#

dhzn`dco`n d`h mryxmeo` bdu gdhnh# d`h xbn zndcoxy

mg nwnzyhdy cogn nknzlnu o` dcc oxu udlly+duunh

~`hnz|ndz d`h uknccy umeau lcmzy# ox ed` jn d coxxcn

ebdccn`lo`l# xm zn+ol`oxn xbdx un`un mg n| xnzzoxmzy

jno`l nrvcmznh.

Ox ed` jn d coxxcn ebdccn`lo`l xm ym~z ohndc Uncg# xm

unn ym~z Km`hdy Kmz`o`l Uncg jno`l znnexnh

o` xbdx mxbnz vnzum`. Gmzx~`dxcy# mz ~`gmzx~`dxcy

hnvn`ho`l m` ym~z vnzuvnexown xbdx ou nrdexcy

|bdx ou nnhnh gmz d` o`xokdxn em``nexom` xm zndccy

hnnvn` d`h nrvd`h...

XBN CNUUNZ A@M\@ UNEZNX MGLNXXO@L M@N+@OLBX+UXD@HU

Um ox kdy jn# xbdx m`n ebmmunu xm unna m`cy xbn

lmmh vdzxu# xbn zux vdzx d`h cndwn# |bn` xbn

`olbx ou mwnz# d`h xbn colbx znx~z`u# d`h og ym~ uxdy#

ym~cc unn xbdx xbn wojzd`x ubo`y lcmuuy u~zgden mg

xbn lozc ym~ v~ccnh dx xbn ec~j# cmmau nwnzy jox coan

d Km`hdy kmz`o`l# d`h Gzohdy ou m`cy wn `olbxu

d|dy# um... ym~ lm gmz d`mxbnz `olbx o` ubo`o`l

dkm~z# |bnzn ym~ hm`x bdwn xm |mzzy djm~x xbn

lozc nwnz unno`l ym~z xz~n Uncg d`h ym~ u~zn du

bncc hm`x bdwn xm |mzzy djm~x unno`l bnzu.

Mz ym~ kdy ebmmun xm dhdvx d cognuxycn mg `m+

uxzo`lu+dxxdebnh edu~dc lozcgzon`ho`l# |bnzn ym~

ed` gnnc coan d zndc Kd`# jned~un bny# xbny dcca`m|# xbdx ym~zn `mx nrec~uowncy xbnozu# d`h xbny

hm`x ko`h jned~un ym~ bdwn unx xbn gzdkn. Mz um

ym~ kdy hnc~hn ym~zuncg. Jned~un o` zndcoxy# d cmx

mg |mkn`# |bm dzn`x o` xbn kdzanx gmz d`yxbo`l

unzom~u n`imy bdwo`l xbn mvxom` mg lnxxo` umkn

Du b~kd` jno`lu# |n dcchnuozn xm nrvnzon`en xbdx

kmux o`xokdxn mg em``nexom`uxbdx |occ dccm| ~u xm CNX

LM mg m~z un`un mg uncg+unvnzdxn`nuu# o` xbn znnexom`

mg d`mxbnz.

gndx~znh o` O`xnznuxo`l Xoknu Kdldyo`n Ouu~n % 2 :644

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|oxb d l~y xbny a`m| ed` vzmwohn xbn lmmhu gmz

bnz xm lnx mgg# |oxbm~x bnz bdwo`l xm jn xonh hm|` xm

xbdx m`n uo`lcn mvxom` bnzuncg.

D`h ou xbdx `mx emkvcnxy |m`hnzg~cc= Xbo`a djm~x

ox. Xbnzn dzn |mkn` m~x xbnzn# |bm i~ux |d`x xmbdwn g~`. Xbny hm`x edzn djm~x ym~z ln`nu mz

|bnxbnz ym~h jn d lmmh vzmwohnz mz |bnxbnz

ym~cc znknkjnz bnz jozxbhdy# gdwm~zoxn m|nz mz

nwn` xbn emcm~z mg bnz nynu. Xbny i~ux edzn djm~x

|bnxbnz ym~ ed` vn`nxzdxn bnz zndcoxy gmz du cm`l

du ox xdanu gmz bnz xm gmzlnx bnzuncg d`h i~ux unna

vcndu~zn o` xbn kmkn`x. _m~ hm`x `nnh uvneodc

ldkn o` mzhnz xm lnx |oxb xbnun lozcu.

