By
S. Thilaganathan
Introduction This presentation is mainly based on the real life situation.
The points noted are generalized viewpoints and many women are falling under many of the categories.
The views mentioned are extracted from South Asian context. However, they may be applicable universally.
No attempt is made find the physical, psychological and social causes of these nature, attitude and behavior
The good nature and qualities of women as mother, wife, daughter, sister etc., are not presented in this presentation
Objectives of this Presentation This presentation is prepared mainly for the benefits
of husband or lover for better understanding of relationship
The men who are confronting such situation will prepare and adjust themselves and live better
This presentation also helpful to women to get better understanding about themselves
Once facts are known, mind will be working proactive ways than the reactive ways
Intricate complex Women are complex and intricate in nature
It is difficult to understand them totally and fully
Controlling Women want to control men (specially husband)
Women feel better if they have their husband under their control.
Protective Women are unnecessarily protective for everything
They protect their conduct without being disturbed by others
They protect themselves to achieve their needs, want and pleasure without any problem from others
Their self interest is utmost thing for them and they feel behavior is morally correct
Secretive They are very secretive about their personal matters
They hide things about the past
They hide what is going on now
They hide future desires, needs and intention
They try to hide all details about themselves
Unpredictable They are very unpredictable
Under a same situation attitudes, beliefs, and personality traits of one women will be different form another women
Under the same situation in two different days, same women may behave differently
Attractive beautiful women are more unpredictable and the core issue is unpredictability
Unaware Women are unaware about themselves
They are not aware what is going on with them
Women are never sure about what they want.
Irrational
Women are completely and utterly irrational.
They often think irrationally, act irrationally and behave irrationally .
Unreasonable They are often unreasonable for the particular
situation or context.
They do not bother much about the reasons for their behavior but they are more concerned about their likes and dislikes.
Over Reacting They are usually over reacting to situations
They get agitated and disturbed
Non Responsive Sometimes they are non-responsive
They will not reply to the question
They will not tell “yes or no”
You can’t understand whether they like it or not
Unstable They will not stay on one point and wonder this or that
not only in trivial things but also in major life matters
Once decision is taken they reverse the decision easily then and there.
Within a moment they change or revert the decision
Picky, Picky They reject things for silly reason.
Even 99% is ok because of 1% they reject things, e.g. buying a clothe, food, car even house
Unable to Discriminate They are unable to differentiate which is major and
which is minor things: which is important and which is not important
Main things viewed as small thing and small things viewed as big things
As a result they may lose benefits of life
Making Small Things Big They create small matters as big matters
They create big issues for nothing
Incomplete They in certain way defective and incomplete
Demanding Women are very demanding
They have the habit of obtaining everything for bthemby demanding from others
Dominating Women are so dominating and intimidating
Those women usually have the dominant role in the house.
Controlling behavior such as checking up on partners and persuading them not to certain things
Woman feel more secure by controlling her environment and this includes controlling her husband.
Non-Programmable This is input output process
Generally the out puts are based on input
In the case of women the out put is independent ofminput
If you praise or give some gift it work or will not work or work reversely
Men can be easily programmed by women not vise versa
Very Low Tolerance Limit
Women will not tolerate people, their behavior
External Situation
Weather, noise, crowd etc
Changing Without Warning They suddenly change for silly reason
Women’s wants and desires in terms of a relationship can change dramatically in what appears to be a very short amount of time
Women are Crazy Truths about women that all women are crazy, and
that there are distinct types of women.
All women are crazy to some degree – the problem is –how to deal with a particular woman’s craziness
She is Always Upset at You Some women are just flat out critical of everything
their man does
Many of these women appear to thrive on telling you just what you are doing wrong
Women rarely Feel Guilty Most of the women do not feel guilty for their wrong
doing
Yesterday is Not Today Every day it is working. But suddenly it will not work
today
You need to press different button for each day
Different key for Different Time Every day you have to use different key to get the same
result
Very Possessive They are more possessive than men
Non-Consistent They change very often
Quick to Misunderstand They will not understand the real situation
They quickly misunderstood their husband or lover
Never Satisfied No matter how hard you try, they just won’t be happy
The unhappiness is constant and sometimes intermittent
women are far less contented with
women are unhappier than men
Destroy Every thing in One Day They work on long relationship but one day all of a
sudden give up everything.
Several years of work may be forgotten or destroyed on one day
They suddenly abandon their relationship suddenly and take another decision without thinking of the consequences or
They are affected by “sudden change syndrome”
On /Off Women are generally either “on or off “and not in
between
They are either “yes or no” to many matters particularly in relationship
They can regulate themselves in between on and off
Finding Mistakes in its Absence Always fault finding in other person
This is to maintain upper hand in relationship
They are clever in finding mistakes even there no mistakes in other person- becoming expertise in this skill
Making others feel Guilty Throughout their life, they learned to put other
person guilty
Even every things are alright they find a minor issue making other person guilty
This is a way of getting things done for their advantage.
Overly-obsessed about Appearance They overly worried about their look
Spend lot of time for this
Women go for Money First But most women want to get things and ultimately
seek a man with money