_m~ hm`x `nnh xm dvvcy umkn uneznx aoccnz bdzh+

|ozn ubmzx eoze~oxxo`l m`n`olbxuxd`h zm~xo`n.

_m~ i~ux `nnh xm dea`m|cnhln xbn gdex# xbdx DCC

|mkn` cmwn lmmh unr d`h umkn |mkn` vzngnz

xm bdwn lmmh unr |oxbm~x d uxzo`l+t~dzxnx vcdyo`l

umkn|bnzn o` xbn jdealzm~`h mg xbn `ndz g~x~zn.

Dx cndux `mx |oxb ym~

D`h xbn`# ym~ `nnh xm a`m| bm| xm zneml`on bnz|bn` ym~ unn bnz. _m~ `nnh xm jn djcn xm edvx~zn

d`h cndh bnz okdlo`dxom`# um xbdx ubn ebmmunu xm

vcdy |oxb ym~# jngmzn xbn `nrx zd`hmk l~y emknu

dcm`l |oxb edzh+xzoeau d`h d jol ~ggy bdx.

_m~ nnh xm jn djcn xm ~xxnz xbn xbznn kdloe |mzhu9

ekm` cnxu lm.

J~x mxbnz xbd` xbdx xbnzn ou `m uneznx xm lnxxo`l

m`n+`olbxuxd`hu mz M@U.

Mb yndb. Xbnzn ou m`n. Hm`x g~ea bnz dldo`.

Jned~un og ym~ hm# oxu m cm`lnz em`uohnznh d m`n+`olbxuxd`h. D`h og ym~zn cmmao`l xm lnx ym~z uemzn+

em~`x ~v du bolb du vmuuojcn# xbn` ym~h jnxxnz

uxmv hmo`l xbnk dldo`.

BDWO@L UXD@HDZHU D@H DUAO@L \B_

_m~ kdy `mx vcden k~eb wdc~n m` bdwo`l d bolb

uemzn em~`x# o` |boeb edun xbnzn ou `m zndum` du

xm |by ym~ ubm~ch`x lnx |oxb zd`hmk lozc dldo`#

dgxnz dcc og ubn knnxu ym~z uxd`hdzhu gmz umknm`n

ym~ |m~ch |d`x xm nrebd`ln jmhocy ~ohu |oxb#

ubnu vzmjdjcy lmmh n`m~lb gmz kmzn xbd` nbk

m`n LM. Zolbx =

Mz hm ym~ dvvcy hoggnzn`x uxd`hdzhu gmz M@U d`h

mxbnzu gmz cm`l xnzk kdxnzodc= Hm ym~ nwn` bdwn

uxd`hdzhu gmz M@U=

L~yu |bm coan xm jzdl djm~x bm| kd`y M@U xbnydzn lnxxo`l d`h bm| dhnvx xbny dzn dx nuedvo`l

xbn xzdv mg emkkoxkn`x jy kd`dlo`l xm u`nda m~x

xbn hmmz jngmzn ubn |danu ~v# mz i~ux jn xbn ao`h

mg l~y |bm unxu xbn gzdkn gzmk xbn jnlo``o`l# um

xbdx xbn lozc a`m|u# xbdx xbnzn |occ jn m`cy unr.

_m~ i~ux `nnh xm dea`m|cnhln xbn gdex#xbdx DCC |mkn` cmwn lmmh unr d`h umkn|mkn` vzngnz xm bdwn lmmh unr |oxbm~x duxzo`l+t~dzxnx vcdyo`l umkn|bnzn o` xbn

jdealzm~`h mg xbn `ndz g~x~zn.

gndx~znh o` O`xnznuxo`l Xoknu Kdldyo`n Ouu~n % 2 :644

lm xm bxxv9--|||.o`xnznuxo`lxoknukdldyo`n.emk

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\ncc. O i~ux cmwn zdxxco`l xbnoz edlnu jy duao`l xbn

uokvcn t~nuxom`9 J~x hm ym~ bdwn xbn EBMOEN

mz ou ym~z `m+uxzo`lu vmcoey i~ux d`mxbnz |mzh gmz

cdea mg mvxom`=

\bn` ym~ lm m~x dx `olbx# cmmao`l xm bmma ~v mzog ym~ ux~hy kd`~dcu m` bm| xm voea ~v lozcu# mz

ym~ dua mxbnz kn` gmz dhwoen m` bm| xm voea ~v

xbn uaoccunxu mg unh~exom` |bdx ou ym~z hnuoznh

m~xemkn=

Ou ox xm jn d Kd` d`h ubm| xbn |mzch bm| k~ebmg d` Dcvbd Kdcn ym~ dzn# jned~un ym~ ed` voea#

ebmmun d`h h~kv dx ym~z |occ=

Ou ox xm lnx okknhodxn vcndu~zn d`h udxougdexom`

gzmk ubmmxo`l ym~z cmdh hm|` umkn lozcu xbzmdx

d`h `mx bdwn xm ~un ym~z bd`h=

Ou ox xbn vcdyo`l duvnex mg unh~exom` xbn ozxy wojn

d`h xbn `mx zndccy a`m|o`l |bnxbnz oxu m`# jngmzn

ym~wn lmxxn` mgg=

Mz ou ox d hnnv yndz`o`l gmz xbdx o`xokdxn em``nexom`

xbdx dccm|u ym~ knzln ym~z em`ueom~un`nuu o`

em+ezndxom` |oxb d`mxbnz b~kd` jno`l# znnexo`l

ym~z m|` gnkdcn nuun`en o` xbn kmkn`x mg

u~zzn`hnzo`l o` xbn dzku mg d |mkd` |bmk ym~

dhmzn=

D`h og ym~ d`u|nznh _NU xm xbn zux x|m ed` ym~

bm`nuxcy udy# xbdx ym~ bdwn uxd`hdzhu= "mxbnz

xbd` bdwo`l d v~cun/.Mz# dzn ym~ knzncy vnzgmzko`l d` dex xbdx kolbx du

|ncc jn g~ccccnh jy d mjcm`l vonen mg cdxnr# |oxb mz

|oxbm~x wojzdxom`=

Mb j~x |dox og O bdwn xm jn ko`hg~cc mg |bm O kor

ky jmhocy ~ohu |oxb# d`h `mx i~ux i~kv d`yxbo`l

o` d uaozx# jned~un ubn ou xbnzn# |occo`l d`h djcn

+ hmnu xbdx `mx cokox ky ebmoenu=

_nu. Ox hmnu. D`h d`y uncg+znuvnexo`l Kd` a`m|u#

xbdx xz~n kdue~co`n vm|nz ou `mx djm~x bm| kd`y

|mkn` bn ed` lnx. Oxu djm~x bm| GN\ |mkn`

bn dex~dccy |m~ch |d`x xm u~zzn`hnz xm# jned~un

bn a`m|u xbdx bn ou k~eb kmzn xbd` i~ux d |dcao`l

hochm |oxb d vdoz mg bd`hu.

Xbn Ko`hg~cc Kdcn a`m|u# xbdx vdzx mg xz~cy

dvvzneodxo`l d |mkd` ou vdyo`l bmkdln xm bnz

`dx~zn du d unr~dc jno`l# `mx jno`l d ucdwn xm ox.

D`h o` hmo`l um# bn vdyu bmkdln xm bou m|` jno`l.

A`m|o`l bm| xm |dca xbn co`n jnx|nn` hnwmxom`#hnuozn d`h hmko`d`en. Jdcd`eo`l dvvzneodxom`#

dllznuuom` d`h dhmzdxom`. Xbn Ko`hg~cc Kdcn ou

vduuom`dxn# j~x `nwnz vmuunuown.

Xbn unh~exom` emkk~`oxy xdcau djm~x jno`l xbn

Vzon + d`h vcdyo`l bdzh xm lnx. _m~ m`cy nwnz

`nnh xm vcdy bdzh xm lnx# |bn` ym~ o` zndcoxy dzn

xmm nduy. _m~ m`cy nwnz `nnh xm xncc ym~zuncg# xbdx

d |mkd` ou c~eay xm jn |oxb ym~# |bn` ym~ hm`x

zndccy jnconwn xbdx xm jn xbn edun.

\bn` ym~ dzn jdcd`enh o` ym~z m|` un`un mg Uncg#

a`m| |bnzn ym~ dzn lmo`l# |bdx ao`h mg |mkd`

ym~ dzn emkvdxojcn |oxb d`h vnzbdvu nwn` |by

ym~ hm`x `nnh xm |mzzy djm~x bm| xm lnx kmzn

J~x hm ym~ bdwnxbn EBMOEN

mz ou ym~z`m+uxzo`lu vmcoeyi~ux d`mxbnz |mzh

gmz cdea mg mvxom`=

gndx~znh o` O`xnznuxo`l Xoknu Kdldyo`n Ouu~n % 2 :644

lm xm bxxv9--|||.o`xnznuxo`lxoknukdldyo`n.emk

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lozcu. Ux~hy emkk~`oedxom` d`h unh~exom`# jy dcc

knd`u. Xbmun dzn wdc~djcn uaoccunxu xm bdwn du

d Kd`.

I~ux hm`x jn gmmcnh o`xm xbo`ao`l# xbdx a`m|o`l bm|

xm xdca |mkn` m~x mg xbnoz ecmxbnu d`h o`xm ym~z jnhou lmo`l xm vzmwohn ym~ |oxb kmzn uncg+nuxnnk mz

un`un mg uncg+|mzxb xbd` ym~ bdwn xm jnlo` |oxb.

D`h ox ou enzxdo`cy @MX lmo`l xm xndeb ym~ bm| xm

xz~cy dvvzneodxn |mkn`# og ym~z uxdzxo`l vmo`x ou xbdx

mg uneznxcy bdxo`l |mkn` gmz `mx lowo`l ym~ d`y.

Og d`yxbo`l# xbn kyxbu# knknu d`h ko`hunxu mg mg

xbn voea+~v dzxouxkmwnkn`x o` oxu kmux kounzdjcn

gmzku# ou m`cy lmo`l xm vzmwohn ym~ |oxb vzmmg

mg xbn duu~kvxom`# xbdx dcc |mkn` dzn uc~xu oxu

i~ux d t~nuxom` mg ~uo`l xbn zolbx mvn`nz# xbn zolbx

xneb`ot~n d`h kdao`l u~zn# xbdx ubn `nwnz unnu

ym~z dex~dc uncg.

O@ EM@EC^UOM@

O dex~dccy coan xbn |mzh vcdynz jned~un xm kn#

unh~exom` ou wnzy k~eb d` o`xnz+vcdy. Og ox ou `mx

g~` d`h ozxy# |bdxu xbn vmo`x =

J~x vcdyo`l ed` dcum knd` ldkn + d`h ldkn ou

d`mxbnz |mzh gmz xbn xdzlnx mg kndx |oxb cnlu mz

|o`lu ym~ vmo`x dx |oxb d zogn# |bn` lmo`l gmz d

lmmh b~`x. Xbou ou |by# O hm`x coan xbn xnzk ldko`l

d |mkd`. J~x xbn xnzk o``nz ldkn# bm|nwnz

hmnu kdan d cmx mg un`un# |bn` won|nh gzmk xbn

vnzuvnexown mg o`xnzvcdy jnx|nn` o``nz kdcn-o``nz

gnkdcn.

O` jmxb I~`lod` vuyebmcmly d`h Xd`xzoe vbocmumvby#

xbn ohnd mg xbn o``nz kdcn-o``nz gnkdcn ou d any

vdzdknxnz o` ~`hnzuxd`ho`l b~kd` zncdxom`ubovu#

du |ncc du ~`hnzuxd`ho`l m~zuncwnu.

^`hnzuxd`ho`l d`h hdzo`l xm nrvcmzn |bdx gnkdcndzebnxyvnu ym~ du d Kd` dzn kmuxcy dxxzdexnh xm# ou

any o` ~`hnzuxd`ho`l ym~z vdxxnz`u mg zncdxom`ubovu

d`h ~`hnzuxd`ho`l ym~z Uncg.

I~ux hm`x jn gmmcnh o`xmxbo`ao`l# xbdx a`m|o`l bm|xm xdca |mkn` m~x mg xbnoz

ecmxbnu d`h o`xm ym~z jnh ou

lmo`l xm vzmwohn ym~ |oxbkmzn uncg+nuxnnk mz un`un mguncg+|mzxb xbd` ym~ bdwn xm

jnlo` |oxb.

gndx~znh o` O`xnznuxo`l Xoknu Kdldyo`n Ouu~n % 2 :644

lm xm bxxv9--|||.o`xnznuxo`lxoknukdldyo`n.emk

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XZ_ XBOU M@ GMZ UOYN9 \bdx og# |bn`nwnz ym~

|nzn unh~eo`l d |mkd`# o` zndcoxy ym~ |nzn

unh~eo`l ym~z Uncg = \bdx og# xbn |dy o` |boeb ym~

ebmmun zncdxn xm |mkn` du d Kd`# em~ch vzmwohn

ym~ |oxb wdc~djcn o`uolbxu m` xbn |dy ym~ zncdxn xm

ym~z Uncg=

Xbo`a djm~x ox. Ox ou d kdxxnz mg vnzuvnexown |bnxbnz

ym~ ebmmun xm won| |mkn` du xdzlnxu xbdx `nnh

xm jn b~`xnh hm|` d`h xbn knkmzy mg xbnk anvx

du xzmvbonu o` ym~z ko`h xm jmmux ym~z nlm# mz ym~

ebmmun xm won| |mkn` du jno`lu mg em+ezndxom`

d`h znnexom`u mg ym~z m|` o``nz gnkdcn.

Xbn vnzuvnexown d`h ko`hunx ym~ ebmmun# |occ

hnxnzko`n xbn cnwnc mg bdvvo`nuu ym~ nrvnzon`en

d`h debonwn o` ym~z zncdxom`ubovu |oxb |mkn`#

|bnxbnz xbny dzn cm`lxnzk# jzong mz jmxb.

D`h coan nwnzyxbo`l ncun# ox dcc uxdzxu gzmk |oxbo`.

Hm ym~ xz~cy dvvzneodxn |mkn`= Og ym~ dzn xbn

cndux jox ~`u~zn# uxdzx jy dvvzneodxo`l COGN d`h

encnjzdxn dcc xbn |dyu o` |boeb ym~ em+ezndxn ym~z

nrouxn`en o` zncdxom` |oxb mxbnzu

\bdx og# |bn`nwnz ym~ |nzn unh~eo`l d|mkd`# o` zndcoxy# ym~ |nzn

unh~eo`l ym~z Uncg=

Nc|mzxby# Ueoccd vb.H9 Vm|nz d`h

Unr9 Hnwncmvo`l O``nz Uxzn`lxb xm

Hndc |oxb xbn \mzch "4??7/

Lmchjnzl# Bnzj vb.H Xbn Bd+

dzhu mg Jno`l Kdcn9 U~zwowo`l

xbn Kyxb mg Kdue~co`n Vzowocnln

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